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Hairy-man 12/09/17 11:39:08 AM #1: |
What the fuck am I to do? I wish I wasnt this insecure about it. But it makes me feel like her love for me is fake. She says she loves me, and shes working on it, but
Im still drawn to him somehow, I know its toxic but I cant help it, I wish I could. I am trying my best Help me CE. I am losing my shit. Do I just move on? Or find a way to work this out? Very lost --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NeverOffended 12/09/17 11:40:05 AM #2: |
I would leave her
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Ulyanyx 12/09/17 11:40:34 AM #3: |
leave her tbh
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Schwarber 12/09/17 11:40:45 AM #4: |
Abort before you get too attached
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545x39 12/09/17 11:40:56 AM #5: |
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Hairy-man 12/09/17 11:41:49 AM #6: |
NeverOffended posted...
I would leave her Ulyanyx posted... leave her tbh I get these notions. I really do. Its just incredibly hard because we had so much planned for the future, and there is a kid involved. I want to be sure on this decision because a lot rides on it. But I appreciate th advice --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guynecologist 12/09/17 11:42:13 AM #7: |
that guy must have some really good dick
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Hairy-man 12/09/17 11:42:41 AM #8: |
Guynecologist posted...
that guy must have some really good dick Was waiting for this one. True or not, its still fucked up --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Schwarber 12/09/17 11:43:02 AM #9: |
Whose kid? The exs?
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Hairy-man 12/09/17 11:43:56 AM #10: |
It doesnt help my securities because hes good looking and jacked. Im a pathetic compared to him.
But heres the thing, why commit to me?!? Just to make me feel like this in the end? --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Coolppl Owns 12/09/17 11:44:19 AM #11: |
you're just asking to get cucked if you don't leave now
shes told you how she feels. it's up to you to take action. protect yourself --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Joshsonic26 12/09/17 11:44:40 AM #12: |
If possible, spend some time apart temporarily.
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pizz 12/09/17 11:45:05 AM #13: |
But I appreciate th advice men just arent men anymore smh ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hairy-man 12/09/17 11:45:08 AM #14: |
Schwarber posted...
Whose kid? The exs? No someone else she was with for years and years. Then after they split up, she met this douchebag. Then they split up and she met me. Now she cant get over this douchebag even though its been a long time. He manipulates her. Hes a psychopath narcisist --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Callixtus 12/09/17 11:45:17 AM #15: |
Does she still run in the same circles as the guy?
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twitterfriends 12/09/17 11:46:08 AM #16: |
Eject eject eject, she will jump on his dick at the first opportunity
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Trigg3rH4ppy 12/09/17 11:46:50 AM #17: |
You're a rebound boyfriend, ditch her. Don't make a big deal out of it, just stop talking to her.
99% chance she is dating you to get over her ex. She's going to do one or more of the following: -cheat on you with her ex -leave you for her ex -leave you once she's over her ex --- ~A little nonsense, now and then, is relished by the wisest men ~ TWSSted since~ 3/27/12 https://i.imgur.com/zlaENmx.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cornmuffins 12/09/17 11:47:29 AM #18: |
I mean, at least shes being honest, but that seems like a massive red flag.
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Hairy-man 12/09/17 11:47:31 AM #19: |
Shes blocked him before to fight it, but he finds a way to get ahold of her. Like a disease.
And it hurts, because I love her. She also understands why I feel the way I do, and said she would feel the same way. So with everything being on the table, do I give it a chance and let her fight it? Or do I move on because there is honestly no hope? --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guynecologist 12/09/17 11:47:56 AM #20: |
Hairy-man posted...
Guynecologist posted...that guy must have some really good dick that is pretty fucked up, i agree i wouldnt even want to imagine the other person fucking her and shes moaning loudly like oh my god, that feels soooo good, please dont stop, and that specifically being the reason in the back of her mind why she cant move forward with you --- _Parakarry_ Take your pants off and let me see your genitals. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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einegutePerson 12/09/17 11:48:13 AM #21: |
Cornmuffins posted...
I mean, at least shes being honest, but that seems like a massive red flag. Coolppl Owns posted... you're just asking to get cucked if you don't leave now --- im a good person ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_RETS_ 12/09/17 11:49:05 AM #22: |
100% leave her. Kid isn't your problem and she isn't fully committed to the relationship with you. This really only turns out one way for you.
Make plans with someone worth making plans with. If you think the guy she can't get over is a douche bag, then you think she has poor judge of character which means she is probably also prone to making bad decisions. Cut loose, find someone you can have a relationship with that isnt a one way street. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hairy-man 12/09/17 11:49:08 AM #23: |
Guynecologist posted...
Hairy-man posted...Guynecologist posted...that guy must have some really good dick Lmao. Thankyou for the laugh. Its been a dreadful morning --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guynecologist 12/09/17 11:49:59 AM #24: |
Hairy-man posted...
Guynecologist posted...Hairy-man posted...Guynecologist posted...that guy must have some really good dick in all seriousness tho, shes likely going to cheat on you --- _Parakarry_ Take your pants off and let me see your genitals. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Trigg3rH4ppy 12/09/17 11:50:11 AM #25: |
Also, she's probably still fucking him on the side. If he's really such a douche, why do you think he even still talks to her if he's not getting laid?
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Hairy-man 12/09/17 11:50:28 AM #26: |
_RETS_ posted...
100% leave her. Kid isn't your problem and she isn't fully committed to the relationship with you. This really only turns out one way for you. Solid advice. Thankyou. But heres the thing, she pursued me! Why go through all this effort. She asked me out for months. I said no because of life circumstances at the time. But I decided to give it a fucking chance. --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah ... Copied to Clipboard!
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mipond 12/09/17 11:50:50 AM #27: |
You need to give her space as well as look out for yourself. Then see what happens. It's hard with a child involved. She needs to figure it out because it's not fair to you, her, or the child.
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LordMarshal 12/09/17 11:50:56 AM #28: |
Guynecologist posted...
Hairy-man posted...Guynecologist posted...that guy must have some really good dick Yeah, id hate to imagine that too. --- There can be only one. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KogaSteelfang 12/09/17 11:51:58 AM #29: |
Have you told her how you feel about it? Maybe instead of just ditching her, you could suggest putting things on hold until she's certain she wants to be with you.
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weapon_d00d816 12/09/17 11:52:03 AM #30: |
Is this a recent breakup? If you're the rebound guy then she may just be using you as an interim "placeholder" to soften the blow. In which case I would seriously consider either finding someone else or trying to measure up to her standards.
If this was a long time ago I wouldn't worry too much. He was hot and gave her some good dick and that's mostly what she misses, nothing important. --- SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SlG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SlG ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Callixtus 12/09/17 11:52:04 AM #31: |
Hairy-man posted...
Shes blocked him before to fight it, but he finds a way to get ahold of her. Like a disease. TC, I'm going to go against the grain, and suggest you not do anything crazy, unless you really can no longer handle the feelings of inadequacy. Sometimes these things just need time to work themselves out. You should get an ultimatum from her that its him or you, and if she chooses you, try to trust her. --- It will be more bearable for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you. | I did not come to bring peace to the earth, but the sword. -Jesus ... Copied to Clipboard!
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voldothegr8 12/09/17 11:53:07 AM #32: |
Hit it while you can because it's not going to last. You're rebound guy.
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_RETS_ 12/09/17 11:54:01 AM #33: |
Hairy-man posted...
_RETS_ posted...100% leave her. Kid isn't your problem and she isn't fully committed to the relationship with you. This really only turns out one way for you. Who knows. Probably some rebound dick, probably wanted to go the opposite direction of her ex (if you feel you are opposite of him physically and socially), but it doesn't really matter. If she is this indecisive about the people in her life and willingly subjects herself to mistreatment, she is likely to cheat on you and likely to make poor decisions any way. Her problems, her kid, whatever are not your problems. Don't waste months or years of your life fighting an inferno with a spray gun. Just fucking bounce ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SrRd_RacinG 12/09/17 11:55:25 AM #34: |
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IfGodCouldDie 12/09/17 11:58:28 AM #35: |
Hairy-man posted...
Shes blocked him before to fight it, but he finds a way to get ahold of her. Like a disease. I won't say there is no hope, but the risk massively outweighs the rewards in this situation. You are best to end it and move on. Leave her before she breaks your heart and you really have to suffer. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:Paters1 IGN:SuperPattyCakes ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Villain 12/09/17 11:58:42 AM #36: |
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IfGodCouldDie 12/09/17 12:01:33 PM #38: |
GregShmedley posted...
even if it was your kid. Nope. If it was his kid, he had damn well better fucking worry about it. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:Paters1 IGN:SuperPattyCakes ... Copied to Clipboard!
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masticatingman 12/09/17 12:01:37 PM #39: |
In the reverse situation you saying that (about an ex gf) is instant break up material for a girlfriend to leave you.
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Hairy-man 12/09/17 12:02:19 PM #40: |
We have been together about a year. It used to be great, but the past little while has been rocky because he came back in the picture and hes trying to tear her away from me. Manipulation is a real thing. I know it is a 2 way street, but this guy is a real piece of work.
Part of me wants to just leave and forget it all even happened, but the other part wants to give it a chance because maybe Im naive and think it will work out in the end. Anyway, you guys may be happy to know that I just told her If you cant let him go, then youre gonna have to let me go --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ving_Rhames 12/09/17 12:04:29 PM #42: |
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Hairy-man 12/09/17 12:04:31 PM #43: |
She also told me Im sorry that Im a monster. And then started crying.
I feel like she does feel bad for whats going on, and thats the part that makes me want to stay. But its not about that anymore. Its about how I feel. And I feel like shit! --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah ... Copied to Clipboard!
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IfGodCouldDie 12/09/17 12:04:35 PM #44: |
Hairy-man posted...
We have been together about a year. It used to be great, but the past little while has been rocky because he came back in the picture and hes trying to tear her away from me. Manipulation is a real thing. I know it is a 2 way street, but this guy is a real piece of work. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:Paters1 IGN:SuperPattyCakes ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Villain 12/09/17 12:04:43 PM #45: |
Hairy-man posted...
We have been together about a year. IMO time to jump ship then, this is a rebound situation. --- http://i.imgur.com/ZWNgMXL.jpg Formerly known as Will VIIII ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Alucard188 12/09/17 12:05:02 PM #46: |
Get out of that relationship. She's not over her ex, and it will just hurt you in the end.
Hairy-man posted... I get these notions. I really do. Its just incredibly hard because we had so much planned for the future, and there is a kid involved. I want to be sure on this decision because a lot rides on it. Wait. How can she not be over her ex, yet you guys are already planning for the future? This has 'bad idea' written all over it. Get out. --- Face it Cloud is a gaming icon and has appered in lots of games while mario has only appeared in 2 games sunshine and 64~xSlashbomBx ... Copied to Clipboard!
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littlebro07 12/09/17 12:05:15 PM #47: |
Pics of you, him, and the girl.
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SrRd_RacinG 12/09/17 12:05:17 PM #48: |
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IfGodCouldDie 12/09/17 12:08:00 PM #49: |
GregShmedley posted...
IfGodCouldDie posted...GregShmedley posted...even if it was your kid. I thought you meant just to forget the kid even if it was his. I agree that staying together just for kids is a bad idea. It's much better to raise kids apart so they can see you happy than it is to raise them together and be unhappy. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:Paters1 IGN:SuperPattyCakes ... Copied to Clipboard!
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