Poll of the Day > If you found out your SO was an ex-porn star, how would you react?

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TheCyborgNinja
03/11/18 6:51:11 PM
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I don't think I'd take it great, personally, but it'd depend on how long we'd been together and how I found out as to how I'd react. Past a certain point, I am pretty sure I wouldn't be insecure or repulsed by it as long as it was over and done with before we met.
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SmokeMassTree
03/11/18 6:56:53 PM
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That would activate my trust issues and I'd have to end the relationship.

Not the porn thing, the not telling me thing.

I think I could date a current porn star with the caveat of me getting to bang as many people as she does.
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TheCyborgNinja
03/11/18 7:35:24 PM
#3:


SmokeMassTree posted...
That would activate my trust issues and I'd have to end the relationship.

Not the porn thing, the not telling me thing.

Yeah, that's a good point. I'd look at it from two sides though: her possibly wanting a normal life and fearing it'd ruin that versus the trust stuff.
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OhhhJa
03/11/18 7:36:24 PM
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Tough choice but I don't know if I could be with someone who disconnected sex from love to that degree
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BlackScythe0
03/11/18 8:49:34 PM
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keyblader1985
03/11/18 8:56:41 PM
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I'd wonder when I got a SO.
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Zeus
03/11/18 8:59:51 PM
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idk, might depend on the porn and how famous she was. I might want to suspend the relationship for extensive STD checks, though.
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xjayguyx
03/11/18 9:09:15 PM
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No one here would get a porn star lol.
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Zeus
03/11/18 9:13:13 PM
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xjayguyx posted...
No one here would get a porn star lol.


...he says forgetting how many girls have brief careers in porn.
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BlackScythe0
03/11/18 9:14:21 PM
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Zeus posted...
xjayguyx posted...
No one here would get a porn star lol.


...he says forgetting how many girls have brief careers in porn.


Yea, porn careers have a wide variety of levels.
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Mead
03/11/18 9:27:54 PM
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I think Id find it kinda hot tbh
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Bugmeat
03/11/18 9:32:27 PM
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I wouldn't care. I don't have a negative opinion of porn stars and don't judge someone based on their sexual history. I wouldn't be interested in watching her videos that involve men. Other women and solo stuff would be cool to see though. I would even be ok with her going back to it as long as it wasn't with other men.


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green dragon
03/11/18 9:43:26 PM
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BlackScythe0 posted...
njP8QxN

Hey, if your dick isn't small it shouldn't be a problem
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LinkPizza
03/12/18 1:13:55 AM
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It's depends on a lot. There is the weird thing that they didn't tell me. But if they have a good reason, it would probably be fine. Don't really care as much about sexual history, as I've had sex with many people on my past(maybe not as many, but who knows). And I probably wouldn't care. In the end, I might not care much...

Zeus posted...
idk, might depend on the porn and how famous she was. I might want to suspend the relationship for extensive STD checks, though.

Depending on the type of porn, that might not even be an issue. Haha.
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Red_Frog
03/12/18 1:20:11 AM
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I've already seen all the porn, so I'd have known going in.
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LinkPizza
03/12/18 2:11:57 AM
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Red_Frog posted...
I've already seen all the porn, so I'd have known going in.

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TheFalseDeity
03/12/18 2:27:52 AM
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With curiosity probably. Itd be a deal breaker if she wanted to go back to it but it wouldnt bother me at all outside of that. Might even note it as a positive actually.
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waterdeepchu
03/12/18 2:31:38 AM
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I went with "wouldn't be happy about it" but more because he didn't tell me about it than any objection to actually being in porn.
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Nade Duck
03/12/18 2:33:32 AM
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AllstarSniper32
03/12/18 3:38:31 AM
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Zeus posted...
xjayguyx posted...
No one here would get a porn star lol.

...he says forgetting how many girls have brief careers in porn.

A "brief" career in porn means someone's not a porn star. Unless being in one porn video ever makes you a porn star.
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RoboXgp89
03/12/18 3:51:32 AM
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A "brief" career in porn means 20 dudes in one month
look at khalifa
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AllstarSniper32
03/12/18 3:52:16 AM
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That sounds more like little, not brief.
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ClarkDuke
03/12/18 3:59:25 AM
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Upset, cause I share everything, ok?

Nade Duck posted...
sweet

You always struck me as the "watcher-type", ok?
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Kyuubi4269
03/12/18 5:50:27 AM
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I'd be pissed that I knew them well enough to be significant but not know about that.
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Unbridled9
03/12/18 6:30:31 AM
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Honestly...

"Did you keep the tapes? Maybe we can watch them next time to get into the mood!"

Like, seriously? It's not that big a deal IMO. What matters is that she loves me now and I love her. So long as she loves me I'm more interested than disgusted.
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WHATZITUYA
03/12/18 6:38:10 AM
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I'd get checked for STDs.
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Foppe
03/12/18 6:56:23 AM
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I would check her old videos.
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OhhhJa
03/12/18 9:37:54 AM
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Zeus posted...
xjayguyx posted...
No one here would get a porn star lol.


...he says forgetting how many girls have brief careers in porn.

I really don't think this is THAT common
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Kyuubi4269
03/12/18 9:49:19 AM
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Zeus posted...
xjayguyx posted...
No one here would get a porn star lol.


...he says forgetting how many girls have brief careers in porn.

He says forgetting how ugly some porn stars are.
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Its like he wants two things at the same time.
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wwinterj25
03/12/18 11:34:35 AM
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It would suck she couldn't trust me enough to tell me from the start but I wouldn't hold it against them as the past can't be changed, she probably had her reasons and it doesn't really change the person who I decided to be with. I mean it's no different to folk who have had multiple one night stands or whatever save for the fact they are getting paid for it. Being on video can happen in any situation so that isn't a big deal either. All hypothetical of course.
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Dikitain
03/12/18 12:25:28 PM
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Probably wouldn't bother me much, but I would likely still try to avoid finding their "work" on the Internet.

I dated a stripper for a while, and I just told her I was OK with her profession just as long as I didn't need to watch her perform.
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IceDragon77
03/12/18 12:46:24 PM
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Meh, what's in the past is in the past. I'm not insecure enough to care.
I used to date a webcam model. Never bothered me before.
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gguirao
03/12/18 1:21:12 PM
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As long as she's faithful to me, I'd be fine with her returning to porn.
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TheCyborgNinja
03/12/18 3:29:26 PM
#35:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
Zeus posted...
xjayguyx posted...
No one here would get a porn star lol.


...he says forgetting how many girls have brief careers in porn.

He says forgetting how ugly some porn stars are.

Not to mention damaged...
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BlackScythe0
03/12/18 3:48:22 PM
#36:


gguirao posted...
As long as she's faithful to me, I'd be fine with her returning to porn.


Uh... solo porn?

Because if she is fucking people that is not being faithful.
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Funkdamental
03/12/18 4:52:36 PM
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Once had a good FWB who'd been a sex worker for a number of years. But we weren't romantically attached (although I had a teensy bit of a crush, I suppose) and weren't exclusive, so there wasn't really a serious relationship at risk. She told me after the first time we slept together how she used to earn a living. I was a grown-up and it didn't bother me.
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AllstarSniper32
03/12/18 5:11:40 PM
#38:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
I'd be pissed that I knew them well enough to be significant but not know about that.

I wouldn't be mad about it, but I do agree with this. I do feel like it's something the partner should know about before sex happens though.
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Zeus
03/12/18 9:41:12 PM
#39:


AllstarSniper32 posted...
Zeus posted...
xjayguyx posted...
No one here would get a porn star lol.

...he says forgetting how many girls have brief careers in porn.

A "brief" career in porn means someone's not a porn star. Unless being in one porn video ever makes you a porn star.


Few problems:

First, porn star doesn't carry the same connotations as movie star. It's just a euphemism for an actor or actress in the leading role.

Second, given the nature of the industry, people are incredibly hot for very brief periods of time. A lot of actresses will do hundreds of films within the span of a few years. By contrast, a lot of movie stars might only have dozens of films under their belt over the course of a much longer career.

Third, the porn industry doesn't carry the same level of fame as traditional film or tv. Even the most "famous" porn stars are generally poorly-known among the general public unless they've done other work. Ron Jeremy, among other things, has been relevant thanks to stunts like his Wrecking Ball parody.

BlackScythe0 posted...
gguirao posted...
As long as she's faithful to me, I'd be fine with her returning to porn.


Uh... solo porn?

Because if she is fucking people that is not being faithful.


Given that it's a matter of acting as a profession, a porn star can still be faithful just as a movie actor/actress might kiss a co-star as part of a film. That's different from doing shit on the side that the script doesn't call for when nobody has a camera going.
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EvilMegas
03/12/18 9:44:06 PM
#40:


xjayguyx posted...
No one here would get a porn star lol.

Dont deflect your shortcomings onto me.
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ParanoidObsessive
03/12/18 9:44:51 PM
#41:


SmokeMassTree posted...
That would activate my trust issues and I'd have to end the relationship.

Not the porn thing, the not telling me thing.

This.

I'd be more comfortable with a girl who did kind of kinky porn or gangbang stuff and openly told me as soon as our relationship was starting to develop beyond the superficial than I would be with a girl who did mostly tame/vanilla porn but who deliberately kept it a secret from me long after it probably should have come up.


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Syntheticon
03/12/18 10:17:31 PM
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I'd have to check it out and make sure I'm not missing out on/has hard limit on anything she's already done and as long as she's not going to give me any manner of crotch rot, it's all good lol
We've all done different things/people before we met our long term partners so why should it matter as long as she was safe?
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