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adjl 09/15/20 9:20:27 AM #51:	You should buy a blow-up doll and hide it in the bed while he's out on dates. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:944628105] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>You should buy a blow-up doll and hide it in the bed while he's out on dates. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
awezomerobot 09/15/20 9:32:53 AM #52:	Could be a weird plan to win you back or part of a complicated plan to get you in a three-way. Also, wouldn't selling the house cover the grant that's owed? --- I stole the baby! <cite>awezomerobot posted [p:944628410] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Could be a weird plan to win you back or part of a complicated plan to get you in a three-way. Also, wouldn't selling the house cover the grant that's owed? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 9:33:52 AM #53:	party_animal07 posted... I couldn't do it. I'd move back with my parents or some family member. Though i wouldn't buy a house before getting married first anyway. Also probably wouldn't get married either so...yeah. I don't talk to my parents. Without Mando, I'm pretty alone now. YoukaiSlayer posted... Man...you really intend to spend 2 whole years living with your ex if he doesn't decide to move out? Is that really what you want? No, I'm sure he'll eventually move out. We just broke up last month so it's all pretty fresh. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944628442] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>party_animal07 posted... </cite> <quote>I couldn't do it. I'd move back with my parents or some family member. Though i wouldn't buy a house before getting married first anyway. Also probably wouldn't get married either so...yeah.</quote> I don't talk to my parents. Without Mando, I'm pretty alone now. YoukaiSlayer posted... </cite> <quote>Man...you really intend to spend 2 whole years living with your ex if he doesn't decide to move out? Is that really what you want?</quote> No, I'm sure he'll eventually move out. We just broke up last month so it's all pretty fresh. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 9:36:28 AM #54:	YoukaiSlayer posted... If she can't bear to sleep alone how is she supposed to heal up in that kind of environment? I can sleep alone fine lol. He works nights so he's only here every two or three nights. It's just not something we've transitioned yet. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944628502] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>YoukaiSlayer posted... </cite> <quote> If she can't bear to sleep alone how is she supposed to heal up in that kind of environment?</quote> I can sleep alone fine lol. He works nights so he's only here every two or three nights. It's just not something we've transitioned yet. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 9:37:01 AM #55:	awezomerobot posted... Could be a weird plan to win you back or part of a complicated plan to get you in a three-way. Also, wouldn't selling the house cover the grant that's owed? No because the value hasn't appreciated enough to pay back the mortgage and the grant. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944628513] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>awezomerobot posted... </cite> <quote>Could be a weird plan to win you back or part of a complicated plan to get you in a three-way. Also, wouldn't selling the house cover the grant that's owed?</quote> No because the value hasn't appreciated enough to pay back the mortgage and the grant. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Black_Crusher 09/15/20 10:04:01 AM #56:	Jen0125 posted... He said he thought it'd make me change my mind about not wanting kids How? By bringing a smorgasbord of STDs into the mix? --- Bone Appetit, my skeleton Metroidvania! https://store.steampowered.com/app/1256520 <cite>Black_Crusher posted [p:944629288] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>He said he thought it'd make me change my mind about not wanting kids</quote> How? By bringing a smorgasbord of STDs into the mix? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/15/20 10:05:47 AM #57:	jsb0714 posted... Yeah, marriage is what complicated things here. rolls eyes Well, yeah. More than just buying a house... Thats pretty obvious. Though, getting a pre-nup helps... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:944629329] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>jsb0714 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah, marriage is what complicated things here. rolls eyes</quote> Well, yeah. More than just buying a house... Thats pretty obvious. Though, getting a pre-nup helps...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Black_Crusher 09/15/20 10:06:48 AM #58:	Jen0125 posted... We aren't having sex or cuddling or anything like that You guys shouldn't be in the same house, or for sure not in the same room like that. That's not going to help anyone. --- Bone Appetit, my skeleton Metroidvania! https://store.steampowered.com/app/1256520 <cite>Black_Crusher posted [p:944629349] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>We aren't having sex or cuddling or anything like that</quote>You guys shouldn't be in the same house, or for sure not in the same room like that. That's not going to help anyone. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 10:17:05 AM #59:	Black_Crusher posted... How? By bringing a smorgasbord of STDs into the mix? Obviously if I agreed to have kids he wouldn't be dating other people. He said if I wanted to have kids he would have asked me to get married. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944629647] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Black_Crusher posted... </cite> <quote>How? By bringing a smorgasbord of STDs into the mix?</quote> Obviously if I agreed to have kids he wouldn't be dating other people. He said if I wanted to have kids he would have asked me to get married. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Noop_Noop 09/15/20 10:20:07 AM #60:	Sounds super healthy --- I think there might be something wrong with you <cite>Noop_Noop posted [p:944629747] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Sounds super healthy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Black_Crusher 09/15/20 10:20:22 AM #61:	Jen0125 posted... Obviously if I agreed to have kids he wouldn't be dating other people. He said if I wanted to have kids he would have asked me to get married. But in all honesty, you two shouldn't be in the same bed. That's not going to help anyone. Good luck to you, I hope it works out. --- Bone Appetit, my skeleton Metroidvania! https://store.steampowered.com/app/1256520 <cite>Black_Crusher posted [p:944629756] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Obviously if I agreed to have kids he wouldn't be dating other people. He said if I wanted to have kids he would have asked me to get married.</quote>But in all honesty, you two shouldn't be in the same bed. That's not going to help anyone. Good luck to you, I hope it works out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 10:21:19 AM #62:	Noop_Noop posted... Sounds super healthy Totally, right. It's just temporary. Black_Crusher posted... But in all honesty, you two shouldn't be in the same bed. That's not going to help anyone. Good luck to you, I hope it works out. Yes, I know this. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944629776] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Noop_Noop posted... </cite> <quote>Sounds super healthy</quote> Totally, right. It's just temporary. Black_Crusher posted... </cite> <quote>But in all honesty, you two shouldn't be in the same bed. That's not going to help anyone. Good luck to you, I hope it works out.</quote> Yes, I know this. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrPrimemaster 09/15/20 11:03:59 AM #63:	Wait, did he think Tinder or the house would change your mind about having kids? --- Metroids Suck <cite>DrPrimemaster posted [p:944631062] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Wait, did he think Tinder or the house would change your mind about having kids? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 11:35:01 AM #64:	DrPrimemaster posted... Wait, did he think Tinder or the house would change your mind about having kids? He thought buying the house would be the straw that broke my back about not wanting kids. So, while I thought we were buying a house together to live in and have our own future in, he was buying the house because he thought it would make me change my mind about not wanting kids. It really makes me sad. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944632108] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>DrPrimemaster posted... </cite> <quote>Wait, did he think Tinder or the house would change your mind about having kids?</quote> He thought buying the house would be the straw that broke my back about not wanting kids. So, while I thought we were buying a house together to live in and have our own future in, he was buying the house because he thought it would make me change my mind about not wanting kids. It really makes me sad. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 09/15/20 11:54:03 AM #65:	A truly terrible situation. --- Your breathing is the most important thing you do. Train it and make yourself better. This is truth! http://www.arfalpha.com/ScienceOfBreath/ScienceBreath.htm <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:944632746] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>A truly terrible situation. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LaggnFragnLarry 09/15/20 12:36:55 PM #66:	ClarkDuke posted... jen, the answer is simple, you need to make it awkward for him, start hooking up with a potder, ok? clark, you are a modern day dr. drew with your knowledge and wisdom about love and life. Jen0125 posted... Maybe @LaggnFragnLarry is available i am but only if its ok with rc. she has first dibs <cite>LaggnFragnLarry posted [p:944634159] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>ClarkDuke posted... </cite> <quote>jen, the answer is simple, you need to make it awkward for him, start hooking up with a potder, ok?</quote>clark, you are a modern day dr. drew with your knowledge and wisdom about love and life. Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Maybe @LaggnFragnLarry is available</quote>i am but only if its ok with rc. she has first dibs </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HornedLion 09/15/20 12:55:27 PM #67:	I honestly cant fathom this. Ive tried to stay mad at my girl while in the same house together, and all it takes is a glimpse of her in her undies and Im waving the white flag. I dont know how you guys are doing it. --- "Skippitty Bop boom ba-dop. Wham wham bam bam" <cite>HornedLion posted [p:944634758] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>I honestly cant fathom this. Ive tried to stay mad at my girl while in the same house together, and all it takes is a glimpse of her in her undies and Im waving the white flag. I dont know how you guys are doing it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teddy241 09/15/20 1:01:08 PM #68:	that's normal behavior after a break up or divorce. i slept with 4 different women in 1 year after my divorce. helped me lol <cite>teddy241 posted [p:944634946] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>that's normal behavior after a break up or divorce. i slept with 4 different women in 1 year after my divorce. helped me lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
streamofthesky 09/15/20 1:02:58 PM #69:	Yeah, I wouldn't get a house w/ someone before getting married.... Hell, been like a decade and we still don't have one. I need to look into these "grants"... Jen0125 posted... No because the value hasn't appreciated enough to pay back the mortgage and the grant. Well, it sounds like you lose the grant if you both leave before 5 years, and you intend to leave in a little over 2 years. So, you're gonna have to pay back that grant no matter what unless he plans to stay there. Seems like the best solution is he pays back your half of the down payment and takes on the mortgage and ownership, and you move to an apartment or something until you're done w/ your degree and go to Korea or whatever... <cite>streamofthesky posted [p:944635009] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Yeah, I wouldn't get a house w/ someone before getting married.... Hell, been like a decade and we still don't have one. I need to look into these "grants"... Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>No because the value hasn't appreciated enough to pay back the mortgage and the grant.</quote>Well, it sounds like you lose the grant if you both leave before 5 years, and you intend to leave in a little over 2 years. So, you're gonna have to pay back that grant no matter what unless he plans to stay there. Seems like the best solution is he pays back your half of the down payment and takes on the mortgage and ownership, and you move to an apartment or something until you're done w/ your degree and go to Korea or whatever... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 1:04:01 PM #70:	teddy241 posted... that's normal behavior after a break up or divorce. i slept with 4 different women in 1 year after my divorce. helped me lol Yeah, maybe if you aren't staying in the same bed as your ex. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944635055] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>teddy241 posted... </cite> <quote>that's normal behavior after a break up or divorce. i slept with 4 different women in 1 year after my divorce. helped me lol</quote> Yeah, maybe if you aren't staying in the same bed as your ex. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 1:04:37 PM #71:	streamofthesky posted... Well, it sounds like you lose the grant if you both leave before 5 years, and you intend to leave in a little over 2 years. So, you're gonna have to pay back that grant no matter what unless he plans to stay there. No, when I leave I'm just going to drop of the deed. He is the only one on the mortgage. We're both on the deed. Then he'll own the whole house and can stay, rent or sell it when he wants. I'm absolutely not moving. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944635079] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>streamofthesky posted... </cite> <quote>Well, it sounds like you lose the grant if you both leave before 5 years, and you intend to leave in a little over 2 years. So, you're gonna have to pay back that grant no matter what unless he plans to stay there.</quote> No, when I leave I'm just going to drop of the deed. He is the only one on the mortgage. We're both on the deed. Then he'll own the whole house and can stay, rent or sell it when he wants. I'm absolutely not moving. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blightzkrieg 09/15/20 1:08:11 PM #72:	I'm gonna catfish your ex lmao --- https://imgur.com/mmESgwx <cite>Blightzkrieg posted [p:944635213] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>I'm gonna catfish your ex lmao </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlockWatcher 09/15/20 1:10:32 PM #73:	Do you have 2 floors? Turn that into 2 apartments and get on different floors --- 1 John 2: 15-17 <cite>BlockWatcher posted [p:944635304] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Do you have 2 floors? Turn that into 2 apartments and get on different floors </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 1:11:45 PM #74:	Blightzkrieg posted... I'm gonna catfish your ex lmao Bro, please do. BlockWatcher posted... Do you have 2 floors? Turn that into 2 apartments and get on different floors No, but we have two spare bedrooms. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944635357] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Blightzkrieg posted... </cite> <quote>I'm gonna catfish your ex lmao</quote> Bro, please do. BlockWatcher posted... </cite> <quote>Do you have 2 floors? Turn that into 2 apartments and get on different floors</quote> No, but we have two spare bedrooms. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teddy241 09/15/20 1:13:43 PM #75:	i dont miss drama one bit im luving single life <cite>teddy241 posted [p:944635424] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>i dont miss drama one bit im luving single life </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teddy241 09/15/20 1:14:00 PM #76:	sorry for your troubles tc <cite>teddy241 posted [p:944635433] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>sorry for your troubles tc </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/15/20 1:39:38 PM #77:	Good luck with everything, Jen! Hopefully, he doesnt bring strangers to the home... And good luck to Blightzkrieg. Hopefully, the fishing goes well... Also, I guess its different for me. I dont plan on getting married. So, I cant really wait to get married before getting a house. That being said, Im personally buying my own house within the next year. But I probably wouldnt mind buying a house with an SO eventually. It just depends on the situation... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:944636308] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Good luck with everything, Jen! Hopefully, he doesnt bring strangers to the home... And good luck to Blightzkrieg. Hopefully, the fishing goes well... Also, I guess its different for me. I dont plan on getting married. So, I cant really wait to get married before getting a house. That being said, Im personally buying my own house within the next year. But I probably wouldnt mind buying a house with an SO eventually. It just depends on the situation...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blightzkrieg 09/15/20 1:44:44 PM #78:	Jen0125 posted... Bro, please do. He's gonna be so embarrassed when I reveal I'm a guy. I got the same prank pulled on me once, didn't figure it out til he came in my ass. --- https://imgur.com/mmESgwx <cite>Blightzkrieg posted [p:944636467] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Bro, please do.</quote>He's gonna be so embarrassed when I reveal I'm a guy. I got the same prank pulled on me once, didn't figure it out til he came in my ass. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/15/20 2:43:08 PM #79:	Black_Crusher posted... You guys shouldn't be in the same house, or for sure not in the same room like that. That's not going to help anyone. I can understanding sharing the same house to some degree. Not the same bed though. Still whatever works I guess.... --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:944638562] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Black_Crusher posted... </cite> <quote>You guys shouldn't be in the same house, or for sure not in the same room like that. That's not going to help anyone.</quote>I can understanding sharing the same house to some degree. Not the same bed though. Still whatever works I guess.... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 09/15/20 2:58:13 PM #80:	Blightzkrieg posted... He's gonna be so embarrassed when I reveal I'm a guy. I got the same prank pulled on me once, didn't figure it out til he came in my ass. Are you sure? They make some pretty realistic strapons these days. It might not have been a guy. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:944639162] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Blightzkrieg posted... </cite> <quote>He's gonna be so embarrassed when I reveal I'm a guy. I got the same prank pulled on me once, didn't figure it out til he came in my ass.</quote> Are you sure? They make some pretty realistic strapons these days. It might not have been a guy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blightzkrieg 09/15/20 3:07:10 PM #81:	adjl posted... Are you sure? They make some pretty realistic strapons these days. It might not have been a guy. I didn't get pregnant so you might have a point. --- https://imgur.com/mmESgwx <cite>Blightzkrieg posted [p:944639516] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted... </cite> <quote>Are you sure? They make some pretty realistic strapons these days. It might not have been a guy.</quote>I didn't get pregnant so you might have a point. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 3:17:06 PM #82:	Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944639915] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Clench281 09/15/20 3:22:02 PM #83:	Jen0125 posted... Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life. You've already said that in this relationship you loved and were (are) loved, even if things ultimately didn't work out because of the stance on children. --- Take me for what I am -- who I was meant to be. And if you give a damn, take me baby, or leave me. <cite>Clench281 posted [p:944640117] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life.</quote> You've already said that in this relationship you loved and were (are) loved, even if things ultimately didn't work out because of the stance on children. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/15/20 3:23:13 PM #84:	Jen0125 posted... Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. He might not have moved on. As other have said, they just hooked up after. This may be a way of coping. Its also possible he wont actually meet any of them. Or that he wont want to use it much... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:944640154] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. </quote> He might not have moved on. As other have said, they just hooked up after. This may be a way of coping. Its also possible he wont actually meet any of them. Or that he wont want to use it much...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
madadude 09/15/20 3:37:00 PM #85:	Honestly its hard to even comprehend how you two have managed to still share a bed together despite having broken up. Seems unhealthy, but I understand that neither of you are ready to really part from each other in that way after having been together for so long. And I wouldn't read into him trying to move on as a reflection of you at all. Seems clear that you had a great relationship, but having kids/not having kids is just too big of a compromise for it to keep on succeeding in the long run; he would keep trying to hold it over you and that would definitely eat away at both of you, especially as he starts to get older. Wish you both the best :) --- http://www.last.fm/user/madadude17 <cite>madadude posted [p:944640662] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Honestly its hard to even comprehend how you two have managed to still share a bed together despite having broken up. Seems unhealthy, but I understand that neither of you are ready to really part from each other in that way after having been together for so long. And I wouldn't read into him trying to move on as a reflection of you at all. Seems clear that you had a great relationship, but having kids/not having kids is just too big of a compromise for it to keep on succeeding in the long run; he would keep trying to hold it over you and that would definitely eat away at both of you, especially as he starts to get older. Wish you both the best :) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YoukaiSlayer 09/15/20 10:27:51 PM #86:	Jen0125 posted... Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life. Doesn't this indicate the exact opposite? It's so tough not being able to be with you that he has to quickly reach out to anyone at all to try and distract him from it? --- I'm ninja (you can't see me) <cite>YoukaiSlayer posted [p:944655622] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life.</quote>Doesn't this indicate the exact opposite? It's so tough not being able to be with you that he has to quickly reach out to anyone at all to try and distract him from it? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DirtBasedSoap 09/15/20 10:37:27 PM #87:	the fact that youre going through this shit completely sober is something you should be very proud of --- me when anyone replies to my posts: https://youtu.be/d1YBv2mWll0 <cite>DirtBasedSoap posted [p:944655992] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>the fact that youre going through this shit completely sober is something you should be very proud of </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 10:49:46 PM #88:	DirtBasedSoap posted... the fact that youre going through this shit completely sober is something you should be very proud of Bro. I think about it a lot but it really will not help me achieve my long term goals rn. I need to focus on school and making sure I can get through the process of applying and interviewing to teach in a new country. Drinking will do nothing but ensure I don't have the capacity to leave. It honestly is a testament to how well my therapy helped me. I feel proud I actually changed something about myself lol --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944656430] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>DirtBasedSoap posted... </cite> <quote>the fact that youre going through this shit completely sober is something you should be very proud of</quote> Bro. I think about it a lot but it really will not help me achieve my long term goals rn. I need to focus on school and making sure I can get through the process of applying and interviewing to teach in a new country. Drinking will do nothing but ensure I don't have the capacity to leave. It honestly is a testament to how well my therapy helped me. I feel proud I actually changed something about myself lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClarkDuke 09/15/20 11:22:00 PM #89:	LaggnFragnLarry posted... clark, you are a modern day dr. drew with your knowledge and wisdom about love and life. thanks for noticing larry, i always try helping however i can with everyone i interact with. as you know, i want everyone happy, ok? --- https://imgur.com/qL0DHFI https://imgur.com/JL9rRLt https://youtu.be/dQw4w9WgXcQ <cite>ClarkDuke posted [p:944657534] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>LaggnFragnLarry posted... </cite> <quote>clark, you are a modern day dr. drew with your knowledge and wisdom about love and life.</quote> thanks for noticing larry, i always try helping however i can with everyone i interact with. as you know, i want everyone happy, ok? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClarkDuke 09/15/20 11:25:19 PM #90:	Jen0125 posted... Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life. don't feel bad for yourself, feel bad for him, for being so desperate he's already on tinder, ok? Blightzkrieg posted... I'm gonna catfish your ex lmao this sounds like a great idea, i feel like there should be multiple attempts, so he's catfished twice, ok? --- https://imgur.com/qL0DHFI https://imgur.com/JL9rRLt https://youtu.be/dQw4w9WgXcQ <cite>ClarkDuke posted [p:944657670] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life.</quote>don't feel bad for yourself, feel bad for him, for being so desperate he's already on tinder, ok? Blightzkrieg posted... </cite> <quote>I'm gonna catfish your ex lmao</quote>this sounds like a great idea, i feel like there should be multiple attempts, so he's catfished twice, ok? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AwesomeTurtwig 09/15/20 11:26:36 PM #91:	Jen I'm buying a house, move in with me and we can make pillow forts. --- http://potders.com/sigs/1.gif My flash games: http://bit.ly/kO1BDd Rule free PotD: http://www.potders.com/forum/ <cite>AwesomeTurtwig posted [p:944657729] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen I'm buying a house, move in with me and we can make pillow forts. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/15/20 11:30:57 PM #92:	AwesomeTurtwig posted... Jen I'm buying a house, move in with me and we can make pillow forts. But then I have to live in New Jersey --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944657900] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>AwesomeTurtwig posted... </cite> <quote>Jen I'm buying a house, move in with me and we can make pillow forts.</quote> But then I have to live in New Jersey </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dedbus 09/15/20 11:31:00 PM #93:	Jesus I thought there was only one room the entire time. Now even the tinder date could have their own room. This is a pretty easy fix. <cite>dedbus posted [p:944657903] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jesus I thought there was only one room the entire time. Now even the tinder date could have their own room. This is a pretty easy fix. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blightzkrieg 09/15/20 11:56:43 PM #94:	DirtBasedSoap posted... the fact that youre going through this shit completely sober is something you should be very proud of Wow that's super fucking lame Jen ok --- https://imgur.com/mmESgwx <cite>Blightzkrieg posted [p:944658889] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>DirtBasedSoap posted... </cite> <quote>the fact that youre going through this shit completely sober is something you should be very proud of</quote>Wow that's super fucking lame Jen ok </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/16/20 12:10:53 AM #95:	Blightzkrieg posted... Wow that's super fucking lame Jen ok Lmao my bad --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944659361] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Blightzkrieg posted... </cite> <quote>Wow that's super fucking lame Jen ok</quote> Lmao my bad </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Molitheus 09/16/20 2:19:42 AM #96:	Jen0125 posted... Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life. I hope things work out for you Jen but always remember that you're never unlovable. --- There will be death Harv-5 You wouldnt wanna eat me anyways, you'd only get the runs. Got it Fools? <cite>Molitheus posted [p:944662076] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life.</quote>I hope things work out for you Jen but always remember that you're never unlovable. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTekashiro 09/16/20 1:05:53 PM #97:	Joshs Name posted... your ex did wrong things and i am sorry that you have to live with that. F What are you talking about? Both parties failed the relationship equally when it came to communication. The ex was hoping she would change her mind just as much as she was hoping he would change his. While it is sad that their relationship ended, it takes two. Blaming one party, especially in this example, does nothing beneficial. If anything, you are limiting the potential growth that needs to occur for their next relationships to succeed. This has been a years-long lesson in honesty for all parties involved. <cite>JTekashiro posted [p:944675498] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Joshs Name posted... </cite> <quote>your ex did wrong things and i am sorry that you have to live with that. F</quote> What are you talking about? Both parties failed the relationship equally when it came to communication. The ex was hoping she would change her mind just as much as she was hoping he would change his. While it is sad that their relationship ended, it takes two. Blaming one party, especially in this example, does nothing beneficial. If anything, you are limiting the potential growth that needs to occur for their next relationships to succeed. This has been a years-long lesson in honesty for all parties involved. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTekashiro 09/16/20 1:09:46 PM #98:	Jen0125 posted... Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life. He didn't move on and your not unlovable. Putting yourself down doesn't help. You not wanting kids is a perfectly reasonable and healthy choice. He is taking the next steps in his life, much as you should be doing in yours. The new women are to forget you, not to immediately replace you. The longer you lament and bemoan the loss of your relationship (and his progress afterwards) the worse it will be for you. Negativity begets more negativity. Focus on something positive - yourself after the relationship. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and go for a walk, get some fresh air and physical exercise. It will do you good. Instead of worrying about his next moves, focus on your own. <cite>JTekashiro posted [p:944675619] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>Makes me feel sad he's able to move on so quickly but it is what it is I guess. I wonder what I did in a past life to make me a completely unloveable person in this life.</quote> He didn't move on and your not unlovable. Putting yourself down doesn't help. You not wanting kids is a perfectly reasonable and healthy choice. He is taking the next steps in his life, much as you should be doing in yours. The new women are to forget you, not to immediately replace you. The longer you lament and bemoan the loss of your relationship (and his progress afterwards) the worse it will be for you. Negativity begets more negativity. Focus on something positive - yourself after the relationship. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and go for a walk, get some fresh air and physical exercise. It will do you good. Instead of worrying about his next moves, focus on your own. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 09/16/20 1:11:12 PM #99:	I don't really think it was an equal failure. I was completely transparent the whole relationship about not wanting to have kids and that I wasn't going to have kids. I shouldn't be expected to like check in with him often to see if he's still okay with that. I trusted he understood because I had been so open and he continually escalated the relationship. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:944675681] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>I don't really think it was an equal failure. I was completely transparent the whole relationship about not wanting to have kids and that I wasn't going to have kids. I shouldn't be expected to like check in with him often to see if he's still okay with that. I trusted he understood because I had been so open and he continually escalated the relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EvilMegas 09/16/20 1:12:12 PM #100:	Have RC hook up with him, then you get your threesome. Then you all get married. This is a win win win. Also get like 5 dogs. Its equivalent to having 5 kids. --- Official Former King of Black People(Lost to Joe Biden) http://imgur.com/a/yNvXsJe <cite>EvilMegas posted [p:944675715] in My ex sign... [t:78975499]...</cite> <quote>Have RC hook up with him, then you get your threesome. Then you all get married. This is a win win win. Also get like 5 dogs. Its equivalent to having 5 kids. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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