Poll of the Day > Gonna say NO to the friend zone

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DarthLaharl
12/13/17 4:49:36 PM
#101:


You should have expressed interest the moment you first knew you were interested.

Since you didn't, you're just a friend. Move on and find any one of the millions of other women in the world and don't be a onitis chump.
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GRTooCool
12/13/17 4:54:30 PM
#102:


Didn't read through all 11 pages and I highly doubt you'll read this answer or care.

But tell her in person if you haven't done so already and then move on. 99.9% she'll think you're a jerk for not wanting to be her friend anymore but you can't help the way you feel. But at least you won't have to deal with her **** anymore when she doesn't feel the same way you do. Spend your time and effort on someone else that cares.

Good luck.
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Jen0125
12/13/17 4:55:21 PM
#103:


GRTooCool posted...
11 pages


lmao uh
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RomanGhost
12/13/17 5:01:07 PM
#104:


GRTooCool posted...
Didn't read through all 11 pages and I highly doubt you'll read this answer or care.

But tell her in person if you haven't done so already and then move on. 99.9% she'll think you're a jerk for not wanting to be her friend anymore but you can't help the way you feel. But at least you won't have to deal with her **** anymore when she doesn't feel the same way you do. Spend your time and effort on someone else that cares.

Good luck.

"This person isn't romantically interested in me, therefore they are an asshole."
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 5:02:41 PM
#105:


@Jen0125
Turns out an overwhelming majority of users would rather be talked to like adults instead of ignored like a teenager.

But because youve probably opted to do the latter due to your immaturity you tried to act like I was the one who is some sort of oddity. Nice try though. :)
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 5:04:31 PM
#106:


GRTooCool posted...
Didn't read through all 11 pages and I highly doubt you'll read this answer or care.

But tell her in person if you haven't done so already and then move on. 99.9% she'll think you're a jerk for not wanting to be her friend anymore but you can't help the way you feel. But at least you won't have to deal with her **** anymore when she doesn't feel the same way you do. Spend your time and effort on someone else that cares.

Good luck.


This is basically the advice I got from my cousin. The only thing that is complicating this right now is that she is sick.

I feel like I have to wait a while now to tell her since she doesnt want to pick up the phone and Im not about to blow up her phone like that.
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 5:07:08 PM
#107:


Also, I want to be with her in general, but now I really hope she reciprocates just so I can rub it in Jens face.

Would be glorious.
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GRTooCool
12/13/17 5:08:33 PM
#108:


RomanGhost posted...
GRTooCool posted...
Didn't read through all 11 pages and I highly doubt you'll read this answer or care.

But tell her in person if you haven't done so already and then move on. 99.9% she'll think you're a jerk for not wanting to be her friend anymore but you can't help the way you feel. But at least you won't have to deal with her **** anymore when she doesn't feel the same way you do. Spend your time and effort on someone else that cares.

Good luck.

"This person isn't romantically interested in me, therefore they are an asshole."


Re-read the bold part from my previous post.

They're an asshole because they don't want to be just friends with her. Why would one tell them their feelings, get rejected and then stay as friends? No guy would be dumb enough to do that to themselves.
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RomanGhost
12/13/17 5:08:39 PM
#109:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Also, I want to be with her in general, but now I really hope she reciprocates just so I can rub it in Jens face.

Would be glorious.

Who the hell is Jen?
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 5:13:49 PM
#110:


RomanGhost posted...
Look at this objectively. Knowing her as well as you currently do, how do you think she would react if you told her this and she didn't reciprocate your feelings?

Make sure, before you reply, that you're not looking at her through some fantasy lens. Take some time to think, I don't care.


Shes be sad.

Happens.

Feelings are complicated.

SunWuKung420 posted...
I get this topic now. So many women have wanted Tom's body that now that this one doesn't, he can't handle it.


Not true I am fairly average. I just dont reciprocate very often and willingly am friends with 99 percent of the females I talk to. Ive also turned down easy sex probably close to 6 or 7 times at this point except the one time the chick was smart enough to at least get close to me emotionally instead of just treating me like a human sex toy that happened to be accessible.

Bonding emotionally is really important to romance even if its just lust mostly
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Jen0125
12/13/17 5:16:38 PM
#111:


OmegaTomHank posted...
@Jen0125
Turns out an overwhelming majority of users would rather be talked to like adults instead of ignored like a teenager.

But because youve probably opted to do the latter due to your immaturity you tried to act like I was the one who is some sort of oddity. Nice try though. :)


you didn't actually put the correct scenario in your topic if you're referencing your poll.

you put forward a scenario that is different than yours.
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 5:18:11 PM
#112:


GRTooCool posted...
RomanGhost posted...
GRTooCool posted...
Didn't read through all 11 pages and I highly doubt you'll read this answer or care.

But tell her in person if you haven't done so already and then move on. 99.9% she'll think you're a jerk for not wanting to be her friend anymore but you can't help the way you feel. But at least you won't have to deal with her **** anymore when she doesn't feel the same way you do. Spend your time and effort on someone else that cares.

Good luck.

"This person isn't romantically interested in me, therefore they are an asshole."


Re-read the bold part from my previous post.

They're an asshole because they don't want to be just friends with her. Why would one tell them their feelings, get rejected and then stay as friends? No guy would be dumb enough to do that to themselves.


Theres no reason to be friends period if one is interested in the other romantically.

Its just a lot of women have this super selfish desire to have men on call like human beings are some sort of insurance policy. Its BS honestly
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 5:19:08 PM
#113:


Jen0125 posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
@Jen0125
Turns out an overwhelming majority of users would rather be talked to like adults instead of ignored like a teenager.

But because youve probably opted to do the latter due to your immaturity you tried to act like I was the one who is some sort of oddity. Nice try though. :)


I am wrong but hell if I would admit it


FTFY
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SunWuKung420
12/13/17 5:19:38 PM
#114:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Its just a lot of women have this super selfish desire to have men on call like human beings are some sort of insurance policy. Its BS honestly


Yes, your apparent misogyny is bullshit.
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Jen0125
12/13/17 5:19:41 PM
#115:


i mean foxx and i already commented in that topic as to why it is not an accurate poll but okay
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RomanGhost
12/13/17 5:19:47 PM
#116:


Well, if you're really super interested in her, and you think this could pay off, and you think it could blossom into a long terms relationship that would benefit the both of you, then go for it. It's a better opportunity than some of us have.

forever alone

Until I stop being such a fucking p-

Are we allowed to say that here?
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 5:22:46 PM
#117:


Jen0125 posted...
i mean foxx and i already commented in that topic as to why it is not an accurate poll but okay


Nah. If anything that made your argument weaker.

You can have a girlfriend and still be interested in other women. Some men may even want their close female friend to tell them that so they can leave their gf or cheat. Topic stated you werent interested at all which means its like guaranteed you will reject her.
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 5:23:32 PM
#118:


SunWuKung420 posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
Its just a lot of women have this super selfish desire to have men on call like human beings are some sort of insurance policy. Its BS honestly


Yes, your apparent misogyny is bullshit.


Cute
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Jen0125
12/13/17 5:24:55 PM
#119:


OmegaTomHank posted...

Nah. If anything that made your argument weaker.

You can have a girlfriend and still be interested in other women. Some men may even want their close female friend to tell them that so they can leave their gf or cheat. Topic stated you werent interested at all which means its like guaranteed you will reject her.


bro whatever. you can try to justify this to yourself every which way and make topics about other scenarios trying to relate it back to this one. the overwhelming majority itt have said you are coming off like an asshole to this chick by trying to do this to her. stop singling out foxx and i because we're the only women posting. i understand you find it easier to talk down to women because you do it often but foxx and i aren't the only ones who have said you look like a jerk in this scenario you've presented.
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SusanGreenEyes
12/13/17 5:32:55 PM
#120:


TC should show this topic to the woman so she can see what a prize he truly is.
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 5:34:57 PM
#121:


Thats called a vocal minority.

Also Ive ignored most of the known white knights in here and Ive already addressed several points otherwise. Theres also a ton of people who agree with me youve conveniently ignored.
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 5:36:01 PM
#122:


SusanGreenEyes posted...
TC should show this topic to the woman so she can see what a prize he truly is.


Oh please.

She can decide that on her own, shes comfortable enough with me that she can ask for my number...
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Jen0125
12/13/17 5:36:46 PM
#123:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Thats called a vocal minority.

Also Ive ignored most of the known white knights in here and Ive already addressed several points otherwise. Theres also a ton of people who agree with me youve conveniently ignored.


except the majority have been against you. you're the vocal minority.
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 5:42:16 PM
#124:


Jen0125 posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
Thats called a vocal minority.

Also Ive ignored most of the known white knights in here and Ive already addressed several points otherwise. Theres also a ton of people who agree with me youve conveniently ignored.


except the majority have been against you. you're the vocal minority.


See the poll.
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Muscles
12/13/17 5:42:19 PM
#125:


OmegaTomHank posted...
GRTooCool posted...
RomanGhost posted...
GRTooCool posted...
Didn't read through all 11 pages and I highly doubt you'll read this answer or care.

But tell her in person if you haven't done so already and then move on. 99.9% she'll think you're a jerk for not wanting to be her friend anymore but you can't help the way you feel. But at least you won't have to deal with her **** anymore when she doesn't feel the same way you do. Spend your time and effort on someone else that cares.

Good luck.

"This person isn't romantically interested in me, therefore they are an asshole."


Re-read the bold part from my previous post.

They're an asshole because they don't want to be just friends with her. Why would one tell them their feelings, get rejected and then stay as friends? No guy would be dumb enough to do that to themselves.


Theres no reason to be friends period if one is interested in the other romantically.

Its just a lot of women have this super selfish desire to have men on call like human beings are some sort of insurance policy. Its BS honestly

That's just wrong
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ClarkDuke
12/13/17 5:44:09 PM
#126:


Jen0125 posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
Thats called a vocal minority.

Also Ive ignored most of the known white knights in here and Ive already addressed several points otherwise. Theres also a ton of people who agree with me youve conveniently ignored.


except the majority have been against you. you're the vocal minority.

The voices in his head out number us, ok?
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Jen0125
12/13/17 5:48:18 PM
#127:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Jen0125 posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
Thats called a vocal minority.

Also Ive ignored most of the known white knights in here and Ive already addressed several points otherwise. Theres also a ton of people who agree with me youve conveniently ignored.


except the majority have been against you. you're the vocal minority.


See the poll.


your poll is a different scenario.
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 6:14:49 PM
#128:


ClarkDuke posted...
Jen0125 posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
Thats called a vocal minority.

Also Ive ignored most of the known white knights in here and Ive already addressed several points otherwise. Theres also a ton of people who agree with me youve conveniently ignored.


except the majority have been against you. you're the vocal minority.

The voices in his head out number us, ok?


Shes not going to sleep with you bud.
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SunWuKung420
12/13/17 6:15:25 PM
#129:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Shes not going to sleep with you bud.


Neither will your friend.
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Jen0125
12/13/17 6:31:44 PM
#130:


SunWuKung420 posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
Shes not going to sleep with you bud.


Neither will your friend.


fuckin got him
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 6:41:57 PM
#131:


SunWuKung420 posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
Shes not going to sleep with you bud.


Neither will your friend.


What friend?
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SpaceBear_
12/13/17 7:02:34 PM
#132:


A man is allowed to tell a woman that he has romantic feelings for her and if she doesn't reciprocate, tell her that he'd rather not be friends.

Isn't that what TC is doing? Nothing wrong in that whatsoever.
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RomanGhost
12/13/17 7:04:01 PM
#133:


SpaceBear_ posted...
A man is allowed to tell a woman that he has romantic feelings for her and if she doesn't reciprocate, tell her that he'd rather not be friends.

Isn't that what TC is doing? Nothing wrong in that whatsoever.

I guess. That just seems petty to me, though.
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SpaceBear_
12/13/17 7:08:47 PM
#134:


RomanGhost posted...
SpaceBear_ posted...
A man is allowed to tell a woman that he has romantic feelings for her and if she doesn't reciprocate, tell her that he'd rather not be friends.

Isn't that what TC is doing? Nothing wrong in that whatsoever.

I guess. That just seems petty to me, though.


It can be a messy situation, especially if the woman has a partner already.

But what's the alternative? Just stop talking to her? That's mean and petty and might upset the girl. Or just carry on longing for her and living in misery?

Being upfront and honest is much better for everyone.
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DarthLaharl
12/13/17 9:41:17 PM
#135:


SusanGreenEyes posted...
TC should show this topic to the woman so she can see what a prize he truly is.


Exactly
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SusanGreenEyes
12/13/17 9:44:05 PM
#136:


DarthLaharl posted...
SusanGreenEyes posted...
TC should show this topic to the woman so she can see what a prize he truly is.


Exactly

If he does, then he will no longer need to look for interesting ways to end the friendship.
She will do it for him.
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Mead
12/13/17 9:47:08 PM
#137:


SpaceBear_ posted...
A man is allowed to tell a woman that he has romantic feelings for her and if she doesn't reciprocate, tell her that he'd rather not be friends.

Isn't that what TC is doing? Nothing wrong in that whatsoever.


Sure, but its pretty shitty imo when the two are already friends, the girl already has a boyfriend, and the TC has made repeated remarks suggesting he feels owed romantic feelings due to the time and effort he has put towards this person
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SusanGreenEyes
12/13/17 9:52:53 PM
#138:


Mead posted...
SpaceBear_ posted...
A man is allowed to tell a woman that he has romantic feelings for her and if she doesn't reciprocate, tell her that he'd rather not be friends.

Isn't that what TC is doing? Nothing wrong in that whatsoever.


Sure, but its pretty shitty imo when the two are already friends, the girl already has a boyfriend, and the TC has made repeated remarks suggesting he feels owed romantic feelings due to the time and effort he has put towards this person

That's what everyone has been trying to tell the little creep but he doesn't get it.
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 10:12:55 PM
#139:


Mead posted...
SpaceBear_ posted...
A man is allowed to tell a woman that he has romantic feelings for her and if she doesn't reciprocate, tell her that he'd rather not be friends.

Isn't that what TC is doing? Nothing wrong in that whatsoever.


Sure, but its pretty shitty imo when the two are already friends, the girl already has a boyfriend, and the TC has made repeated remarks suggesting he feels owed romantic feelings due to the time and effort he has put towards this person


Two of these things literally never happened or were said.

We literally just started talking outside of her job like less than a week ago... and I never said anything about being owed anything or anything about time or effort...

The only thing I said is I wont commit time or effort to a friendship when I desire more
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SusanGreenEyes
12/13/17 10:14:23 PM
#140:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Mead posted...
SpaceBear_ posted...
A man is allowed to tell a woman that he has romantic feelings for her and if she doesn't reciprocate, tell her that he'd rather not be friends.

Isn't that what TC is doing? Nothing wrong in that whatsoever.


Sure, but its pretty shitty imo when the two are already friends, the girl already has a boyfriend, and the TC has made repeated remarks suggesting he feels owed romantic feelings due to the time and effort he has put towards this person


Two of these things literally never happened or were said.

We literally just started talking outside of her job like less than a week ago... and I never said anything about being owed anything or anything about time or effort...

The only thing I said is I wont commit time or effort to a friendship when I desire more

Does she have any idea what you say about her behind her back on a video game website?
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Veedrock-
12/13/17 10:20:45 PM
#141:


lol the last thing any woman should do is play the whole "behind her back" card.
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Mead
12/13/17 10:27:12 PM
#142:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Mead posted...
SpaceBear_ posted...
A man is allowed to tell a woman that he has romantic feelings for her and if she doesn't reciprocate, tell her that he'd rather not be friends.

Isn't that what TC is doing? Nothing wrong in that whatsoever.


Sure, but its pretty shitty imo when the two are already friends, the girl already has a boyfriend, and the TC has made repeated remarks suggesting he feels owed romantic feelings due to the time and effort he has put towards this person


Two of these things literally never happened or were said.

We literally just started talking outside of her job like less than a week ago... and I never said anything about being owed anything or anything about time or effort...

The only thing I said is I wont commit time or effort to a friendship when I desire more


Yeah for your time and effort youre owed more than just some lousy friendship

Thank goodness she hasnt given you any hints that she wants to leave her boyfriend for you, that would make her such a slut apparantly
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
12/13/17 10:28:33 PM
#143:


Veedrock- posted...
lol the last thing any woman should do is play the whole "behind her back" card.

Says the psychopath.
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Veedrock-
12/13/17 10:34:23 PM
#144:


Mead posted...
Yeah for your time and effort youre owed more than just some lousy friendship

That's not what he said or implied.

If he doesn't want to be friends with somebody, he doesn't have to be. To argue otherwise is straight idiotic, hypocritical even for implying he owes her anything.
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Mead
12/13/17 10:40:16 PM
#145:


Veedrock- posted...
If he doesn't want to be friends with somebody, he doesn't have to be.


Something no one has claimed or implied in this topic.

Really living up to your tag this evening.
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Veedrock-
12/13/17 10:43:24 PM
#146:


Mead posted...
Veedrock- posted...
If he doesn't want to be friends with somebody, he doesn't have to be.

Something no one has claimed or implied in this topic.

You're just saying it's wrong or inappropriate to do so here. Literally Zangulus levels of semantics.
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Mead
12/13/17 10:48:39 PM
#147:


Veedrock- posted...
Mead posted...
Veedrock- posted...
If he doesn't want to be friends with somebody, he doesn't have to be.

Something no one has claimed or implied in this topic.

You're just saying it's wrong or inappropriate to do so here. Literally Zangulus levels of semantics.


No idea what you are even trying to say. Yes I am saying a thing
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green dragon
12/13/17 10:49:35 PM
#148:


Why do some guys obsess over just one girl? Like goddamn, there's so many other people out there.
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shadowsword87
12/13/17 11:25:19 PM
#149:


green dragon posted...
Why do some guys obsess over just one girl? Like goddamn, there's so many other people out there.


They put friend tokens into the girl, that means sex should come out!
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OmegaTomHank
12/13/17 11:47:12 PM
#150:


Veedrock- posted...
lol the last thing any woman should do is play the whole "behind her back" card.


Yeah im sure shed be devastated and cares about blog posts on a random internet forum barely anyone goes on, and this being fairly anonymous with zero personal information being revealed.

Im sure shed be furious.
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