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DarthDemented 11/20/19 9:20:43 PM #1: |
Don't know why. He just did it. grabbed grandpa's gun and shot himself in front of my mom at her house. It's been really hard to process for the whole family. We knew he's had health problems like a heart attack, stroke, emphysema. If there was anything else he kept it to himself. He was never married and never had any kids so there's that I guess. Either way this sucks. Dude was always a part of my life growing up and now he's gone.
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Shotgunnova 11/20/19 9:24:04 PM #4: |
Sorry to hear, man.
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metralo 11/20/19 9:24:24 PM #5: |
I'm sorry man. Sorry for your loss. pm me if you wanna chat.
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a-c-a-b 11/20/19 9:25:43 PM #6: |
Shitty deal. Sorry for your loss.
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DarthDemented 11/20/19 9:26:17 PM #7: |
Crono99 posted...
WTFThanks dude. Just wanted to get it out there. Hopefully start a conversation on suicide in general. Get help people. Talk to someone you trust. I guarantee they won't think any less of you. --- boobies... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DevsBro 11/20/19 9:27:25 PM #8: |
Yeesh
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Crepes 11/20/19 9:28:19 PM #9: |
Ive experienced suicide as well. Its awful for those left behind. So many unanswered questions... so much guilt over whether there was anything more you could have done. Did a conversation I recently have inadvertently push him over the edge or were there some signs I think were so obvious now that I cant believe I missed them at the time.
Everyone else in here should take a moment out just to appreciate your loved ones and tell them you love them if you havent for a while. Reach out to those youve lost touch with and make amends with those you dont talk to. You never know when you wont have the chance. --- Praxis Makes Perfect The only intelligent tactical response to life's horror is to laugh defiantly at it. ~Soren Kierkegaard ... Copied to Clipboard!
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evil_zombie11 11/20/19 9:29:41 PM #10: |
:(
One of my friends found her step dad's body after he shot himself. He couldn't deal with her mom and her abusive and narcissistic behavior so he ended himself. Sad. --- Yo wtf Probably lifting or running... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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12amMadman 11/20/19 9:32:05 PM #11: |
Damn in front of your mom? That's some fucked up shit.
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DarthDemented 11/20/19 9:33:32 PM #12: |
12amMadman posted...
Damn in front of your mom? That's some fucked up shit.Yeah he had been living with her full time since his health started going down the crapper. --- boobies... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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fan357 11/20/19 9:38:41 PM #13: |
Sounds like his mind wasnt right. Sorry bro.
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Life Sympathy 11/20/19 9:39:47 PM #14: |
My condolences for your loss TC
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sLaCkEr408___RJ 11/20/19 10:03:10 PM #15: |
DarthDemented posted...
Yeah he had been living with her full time since his health started going down the crapper.Damn like wanted her to see it? How old was he ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guide 11/20/19 10:05:24 PM #16: |
Hope your family finds some closure, somehow.
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DarthDemented 11/20/19 10:36:38 PM #17: |
sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
Damn like wanted her to see it? How old was heNot sure. In his late 50's I want to say. I could be wrong. --- boobies... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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kingdrake2 11/20/19 10:38:26 PM #18: |
CrimsonRage posted...
that's horrible. sorry for your loss. especially for his mom got the worse of the situation :(. experiencing someones death in the same home is much more emotional. --- The act of treachery is an art, but the traitor himself is a piece of **** - Mike Tyson ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Touch 11/20/19 10:44:26 PM #21: |
I know it may be tough for everyone right now, but definitely try to keep more tabs on your mom if you haven't been already. Losing a loved one to suicide is one thing, but them actually doing it right in front of you...holy shit. I couldn't even begin to imagine how traumatizing that would be.
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DarthDemented 11/20/19 10:46:25 PM #22: |
CrimsonRage posted...
how is your mom holding up? how close were you and your uncle?I checked on her after I got home from work. She's still sick over it and is in disbelief, as are the rest of us. --- boobies... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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sLaCkEr408___RJ 11/20/19 10:47:07 PM #23: |
DarthDemented posted...
I checked on her after I got home from work. She's still sick over it and is in disbelief, as are the rest of us.Was your mother the younger or older sister of your uncle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarthDemented 11/20/19 10:53:48 PM #24: |
sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
Was your mother the younger or older sister of your uncleOlder. She was just looking out for her little brother. --- boobies... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AwesomeToTheMAX 11/20/19 10:53:55 PM #25: |
DuranOfForcena posted...
fan357 posted...Sounds like his mind wasnt right. Sorry bro. Are you serious? --- "shut the f*** up. There's no such thing as a "sniper rifle"." - tamagucci ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EvenSpoonier 11/20/19 11:02:20 PM #27: |
Oh, geez; I'm really sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you. Take care of yourself and your mom, okay?
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DarthDemented 11/20/19 11:05:10 PM #28: |
DuranOfForcena posted...
why wouldn't i be? according to TC, he had suffered from multiple physical ailments. that can be taxing on a person. you don't have to have mental issues for something like that to get to where it is too much to deal with.I don't know all the details either. Don't want to push it. Still too raw and fresh to push any further than it happened and how it happened. I'll admit I've thought of it a few times myself. When I'm not working I take care of my bed bound wife and it's taken a toll on my mind and body and health. Lately the depression has gotten to be real heavy on me. At the same time if I did she'd get carted off to a nursing home and my son raised by family or put in the foster system. I have a close friend who helps me during these times because she understands the feeling. I don't want to be the ever lasting trauma in my kid's life. Especially given the fact he would be the one to find me. Not doing it. --- boobies... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zikten 11/20/19 11:08:44 PM #29: |
I am so sorry.
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DarthDemented 11/21/19 2:19:09 AM #30: |
I went to visit her tonight. She pretty much ran herself til exhaustion took over. She couldn't wind down. Stayed til she started her bedtime routine. Getting her CPAP ready etc.
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Bishop9800 11/21/19 2:22:51 AM #31: |
Im so sorry about what you and your family are going threw. You're in my prayers
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AwesomeToTheMAX 11/21/19 2:38:28 AM #32: |
I was going to argue with that post but I decided against it
At any rate TC, don't feel guilty. Sometimes people are just pushed to their limits and there's no way out of it. --- "shut the f*** up. There's no such thing as a "sniper rifle"." - tamagucci ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Verdekal 11/21/19 2:39:30 AM #33: |
My condolences.
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toyota 11/21/19 3:19:31 AM #34: |
fucked up, my condolences
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pauIie 11/21/19 11:45:11 AM #36: |
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DD Divine 11/21/19 11:46:14 AM #37: |
So very sorry to hear this.
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Kaldrenthebold 11/21/19 11:46:47 AM #38: |
Sorry to hear that GP, well wishes to you and your family. That's devastating.
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Ps2Twilight 11/21/19 11:56:55 AM #39: |
That's awful. I'm sorry, TC.
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kingdrake2 11/21/19 12:27:36 PM #40: |
DuranOfForcena posted...
AwesomeToTheMAX posted...I was going to argue with that post but I decided against it there isn't anything. only path that i could think of is "offensive" about what happened which could lead to an argument (not really the best route) people get warned as a result. --- The act of treachery is an art, but the traitor himself is a piece of **** - Mike Tyson ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CyricZ 11/21/19 12:33:16 PM #41: |
*hugs*
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The Top Crusader 11/21/19 12:34:33 PM #42: |
My condolences, that's really rough.
While not a suicide which I'm sure is monumentally worse, my father-in-law died of a heart attack while visiting us and the fact it happened in our house made it so much worse for my wife and harder to get over. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Master_Bass 11/21/19 12:38:40 PM #43: |
I'm so sorry to hear that, TC. That has to be rough on you and especially your mom. I can't imagine how awful it would be to see a loved one end his life like that in front of you. I know I'd probably need therapy and I hope you guys can get it too if the grief is too much. No shame in it.
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DarthDemented 11/21/19 8:34:06 PM #44: |
Master_Bass posted...
I'm so sorry to hear that, TC. That has to be rough on you and especially your mom. I can't imagine how awful it would be to see a loved one end his life like that in front of you. I know I'd probably need therapy and I hope you guys can get it too if the grief is too much. No shame in it.Definitely no shame in it. Same for those of you considering this way out. Get help. No one will think less of you. Don't put your family through this kind of grief. He wanted cremated and we're having a memorial service for him on December 7th. Then that next week we'll lay his ashes to rest in the Missouri veterans cemetery in Springfield. --- boobies... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Matchabuu_ 11/21/19 8:34:59 PM #45: |
Im so sorry TC. Thats so fucking tragic.
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Skye Reynolds 11/21/19 8:54:50 PM #46: |
My condolences to you and your mother. That must've been a horrible thing to witness. :(
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DarthDemented 11/23/19 1:12:07 PM #47: |
https://m.legacy.com/obituaries/news-leader/obituary.aspx?n=terence-snyder&pid=194515199&referrer=0&preview=True
There's his death notice from the local paper. I don't know if we'll run a full obituary or not. --- boobies... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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mattnd2007 11/23/19 1:17:00 PM #48: |
Sorry man. That's awful.
I won't get into the deets but mom's side has very strong history of suicide, depression, alcoholics. Grandma's sister killed herself. Never even got to meet her because I wasn't born yet. I don't have any real advice except reach out to family and friends as much as you need to. They will help you through this. CE too. There are a lot of caring peeps on here when shit gets real like this. The trolling and gimmicks fall away. --- Show me a man who resorts to violence and I'll show you a man who's run out of good ideas Phil Funnie ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Machete 11/23/19 1:20:40 PM #49: |
shit :(
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DarthDemented 11/23/19 10:21:42 PM #50: |
https://imgur.com/gallery/xKvopI5
Found a pic of him. Seeing if anyone around Ruston, LA recognized him. He and some other family members would sell fireworks down there in December. He would dress as Santa for the kids and apparently it was a hit. I know I'm probably drawing this thread out longer than it needs to be. Just my way of processing I guess. Edit: ok what I do wrong with imgur link? --- boobies... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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