Poll of the Day > Would a 21 year old college student not date me cause Im 28

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iliveforlife
05/14/18 9:21:17 AM
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Is that too much of a difference? I have a career and she is not even graduated.
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Kyuubi4269
05/14/18 9:23:53 AM
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Well technically a 13 year old would date a 40 year old, doesn't make it okay or normal.

Take a shot if you really want but it's less likely than a closer gap.
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LinkPizza
05/14/18 9:28:07 AM
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Maybe. I don't see why not...
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BlueScum
05/14/18 9:31:24 AM
#5:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
Well technically a 13 year old would date a 40 year old, doesn't make it okay or normal.


Holy false equivalence Batman
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Xfma100
05/14/18 9:33:09 AM
#6:


You are both legal adults so do whatever you want.

I say go for it because the difference is less than 10 years.
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iliveforlife
05/14/18 11:20:29 AM
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Yeah but would a girl be creeped out by this age dif is my question.
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pedro45
05/14/18 11:24:22 AM
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If age matters, then it is clearly not meant to be.
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FinalFantasyVII
05/14/18 11:25:51 AM
#9:


half your age + 7 years

she's right in your decency range!
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SunWuKung420
05/14/18 11:26:02 AM
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Depends on the woman.
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Steven010702
05/14/18 11:31:35 AM
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FinalFantasyVII posted...
half your age + 7 years

she's right in your decency range!

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TheCyborgNinja
05/14/18 11:43:15 AM
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You're both adults and the gap isn't that ridiculous. It's not like you're 40 or something.
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wwinterj25
05/14/18 11:56:30 AM
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iliveforlife posted...
Is that too much of a difference?


That's down to the individuals preference.
My own view? If it's legal it's ok.
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Zareth
05/14/18 11:58:53 AM
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It has nothing to do with your age dude.
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Smarkil
05/14/18 12:01:15 PM
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Personally I won't go below 25 at this point. I'm currently 29.
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wolfy42
05/14/18 12:06:17 PM
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There are 21 year old college students who date 40+ year old guys all the time, and tons of em date guys in their 30's.

That being said, a few do turn away from guys in their late 20's or will just casually date them but nothing serious. A friend of mine dated a girl like that (she was 21 he was 29), and she often commented negativelyabout his age before they broke up.

Another friend of mine doesn't tell anyone his real age to avoid that lol (seriously it's like a secret he has kept from everyone for years...maybe he's a vampire).
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wwinterj25
05/14/18 12:15:19 PM
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wolfy42 posted...
There are 21 year old college students who date 40+ year old guys all the time, and tons of em date guys in their 30's.


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MICHALECOLE
05/14/18 1:05:49 PM
#18:


I dated this girl who was 29 when I was 17

And by dated I mean we fucked a bunch of times and I would sleep over at her house.
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Kyuubi4269
05/14/18 1:16:14 PM
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BlueScum posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Well technically a 13 year old would date a 40 year old, doesn't make it okay or normal.


Holy false equivalence Batman

Really isn't. People have their own boundaries of who they will or won't date, regardless of public or legal perception. We can't really say if a younger person is or is not interested/disgusted by the proposition, we can only suggest general consensus safe ground like the arbitrary age/2+7 rule.
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dioxxys
05/14/18 1:27:20 PM
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wolfy42 posted...
There are 21 year old college students who date 40+ year old guys all the time, and tons of em date guys in their 30's.

That being said, a few do turn away from guys in their late 20's or will just casually date them but nothing serious. A friend of mine dated a girl like that (she was 21 he was 29), and she often commented negativelyabout his age before they broke up.

Another friend of mine doesn't tell anyone his real age to avoid that lol (seriously it's like a secret he has kept from everyone for years...maybe he's a vampire).

This is good advice TC.

Sure you might get girls here and there that wont date you despite what you look like and will judge you based on the number of your age alone, but then they arent for you.

I have been afflicted by this problem all my life, well in the opposite way as well.
When I was 18 a good number of women were worried I was 13. Now that Im 27 (both still physically and mentally immature) and my own mother finds it odd I want to date people up to seven years younger then me (though shes missing out as she herself wouldnt break her petty age gap rule for a guy who really like her, shes 50 and and guy was 40). I want to date people that are close to my mental age, not physical age (though this is easier since my physical age doesnt reflect my actual age).
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Golden Road
05/14/18 1:36:46 PM
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Some 21-year-old college students would not want to date you, but a lot would. It's really not that big of a difference. No reason you shouldn't go for it, at least based on that alone.
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Muffinz0rz
05/14/18 1:53:22 PM
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Yeah no harm in at least trying.
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Veedrock-
05/14/18 1:57:47 PM
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Chicks dig older guys.
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xjayguyx
05/15/18 8:46:12 AM
#24:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
Well technically a 13 year old would date a 40 year old, doesn't make it okay or normal.

Take a shot if you really want but it's less likely than a closer gap.


Dumb ass..
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SKARDAVNELNATE
05/15/18 11:45:14 PM
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Ask the individual in question. No one here is qualified to answer on their behalf.
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DarkProto05
05/15/18 11:58:18 PM
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Veedrock- posted...
Chicks dig older guys.

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shadowsword87
05/16/18 12:00:01 AM
#27:


SKARDAVNELNATE posted...
Ask the individual in question. No one here is qualified to answer on their behalf.


Can you imagine following this advice as closely as possible.

"I HEARD THAT WOMEN LIKE OLDER MEN, THAT MEANS YOU LIKE ME NOW"
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iCurious
05/16/18 12:04:36 AM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
BlueScum posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Well technically a 13 year old would date a 40 year old, doesn't make it okay or normal.


Holy false equivalence Batman

Really isn't. People have their own boundaries of who they will or won't date, regardless of public or legal perception. We can't really say if a younger person is or is not interested/disgusted by the proposition, we can only suggest general consensus safe ground like the arbitrary age/2+7 rule.

What the fuck. One is legal the other isn't. One is 7 years apart the other is 27 years apart.

Your comparison is exceedingly unreasonable, and falls well outside the boundaries of most people living today.
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SKARDAVNELNATE
05/16/18 12:08:58 AM
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shadowsword87 posted...
SKARDAVNELNATE posted...
Ask the individual in question. No one here is qualified to answer on their behalf.

Can you imagine following this advice as closely as possible.
"I HEARD THAT WOMEN LIKE OLDER MEN, THAT MEANS YOU LIKE ME NOW"

I don't think that's following this advice at all.
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Lil69Leo
05/16/18 2:05:53 AM
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She's not interested clearly.
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Ivany2008
05/16/18 2:50:43 AM
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When I was 27, I dated a 20 year old. My buddy, at age 28 dated a 19 year old. As the old saying goes: If there's grass on the field then I'm ready to play ball..... wait... that came out wrong....
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Kollin6618
05/16/18 3:18:25 AM
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Different time period but my parents started dating when she was 22 and he was 29 and they've been married over 35 years.
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RoboXgp89
05/16/18 6:23:05 AM
#33:


marriage is a crap shoot
a woman will leave on a whim either way
language barriers and an age difference don't help and punish the kids usually
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mastermix3000
05/16/18 7:13:14 AM
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SKARDAVNELNATE posted...
shadowsword87 posted...
SKARDAVNELNATE posted...
Ask the individual in question. No one here is qualified to answer on their behalf.

Can you imagine following this advice as closely as possible.
"I HEARD THAT WOMEN LIKE OLDER MEN, THAT MEANS YOU LIKE ME NOW"

I don't think that's following this advice at all.



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OutFromUndr
05/16/18 8:10:08 AM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
BlueScum posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Well technically a 13 year old would date a 40 year old, doesn't make it okay or normal.


Holy false equivalence Batman

Really isn't. People have their own boundaries of who they will or won't date, regardless of public or legal perception. We can't really say if a younger person is or is not interested/disgusted by the proposition, we can only suggest general consensus safe ground like the arbitrary age/2+7 rule.

Damn dude that's incredibly creepy.
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Kyuubi4269
05/16/18 9:31:04 AM
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iCurious posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
BlueScum posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Well technically a 13 year old would date a 40 year old, doesn't make it okay or normal.


Holy false equivalence Batman

Really isn't. People have their own boundaries of who they will or won't date, regardless of public or legal perception. We can't really say if a younger person is or is not interested/disgusted by the proposition, we can only suggest general consensus safe ground like the arbitrary age/2+7 rule.

What the fuck. One is legal the other isn't. One is 7 years apart the other is 27 years apart.

Your comparison is exceedingly unreasonable, and falls well outside the boundaries of most people living today.

My comparison is solid as people have and will do illegal and massive age gap relationships willingly, so it's not unreasonable to expect a smaller, legal gap to be accepted. There are people however who are uninterested if there's a year's gap.

It's idiotic to assume something you want won't happen because of an arbitrary boundary you made up in your own head.
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Kyuubi4269
05/16/18 9:32:40 AM
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OutFromUndr posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
BlueScum posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Well technically a 13 year old would date a 40 year old, doesn't make it okay or normal.


Holy false equivalence Batman

Really isn't. People have their own boundaries of who they will or won't date, regardless of public or legal perception. We can't really say if a younger person is or is not interested/disgusted by the proposition, we can only suggest general consensus safe ground like the arbitrary age/2+7 rule.

Damn dude that's incredibly creepy.

It's statistical. idgaf what he does with whoever and any input besides this in this topic is merely anecdotal and subjective.
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DeathMagnetic80
05/16/18 1:46:42 PM
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Depends on the gal. Before I met my wife, I dated a 22 year old for a bit when I was 33.
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Revelation34
05/16/18 2:58:55 PM
#39:


MICHALECOLE posted...
I dated this girl who was 29 when I was 17

And by dated I mean we fucked a bunch of times and I would sleep over at her house.


Don't tell the mods you enjoyed it or else they'll ban you for supporting statutory rape.

Kyuubi4269 posted...

My comparison is solid as people have and will do illegal and massive age gap relationships willingly, so it's not unreasonable to expect a smaller, legal gap to be accepted. There are people however who are uninterested if there's a year's gap.

It's idiotic to assume something you want won't happen because of an arbitrary boundary you made up in your own head.


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Monopoman
05/16/18 3:52:42 PM
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It really depends on the person in question, some 21 year olds would think a 28 year old is ancient some would happily date a guy even older like late 30's or early 40's.

It's usually more accepted for girls to date older men though then the other way around since they say maturity and responsibility comes faster for females vs. males.
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CarefreeDude
05/16/18 3:56:19 PM
#41:


I dated women in their mid 30s when I was 19, so why not?
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