Poll of the Day > My ex signed up for Tinder

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Jen0125 09/14/20 11:08:13 PM #1:	I'm getting targeted ads on my phone He still sleeps in the same bed as me How's that gonna work --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944616814] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>I'm getting targeted ads on my phone He still sleeps in the same bed as me How's that gonna work </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTDC 09/14/20 11:10:30 PM #2:	Sounds awkward and uncomfortable. I lived with an ex for a couple months after breaking up, so I know that can be difficult. But we didn't share a bed at that point and I can only imagine the level of weirdness that brings to it all. <cite>JigsawTDC posted [p:944616885] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Sounds awkward and uncomfortable. I lived with an ex for a couple months after breaking up, so I know that can be difficult. But we didn't share a bed at that point and I can only imagine the level of weirdness that brings to it all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IronBornCorps 09/14/20 11:20:41 PM #3:	That definitely sounds like an issue to deal with. Are you living together until the lease ends, or until one of you finds something else? <cite>IronBornCorps posted [p:944617195] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>That definitely sounds like an issue to deal with. Are you living together until the lease ends, or until one of you finds something else? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/14/20 11:21:21 PM #4:	IronBornCorps posted... That definitely sounds like an issue to deal with. Are you living together until the lease ends, or until one of you finds something else? Bro we bought a house together in January --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944617217] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>IronBornCorps posted... </cite> <quote>That definitely sounds like an issue to deal with. Are you living together until the lease ends, or until one of you finds something else?</quote> Bro we bought a house together in January </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IronBornCorps 09/14/20 11:22:03 PM #5:	Ouch <cite>IronBornCorps posted [p:944617232] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Ouch </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/14/20 11:22:23 PM #6:	IronBornCorps posted... Ouch He said he thought it'd make me change my mind about not wanting kids --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944617245] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>IronBornCorps posted... </cite> <quote>Ouch</quote> He said he thought it'd make me change my mind about not wanting kids </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IronBornCorps 09/14/20 11:25:09 PM #7:	Well that was silly of him. That's comparable to "We have a ton of issues as a couple, let's have a kid and that will fix them" <cite>IronBornCorps posted [p:944617349] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Well that was silly of him. That's comparable to "We have a ton of issues as a couple, let's have a kid and that will fix them" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WhiskeyDisk 09/14/20 11:26:27 PM #8:	You could always become a hotwife and just let him knock another broad up... --- The SBA has closed for business, we thank you for your patronage Assassins. ~there's always free cheese in a mousetrap. <cite>WhiskeyDisk posted [p:944617397] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>You could always become a hotwife and just let him knock another broad up... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dedbus 09/14/20 11:27:50 PM #9:	Hopefully you don't have a base board so he can do most stuff off the hot dog end instead of laying her the hamburger way. <cite>dedbus posted [p:944617436] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Hopefully you don't have a base board so he can do most stuff off the hot dog end instead of laying her the hamburger way. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/14/20 11:28:16 PM #10:	WhiskeyDisk posted... You could always become a hotwife and just let him knock another broad up... No thank you. I don't want children in my area. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944617446] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>WhiskeyDisk posted... </cite> <quote>You could always become a hotwife and just let him knock another broad up...</quote> No thank you. I don't want children in my area. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WhiskeyDisk 09/14/20 11:31:22 PM #11:	Jen0125 posted... No thank you. I don't want children in my area. Wow, you even take it a step past where I was at on the matter. --- The SBA has closed for business, we thank you for your patronage Assassins. ~there's always free cheese in a mousetrap. <cite>WhiskeyDisk posted [p:944617533] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>No thank you. I don't want children in my area.</quote> Wow, you even take it a step past where I was at on the matter. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpeedDemon20 09/14/20 11:44:00 PM #12:	Jen0125 posted... Bro we bought a house together in January I wonder how he's going to explain that to his dates. "Haha, I live with my ex-, but we only sleep in the same bed. Otherwise, we're totally separated." --- http://orig14.deviantart.net/59f8/f/2009/047/4/9/rylai_crestfall_by_eyue.jpg Crystal Maiden... gal could break your heart in a thousand pieces. -Rucks <cite>SpeedDemon20 posted [p:944617902] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Bro we bought a house together in January</quote>I wonder how he's going to explain that to his dates. "Haha, I live with my ex-, but we only sleep in the same bed. Otherwise, we're totally separated." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/14/20 11:59:39 PM #13:	SpeedDemon20 posted... I wonder how he's going to explain that to his dates. "Haha, I live with my ex-, but we only sleep in the same bed. Otherwise, we're totally separated." Right? --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944618395] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>SpeedDemon20 posted... </cite> <quote>I wonder how he's going to explain that to his dates. "Haha, I live with my ex-, but we only sleep in the same bed. Otherwise, we're totally separated."</quote> Right? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 09/15/20 12:03:18 AM #14:	damn thats messed up --- The Betrayer <cite>Mead posted [p:944618505] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>damn thats messed up </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WhiskeyDisk 09/15/20 12:04:33 AM #15:	Honey, can you hold the camera? --- The SBA has closed for business, we thank you for your patronage Assassins. ~there's always free cheese in a mousetrap. <cite>WhiskeyDisk posted [p:944618538] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Honey, can you hold the camera? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dedbus 09/15/20 12:06:14 AM #16:	I guess you could pose as a tinder date and see how the process works. It can be like that pina colada song but in modern times. <cite>dedbus posted [p:944618579] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>I guess you could pose as a tinder date and see how the process works. It can be like that pina colada song but in modern times. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EclairReturns 09/15/20 12:08:59 AM #17:	Jen0125 posted... bought a house You mean on a lease or fee simple? --- Number XII: Larxene. The Organization's Savage Nymph. <cite>EclairReturns posted [p:944618649] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>bought a house</quote> You mean on a lease or fee simple?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 12:14:07 AM #18:	EclairReturns posted... You mean on a lease or fee simple Whst? --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944618827] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>EclairReturns posted... </cite> <quote>You mean on a lease or fee simple</quote> Whst? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wolfy42 09/15/20 12:16:38 AM #19:	I mean, hmmm, that does not sound good. Do you have multiple bedrooms, so you can at least sleep apart? I know it sounds.....kinda weird, but you could also make up the living room as a seperate bedroom if you absolutely had to. I don't think sleeping in the same bed is a great idea if you are planning on not being together. Even a step further, you could rent out one of the bedrooms, and then rent a room in another house (or he could), to equal out the cost, and not have to actually live in the same place. If he is going to date that is really gonna suck before long. You could also list the house (ugh I know), for enough to cover the costs you have spent at this point, might take awhile to sell, but if you use redfin etc and avoid realtors fees (you can only pay 1% that way) and if your state doesn't charge much in taxes, you might be able to walk away without much loss that way. I get being really good friends moving forward, but...well, you probably shouldn't have to live with him while he's dating other girls (or him having to live with you while your dating guys), that is just gonna hurt you both a bunch. Sorry your in this situation:( --- Tacobot 3000 "Saving the world from not having tacos." Glowing Elephant "Stonehedge was a sex thing." <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:944618904] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>I mean, hmmm, that does not sound good. Do you have multiple bedrooms, so you can at least sleep apart? I know it sounds.....kinda weird, but you could also make up the living room as a seperate bedroom if you absolutely had to. I don't think sleeping in the same bed is a great idea if you are planning on not being together. Even a step further, you could rent out one of the bedrooms, and then rent a room in another house (or he could), to equal out the cost, and not have to actually live in the same place. If he is going to date that is really gonna suck before long. You could also list the house (ugh I know), for enough to cover the costs you have spent at this point, might take awhile to sell, but if you use redfin etc and avoid realtors fees (you can only pay 1% that way) and if your state doesn't charge much in taxes, you might be able to walk away without much loss that way. I get being really good friends moving forward, but...well, you probably shouldn't have to live with him while he's dating other girls (or him having to live with you while your dating guys), that is just gonna hurt you both a bunch. Sorry your in this situation:( </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 12:25:25 AM #20:	We can't sell the house for 5 years or we have to pay back the grant we received for the down payment. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944619158] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>We can't sell the house for 5 years or we have to pay back the grant we received for the down payment. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/15/20 12:27:52 AM #21:	Jen0125 posted... He still sleeps in the same bed as me Does not compute. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:944619228] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>He still sleeps in the same bed as me </quote> Does not compute. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 12:28:46 AM #22:	wwinterj25 posted... Does not compute. Same. But I'm too sad to say maybe he should sleep in the other room. I don't want to let go but I know I should. It's just emotionally hard for me. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944619256] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted... </cite> <quote>Does not compute.</quote> Same. But I'm too sad to say maybe he should sleep in the other room. I don't want to let go but I know I should. It's just emotionally hard for me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/15/20 12:30:28 AM #23:	Jen0125 posted... It's just emotionally hard for me. Yet probably physically hard for him. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:944619304] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote> It's just emotionally hard for me.</quote> Yet probably physically hard for him. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 12:32:50 AM #24:	We aren't having sex or cuddling or anything like that --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944619365] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>We aren't having sex or cuddling or anything like that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/15/20 12:36:13 AM #25:	Jen0125 posted... We aren't having sex or cuddling or anything like that I understand. Perhaps you both need a clean break though. I can't imagine it's easy sharing the same house with a ex nevermind a bed. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:944619456] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>We aren't having sex or cuddling or anything like that</quote>I understand. Perhaps you both need a clean break though. I can't imagine it's easy sharing the same house with a ex nevermind a bed. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cobalt_Wasps 09/15/20 12:37:01 AM #26:	lol good one --- I boost/hunt trophies, hit me up PSN=PunkRocktopus <cite>Cobalt_Wasps posted [p:944619476] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>lol good one </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joshs Name 09/15/20 12:38:47 AM #27:	your ex did wrong things and i am sorry that you have to live with that. F --- So I was standing still at a stationary store... <cite>Joshs Name posted [p:944619522] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>your ex did wrong things and i am sorry that you have to live with that. F </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 12:43:39 AM #28:	Joshs Name posted... your ex did wrong things and i am sorry that you have to live with that. F Thanks for the f --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944619686] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Joshs Name posted... </cite> <quote>your ex did wrong things and i am sorry that you have to live with that. F</quote> Thanks for the f </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 12:52:39 AM #29:	--- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944619953] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/15/20 12:58:29 AM #30:	https://i.imgur.com/nM26PoG.gif --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:944620137] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>https://i.imgur.com/nM26PoG.gif </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wolfy42 09/15/20 1:02:08 AM #31:	Do you have to live in your house? You can get a management company to rent it for you for about $200 a month, and you can often rent your home for more then the cost of taxes + mortgage + the $200 (that is what we did with the house in WA before we moved here). It just about evens out everything, but your slowly making money if the value of the home goes up, and it could give you both options for the next 5 years instead of having to co-habitat. It's not perfect, but as long as your not restricted from renting (by that grant or an HoA agreement) it could work. Also possibly using it as an AB&B could work as well, but yeah, I get all of that is big changes and hard to deal with right now. --- Tacobot 3000 "Saving the world from not having tacos." Glowing Elephant "Stonehedge was a sex thing." <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:944620263] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Do you have to live in your house? You can get a management company to rent it for you for about $200 a month, and you can often rent your home for more then the cost of taxes + mortgage + the $200 (that is what we did with the house in WA before we moved here). It just about evens out everything, but your slowly making money if the value of the home goes up, and it could give you both options for the next 5 years instead of having to co-habitat. It's not perfect, but as long as your not restricted from renting (by that grant or an HoA agreement) it could work. Also possibly using it as an AB&B could work as well, but yeah, I get all of that is big changes and hard to deal with right now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 1:05:14 AM #32:	I mean, I'm not moving. I only have two years to finish my masters degree and then I'm trying to leave the country. I bought this house in good faith, he didn't. If he wants to move, he can. And he can pay his half of the mortgage and rent. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944620329] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>I mean, I'm not moving. I only have two years to finish my masters degree and then I'm trying to leave the country. I bought this house in good faith, he didn't. If he wants to move, he can. And he can pay his half of the mortgage and rent. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/15/20 1:07:16 AM #33:	Why are you sharing a bed though? --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:944620377] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Why are you sharing a bed though? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 1:26:37 AM #34:	wwinterj25 posted... Why are you sharing a bed though? Idk we just haven't stopped yet. We have an extra room with a bed made up and everything. Neither of us has brought it up. But like he sleeps as far away from me as humanly possible now. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944620877] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted... </cite> <quote>Why are you sharing a bed though?</quote> Idk we just haven't stopped yet. We have an extra room with a bed made up and everything. Neither of us has brought it up. But like he sleeps as far away from me as humanly possible now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/15/20 1:32:24 AM #35:	https://i.imgur.com/CPGKs8a.mp4 --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:944621007] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>https://i.imgur.com/CPGKs8a.mp4 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClarkDuke 09/15/20 1:40:02 AM #36:	jen, the answer is simple, you need to make it awkward for him, start hooking up with a potder, ok? SpeedDemon20 posted... I wonder how he's going to explain that to his dates. "Haha, I live with my ex-, but we only sleep in the same bed. Otherwise, we're totally separated." yeah, i can't see how he's going to pull this off, ok? --- https://imgur.com/qL0DHFI https://imgur.com/JL9rRLt https://youtu.be/dQw4w9WgXcQ <cite>ClarkDuke posted [p:944621154] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>jen, the answer is simple, you need to make it awkward for him, start hooking up with a potder, ok? SpeedDemon20 posted... </cite> <quote>I wonder how he's going to explain that to his dates. "Haha, I live with my ex-, but we only sleep in the same bed. Otherwise, we're totally separated."</quote>yeah, i can't see how he's going to pull this off, ok? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 1:44:46 AM #37:	ClarkDuke posted... jen, the answer is simple, you need to make it awkward for him, start hooking up with a potder, ok? Maybe @LaggnFragnLarry is available --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944621237] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>ClarkDuke posted... </cite> <quote>jen, the answer is simple, you need to make it awkward for him, start hooking up with a potder, ok?</quote> Maybe @LaggnFragnLarry is available </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClarkDuke 09/15/20 1:49:52 AM #38:	Jen0125 posted... Maybe @LaggnFragnLarry is available maybe he can play video games with larry's son while you have intercourse, ok? --- https://imgur.com/qL0DHFI https://imgur.com/JL9rRLt https://youtu.be/dQw4w9WgXcQ <cite>ClarkDuke posted [p:944621330] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Maybe @LaggnFragnLarry is available</quote>maybe he can play video games with larry's son while you have intercourse, ok? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 1:50:43 AM #39:	ClarkDuke posted... maybe he can play video games with larry's son while you have intercourse, ok? He needs the parenting practice anyway --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944621350] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>ClarkDuke posted... </cite> <quote>maybe he can play video games with larry's son while you have intercourse, ok?</quote> He needs the parenting practice anyway </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/15/20 3:10:17 AM #40:	Oh. That sucks. If I had to guess, I would say he would probably go see them in public, or at their place. It would be awkward to bring the home, of course. And kind of a dick move. I've heard of exes living together after a break-up, and it's always weird when they bring home a date. One guys even said when he ex would go on a date, he's hide all the pictures of them together so the date wouldn't see. Jen0125 posted... But like he sleeps as far away from me as humanly possible now. Maybe so he doesn't roll over and accidentally cuddle. That could be a possibility. Jen0125 posted... We have an extra room with a bed made up and everything. Neither of us has brought it up. The extra room sounds like a good idea. Though, I understand the apprehension. It's sort of makes it more "real", I guess. Like it starts to really feel like it's over at that point. Though, tbh, sharing a bed isn't the worst thing. I've shared many a bed before... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:944622702] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Oh. That sucks. If I had to guess, I would say he would probably go see them in public, or at their place. It would be awkward to bring the home, of course. And kind of a dick move. I've heard of exes living together after a break-up, and it's always weird when they bring home a date. One guys even said when he ex would go on a date, he's hide all the pictures of them together so the date wouldn't see. Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>But like he sleeps as far away from me as humanly possible now.</quote> Maybe so he doesn't roll over and accidentally cuddle. That could be a possibility. Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>We have an extra room with a bed made up and everything. Neither of us has brought it up.</quote> The extra room sounds like a good idea. Though, I understand the apprehension. It's sort of makes it more "real", I guess. Like it starts to really feel like it's over at that point. Though, tbh, sharing a bed isn't the worst thing. I've shared many a bed before...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
party_animal07 09/15/20 3:23:55 AM #41:	I couldn't do it. I'd move back with my parents or some family member. Though i wouldn't buy a house before getting married first anyway. Also probably wouldn't get married either so...yeah. --- https://warpzone.me/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/GRANDIA_-696x509.jpg <cite>party_animal07 posted [p:944622887] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>I couldn't do it. I'd move back with my parents or some family member. Though i wouldn't buy a house before getting married first anyway. Also probably wouldn't get married either so...yeah. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/15/20 3:40:55 AM #42:	I think I'd be fine with getting a house before being married. It not really too different... except marriage complicating things, I guess... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:944623124] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>I think I'd be fine with getting a house before being married. It not really too different... except marriage complicating things, I guess...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YoukaiSlayer 09/15/20 4:04:03 AM #43:	Man...you really intend to spend 2 whole years living with your ex if he doesn't decide to move out? Is that really what you want? --- I'm ninja (you can't see me) <cite>YoukaiSlayer posted [p:944623444] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Man...you really intend to spend 2 whole years living with your ex if he doesn't decide to move out? Is that really what you want? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/15/20 4:13:48 AM #44:	YoukaiSlayer posted... Man...you really intend to spend 2 whole years living with your ex if he doesn't decide to move out? Is that really what you want? I mean, theres only so much she can do. Besides, she didnt go into a house trying to manipulate another person in having a baby. So, why should she have to pay off half a house just to move out and not live there until she goes to probably Korea? --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:944623568] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>YoukaiSlayer posted...</cite> <quote>Man...you really intend to spend 2 whole years living with your ex if he doesn't decide to move out? Is that really what you want?</quote> I mean, theres only so much she can do. Besides, she didnt go into a house trying to manipulate another person in having a baby. So, why should she have to pay off half a house just to move out and not live there until she goes to probably Korea?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YoukaiSlayer 09/15/20 4:18:12 AM #45:	LinkPizza posted... I mean, theres only so much she can do. Besides, she didnt go into a house trying to manipulate another person in having a baby. So, why should she have to pay off half a house just to move out and not live there until she goes to probably Korea? Firstly I'm not saying she should be the one who has to move out but if you really can't make him move is being petty worth being emotionally miserable for 2 years? As far as I know she hasn't even talked to him about it especially if they are still sleeping in the same bed but as much as it feels nice to have that routine fallback of being with someone thats comfortable, it's clearly not healthy and the longer she waits to deal with it, the worse it's going to be. I mean, it's not my business but I was just hoping she'd really think if staying there with him is something she wants. It's not like a week, it's 2 whole years and some of the better ones of your life. --- I'm ninja (you can't see me) <cite>YoukaiSlayer posted [p:944623609] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote>I mean, theres only so much she can do. Besides, she didnt go into a house trying to manipulate another person in having a baby. So, why should she have to pay off half a house just to move out and not live there until she goes to probably Korea?</quote>Firstly I'm not saying she should be the one who has to move out but if you really can't make him move is being petty worth being emotionally miserable for 2 years? As far as I know she hasn't even talked to him about it especially if they are still sleeping in the same bed but as much as it feels nice to have that routine fallback of being with someone thats comfortable, it's clearly not healthy and the longer she waits to deal with it, the worse it's going to be. I mean, it's not my business but I was just hoping she'd really think if staying there with him is something she wants. It's not like a week, it's 2 whole years and some of the better ones of your life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/15/20 4:33:11 AM #46:	YoukaiSlayer posted... Firstly I'm not saying she should be the one who has to move out but if you really can't make him move is being petty worth being emotionally miserable for 2 years? As far as I know she hasn't even talked to him about it especially if they are still sleeping in the same bed but as much as it feels nice to have that routine fallback of being with someone thats comfortable, it's clearly not healthy and the longer she waits to deal with it, the worse it's going to be. I mean, it's not my business but I was just hoping she'd really think if staying there with him is something she wants. It's not like a week, it's 2 whole years and some of the better ones of your life. Possibly. But it depends. I mean, AFAIK, they are both on the lease. So, they are both responsible for the house. While he could buy her part of the house, letting her off the hook, he might not want to. And he doesn't legally have to. And honestly, It would suck to have to pay for a house you don't live in. As for how healthy it is, I can't say. I've never lived with an ex, let alone an SO. But I think some can live comfortably together for at least a while. Though, they usually don't share the same bed, since they usually both move on. It depends on how well they can deal with it. I know some couples that were fine, and even dated, while living with their ex. It's not always the best, but it can work... sort of... Sometimes, the options are limited and you have to pick the best choice out of a bunch of stinkers and hope it works. Though, it should only hopefully be two years before she can leave. Though, since the house in both their names, they would have to change that. Maybe in two years, they could refinance it so she can get off the lease... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:944623790] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>YoukaiSlayer posted...</cite> <quote>Firstly I'm not saying she should be the one who has to move out but if you really can't make him move is being petty worth being emotionally miserable for 2 years? As far as I know she hasn't even talked to him about it especially if they are still sleeping in the same bed but as much as it feels nice to have that routine fallback of being with someone thats comfortable, it's clearly not healthy and the longer she waits to deal with it, the worse it's going to be. I mean, it's not my business but I was just hoping she'd really think if staying there with him is something she wants. It's not like a week, it's 2 whole years and some of the better ones of your life. </quote> Possibly. But it depends. I mean, AFAIK, they are both on the lease. So, they are both responsible for the house. While he could buy her part of the house, letting her off the hook, he might not want to. And he doesn't legally have to. And honestly, It would suck to have to pay for a house you don't live in. As for how healthy it is, I can't say. I've never lived with an ex, let alone an SO. But I think some can live comfortably together for at least a while. Though, they usually don't share the same bed, since they usually both move on. It depends on how well they can deal with it. I know some couples that were fine, and even dated, while living with their ex. It's not always the best, but it can work... sort of... Sometimes, the options are limited and you have to pick the best choice out of a bunch of stinkers and hope it works. Though, it should only hopefully be two years before she can leave. Though, since the house in both their names, they would have to change that. Maybe in two years, they could refinance it so she can get off the lease...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YoukaiSlayer 09/15/20 8:04:55 AM #47:	I mean this ignores the part where they haven't talked about this. The guy still seems like a pretty nice guy. Theres a good chance he would be willing to work something out that either has him move out or her getting out of the lease. If she can't bear to sleep alone how is she supposed to heal up in that kind of environment? --- I'm ninja (you can't see me) <cite>YoukaiSlayer posted [p:944626387] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>I mean this ignores the part where they haven't talked about this. The guy still seems like a pretty nice guy. Theres a good chance he would be willing to work something out that either has him move out or her getting out of the lease. If she can't bear to sleep alone how is she supposed to heal up in that kind of environment? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IAmNowGone 09/15/20 8:09:52 AM #48:	sorry jen. :( have a talk about it. I know communication is a tough spot for you two. But I think yall need to try to make this as comfortable for each other as possible for the next two years. I lived with an ex for years after we broke up. Shit was ROUGH but he got over me eventually and took different lovers in the same living space. <cite>IAmNowGone posted [p:944626480] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>sorry jen. :( have a talk about it. I know communication is a tough spot for you two. But I think yall need to try to make this as comfortable for each other as possible for the next two years. I lived with an ex for years after we broke up. Shit was ROUGH but he got over me eventually and took different lovers in the same living space. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/15/20 8:45:42 AM #49:	YoukaiSlayer posted... I mean this ignores the part where they haven't talked about this. I mean, they should talk about stuff... But who knows if they haven't talked about it a little? Or what they have and haven't talked about. YoukaiSlayer posted... The guy still seems like a pretty nice guy. Theres a good chance he would be willing to work something out that either has him move out or her getting out of the lease. I think he would try to work it out. But I guess it depends on if he can afford it or not... I know that's why a few married couples on base had to stay in the same house for a little while... YoukaiSlayer posted... If she can't bear to sleep alone how is she supposed to heal up in that kind of environment? It depends on if it's hurting her or not sleeping in the same bed... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:944627307] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>YoukaiSlayer posted...</cite> <quote>I mean this ignores the part where they haven't talked about this.</quote> I mean, they should talk about stuff... But who knows if they haven't talked about it a little? Or what they have and haven't talked about. YoukaiSlayer posted...</cite> <quote>The guy still seems like a pretty nice guy. Theres a good chance he would be willing to work something out that either has him move out or her getting out of the lease.</quote> I think he would try to work it out. But I guess it depends on if he can afford it or not... I know that's why a few married couples on base had to stay in the same house for a little while... YoukaiSlayer posted...</cite> <quote>If she can't bear to sleep alone how is she supposed to heal up in that kind of environment? </quote> It depends on if it's hurting her or not sleeping in the same bed...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jsb0714 09/15/20 9:18:16 AM #50:	LinkPizza posted... I think I'd be fine with getting a house before being married. It not really too different... except marriage complicating things, I guess... Yeah, marriage is what complicated things here. rolls eyes <cite>jsb0714 posted [p:944628059] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote>I think I'd be fine with getting a house before being married. It not really too different... except marriage complicating things, I guess...</quote>Yeah, marriage is what complicated things here. rolls eyes </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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