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stoltenberg11
12/09/17 3:48:49 PM
#201:


Wait so I have a few questions

How old are yall?
You live at her house with her and the kid?
How much do you really love her?
Would you be able to get another girl and bounce back quickly?

Based on everything I've read so far it sounds like you should bounce, especially since she has a kid from yet another third guy.

Also where the pics at man?
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littlebro07
12/09/17 3:56:15 PM
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Blue_Popo
12/09/17 4:18:57 PM
#204:


He's 5'7

Just get in shape

You'll be taller and in better shape, that should offset potential wang differences
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TheCyborgNinja
12/09/17 4:30:27 PM
#205:


Years ago, when I was still single, there was a pretty, slightly older woman that was into me, and it made me feel special. What was the catch? Her ex was a piece of trash and though she alleged she hated him, she also refused to cut him out of her life. Hed make her cry and stuff... After a few weeks, I just had to tell her Im not going to be in a relationship with him and his drama too. Hes bad for you, so get rid of him or lose me. Her response was to cry and say I cant. That was the end of that.

Some people just arent ready, even if you like each other. The timing might be wrong and you just have to have the guts to walk away rather than cave. Youll probably be sad either way, so take the non-toxic route.
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Dyinglegacy
12/09/17 4:37:44 PM
#206:


It's hard to just break up with someone, especially if you have a hard time getting into relationships, but I wouldn't be able to tolerate my significant other droning on about her ex.

You really do sound like the rebound guy. I doubt she would admit that, even if she knows it.

It would be best if you told her that you're fed up with her ex fetish, and that you're ending the relationship, and then tell her go sort out her feelings.

Maybe she'll realize that she wants you, maybe she'll go back to chad, or maybe she'll move on to someone else.

Anyway, getting strung along is shit tier. Be blunt, and let her know how shit tier it is. Maybe give her one last good nut in her vag, then leave.
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Offworlder1
12/09/17 4:43:11 PM
#207:


I think the topic creator is just too weak willed to cut and run like an intelligent man would do, she is a single mother already not loyal to him. Her current ex is probably better in the sack too if she keeps feelings for him, why anyone would not see she is just looking for a safe provider is baffling.

You are wasting your time, find a goos single woman without kids and kick this THOT to the curb.
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Dyinglegacy
12/09/17 4:48:34 PM
#208:


Give someone here your phone and let them do what you can't lol.
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EducatedGuy
12/09/17 4:52:03 PM
#209:


NeverOffended posted...
I would leave her


You are the rebound guy TC. Run and never look back
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yemmy
12/09/17 4:54:31 PM
#210:


she only want you for you ducats bro

I mean you can still hit it I just wouldn't get too attached
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xOmniCloudx
12/09/17 5:00:49 PM
#211:


A single mother cheating on someone is hilarious in hindsight. Sorry you're dealing with crazy tho TC. Abort mission.
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weekoldhotdog
12/09/17 5:02:38 PM
#212:


I came back to mention to TC that he should give us an update on the situation
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Makeveli_lives
12/09/17 5:26:13 PM
#214:


definitely leave. You want to reevaluate in 3,6, 12 months down the line? Fine but end this shit.
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Resolution
12/09/17 6:07:48 PM
#215:


Hairy-man posted...
https://imgur.com/a/ngW0t

Thats part of it. Im not afraid of him. Just dont want to do anything stupid


Bit too late for that

I don't know why you thought that would be a good idea
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Hairy-man
12/09/17 6:18:37 PM
#217:


I am at home now. We are in a tough situation. Trying to talk about it but remaining calm with the kid around. Will probably discuss more after she goes to sleep
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Hairy-man
12/09/17 6:19:23 PM
#218:


Resolution posted...
Hairy-man posted...
https://imgur.com/a/ngW0t

Thats part of it. Im not afraid of him. Just dont want to do anything stupid


Bit too late for that

I don't know why you thought that would be a good idea


Why was it not a good idea? Im not afraid of the guy. It got some stuff off of my chest
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garan
12/09/17 6:22:16 PM
#219:


NeverOffended posted...
I would leave her
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Electrokinesis
12/09/17 6:28:13 PM
#220:


Hairy-man posted...
Resolution posted...
Hairy-man posted...
https://imgur.com/a/ngW0t

Thats part of it. Im not afraid of him. Just dont want to do anything stupid


Bit too late for that

I don't know why you thought that would be a good idea


Why was it not a good idea? Im not afraid of the guy. It got some stuff off of my chest

Because if hes as manipulative as you say he is, and shes already unable to let him go, its entirely possible that he can use your message against you to her.

He isnt your issue here. Your issue is that she apparently cant cut him loose - or, and I think this is more likely, wont.

Also, if her response to your concerns about this is to cry and self-deprecate, you need to question whether youd want to remain with her anyway.
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SquadFAM
12/09/17 6:28:22 PM
#221:


Let's look at the facts:
A. If she actually said that, then wow.
B. You can get her, you can get someone else.
C. She a ho. That's what people like that say.
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mipond
12/09/17 6:35:35 PM
#222:


Do you live with her?
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Axiom
12/09/17 6:39:20 PM
#223:


I'm sure someone has already said this but rebounds don't work out
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SquadFAM
12/09/17 6:41:09 PM
#224:


Axiom posted...
I'm sure someone has already said this but rebounds don't work out

Logically stating of course, yes
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Cleo_II
12/09/17 6:41:48 PM
#225:


Hairy-man posted...
I am at home now. We are in a tough situation. Trying to talk about it but remaining calm with the kid around. Will probably discuss more after she goes to sleep

What is there to talk about really? She still has feelings for her ex, and has poor boundaries with him. Staying around playing a pick me dance gets tiresome.

Also the message you sent to the ex was dumb. Hes not to blame for any of this. Your gf is. Start holding her responsible.
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SquadFAM
12/09/17 6:47:15 PM
#226:


Cleo_II posted...
Hairy-man posted...
I am at home now. We are in a tough situation. Trying to talk about it but remaining calm with the kid around. Will probably discuss more after she goes to sleep

What is there to talk about really? She still has feelings for her ex, and has poor boundaries with him. Staying around playing a pick me dance gets tiresome.

Also the message you sent to the ex was dumb. Hes not to blame for any of this. Your gf is. Start holding her responsible.

This. Sometimes it is the whamens fault.
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Re-iNcarnated
12/09/17 7:03:16 PM
#228:


Electrokinesis posted...
Hairy-man posted...
Resolution posted...
Hairy-man posted...
https://imgur.com/a/ngW0t

Thats part of it. Im not afraid of him. Just dont want to do anything stupid


Bit too late for that

I don't know why you thought that would be a good idea


Why was it not a good idea? Im not afraid of the guy. It got some stuff off of my chest

Because if hes as manipulative as you say he is, and shes already unable to let him go, its entirely possible that he can use your message against you to her.

He isnt your issue here. Your issue is that she apparently cant cut him loose - or, and I think this is more likely, wont.

Also, if her response to your concerns about this is to cry and self-deprecate, you need to question whether youd want to remain with her anyway.


But on a positive note, if the maipulative bastard uses this to turn his 'gf' against him, then at least the option of cutting her loose, who is as we have already concluded, IS the problem, would no longer be his. And everybody wins.

At the end of day, either she gets over him or they break up. There is no middle ground. Manipulation only works if you let the other person manipulate you, no one should be obligated to break heaven and hell to earn your love.
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mipond
12/09/17 7:06:13 PM
#229:


You shouldn't have to share her. Wonder if the ex likes that idea?
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EnragedSlith
12/09/17 7:27:03 PM
#230:


Umm... she isnt really your gf
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Jerry_Hellyeah
12/09/17 7:53:06 PM
#231:


Let me put this differently than the cucks who think theyre tough.

Does your perfect relationship have these feelings involved? Ignore the eventuals, look at right now. Youre not happy with this situation, and that is the point of a relationship.

Believe me, Im a goofy looking bastard who is also poor and stupid. You dont need to hurt over this, theres a better relationship out there.
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SSMajinVegeta2
12/09/17 8:00:42 PM
#232:


Drop it like its hot unless theres truly any signs she cares for you.
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SSMajinVegeta2
12/09/17 8:01:11 PM
#233:


@Jerry_Hellyeah
Nailed it bro. Love your post.
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OmegaTomHank
12/09/17 8:31:27 PM
#234:


Calling the ex a "manipulative bastard" is just infantilizing the women involved.

Im not sure why but a lot of people seem to have a hard time accepting that a lot of women, like a lot of men are just irredeemable pieces of shit.

Its ok.

Most people are, the point is to look long and hard and find the smallest piece of shit instead of the huge irredeemable and foul ones.

I was just a rebound guy like a year ago and didnt even know it because this wench was so unattractive I never considered her a potential mate, but she disguised her parasitic desires on the guise of "friendship" and basically used me as an unpaid psychiatrist where she just bitched about how much her life sucked going back to her terrible childhood.

I naturally as a creature afflicted with the curse of empathy, took pity on her and acquiesced to her aggressive plays at companionship. I even got laid once... It was bad, she was clean but fat, and her face alone was a 4/10 at best... she also gave bare minimum effort and claimed she wasnt over her ex to give an effort.

We went to dinner, she bitched and whined about something stupid, then her ex called her and she dropped me off at my house. We didnt mutually contact each other for close to 7 months (she got what she wanted afterall) ... broke up with her ex again, we started talking again on a random chance... and she starts being bitchy randomly trying to test me. I completely went off on her and said some things that probably should never be said to another person out loud and then deleted her from my phone.

Dont waste your precious, finite time on Earth dealing with pieces of shit. As soon as you recognize a situation(which gets way easier with experience and maturity) just bounce out and call it a day. You will meet tons of people in your lifetime.
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stoltenberg11
12/09/17 8:55:58 PM
#235:


stoltenberg11 posted...
Wait so I have a few questions

How old are yall?
You live at her house with her and the kid?
How much do you really love her?
Would you be able to get another girl and bounce back quickly?

Based on everything I've read so far it sounds like you should bounce, especially since she has a kid from yet another third guy.

Also where the pics at man?

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Esrac
12/09/17 9:00:08 PM
#236:


Allow me to join the chorus.

Bail.

This doesn't have a happy ending for you.
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Callixtus
12/09/17 9:30:42 PM
#237:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Calling the ex a "manipulative bastard" is just infantilizing the women involved.

Im not sure why but a lot of people seem to have a hard time accepting that a lot of women, like a lot of men are just irredeemable pieces of shit.

Its ok.

Most people are, the point is to look long and hard and find the smallest piece of shit instead of the huge irredeemable and foul ones.

I was just a rebound guy like a year ago and didnt even know it because this wench was so unattractive I never considered her a potential mate, but she disguised her parasitic desires on the guise of "friendship" and basically used me as an unpaid psychiatrist where she just bitched about how much her life sucked going back to her terrible childhood.

I naturally as a creature afflicted with the curse of empathy, took pity on her and acquiesced to her aggressive plays at companionship. I even got laid once... It was bad, she was clean but fat, and her face alone was a 4/10 at best... she also gave bare minimum effort and claimed she wasnt over her ex to give an effort.

We went to dinner, she bitched and whined about something stupid, then her ex called her and she dropped me off at my house. We didnt mutually contact each other for close to 7 months (she got what she wanted afterall) ... broke up with her ex again, we started talking again on a random chance... and she starts being bitchy randomly trying to test me. I completely went off on her and said some things that probably should never be said to another person out loud and then deleted her from my phone.

Dont waste your precious, finite time on Earth dealing with pieces of shit. As soon as you recognize a situation(which gets way easier with experience and maturity) just bounce out and call it a day. You will meet tons of people in your lifetime.

You sound like a great person to know!
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Stupid Pirate Guy
12/09/17 9:35:25 PM
#238:


Show your dominance by fucking her ex.
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Lorenzo_2003
12/09/17 11:31:02 PM
#239:


OmegaTomHank posted...
Calling the ex a "manipulative bastard" is just infantilizing the women involved.

Im not sure why but a lot of people seem to have a hard time accepting that a lot of women, like a lot of men are just irredeemable pieces of shit.

Its ok.

Most people are, the point is to look long and hard and find the smallest piece of shit instead of the huge irredeemable and foul ones.

I was just a rebound guy like a year ago and didnt even know it because this wench was so unattractive I never considered her a potential mate, but she disguised her parasitic desires on the guise of "friendship" and basically used me as an unpaid psychiatrist where she just bitched about how much her life sucked going back to her terrible childhood.

I naturally as a creature afflicted with the curse of empathy, took pity on her and acquiesced to her aggressive plays at companionship. I even got laid once... It was bad, she was clean but fat, and her face alone was a 4/10 at best... she also gave bare minimum effort and claimed she wasnt over her ex to give an effort.

We went to dinner, she bitched and whined about something stupid, then her ex called her and she dropped me off at my house. We didnt mutually contact each other for close to 7 months (she got what she wanted afterall) ... broke up with her ex again, we started talking again on a random chance... and she starts being bitchy randomly trying to test me. I completely went off on her and said some things that probably should never be said to another person out loud and then deleted her from my phone.

Dont waste your precious, finite time on Earth dealing with pieces of shit. As soon as you recognize a situation(which gets way easier with experience and maturity) just bounce out and call it a day. You will meet tons of people in your lifetime.


@OmegaTomHank
Your post is so spot on that it brings a tear to my eye.
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Hairy-man
12/10/17 6:52:11 PM
#240:


Thanks weekoldhotdog for trolling me, I thought you were legit lol

Anyway, we are at a standstill right now. I told her that if she is going to be with me, this shit has to change. So far so good, but I am definitely not hanging on as tight as I was before. If I need to bounce, I know what I have to look for.

On the plus side, she told him she doesnt want to speak ever again. So who knows
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Link HT
12/10/17 6:59:00 PM
#241:


I'm super late to the party and everything worth saying has already been said. As hard as it is, you should bail.
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littlebro07
12/10/17 10:24:26 PM
#242:


Hairy-man posted...
On the plus side, she told him she doesnt want to speak ever again. So who knows


She'll stop talking to him for a couple months then start up again.
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mipond
12/10/17 10:57:10 PM
#243:


Maybe he can trust her. Maybe she was just having doubts.
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Makeveli_lives
12/11/17 8:41:28 AM
#244:


littlebro07 posted...
Hairy-man posted...
On the plus side, she told him she doesnt want to speak ever again. So who knows


She'll stop talking to him for a couple months then start up again.

More like a week or 2.
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F1areaGaman
12/11/17 9:08:21 AM
#245:


bail
BAIL

BAIL

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JBaLLEN66
12/11/17 9:46:21 AM
#246:


Im so glad I was able to avoid these situations with women. TC, I feel so bad for you.
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iron jojo
12/11/17 10:45:23 AM
#247:


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Renraku_San
12/11/17 11:51:26 AM
#248:


Leave.

And yeah, she's definitely banged him once or twice while you two were together, maybe even last week.
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HypnoCoosh
12/11/17 11:59:34 AM
#249:


Definitely leave.

This woman will fuck you up bro.
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SquadFAM
12/11/17 10:40:59 PM
#250:


Well since we're on the dating subject, I got my first boyfriend! Online! Not really that impressive considering the majority of people who play Dueling Book are dudes and if you ask out a girl, it will be auto assumed that you are trying to be a creepy perve towards a rare and delicate flower. Not to say what I was doing wasn't creepy, it was, but it was funny. So that makes it . To clarify I also am a dude and a straight one at that. I'm also very good at fishing. So I said I was a single 19 year old non transgender white female named Samantha Hoskins, size C. I live in Charlotte NC. He lives in NC capital. He is a 20 year black guy named Christopher. Average size with no phone but he's trying to get money to get a phone card. He likes Mc.Donalds and doesn't understand how to play Yu-Gi-Oh!. Also a funny coincidence that we both just went through a bad break up . His girl dumped him and I left my old boyfriend because he ignored me. I gave him my friends number and said to call me at 5 after i got off work. Oh and I'm hot, but he still is a virgin. I explained the area code being different was because I had just moved this year to NC but haven't had a chance to change my number. So fun times.
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