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Solid Sonic
04/14/20 1:09:21 PM
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That means it's hopeless for me to find love and start a life together.

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GameReviews
04/14/20 1:10:58 PM
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Certainly with that attitude

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ArvTheGreat
04/14/20 1:12:52 PM
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Arv thought you had a waifu

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ParanoidObsessive
04/14/20 1:17:40 PM
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I know people who got married in their 60s.
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Veedrock-
04/14/20 1:24:37 PM
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At least you're a mod.

Oh wait...

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KogaSteelfang
04/14/20 1:25:23 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
That means it's hopeless for me to find love and start a life together.
I know this feeling.

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LaggnFragnLarry
04/14/20 1:28:10 PM
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as someone who was once married, i recommend just banging tinder babes
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Solid Sonic
04/14/20 1:29:09 PM
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There's something disheartening that I'm now old enough to see people not just get married but realize that they regret their marriages and want out.

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wwinterj25
04/14/20 1:42:42 PM
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I'm happy you've joined the club and accepted your fate.

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ChaosAzeroth
04/14/20 1:54:34 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
There's something disheartening that I'm now old enough to see people not just get married but realize that they regret their marriages and want out.

Unfortunately people sometimes change in ways that causes them to grow apart.

I'm not the same person I was even just 5 years ago tbh. Mostly for the better thankfully, but in some ways for the worse unfortunately.
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jbomb1234
04/14/20 2:10:07 PM
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I am assuming from your name you are a guy and a mans stock goes up as he gets older. You are not screwed until you hit your 50s. Then you change into creep old man but you are good until then.

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Red_Frog
04/14/20 2:52:10 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
There's something disheartening that I'm now old enough to see people not just get married but realize that they regret their marriages and want out.

See, marriage isn't some magic bandaid for happiness. Married people are just as miserable as everyone else. In fact, you're ahead of the game, you're unhappy but at least you don't have a mountain of alimony or child support and the irritating tiny human that comes with it.
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SunWuKung420
04/14/20 3:19:47 PM
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I didn't get married until 39.

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Solid Sonic
04/14/20 3:27:35 PM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
I didn't get married until 39.

See, I'm okay with that happening but I feel like I'm not playing the field either, which is putting me way behind.

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SunWuKung420
04/14/20 3:29:47 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
See, I'm okay with that happening but I feel like I'm not playing the field either, which is putting me way behind.

Yea, you have to put yourself out there before you can put yourself in there, wink wink.

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DPsx7
04/14/20 5:54:25 PM
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Why even worry about it? Get some games and cats, you'll be fine.

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ChaosAzeroth
04/14/20 5:55:34 PM
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DPsx7 posted...
Why even worry about it? Get some games and cats, you'll be fine.

I'm happily married, love my spouse a lot, and honestly...

This actually sounds like a good plan ngl.
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Kyuubi4269
04/14/20 6:04:37 PM
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You can do that at any age, in fact the later you leave it, the more bs you avoid.
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captpackrat
04/14/20 7:14:34 PM
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You're never too old for love, you just have to lower your standards.

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DPsx7
04/14/20 7:23:46 PM
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ChaosAzeroth posted...
I'm happily married, love my spouse a lot, and honestly...

This actually sounds like a good plan ngl.

Needless to say I'm unusual. Never dated or been asked, just made do and haven't felt like I made the wrong choice. It's common to see these 'poor me' topics and I always ask why they make a big deal of it. If they really wanted it they'd put in the effort I suppose. If they've waited then maybe it's not for them after all.

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blu
04/14/20 9:42:06 PM
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Dude, youre 33. Go find a 24 year old and live your dreams.
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ChaosAzeroth
04/15/20 2:01:46 AM
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DPsx7 posted...
Needless to say I'm unusual. Never dated or been asked, just made do and haven't felt like I made the wrong choice. It's common to see these 'poor me' topics and I always ask why they make a big deal of it. If they really wanted it they'd put in the effort I suppose. If they've waited then maybe it's not for them after all.

I don't know about not for them period, though that is possible, but not for them when they were waiting at least.

I'd guess with people posting/talking about it... They're becoming interested, are lonely, or are feeling like they're supposed to be in a relationship. Or a combination.

I do have games and cats too though lol. A mini stockpile of both tbh. Probably why that sounds like a good plan ngl.
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wwinterj25
04/15/20 2:56:22 AM
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DPsx7 posted...
If they really wanted it they'd put in the effort I suppose.

For someone who's never dated or been asked you've got some expert pro tips on getting a date.

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Trialia
04/15/20 9:01:19 AM
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I have to wonder whether you realise you're basically insulting a good proportion of your fellow posters by implying life is or should be hopeless for us =P I'm 34, never been married, never had a kid, don't want to.

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ChaosAzeroth
04/15/20 12:34:13 PM
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Trialia posted...
I have to wonder whether you realise you're basically insulting a good proportion of your fellow posters by implying life is or should be hopeless for us =P I'm 34, never been married, never had a kid, don't want to.

They didn't say life was hopeless though, just starting a relationship was for them this late.

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SunWuKung420
04/15/20 12:44:08 PM
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ChaosAzeroth posted...
They didn't say life was hopeless though, just starting a relationship was for them this late.

It's never too late to start relationships.

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teddy241
04/15/20 1:36:01 PM
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Guys its not so much looks but money. If you got money you can definitely get laid
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darcandkharg31
04/15/20 1:37:18 PM
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No one like you when you're 33

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teddy241
04/15/20 1:37:26 PM
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Im 35. Lived the life. Was married had a house etc. Got divorced a few years ago. Went around banging a few.

Now im just content doing and being me the rest of the ride. I could die tomorrow and say honey i lived my life.
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HornedLion
04/15/20 1:38:26 PM
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Step 1: Go to the gym.
Step 2: Cut this emo shit out, chicks HATE that.
Step 3: Learn to be a salesman. And then learn to sell yourself.
Step 4: Search for women. At the bars... at the... oh shit. Yeah, youre either fucked or going to have to put your love conquest on hold for now. Sorry.

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darcandkharg31
04/15/20 1:39:32 PM
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HornedLion posted...
Step 4: Search for women. At the bars... at the... oh shit. Yeah, youre either fucked or going to have to put your love conquest on hold for now. Sorry.
Grocery store and Hospitals.

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wwinterj25
04/15/20 2:21:59 PM
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Trialia posted...
I'm 34, never been married, never had a kid

Can't say I'm shocked. You probably ignored the people who wanted to like you because they breathed wrong.


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adjl
04/15/20 2:34:36 PM
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I was 28 when I got into my first actual relationship. Don't worry about it too much. Learn to be happy without a relationship so you aren't being too desperate about it, then just let it happen when/if it happens.

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joemodda
04/15/20 2:36:51 PM
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25 and at this rate I'll be joining the ranks of the lv 30 wizards

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ChaosAzeroth
04/15/20 2:46:55 PM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
It's never too late to start relationships.
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KogaSteelfang
04/15/20 3:07:29 PM
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Trialia posted...
I have to wonder whether you realise you're basically insulting a good proportion of your fellow posters by implying life is or should be hopeless for us =P I'm 34, never been married, never had a kid, don't want to.
You're kind of doing the same. Implying his feelings on his own life don't matter because you feel differently about yours. Each of us is in a different circumstance, even if we're dealing with the same situations.

adjl posted...
I was 28 when I got into my first actual relationship. Don't worry about it too much. Learn to be happy without a relationship so you aren't being too desperate about it, then just let it happen when/if it happens.
I never worried about until I was 31 or 32. Didn't make a difference.

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Trialia
04/15/20 5:08:25 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
You're kind of doing the same. Implying his feelings on his own life don't matter because you feel differently about yours. Each of us is in a different circumstance, even if we're dealing with the same situations.

Not really - I didn't generalise. He did.

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KogaSteelfang
04/15/20 5:30:29 PM
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Trialia posted...
Not really - I didn't generalise. He did.
He said he's unhappy as he is, and feels hopeless. You're the one who said it was an insult to the rest of us. Looks like he's just discussing his own personal situation and how he feels about it. Nothing in there about the rest of us until you brought it up. But I'm not gonna argue about it, just thought it was odd that you were trying to disregard his feelings while acting insulted that he didn't consider yours first.

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inloveanddeath0
04/15/20 5:46:14 PM
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Solid Sonic
04/15/20 7:41:35 PM
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I'll be frank; I'm concerned I'm an incel in denial.

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Kyuubi4269
04/15/20 7:46:25 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
just thought it was odd that you were trying to disregard his feelings while acting insulted that he didn't consider yours first.

I mean, she's an internet feminist.
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Trialia
04/15/20 10:28:15 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
He said he's unhappy as he is, and feels hopeless. You're the one who said it was an insult to the rest of us. Looks like he's just discussing his own personal situation and how he feels about it. Nothing in there about the rest of us until you brought it up. But I'm not gonna argue about it, just thought it was odd that you were trying to disregard his feelings while acting insulted that he didn't consider yours first.
Not disregarding. It's just that he associated it so closely with his age, as if being single at his age is something bad or to be feared or freaked out about. There's nothing wrong with being single in your 30s. Or ever, frankly. And I knee-jerk at the implication there is because so many people pressure people perceived as female against being single at my/our age.

OP, whether you become an incel in the sociological sense or not is up to you - but you're more likely to stay single if you do. If you just happen to be simply involuntarily celibate for a while, everybody goes through that. Why does being single distress you so much? Is it peer pressure? Do you feel you should be passing the kind of milestones other people your age and older have done already? What have you done with your life so far? Do you want to marry and/or have children?

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Kyuubi4269
04/15/20 10:39:18 PM
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Trialia posted...
Why does being single distress you so much? Is it peer pressure?

Why are you trying to peer pressure him in to liking something he's uncomfortable with? It's none of your business why he feels how he feels, he doesn't have to justify his emotions to you.
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Bugmeat
04/15/20 10:44:15 PM
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I was 42 before I found my love. That's not to say that I was alone until 42. I just didn't love any of them before this one.


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Zareth
04/15/20 11:29:08 PM
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I was gonna start going out and meeting new people this year, but fuck me, right?

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darcandkharg31
04/15/20 11:34:08 PM
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Zareth posted...
but fuck me, right?
yeh

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wwinterj25
04/16/20 3:08:59 AM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
Why are you trying to peer pressure him in to liking something he's uncomfortable with? It's none of your business why he feels how he feels, he doesn't have to justify his emotions to you.
Careful. They will put you on ignore.
You're however not wrong.

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LinkPizza
04/16/20 3:14:16 AM
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Zareth posted...
but fuck me, right?

Only if my boyfriend says its ok...
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