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PlsGodDontBanMe
11/28/18 10:38:06 AM
#102:


Oh are we on the wahhh everyone hates me part of jos Bitching Tour again?

Hilarious
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_Lyonidias
11/28/18 10:38:54 AM
#103:


PlsGodDontBanMe posted...
Oh are we on the wahhh everyone hates me part of jos Bitching Tour again?

Hilarious


If you don't like it then just put me on ignore and quit antagonizing me.

And people don't like me sooooooooo
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:40:17 AM
#104:


I don't see anything wrong with what you're doing, tbh. but then again I'm a socially tone def mentally ill person
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_Lyonidias
11/28/18 10:40:42 AM
#105:


catboy0_0 posted...
I don't see anything wrong with what you're doing, tbh. but then again I'm a socially tone def mentally ill person


I am too so we're in the same boat there :/
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:41:11 AM
#106:


I have been going through what you are going through now and it's nasty and it's hateful and it's bitterness and there's no forgiveness where there ought to be
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:42:10 AM
#108:


JustMyOpinion posted...
_Lyonidias posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
Maybe people would like you more if you didn't make negative comments daily about you and your life.


it would be even nicer if my life wasn't shitty lmao


A positive attitude would probably help with that.

see but that's the thing. a positive attitude DOESN'T help
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_Lyonidias
11/28/18 10:43:44 AM
#109:


catboy0_0 posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
_Lyonidias posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
Maybe people would like you more if you didn't make negative comments daily about you and your life.


it would be even nicer if my life wasn't shitty lmao


A positive attitude would probably help with that.

see but that's the thing. a positive attitude DOESN'T help


Yeah a positive attitude isnt gonna stop people from being abusive towards me, isnt going to take my depression away, isnt going to make my job easier, isnt going to get me my own place away from abusive people, etc

But I gotta : ) stay :) positive!1! : )))))
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:44:18 AM
#110:


it's like a light was snuffed by outsiders and the outsiders have the means to make fire again and they tell you to make your own fire but you don't have the tools
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_Lyonidias
11/28/18 10:45:06 AM
#111:


catboy0_0 posted...
it's like a light was snuffed by outsiders and the outsiders have the means to make fire again and they tell you to make your own fire but you don't have the tools


Pretty much. Thats actually a very good way of putting what Im dealing with.
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:45:31 AM
#112:


I only know because what you say rings true with me
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:46:35 AM
#113:


is this the curse of being pan? or is it something else?
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PlsGodDontBanMe
11/28/18 10:46:49 AM
#114:


_Lyonidias posted...
PlsGodDontBanMe posted...
Oh are we on the wahhh everyone hates me part of jos Bitching Tour again?

Hilarious


If you don't like it then just put me on ignore and quit antagonizing me.

And people don't like me sooooooooo


Nah, id rather laugh more at you until you Maybe Realize that a bunch of people tried to help you and you decided to push them all away while dating an extremely toxic piece of shit.

People dont like you because you took everyones advice that gave a shit about you, threw it into the trash, and then cried when those same people finally told you to fuck off. You dont change, you dont want peoples advice, you want people to pity and feel sorry for you.

You lie, you backstab people, you push everyone that may have cared about you away, then turn around and cry that no one cares or that you have zero friends, all the while you date an emotionally manipulative piece of human garbage that multiple, multiple people have tried to tell you about. And whats peoples reward for that? You ignore them, dont take their advice, and try to garner more sympathy from people who either dont know your situation or people who just are just to pity you.

You actually dont want friends who care, you want people who will pity you. You had friends who cared until you pushed those people away because they told you a bunch of hard truths that you didnt want to hear.
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_Lyonidias
11/28/18 10:47:19 AM
#115:


catboy0_0 posted...
is this the curse of being pan? or is it something else?


no its being super depressed and having no one since like age 13 and being a goddamn shut in with no one to help them develop mental wellness
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_Lyonidias
11/28/18 10:48:47 AM
#116:


PlsGodDontBanMe posted...
_Lyonidias posted...
PlsGodDontBanMe posted...
Oh are we on the wahhh everyone hates me part of jos Bitching Tour again?

Hilarious


If you don't like it then just put me on ignore and quit antagonizing me.

And people don't like me sooooooooo


Nah, id rather laugh more at you until you Maybe Realize that a bunch of people tried to help you and you decided to push them all away while dating an extremely toxic piece of shit.

People dont like you because you took everyones advice that gave a shit about you, threw it into the trash, and then cried when those same people finally told you to fuck off. You dont change, you dont want peoples advice, you want people to pity and feel sorry for you.

You lie, you backstab people, you push everyone that may have cared about you away, then turn around and cry that no one cares or that you have zero friends, all the while you date an emotionally manipulative piece of human garbage that multiple, multiple people have tried to tell you about. And whats peoples reward for that? You ignore them, dont take their advice, and try to garner more sympathy from people who either dont know your situation or people who just are just to pity you.

You actually dont want friends who care, you want people who will pity you. You had friends who cared until you pushed those people away because they told you a bunch of hard truths that you didnt want to hear.


What friends?

Seriously, Im still curious as to who all these wonderful friends were when they were the ones who backstabbed me for talking to someone they didnt like.
I never pushed anyone away.
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:49:17 AM
#118:


_Lyonidias posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
is this the curse of being pan? or is it something else?


no its being super depressed and having no one since like age 13 and being a goddamn shut in with no one to help them develop mental wellness

our problems are very similar in nature
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:51:06 AM
#120:


JustMyOpinion posted...
_Lyonidias posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
_Lyonidias posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
Maybe people would like you more if you didn't make negative comments daily about you and your life.


it would be even nicer if my life wasn't shitty lmao


A positive attitude would probably help with that.

see but that's the thing. a positive attitude DOESN'T help


Yeah a positive attitude isnt gonna stop people from being abusive towards me, isnt going to take my depression away, isnt going to make my job easier, isnt going to get me my own place away from abusive people, etc

But I gotta : ) stay :) positive!1! : )))))


No one said it was gonna be a cure all. I just said it would help. But if you wanna wallow in your pity when legit suggestions are brought up then I guess that says something about you.

wrong. guys like you outline the negative
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CyricZ
11/28/18 10:53:14 AM
#122:


PlsGodDontBanMe posted...

Okay you need to stop.
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:53:40 AM
#123:


see? will you guys stop with the whole "it's on you" bs? it's selfish and speaks more about your intentions than the other way around
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_Lyonidias
11/28/18 10:55:00 AM
#125:


JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
see? will you guys stop with the whole "it's on you" bs? it's selfish and speaks more about your intentions than the other way around


It is on you to do something other than say "Well this won't instantly solve all my problems so it's a dumb idea".


Except I have? And actually listened to ACTUAL advice instead of gaslighting attempts?
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:55:22 AM
#126:


JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
see? will you guys stop with the whole "it's on you" bs? it's selfish and speaks more about your intentions than the other way around


It is on you to do something other than say "Well this won't instantly solve all my problems so it's a dumb idea".

the way you come across carries weight. if you want to add to the weight of a person's problems you don't take care how you say things
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PlsGodDontBanMe
11/28/18 10:56:03 AM
#127:


CyricZ posted...
PlsGodDontBanMe posted...

Okay you need to stop.


Nah, id rather laugh more.

Youre welcome to white knight and kiss her ass more, thatl definitely help (it certainly wont)
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:56:29 AM
#128:


why are people on CE so fucking ugh. I don't get it
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_Lyonidias
11/28/18 10:57:06 AM
#129:


PlsGodDontBanMe posted...
CyricZ posted...
PlsGodDontBanMe posted...

Okay you need to stop.


Nah, id rather laugh more.

Youre welcome to white knight and kiss her ass more, thatl definitely help (it certainly wont)


He isnt ass kissing. At all.
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 10:58:00 AM
#131:


JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
see? will you guys stop with the whole "it's on you" bs? it's selfish and speaks more about your intentions than the other way around


It is on you to do something other than say "Well this won't instantly solve all my problems so it's a dumb idea".

the way you come across carries weight. if you want to add to the weight of a person's problems you don't take care how you say things


If you just want to find every excuse to do nothing and wallow in your pity no one's stopping you. No need to point the finger at others for your lack of initiative.

this sort of approach does nothing but alienate the person you're talking to
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CyricZ
11/28/18 11:01:59 AM
#133:


PlsGodDontBanMe posted...
CyricZ posted...
PlsGodDontBanMe posted...

Okay you need to stop.


Nah, id rather laugh more.

Youre welcome to white knight and kiss her ass more, thatl definitely help (it certainly wont)

In the end, there are basically two types of people with self-esteem issues.

Those who put it all on themselves.

Those who put it all on others.

You're clearly falling in the latter court for that. You see the people in this topic taking their down feelings and lumping it on themselves and you see the opportunity to add to that to push away your own down feelings. You're counting on them taking those down feelings so you don't have to anymore, and it's sick. It's abusive. It's predatory.

I don't have experience dealing with what you're going through, but I do have experience dealing with what they're going through. I'll thank you to leave them be rather than make things worse, and I honestly can't stop you if you say no. If you say you need this to feel better about yourself. All I can do is mark you and call you out on it.

This is not healthy. For you or for them. Please realize that.
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 11:02:28 AM
#134:


JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
see? will you guys stop with the whole "it's on you" bs? it's selfish and speaks more about your intentions than the other way around


It is on you to do something other than say "Well this won't instantly solve all my problems so it's a dumb idea".

the way you come across carries weight. if you want to add to the weight of a person's problems you don't take care how you say things


If you just want to find every excuse to do nothing and wallow in your pity no one's stopping you. No need to point the finger at others for your lack of initiative.

this sort of approach does nothing but alienate the person you're talking to


Fine with me. You don't wanna do anything but be miserable and blame others. Why would I not want to alienate that?

if it's fine by you why are you even talking to the person? let someone with a little more tact and empathy deal with it instead of your self righteous ass
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Caution999
11/28/18 11:03:06 AM
#135:


I feel like this has less to do with the people on here than it has to do with how unsatisfied you're at in your personal life (where you live and who you live with).

Nobody is going to hate you more than they hate me, and you've had plenty of users, in this very topic, say they like you or something to that effect. Yeah, there's some individuals on here who crush people while they're down, but it seems like you could focus on the people who are propping you up instead.

For me, I've had to fall on my face about 4-5 times now with my recent controversy. When I finally realized the other day that I need to be more personable. Less stuck up. Less standoffish. Less snobbish.

Took me more than one mental breakdown to figure that out. Don't be like me.
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 11:04:16 AM
#136:


Caution999 posted...
I feel like this has less to do with the people on here than it has to do with how unsatisfied you're at in your personal life (where you live and who you live with).

Nobody is going to hate you more than they hate me, and you've had plenty of users, in this very topic, say they like you or something to that effect. Yeah, there's some individuals on here who crush people while they're down, but it seems like you could focus on the people who are propping you up instead.

For me, I've had to fall on my face about 4-5 times now with my recent controversy. When I finally realized the other day that I need to be more personable. Less stuck up. Less standoffish. Less snobbish.

Took me more than one mental breakdown to figure that out. Don't be like me.

thanks for your input. it's already too late for her to put the genie back in the bottle
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 11:05:49 AM
#138:


actually no. I started this conversation because sharks like you can't help but bite your teeth into hurting people
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_Lyonidias
11/28/18 11:07:05 AM
#140:


catboy0_0 posted...
Caution999 posted...
I feel like this has less to do with the people on here than it has to do with how unsatisfied you're at in your personal life (where you live and who you live with).

Nobody is going to hate you more than they hate me, and you've had plenty of users, in this very topic, say they like you or something to that effect. Yeah, there's some individuals on here who crush people while they're down, but it seems like you could focus on the people who are propping you up instead.

For me, I've had to fall on my face about 4-5 times now with my recent controversy. When I finally realized the other day that I need to be more personable. Less stuck up. Less standoffish. Less snobbish.

Took me more than one mental breakdown to figure that out. Don't be like me.

thanks for your input. it's already too late for her to put the genie back in the bottle


Yeaaaah it is :/

And lol @ personal responsibility.
I guess people who are physically disabled need to be responsible for their disabilities too?
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 11:07:33 AM
#141:


JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
actually no. I started this conversation because sharks like you can't help but bite your teeth into hurting people


Right. Saying a positive atittude might help is such a hurtful statement.

it's obvious you're being tone deaf
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CyricZ
11/28/18 11:08:16 AM
#142:


There's always a way out. Life will welcome you back.

If you guys need someone to vent to, you can come to me. If you guys need some positivity, you can come to me. I won't tell you to be positive. What I can do is give you my own positive feelings. I'll give you funny videos, cute cat pictures. I can send you pieces from YT that make you think about things like literature and film. Heck, you can proofread my guides for me and make sure they make sense if you need something to do to keep your mind busy. :)

I've been there. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Sometimes it's best just to stay out of your own head.
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 11:08:46 AM
#143:


CyricZ posted...
There's always a way out. Life will welcome you back.

If you guys need someone to vent to, you can come to me. If you guys need some positivity, you can come to me. I won't tell you to be positive. What I can do is give you my own positive feelings. I'll give you funny videos, cute cat pictures. I can send you pieces from YT that make you think about things like literature and film. Heck, you can proofread my guides for me and make sure they make sense if you need something to do to keep your mind busy. :)

I've been there. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Sometimes it's best just to stay out of your own head.

oh okay *snickers*
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_Lyonidias
11/28/18 11:09:44 AM
#145:


CyricZ posted...
There's always a way out. Life will welcome you back.

If you guys need someone to vent to, you can come to me. If you guys need some positivity, you can come to me. I won't tell you to be positive. What I can do is give you my own positive feelings. I'll give you funny videos, cute cat pictures. I can send you pieces from YT that make you think about things like literature and film. Heck, you can proofread my guides for me and make sure they make sense if you need something to do to keep your mind busy. :)

I've been there. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Sometimes it's best just to stay out of your own head.


I appreciate it dude.
I agree about staying out of my own head being a good idea. Should probs try to focus on something like my schoolwork to get my mind off of things.
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CyricZ
11/28/18 11:10:16 AM
#146:


It's my offer. I can't make you take it. I can only offer.

And I won't give up on you guys. :)
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catboy0_0
11/28/18 11:10:31 AM
#147:


JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
actually no. I started this conversation because sharks like you can't help but bite your teeth into hurting people


Right. Saying a positive atittude might help is such a hurtful statement.

it's obvious you're being tone deaf


It's obvious you don't want to do anything but blame others and then you lash out at them when they don't coddle you.

there's a difference between breaking a person's spirit and coddling. oh wait, there's no inbetween!
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smoliske
11/28/18 11:11:00 AM
#148:


JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
actually no. I started this conversation because sharks like you can't help but bite your teeth into hurting people


Right. Saying a positive atittude might help is such a hurtful statement.

it's obvious you're being tone deaf


It's obvious you don't want to do anything but blame others and then you lash out at them when they don't coddle you.


What is the benefit of continuing to double down when people have rejected your advice? What purpose does it serve here?
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CyricZ
11/28/18 11:11:18 AM
#149:


_Lyonidias posted...
Should probs try to focus on something like my schoolwork to get my mind off of things.

Do you have people in the same classes as you? People you can study with? I get the idea that schoolwork is probably the most important thing right now and I've always found it helped me to get involved with others for study sessions.
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_Lyonidias
11/28/18 11:12:13 AM
#151:


CyricZ posted...
_Lyonidias posted...
Should probs try to focus on something like my schoolwork to get my mind off of things.

Do you have people in the same classes as you? People you can study with? I get the idea that schoolwork is probably the most important thing right now and I've always found it helped me to get involved with others for study sessions.


Most of it is long distance/online education so its a bit harder to actually meet with others to study unfortunately
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