Poll of the Day > Gonna say NO to the friend zone

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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 11:47:46 PM
#151:


green dragon posted...
Why do some guys obsess over just one girl? Like goddamn, there's so many other people out there.


aint you the motherfucker that got suicidal over your ex.

foh
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Mead
12/13/17 11:48:12 PM
#152:


shadowsword87 posted...
green dragon posted...
Why do some guys obsess over just one girl? Like goddamn, there's so many other people out there.


They put friend tokens into the girl, that means sex should come out!


Lmao
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 11:50:06 PM
#153:


Veedrock- posted...
Mead posted...
Yeah for your time and effort youre owed more than just some lousy friendship

That's not what he said or implied.

If he doesn't want to be friends with somebody, he doesn't have to be. To argue otherwise is straight idiotic, hypocritical even for implying he owes her anything.


I honestly think some people are just having a go.

No one is this lacking in common sense
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SusanGreenEyes
12/14/17 8:18:36 AM
#154:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Veedrock- posted...
Mead posted...
Yeah for your time and effort youre owed more than just some lousy friendship

That's not what he said or implied.

If he doesn't want to be friends with somebody, he doesn't have to be. To argue otherwise is straight idiotic, hypocritical even for implying he owes her anything.


I honestly think some people are just having a go.

No one is this lacking in common sense

Especially you.
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ClarkDuke
12/16/17 4:37:48 PM
#155:


@OmegaTomHank posted...
ClarkDuke posted...
Jen0125 posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
Thats called a vocal minority.

Also Ive ignored most of the known white knights in here and Ive already addressed several points otherwise. Theres also a ton of people who agree with me youve conveniently ignored.


except the majority have been against you. you're the vocal minority.

The voices in his head out number us, ok?


Shes not going to sleep with you bud.

Who won't, ok?
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The Blue Imp
12/16/17 7:26:44 PM
#156:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Veedrock- posted...
Mead posted...
Yeah for your time and effort youre owed more than just some lousy friendship

That's not what he said or implied.

If he doesn't want to be friends with somebody, he doesn't have to be. To argue otherwise is straight idiotic, hypocritical even for implying he owes her anything.


I honestly think some people are just having a go.

No one is this lacking in common sense


Just glancing over all of this topic? You sure seem to be.

You don't have to be lining up to make friendship bracelets for her or anything like that... but if you are interested enough in her that you could see yourself marrying her (per your own words in a post here) and you are already friends with her... why on Earth are you remotely interested in throwing down a pit and pissing on it?

If it is that hard to find people in your area who are able to piece together a conversation, why are you poised to just crap on that because she doesn't want to have sex with you?

It pretty clearly does not weigh very heavily on your heart the ramifications of your confession on her. That should be evidence enough that you oughtn't to be asking her.
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dainkinkaide
12/16/17 8:38:08 PM
#157:


The fact that TC is referring to a potential long-term romantic and/or sexual partner as a "mate" is throwing up some serious red flags. I mean, I wouldn't, contrary to what others have said, classify this as anything even close to incel behavior, but it's a still coming off as a little skeevy.

Anyway, TC, real talk: The fact that you can't see a woman who, in any other circumstance, would be considered an exceptional friend as anything other than a potential romantic or sexual partner is horrible. For you. You're robbing yourself of meaningful friendships with women.

Despite your protestations to the contrary, this woman is not using you as an insurance policy. She's not keeping you around because she wants a dude to fall back on if her current relationship doesn't work out; she's keeping you around becauseand I know this may be difficult to believe based on the way you comport yourself on hereshe actually enjoys your company as a friend.

On the off chance that she is interested in you romantically, she's obviously more romantically interested in the guy she's currently with, because she's still with him.

The only thing I see realistically happening if you tell her you're only interested in a romantic relationship with her is that you lose what sounds like a pretty fucking amazing friend because of your own fucking relationship myopia. The chances are extremely slim that she's going to leave her boyfriend for you when you tell her because real life is not the movies. That's generally not how personal relationships work outside of works of fiction.

So, if you're OK with napalming your friendships when you don't get to stick your dick in them, then go right the fuck ahead. Tell her. Continue to mangle your social life. But if you want my adviceand there's no indication that you do, so I'm just pontificating at a fucking wall hereyou need to grow the fuck up, suck it the fuck up, realize that meaningful platonic relationships with women are good for you, and get the fuck over her romantically. Value the connection you have with her as friends, because chances are, you're not going to have anything more with her. And that's not a bad thing.

So move on, and find someone else. Maybe she knows someone you'd be into that's not her.
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OmegaTomHank
12/17/17 8:58:01 AM
#158:


Mate is a very common word for partner or spouse.

Im not reading the rest
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OmegaTomHank
12/17/17 9:06:32 AM
#159:


Generally speaking Im not interested in having friends that I harbor strong romantic feelings for.
Thats pretty much standard niceguy/beta behavior and nearly always ends badly. Sure I could attempt to convince myself Im not into her but that is just untrue.

Ive had female friends Ive talked to every day that had boyfriends and I wouldnt have sex with them if a meteor wiped everyone else out in a 2 hour radius. Thats how that should work. Its much healthier.

Oh and thanks for the kind words in PM, I know real sentiment gets lost with a bunch of shouting neckbeards.
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Mead
12/17/17 9:18:35 AM
#160:


How would they alone survive the meteor
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RomanGhost
12/17/17 9:56:07 AM
#161:


Is she not sick yet? I really want to see how this plays out.
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The Blue Imp
12/17/17 10:06:18 AM
#162:


RomanGhost posted...
Is she not sick yet? I really want to see how this plays out.


I can assume.

He will lay out his feelings, she will predictably turn him down and he will never talk to her again... until he hears that her and her boyfriend broke up.
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OmegaTomHank
12/17/17 10:41:51 AM
#163:


The Blue Imp posted...
RomanGhost posted...
Is she not sick yet? I really want to see how this plays out.


I can assume.

He will lay out his feelings, she will predictably turn him down and he will never talk to her again... until he hears that her and her boyfriend broke up.


Im not going to wait on her so the last part probably wont happen. It could though. Never know
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Veedrock-
12/17/17 4:01:17 PM
#164:


The Blue Imp posted...
He will lay out his feelings, she will predictably turn him down and he will never talk to her again... until he hears that her and her boyfriend broke up.

And it'll work out for the best. Instead being all "this guy will wait for me forever" like girls are wont to do, she'll remember that he's into her and either consider it, or she'll say no again so life moves on for the both of them with no ugliness, no heartbreak, no nothing.
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OmegaTomHank
12/17/17 4:11:22 PM
#165:


Im actually seeing her right now she came in and gave me a hug shes better but still a little sick.
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Mead
12/17/17 4:28:21 PM
#166:


Well good luck, hopefully were wrong and it turns out well for ya
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OmegaTomHank
12/17/17 4:32:16 PM
#167:


So my call didnt go through to her for some reason, she asked me specifically why I didnt call her, o showed her that I did and it went right to voicemail, she showed me no missed calls.

Then I texted her to check up on her because she was so sick she said her boyfriend was there and she had to keep it low key.
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OmegaTomHank
12/17/17 9:41:53 PM
#168:


So minor update we kinda half talked about it because we were in semi-public she said to call her tomorrow not tonight because her boyfriend will be around.

Im so confused in general and I just want some transparency. Hopefully tomorrow this can just reach some sort of resolved state
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Cacciato
12/17/17 9:53:01 PM
#169:


Have you tried taking her to an aisle in the supermarket and seeing where it goes from there?
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mipond
12/17/17 10:22:14 PM
#170:


Maybe she is interested in you but doesn't want to breakup with the bf until she knows how you feel.
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SusanGreenEyes
12/17/17 10:33:00 PM
#171:


OmegaTomHank posted...
So minor update we kinda half talked about it because we were in semi-public she said to call her tomorrow not tonight because her boyfriend will be around.

Im so confused in general and I just want some transparency. Hopefully tomorrow this can just reach some sort of resolved state

The boyfriend realizes you're a creep and probably told your friend to stop talking to you.
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OmegaTomHank
12/17/17 10:49:38 PM
#172:


SusanGreenEyes posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
So minor update we kinda half talked about it because we were in semi-public she said to call her tomorrow not tonight because her boyfriend will be around.

Im so confused in general and I just want some transparency. Hopefully tomorrow this can just reach some sort of resolved state

The boyfriend realizes you're a creep and probably told your friend to stop talking to you.


What an odd way to interpret that.

He doesnt know I exist. When I texted her last and she was around him she made sure he didnt see it or know who it was. Thats why she didnt reply back to me. She told me this very openly so theres no confusion about that.
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SmokeMassTree
12/17/17 10:51:44 PM
#173:


Cacciato posted...
Have you tried taking her to an aisle in the supermarket and seeing where it goes from there?


Don't encourage him.
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OmegaTomHank
12/17/17 10:56:12 PM
#174:


mipond posted...
Maybe she is interested in you but doesn't want to breakup with the bf until she knows how you feel.


I just need to know for sure.

Her behavior is odd.
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Lokarin
12/17/17 10:56:35 PM
#175:


Friend zone? You mean you only have sex with enemies?
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OmegaTomHank
12/17/17 10:58:24 PM
#176:


Lokarin posted...
Friend zone? You mean you only have sex with enemies?


Precisely
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SunWuKung420
12/17/17 11:00:45 PM
#177:


So now she's hiding you from him and lying? Real catch.
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OmegaTomHank
12/17/17 11:03:24 PM
#178:


No lies.

She is hiding me though which is interesting...

Im going to talk to her about it tomorrow.
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SmokeMassTree
12/17/17 11:21:18 PM
#179:


Keep your hands to yourself

Pretty ridiculous that I have to say that
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OmegaTomHank
12/18/17 1:30:47 PM
#180:


She was extremably agreeable.

She said my timing was off but she didnt push me either way. She said she can deal with how I feel about her as long as I show her respect and dont do weird things and she also said she understood how I feel and said shed be ok if I talked to her a little less but basically left the door open for me to talk to her at any point.

I think things can be pretty cool between us now
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mipond
12/18/17 2:00:06 PM
#181:


I'm glad you are happy with the outcome.
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Cacciato
12/18/17 2:41:12 PM
#182:


OmegaTomHank posted...
and dont do weird things

Like call her delicious and grope her in the grocery store?
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OmegaTomHank
12/18/17 6:38:53 PM
#183:


mipond posted...
I'm glad you are happy with the outcome.


Well see how it goes.
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