Poll of the Day > How important is it to you that the woman you're with, be a virgin?

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How important is this to you? Important at all?

not really, no.
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Well I've had sex with her a ton of times so it would be very strange to suddenly have that expectation.
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If she's not a virgin then she'll know how bad I am. So, pretty important.
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Not important at all.
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not at all.
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It is very important that she is not a virgin.
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what a weird fucking question. who cares? guys who are after virgins are usually fucking sick in the head, ok?
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Very important, she also must be a 10/10 and willing to have threesomes with my waifu pillow

Zero importance.
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at my age i'd be surprised to find a woman that is both a virgin and tolerable (for me anyways) to be around. either she'd be extremely undesirable in some fashion, or extremely religious. neither of which i'd want to bother with.
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If I met a chick who was in her late twenties and still a virgin I would think she was lying or there was something very wrong with her

MICHALECOLE posted...

If I met a chick who was in her late twenties and still a virgin I would think she was lying or there was something very wrong with her

yeah oldest female virgin I met who wasn't as I put in my post undesirable to me, was 22 back when I was around that age. according to my best friend who took that from her, she wasn't lying.
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Zangulus posted...

Ive never understood the whole 70 virgins thing.

Im going to blow myself up, and in reward Ill find 70 girls who cry and dont know how to suck dick.

Gimme 70 middle aged experienced women and well talk about this whole suicide bomber thing.

Something about how virgins are pure and that they will become unclean if they are alone with a male in a house, even if she is locked inside a room all alone.
We are talking about a place where they believe that it is alright to stone unclean people to death just to prevent them from making you unclean just standing next to you.
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It's not but it's happened.
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Well, I hope she knows what gives her an orgasm and can tell me.

Well I like having sex with her, so I'd actually think it'd be a detriment if she remained a virgin while she was with me.

My experience is that if they haven't had sex before me they certainly aren't willing to start with me.

Very important, they can't know if I have a tiny dick if they nothing to compare it too!
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As long as another dude's dick isn't in her when she's my girl, idgaf.
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That gets statistically more impossible the older you get. You only shoot yourself in the foot with that standard.
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I just want my first to be a virgin as well. If I don't get that, I don't care. It's not like I need another virgin.
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I like being a woman's first, but in reality I'm usually her fifteenth or twentieth... maybe even more. However, you to know, to go boldly where no man has gone before always feels like a bigger thing.

Yellow posted...

That gets statistically more impossible the older you get. You only shoot yourself in the foot with that standard.

This might shock you, but your age doesn't necessarily have to be their age. You can sleep with 20 y/os when you're 20, when you're 30, etc.
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I think I would like that. It sounds neat to be each other's first, and to learn things together. Still, that's not going to happen. It'd be a miracle if I could land a slut lol.
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KogaSteelfang posted...

I think I would like that. It sounds neat to be each other's first, and to learn things together. Still, that's not going to happen. It'd be a miracle if I could land a slut lol.

Same.
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How insecure do you have to be to want to date a virgin? That's an unhealthy mindset that is probably going to lead to a lot of relationship issues. I imagine that these guys are the type who won't let their girlfriends hang out with male friends if they aren't present.

Rockies posted...

How insecure do you have to be to want to date a virgin? That's an unhealthy mindset that is probably going to lead to a lot of relationship issues. I imagine that these guys are the type who won't let their girlfriends hang out with male friends if they aren't present.

I was just saying I think it'd be nice to share a first time is all. >_>
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KogaSteelfang posted...

Rockies posted...

How insecure do you have to be to want to date a virgin? That's an unhealthy mindset that is probably going to lead to a lot of relationship issues. I imagine that these guys are the type who won't let their girlfriends hang out with male friends if they aren't present.

I was just saying I think it'd be nice to share a first time is all. >_>

And it would be. Sadly it doesn't always end up that way though

It's a bonus but not necessary at all

Rockies posted...

How insecure do you have to be to want to date a virgin? That's an unhealthy mindset that is probably going to lead to a lot of relationship issues. I imagine that these guys are the type who won't let their girlfriends hang out with male friends if they aren't present.

I thought girls that have slept around get that treatment
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When I'm in a serious relationship, the only thing that's important to me is that she doesn't still keep in touch with any of my predecessors. Virginity isn't some magical quality that gives you the power to tame unicorns or anything, and it has no value to me whatsoever.
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Funkdamental posted...

When I'm in a serious relationship, the only thing that's important to me is that she doesn't still keep in touch with any of my predecessors. Virginity isn't some magical quality that gives you the power to tame unicorns or anything, and it has no value to me whatsoever.

Yeah, but the more people you've slept with the more unappealing you are imo obviously the difference between 1 and 3 is negligible but what about once they get to 10 or 20 or to a point where they can't even remember anymore?
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Not at all, as long as I can trust her to be faithful to me.
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Zeus posted...

I like being a woman's first, but in reality I'm usually her fifteenth or twentieth... maybe even more. However, you to know, to go boldly where no man has gone before always feels like a bigger thing.

Yellow posted...

That gets statistically more impossible the older you get. You only shoot yourself in the foot with that standard.

This might shock you, but your age doesn't necessarily have to be their age. You can sleep with 20 y/os when you're 20, when you're 30, etc.

some people prefer their own age group. and the topic asks how important it is to us as an individual. so people answer based on that.
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Non important

Muscles posted...

Funkdamental posted...

When I'm in a serious relationship, the only thing that's important to me is that she doesn't still keep in touch with any of my predecessors. Virginity isn't some magical quality that gives you the power to tame unicorns or anything, and it has no value to me whatsoever.

Yeah, but the more people you've slept with the more unappealing you are imo obviously the difference between 1 and 3 is negligible but what about once they get to 10 or 20 or to a point where they can't even remember anymore?

That's never made any difference to me. I've accumulated a bit of a track record of my own over the years, and I don't squeal "eeewwwwww" when I meet another grown-up who's had a life.
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Zangulus posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

Rockies posted...

How insecure do you have to be to want to date a virgin? That's an unhealthy mindset that is probably going to lead to a lot of relationship issues. I imagine that these guys are the type who won't let their girlfriends hang out with male friends if they aren't present.

I was just saying I think it'd be nice to share a first time is all. >_>

Its awwwwkkwwwaaarrrddd.

Way awkward. I did it. Totally not worth the trouble. People obsess over virginity way too much.

The cultures where torn hymens are taken as a sign that someone with a vagina is unclean or promiscuous make me really angry, especially, because that's just total medical ignorance of the worst kind. Penetrative sex is not the only way to tear that thing, any kind of energetic exercise could theoretically do it, gymnastics and horse-riding are the most common kinds that do.

Anyway... Like I said, people treat virginity like such a big deal, but it absolutely isn't and it shouldn't be. Its a psychological thing more than anything, since for most people you really can't tell whether they are or are not a virgin based on physical observation.
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Muscles posted...

Funkdamental posted...

When I'm in a serious relationship, the only thing that's important to me is that she doesn't still keep in touch with any of my predecessors. Virginity isn't some magical quality that gives you the power to tame unicorns or anything, and it has no value to me whatsoever.

Yeah, but the more people you've slept with the more unappealing you are imo obviously the difference between 1 and 3 is negligible but what about once they get to 10 or 20 or to a point where they can't even remember anymore?

Pfft. If that's how you feel about it, I certainly wouldn't want to date you (even though I haven't slept with 10+ people, or anything like that). Nor would anyone I know. One's sexual history should only be relevant to a current or future partner where it concerns (a) potential monogamy or polyamory and/or (b) whether or not they or you are clean and healthy down below.

This post just says how narrow-minded you are - very! - and I wouldn't trust anybody of that opinion not to be equally narrow-minded in other ways, some maybe even more important.

How many people have you slept with, then?

(Sorry to post one after the other, thread. My mobile browser is being weird about editing new quotes into old posts or something.)
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Rockies posted...

How insecure do you have to be to want to date a virgin? That's an unhealthy mindset that is probably going to lead to a lot of relationship issues. I imagine that these guys are the type who won't let their girlfriends hang out with male friends if they aren't present.

My girlfriend got mad when I told her I don't care if she's a virgin, because she thinks it devalues her virginity.

I really just want my first to be with another Virgin. Especially so there's no risk of STDs. Is that too much to ask?
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It's important that the women I'm with is not a virgin.
I mean, if her hymen grew back every day that'd be horrible. (and painful)
In general, sex with an experienced girl is better

Not at all, if anything, the opposite. I'm too damn old and value someone with skills in bed too much to worry about having to teach someone new or break in a rookie.
That's for teenagers and insecure jealous types, the rest of us want a freak in between the sheets.
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jedirood posted...

I really just want my first to be with another Virgin. Especially so there's no risk of STDs. Is that too much to ask?

Frankly, it's stupid.

Non-virgins are far more likely to recognise the symptoms of STDs and avoid them or get treated for them - and being a virgin in the technical sense does not necessarily mean that (a) they've never had non-penetrative sex, which can still carry a risk of STDs, or (b) that they don't have other kinds of infections that can be sexually transmitted. Those do exist, y'know.

You're probably far safer with a mature adult who knows what they're doing than someone with zero experience, in spite of the ignorant stigma that you seem to have bought into about non-virgins being "unclean". You being a virgin doesn't make you any better or purer than anybody else, whatever you think.
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Blightzkrieg posted...

Rockies posted...

How insecure do you have to be to want to date a virgin? That's an unhealthy mindset that is probably going to lead to a lot of relationship issues. I imagine that these guys are the type who won't let their girlfriends hang out with male friends if they aren't present.

My girlfriend got mad when I told her I don't care if she's a virgin, because she thinks it devalues her virginity.

That is profoundly disturbing. Sounds like someone has had it drummed into her far too heavily that virginity is a measure of the person and their character. That's... a lot of baggage. And a lot of internalised misogyny :(
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Muscles posted...

Funkdamental posted...

When I'm in a serious relationship, the only thing that's important to me is that she doesn't still keep in touch with any of my predecessors. Virginity isn't some magical quality that gives you the power to tame unicorns or anything, and it has no value to me whatsoever.

Yeah, but the more people you've slept with the more unappealing you are imo obviously the difference between 1 and 3 is negligible but what about once they get to 10 or 20 or to a point where they can't even remember anymore?

jedirood posted...

I really just want my first to be with another Virgin. Especially so there's no risk of STDs. Is that too much to ask?

It doesn't matter to me either way. I like the challenge of a girl that's been with a bunch of dudes. Rank me after and let me know who I should add to my ebdb, it's grown pretty large lately. I even have a few 3 time Eskimo brothers
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I need her to be cracked open prior.
Im not here to train anybody.
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EvilMegas posted...

I need her to be cracked open prior.

Come on now bruh
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It was juat a prank bro, im sorry.
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