Current Events > Man cries and begs his girlfriend not to do the abortion outside the clinic.

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GiftedACIII posted...

Hawaiian_punch posted...

EndOfDiscOne posted...

No one ever made fun of men for crying about death or other serious issues

Uuuhhhhh

GiftedACIII posted...

She shouldve bailed on this pathetic embarrassing man long before then.

Lmao

This has nothing to do with men crying and everything to do with this idiot treating abortion like killing an actual child. If a woman was doing this theyd be equally pathetic and embarrassing.

Some insults e.g. the w-word, when women dress too skimpy, are very gender oriented.

Pathetic and embarrassing are very man-oriented in the context of weeping.

Hawaiian_punch posted...

GiftedACIII posted...

Hawaiian_punch posted...

EndOfDiscOne posted...

No one ever made fun of men for crying about death or other serious issues

Uuuhhhhh

GiftedACIII posted...

She shouldve bailed on this pathetic embarrassing man long before then.

Lmao

This has nothing to do with men crying and everything to do with this idiot treating abortion like killing an actual child. If a woman was doing this theyd be equally pathetic and embarrassing.

Some insults e.g. the w-word, when women dress too skimpy, are very gender oriented.

Pathetic and embarrassing are very man-oriented in the context of weeping.

You have the most deranged takes, ROD
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IfGodCouldDie posted...

@UnfairRepresent posted...

You can end your relationship with someone whenever you want. No one should be forced into a relationship

So are you saying that there is no reason a person could give for a break up that would make then a shitty person?

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This combination of public shaming, the permanency of what someone says on the internet, virtue signaling and the unwillingness to forgive people even when they change is becoming quite a conundrum.
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Abortion is murder.
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You guys act like the guy is out in the world telling women they can't get an abortion. That's not what's happening. This is just an isolated incident where he's begging his girlfriend to not take away a child that's wanted; and everyone is screaming the guy is a p.o.s for no apparent reason.

We are denying his feelings as a potential father and a human being, but it's okay I guess. Keep telling men their feelings aren't valid and shut them down when they open up.
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In a world where most men would be thrilled to not be a father this is the dude who is begging a woman to not kill his child.

Women constantly complain about men not taking responsibility or manning up and we have this poor guy, the irony is this man will likely be broken by this event.
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This is just an isolated incident where he's begging his girlfriend to not take away a child that's wanted

If it was wanted, then she wouldn't be at abortion clinic.. It's obvious that pregnancy is accidental, and really people should stop having unplanned babies that they not ready to raise

We don't know the circumstances. Maybe he was abusive and she doesn't want to be tied to him. We constantly give women shit for getting pregnant to keep a man (and rightfully so), maybe that's the case here. Maybe he got her pregnant so she'd stay, and is clingy and controlling. It is a very sad video and im not going to attack the man, but she could have a very good reason for this as well.
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Is it possible to be pro-choice and still feel compassion for this guy? Most people in that twitter thread are acting like it's one or the other.
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EndOfDiscOne posted...

Is it possible to be pro-choice and still feel compassion for this guy? Most people in that twitter thread are acting like it's one or the other.

I think it is possible, personally.
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vocedelmorte posted...

This is just an isolated incident where he's begging his girlfriend to not take away a child that's wanted

If it was wanted, then she wouldn't be at abortion clinic.. It's obvious that pregnancy is accidental, and really people should stop having unplanned babies that they not ready to raise

She has other kids that the guy is helping to raise. He just wanted a child of his own. I still think women have a right to have an abortion, but based on context so far the woman seems like a shitty person
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Perascamin posted...

vocedelmorte posted...

This is just an isolated incident where he's begging his girlfriend to not take away a child that's wanted

If it was wanted, then she wouldn't be at abortion clinic.. It's obvious that pregnancy is accidental, and really people should stop having unplanned babies that they not ready to raise

She has other kids that the guy is helping to raise. He just wanted a child of his own. I still think women have a right to have an abortion, but based on context so far the woman seems like a shitty person

the only context we have is a man crying for 10 seconds. If they have other kids maybe they're not in a position to raise another, financially or otherwise. it sucks but these things happen. We have very little context here.
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McgeesAlice808 posted...

No, theyre right. If he was prepared for a child hed already have talked it over with his partner and not throw a fit to guilt trip and beg a woman into staying pregnant when she doesnt want to be when shes already at the clinic. Hes not fit to be a father.

Or he found out about it at the last minute as she was getting ready to start the procedure. It would explain why hes so emotional.
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Perascamin posted...

vocedelmorte posted...

This is just an isolated incident where he's begging his girlfriend to not take away a child that's wanted

If it was wanted, then she wouldn't be at abortion clinic.. It's obvious that pregnancy is accidental, and really people should stop having unplanned babies that they not ready to raise

She has other kids that the guy is helping to raise. He just wanted a child of his own. I still think women have a right to have an abortion, but based on context so far the woman seems like a shitty person

But I mean, it doesn't matter if He Want a child of his own. If woman doesn't want this pregnancy, then he just want to use her body to carry the child he want. And throwing tantrums that he gets refused what he want.
Doesn't make her a shitty person, it's his choice to stay with her and raise her kids

When other women ask where have all the good men gone ? point them to this video.
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GiftedACIII posted...

Hawaiian_punch posted...

GiftedACIII posted...

Hawaiian_punch posted...

EndOfDiscOne posted...

No one ever made fun of men for crying about death or other serious issues

Uuuhhhhh

GiftedACIII posted...

She shouldve bailed on this pathetic embarrassing man long before then.

Lmao

This has nothing to do with men crying and everything to do with this idiot treating abortion like killing an actual child. If a woman was doing this theyd be equally pathetic and embarrassing.

Some insults e.g. the w-word, when women dress too skimpy, are very gender oriented.

Pathetic and embarrassing are very man-oriented in the context of weeping.

You have the most deranged takes, ROD

Youre in on this youre ROD bullshit? At this point I take it as a sign of defeat from somebody who clearly has to rely on as hominem because he cant argue his way out of a paper bag.

Itd be funny if this guy shit himself while he was crying and then his girlfriend left him.
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manmouse posted...

Itd be funny if this guy shit himself while he was crying and then his girlfriend left him.

The best thing that could happen to him is she dumps him, he might be able to move on with his life.
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Hawaiian_punch posted...

GiftedACIII posted...

Hawaiian_punch posted...

GiftedACIII posted...

Hawaiian_punch posted...

EndOfDiscOne posted...

No one ever made fun of men for crying about death or other serious issues

Uuuhhhhh

GiftedACIII posted...

She shouldve bailed on this pathetic embarrassing man long before then.

Lmao

This has nothing to do with men crying and everything to do with this idiot treating abortion like killing an actual child. If a woman was doing this theyd be equally pathetic and embarrassing.

Some insults e.g. the w-word, when women dress too skimpy, are very gender oriented.

Pathetic and embarrassing are very man-oriented in the context of weeping.

You have the most deranged takes, ROD

Youre in on this youre ROD bullshit? At this point I take it as a sign of defeat from somebody who clearly has to rely on as hominem because he cant argue his way out of a paper bag.

What is there to argue? Youre just making up nonsense from your regular delusions. I usually try to steer away from your insane meltdowns but youre the one thats been trying to instigate it for awhile.
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I think it's sad

I also think the comments are full of braindead morons
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McgeesAlice808 posted...

Shablagoo posted...

McgeesAlice808 posted...

No, theyre right. If he was prepared for a child hed already have talked it over with his partner and not throw a fit to guilt trip and beg a woman into staying pregnant when she doesnt want to be when shes already at the clinic. Hes not fit to be a father.

Or he found out about it at the last minute as she was getting ready to start the procedure. It would explain why hes so emotional.

He still should have talked about what theyd do with a pregnancy at the beginning of the relationship. If youre saying she could have lied about it, thats true. It doesnt sound like a healthy relationship regardless and definitely not an environment thats good for raising children. If this man truly wanted children and the woman doesnt then theyre incompatible and he should be looking for a woman that shares his desire.

Yeah I mean it could definitely go in any of those directions, as Vipa said we dont have enough context. I just wanted to point out that the guy might not be an asshole.

Itd be nice to see a follow-up to the video.
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The man is not being forced against their will to endure 9 months of pregnancy that alters their body forever.

Sorry dude. Not your call.
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UnfairRepresent posted...

Simple fact of biology, it's her body

When a dad abandons the child he tell the mom that "It's not mine, it came from you."
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Abortion is murder, but everything in society today pushes people towards it.

All the stars you grew up with on TV are going to encourage you to **** like rabbits even before you hit 18.

No universal healthcare, so republicans can go on about "saving babies" only to have them die slowly later due to shoddy living conditions.

Late stage capitalism ensuring that no one can afford overpriced healthcare, or anything else for that matter.

Stress on women to look a certain way and "dem babies" gonna ruin that. Every corner of society is over sexualized.

Culture that stresses instant gratification, no responsibility.

So yeah, Americans are killing their children. You guys don't need Jesus. You need Shariah Law.

McgeesAlice808 posted...

He might not be an asshole but unless youre seriously anti-abortion, no matter how you look at it hes not making himself look good.

But why? He seems more pro-having-a-child-with-this-specific-woman than anti-abortion.

It doesnt mean she should be compelled to do so, but its not baffling that he might be sad while still being pro-choice.
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I love how no matter what a man does he is the one that is wrong in these situations.

He wants the child ?- her body her choice.

He does NOT want the child ?- Take responsibility you dead beat asshole, pay your child support.
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giving birth and being pregnant are both difficult things to put a woman through if she doesn't want to be put through that. the more time that passes by, the less I see it any other way. it's getting to the point where it's an obvious black and white issue for me, like gay marriage or climate change
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@ThyCorndog

So fuck whatever the man thinks, I am sure this will not make more men less incline to even try to have children with women as the laws currently are.
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McgeesAlice808 posted...

If he wanted children he shouldve already brought it up at the beginning of a relationship

That's not something people want to hear at the start of relationships without sounding clingy.

Even if she lied about it, which is only an unlikely hypothetical,

How?

. What he did was pointless and if he lets his emotions overtake him like this it shows he has poor control over his emotions.

"I wanted to step up and be a dad." "Why did't you talk to me about this?"
They both needed to communicate this. It's an issue that affects both parties.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

ThyCorndog

So fuck whatever the man thinks, I am sure this will not make more men less incline to even try to have children with women as the laws currently are.

well having kids should be consensual. if they have an abortion even after agreeing to trying for kids, then it's a different issue. the couple will have to work those issues out together, but ultimately it's the woman's decision
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Abortions should be free in every state to be honest
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@ThyCorndog

Well what do you think about this woman having children already, this man is willing to be a father to them and he just wants to have atleast 1 child that is blood related to him and the woman aborts it.

To me that says she not only wants to deny him his own child but wants him to continue to raise some other guys spawn. That is fucked up and that is why this guy is so emotional about her not killing HIS child.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

@ThyCorndog

Well what do you think about this woman having children already, this man is willing to be a father to them and he just wants to have atleast 1 child that is blood related to him and the woman aborts it.

To me that says she not only wants to deny him his own child but wants him to continue to raise some other guys spawn. That is fucked up and that is why this guy is so emotional about her not killing HIS child.

yes it's shitty for him and his emotions are 100% justified. if I was him I would've left her because I'm in my right to do that and to seek a partner that actually wants to have a child with me. it's still her choice though. you can't force someone through a pregnancy and labor
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McgeesAlice808 posted...

Perascamin posted...

You guys act like the guy is out in the world telling women they can't get an abortion. That's not what's happening. This is just an isolated incident where he's begging his girlfriend to not take away a child that's wanted; and everyone is screaming the guy is a p.o.s for no apparent reason.

We are denying his feelings as a potential father and a human being, but it's okay I guess. Keep telling men their feelings aren't valid and shut them down when they open up.

No, they?re right. If he was prepared for a child he?d already have talked it over with his partner and not throw a fit to guilt trip and beg a woman into staying pregnant when she doesn?t want to be when she?s already at the clinic. He?s not fit to be a father.

We also don't know it's real and not just propaganda, but assuming it's real, we also don't know that he didn't sabotage any birth control method(s) for any selfish reasons.
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UnfairRepresent posted...

it's the woman's decision. Not the mans, he's not carrying the baby.

This is probably the most unintentionally callous way to look at abortion that I see from the left. "He's not carrying his son because he's physically incapable, so he should--by law--be absolutely powerless to protect his son from being brutally murdered."
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A man should not be able to force a woman to do shit with her body that she doesn't want to do. Plain and simple.
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Smashingpmkns posted...

A man should not be able to force a woman to

"not murder his child."

That's basically what you're saying.
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hope she did it
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XxKrazyChaosxX posted...

Classy coming from a blue checkmark
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Gobstoppers12 posted...

Smashingpmkns posted...

A man should not be able to force a woman to

"not murder his child."

That's basically what you're saying.

Nope, try and read better next time.
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XxKrazyChaosxX posted...

Wow. Did he think that was funny?
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