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_Lyonidias
11/26/18 11:32:45 PM
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i can never keep friends online for ??? reasons and i struggle to make friends irl because Im quiet and introverted and probably not interesting or relatable to others

smh Im pretty sure I was like dropped off from Mars or some shit because I dont deal with people well at all and they dont like me ._.

yay for antidepressants and becoming increasingly more comfortable with my own solitude

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Reis
11/26/18 11:33:05 PM
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someone somewhere likes u TC
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Delta_Force
11/26/18 11:34:58 PM
#3:


What do you mean?
It's perfect. If they don't like/love you, they might just FEAR you!

MWAAHAHAHAHA!
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smoliske
11/26/18 11:35:02 PM
#4:


stay strong

big things ahead
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Ryuko_Chan
11/26/18 11:35:31 PM
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Reis posted...
someone somewhere likes u TC

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Paper_Okami
11/26/18 11:35:54 PM
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i've been getting involved in a social activist organizations heavily over the last year or so

and have formed some decent relationships and made a lot of people

but i don't know how to turn it into friendships

why am i so bad at this i had so many friends in college somehow
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DanAnsumHandsom
11/26/18 11:35:57 PM
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It sucks when you need people to like you to be happy*

Fixed that for you
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smoliske
11/26/18 11:36:16 PM
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Goats posted...
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you ghosted everyone and deleted your discord server which was going really well jinx


she didn't delete the server, she deleted her account. that was just collateral damage
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Ryetoast
11/26/18 11:36:24 PM
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I like u D:
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Cornmuffins
11/26/18 11:36:44 PM
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Women are from Venus, not Mars. Can't you get anything right?
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ssj3vegeta2
11/26/18 11:37:51 PM
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smoliske
11/26/18 11:39:15 PM
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ssj3vegeta2 posted...
I thought you had a boyfriend doe


you need friends outside of a relationship
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_Lyonidias
11/26/18 11:39:57 PM
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Paper_Okami posted...
i've been getting involved in a social activist organizations heavily over the last year or so

and have formed some decent relationships and made a lot of people

but i don't know how to turn it into friendships

why am i so bad at this i had so many friends in college somehow


I had none in college. I should probably get involved with the community as much as I am able to though, just to give back.

Ryetoast posted...
I like u D:


Idk y but thanks
Youre neato peato

Cornmuffins posted...
Women are from Venus, not Mars. Can't you get anything right?


No, I cant lol.
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Ryuko_Chan
11/26/18 11:40:38 PM
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if you ghosted people thats on you honestly.

Are you one of those people that do the yeah I push people away so then I can see if they REALLY care about me people? Cuz those people are annoying and a chore to talk to.
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ssj3vegeta2
11/26/18 11:41:04 PM
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Ryetoast
11/26/18 11:45:13 PM
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_Lyonidias posted...
Idk y but thanks
Youre neato peato


Seem genuine.
Always considerate of people's image, and have confidence in other people.
Dedicated to your career as a nurse.
Studious, and not a vapid air head.

Idk important qualities to me. Just have to have trust in yourself like you do others :D.
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Darkrobotisback
11/26/18 11:45:52 PM
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Stop shit posting and people will like you again
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ImTheMacheteGuy
11/26/18 11:49:58 PM
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Well you are okay in my book. I get where you're coming from but I'm inclined to think that to a degree, it's in your head. I struggle in the same ways and I'm also introverted. I'm unrelatable, but I feel like a lot of that is my perception... like I'm not that unrelatable. I just assume I am but maybe people relate to me more than I realize, but when I actually let myself go and have the energy to mingle and try, people flock to me and I don't fucking get. I chalk it up to being wasted and having that wasted charisma, but I run into the same folks later at times and I'm like "oh god what dumb shit did I do when I was fucked up that I'm about to be made fun of for" and then they talk to me like I'm one of the gang and I'm all awkward and like "ha yeah, cool shit." but in the back of my head, I don't know if I'm being 100% accepted or 100% fucked with. It always leans to the former. Seems like they are never fucking with me. They're always just cool with me. I don't know how to deal with that though because I don't feel like I have shit in common.

That's just me venting, but I do feel like this is maybe something you can relate to and if so, I want to offer my own experience as best I can and I'm always looking for any insight that I might be able to find relevance with in exchange.

Just don't give up though. I've got over a decade on you and I probably wouldn't have had the nerve to post a topic like this here a decade ago on account of not wanting to show any sense of vulnerability. I would have just stuck to my usual drunken shtick. There's no such thing as being too old to be misunderstood. There's no such thing as being too old to misunderstand.

Don't get too discouraged. I say that as someone intimate with discouragement. CE is easy mode lol :P. You have plenty in your corner and obviously smoliske too, which goes without saying, but just don't feel like he's the only one that has your back.
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brestugo
11/27/18 12:05:04 AM
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Join a club for people with similar interests.
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SomeLikeItHoth
11/27/18 12:07:32 AM
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Learn to love yourself first otherwise you'll be alone forever.

ssj3vegeta2 posted...
Introduce her to your friends den

Doubt he has any as well.
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KogaSteelfang
11/27/18 12:13:50 AM
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I know the feeling.
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powerman1426
11/27/18 12:16:49 AM
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You seem ok to me. Nothing wrong with being an introvert, just try not to turn into a shut in lol.
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MC_BatCommander
11/27/18 12:18:21 AM
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improving your personality might help

I don't mean that in an insulting way btw, it takes a lot of work to improve yourself and I wish you luck if you attempt to
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Ivynn
11/27/18 12:19:12 AM
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Friends are overrated, a man is defined by his enemies.
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DocDelicious
11/27/18 12:20:11 AM
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DanAnsumHandsom posted...
It sucks when you need people to like you to be happy*

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ImTheMacheteGuy
11/27/18 12:25:08 AM
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a few good things here... but a bunch of bullshit... Makes sense

I feel like this was overlooked
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catboy0_0
11/27/18 12:27:23 AM
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I like you as a poster. You seem alright to me.
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SpiralDrift
11/27/18 12:32:47 AM
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I used to be the angst lord in my online social circles. Eventually I realized what I was doing wrong... I was only talking to people because I wanted something from them emotionally, not because I was interested in their thoughts and ideas, etc. I think that's only human, but finally I realized the best friendships are the ones where you don't need something from the other person but you know you can learn something from your different experiences. You don't even have to like them. Some of my best friendships even started with arguments.

You have to ask yourself what you want from other people. Do you just want them to think you're cool and awesome and attractive or do you want to actually know them?
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GameboyTroy
11/27/18 12:57:54 AM
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@_Lyonidias You had no friends in college?
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ImTheMacheteGuy
11/27/18 1:18:55 AM
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I feel like you had to deal with fucking annoying >_<
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catboy0_0
11/27/18 1:20:58 AM
#32:


"it sucks when no one likes u"

it definitely does
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Kaiganeer
11/27/18 1:21:23 AM
#33:


you seem pretty exhausting to deal with, so maybe work on that
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Oldin
11/27/18 1:32:53 AM
#34:


smoliske posted...
stay strong

big things ahead

i imagine it'd be ur penis
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SomeLikeItHoth
11/27/18 2:14:35 AM
#35:


Kaiganeer posted...
you seem pretty exhausting to deal with, so maybe work on that

Yeah. No one likes a constant complainer. If no one likes you, it's not societies fault, it's your own.
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inloveanddeath0
11/27/18 2:17:11 AM
#36:


You come off as aggressive at times, otherwise I don't assumingly see why not
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Galcian
11/27/18 2:24:49 AM
#37:


it sucks when no one likes u

yep
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AngelSeven
11/27/18 3:07:36 AM
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@Goats posted...
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you ghosted everyone and deleted your discord server which was going really well jinx

It's jynx.
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_Lyonidias
11/27/18 3:45:12 AM
#39:


Ryetoast posted...
_Lyonidias posted...
Idk y but thanks
Youre neato peato


Seem genuine.
Always considerate of people's image, and have confidence in other people.
Dedicated to your career as a nurse.
Studious, and not a vapid air head.

Idk important qualities to me. Just have to have trust in yourself like you do others :D.


Thank you.

I appreciate the feedback ITT. I really do want to get to know people, honestly Im kinda dead inside so I dont really need to put my own emotions first in a friendship.

Kaiganeer posted...
you seem pretty exhausting to deal with, so maybe work on that


Howso? I try to avoid people so I dont waste their time and energy so...
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_Lyonidias
11/27/18 6:11:20 AM
#40:


bleh like I mean people here wont even forgive me for my mistakes

Ive tried really hard but people just keep shitting all over me no matter what I say or do

I give up
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TwoDoorPunkCab
11/27/18 6:16:35 AM
#41:


a lifetime of being bullied and ghosted has made me learn to be comfortable alone. i have like two friends i see occasionally and i have no plans to expand that circle. friends just aren't with the time or effort
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catboy0_0
11/27/18 6:17:28 AM
#42:


learn to enjoy solitude. that's how I've come to terms with it
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SpiralDrift
11/27/18 6:19:01 AM
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_Lyonidias posted...
bleh like I mean people here wont even forgive me for my mistakes

Ive tried really hard but people just keep shitting all over me no matter what I say or do

I give up

Yeah but people here literally keep spreadsheets of other users' offenses going back literally 10+ years. I don't think you should take it personally, like at all.
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V-E-G-Y-
11/27/18 6:27:31 AM
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Because you're all over da place, first you claim you don't care and think all dis is funny and den you're here making vague topics about why ce doesn't forgive you like you actually care and are sad about it now lol

Just stick to one and work on dat tbh
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_Lyonidias
11/27/18 6:30:39 AM
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SpiralDrift posted...
_Lyonidias posted...
bleh like I mean people here wont even forgive me for my mistakes

Ive tried really hard but people just keep shitting all over me no matter what I say or do

I give up

Yeah but people here literally keep spreadsheets of other users' offenses going back literally 10+ years. I don't think you should take it personally, like at all.


.....yeaaaah, true. :/

TwoDoorPunkCab posted...
a lifetime of being bullied and ghosted has made me learn to be comfortable alone. i have like two friends i see occasionally and i have no plans to expand that circle. friends just aren't with the time or effort


Oh yeah Ive been bullied and abused and ghosted my whole life. It fucking sucks.
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CyricZ
11/27/18 6:59:20 AM
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*hug*

If you ever want to talk, I'm here. I know about solitude. I know about avoiding people, and I also know about turning around from that.
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Kaiganeer
11/27/18 7:00:16 AM
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_Lyonidias posted...
Howso?

have someone read your posts on CE out loud and you'll figure it out
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_Lyonidias
11/27/18 7:10:01 AM
#48:


CyricZ posted...
*hug*

If you ever want to talk, I'm here. I know about solitude. I know about avoiding people, and I also know about turning around from that.


Thank you. I genuinely appreciate it.

Kaiganeer posted...
_Lyonidias posted...
Howso?

have someone read your posts on CE out loud and you'll figure it out


Flaming. Helpful.
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SSJCAT
11/27/18 7:11:48 AM
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i think youre ok :3
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Kaiganeer
11/27/18 7:14:59 AM
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_Lyonidias posted...
Flaming. Helpful.

nope, legit advice to help you understand why you seem exhausting to deal with
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