Current Events > okcupid/Tinder/online dating /regular dating general topic IX

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emblem boy posted...

gna647 posted...

I noticed girls get really self conscious if they don't make you finish during sex


And it's reallymy bad because I tend to deed 2-3 times a day. So right now I'm abstaining from it so I can buildup my load >___>

The fuck.

Man, I swear I have low sex drive. I deed like 3 times a week. Less since I started having sex (feels good to say that.)

My sex drive is very high
Also I think it has something to do with the amount of physical activity I do

Good thing this girl has a high sex drive as well.
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@billcom6

How was your Riot Fest day one?

I caught Liars, Four Year Strong, Action Bronson, some of Death From Above, Story So Far, and Ministry, New Order, and Nine Inch Nails, then saw the Cap'n Jazz aftershow.

All in all a kickass day.

On topic I only got three matches so far on Chicago tinder
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Oh wow cap'n jazz is doing reunions?
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Where the fuck does one find the time to deed 3 times a day??

On top of regularly having sex??
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drunkmuggle posted...

Oh wow cap'n jazz is doing reunions?

Just a few shows this year I think

They're playing the fest Sunday but it conflicts with Built to Spill playing Keep it Like a Secret in full, and thats one of my favorite albums
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Conflict posted...

I just opened Tinder for the first time in a couple days and got 2 matches right off the bat after weeks of getting nothing

Alrighty then

I don't understand Tinder's algorithms at all. I can have nothing for weeks, then I'll start over and get a flux of matches.
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Today is date 2 with OKC girl. Just messaged me she has an alternative plan for today if I'd like to, I'm waiting to see what it is.

It's nice seeing her take the initiative, takes some pressure off me.
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Second date with guy from OKC was awesome. What a handsome man he is. I still Can't believe he actually wants to see me again.
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TheGoldenEel posted...

@billcom6

How was your Riot Fest day one?

I caught Liars, Four Year Strong, Action Bronson, some of Death From Above, Story So Far, and Ministry, New Order, and Nine Inch Nails, then saw the Cap'n Jazz aftershow.

All in all a kickass day.

On topic I only got three matches so far on Chicago tinder

@TheGoldenEel

Friday was cool.
Best sets I watched Friday: Like Pacific, Seaway, Four Year Strong, Story So Far

The Story So Far who was I was most excited to see on Friday. It was cool until right at the end some crowd surfer landed on my head and I am pretty sure I got a concussion. A Day to Remember was just fucking nuts. There were too many fucking people. I spent the first 3 songs just being crushed then slowly got to the back, but I couldn't even really enjoy it that much cause I had such a bad headache and every flashing light was like a knife to my brain. I rode the train home with my head down, got back to my friends place pounded some water took some tylenol and went straight to bed. Luckily I woke up feeling good.

Saturday was probably a better day overall. And not just because I didn't feel concussed.
Best sets: Knuckle Puck, New Found Glory, At the Drive In, Streetlight Manifesto

And I actually got to hang out with a friend who was there for a bit so that was good.

I came today though. Pissed I am missing Jawbreaker, and Real Friends and The Menzingers.



To stay on the topic of dating.
I opened tinder a few times, and swept through bumble a lot.
No matches.

I can't decided if I am going to delete my accounts tomorrow or wait till I am in Columbus on Thursday just to see if I get any matches there.
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Went to the fair and before going we ate some "brownies."


We were waiting in line for a ride and she tells me she doesn't feel very good. And she slowly collapses with her eyes open. I kinda freak out and start calling her name and holding her off the ground and her eyes were still open. Thought she had a seizure and almost called 911. She just got real high and fainted. But after walking for a bit she said she felt better and wanted to still ride rides.


Still pretty damn scary. She ate a ton of food afterwards too. That's the most high I've seen her


Anyways after today I realized I really like this girl and plan on having s long time thing with her. Like I imagined what I thought of her before I found out about the STD's and I do remember I was pretty excited about talking to her. And best thing is she likes me a ton. Like she said she likes the little things about me like the way I smell like and how I leave her bed and my "pretty face."


Just crazy how pretty she is tbh


So deciding to stick with her.
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Only got a few tinder matches in Chicago but i did get a message from a girl back home (even better!)

Do people still use super likes? I found a couple of girls I'd want to use them on


billcom6 posted...

TheGoldenEel posted...

@billcom6

How was your Riot Fest day one?

I caught Liars, Four Year Strong, Action Bronson, some of Death From Above, Story So Far, and Ministry, New Order, and Nine Inch Nails, then saw the Cap'n Jazz aftershow.

All in all a kickass day.

On topic I only got three matches so far on Chicago tinder

@TheGoldenEel

Friday was cool.
Best sets I watched Friday: Like Pacific, Seaway, Four Year Strong, Story So Far

The Story So Far who was I was most excited to see on Friday. It was cool until right at the end some crowd surfer landed on my head and I am pretty sure I got a concussion. A Day to Remember was just fucking nuts. There were too many fucking people. I spent the first 3 songs just being crushed then slowly got to the back, but I couldn't even really enjoy it that much cause I had such a bad headache and every flashing light was like a knife to my brain. I rode the train home with my head down, got back to my friends place pounded some water took some tylenol and went straight to bed. Luckily I woke up feeling good.

Saturday was probably a better day overall. And not just because I didn't feel concussed.
Best sets: Knuckle Puck, New Found Glory, At the Drive In, Streetlight Manifesto

And I actually got to hang out with a friend who was there for a bit so that was good.

I came today though. Pissed I am missing Jawbreaker, and Real Friends and The Menzingers.

Did you just go alone?

I saw a ton of awesome stuff but yeah there were some brutal conflicts, especially Sunday. Jawbreaker was incredible, and I'm not even that familiar with them. Also caught most of Paramore's set which skewed way towards their newer sound but they still played a lot of what I wanted to hear. Would've liked to catch some Prophets (though I heard they suck) and MIA
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I went alone, and watched most sets by myself, but I met up with a girl I know there both days for a little bit.
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Been on three dates with this girl. Slept with her(figuiratively and literally), and now I've met her family(though briefly and unintentionally).

Aww yisss

Just met this girl off bumble, she was super cute and we had an intense make out session. Very smart and funny. So far I like where this is going. Our humor was very similar

I feel like my emotions are a wreck

i think im developing feelings for this girl


but at the same time i still think about halloween girl all the time.


its like...confusing.
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gna647 posted...

I feel like my emotions are a wreck

i think im developing feelings for this girl


but at the same time i still think about halloween girl all the time.


its like...confusing.

Do you have mommy issues or something?
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What app do I use if I want to actually date someone? I'm not really a fan of one night stands.
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OpShaft posted...

What app do I use if I want to actually date someone? I'm not really a fan of one night stands.

tinder, bumble, okc, pof

I don't get Tinder. My phone notifies me whenever someone swipes right. However, I'll swipe through all the profiles for the day, and won't get a match. It's like it's not always displaying people who swipe right.
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Tanoomba posted...

I don't get Tinder. My phone notifies me whenever someone swipes right. However, I'll swipe through all the profiles for the day, and won't get a match. It's like it's not always displaying people who swipe right.

...

Use some logic on why that is for a secondn
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Tanoomba posted...

gna647 posted...

I feel like my emotions are a wreck

i think im developing feelings for this girl


but at the same time i still think about halloween girl all the time.


its like...confusing.

Do you have mommy issues or something?

im actually a privileged asian american that grew up in a middle-class suburban home life.

but i think my stunted emotional intelligence comes from the lack of interaction with the opposite sex as I was growing up. I didn't have a girlfriend, no girls really took an interest in me(i'm a late bloomer, and people referred to me as the "scrawny asian kid.")

so all this attention im getting from women now as an adult is a pretty new experience, and social dating apps kinda speed up the process by a shit ton. Its weird growing up as the ugly teenager to getting like 3 dates with different girls a month.
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A ton of men are late bloomers when it comes to dating. That doesn't explain why you're so attached to emotional abuse.
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Tanoomba posted...

A ton of men are late bloomers when it comes to dating. That doesn't explain why you're so attached to emotional abuse.

thats not emotional abuse

well i mean she didnt intend emotional abuse. She was just trying to be a friend. If anything, i was abusing myself
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gna647 posted...

Tanoomba posted...

gna647 posted...

I feel like my emotions are a wreck

i think im developing feelings for this girl


but at the same time i still think about halloween girl all the time.


its like...confusing.

Do you have mommy issues or something?

im actually a privileged asian american that grew up in a middle-class suburban home life.

but i think my stunted emotional intelligence comes from the lack of interaction with the opposite sex as I was growing up. I didn't have a girlfriend, no girls really took an interest in me(i'm a late bloomer, and people referred to me as the "scrawny asian kid.")

so all this attention im getting from women now as an adult is a pretty new experience, and social dating apps kinda speed up the process by a shit ton. Its weird growing up as the ugly teenager to getting like 3 dates with different girls a month.

this is like me except I'm Indian and replace month with week

Think I’m gonna make an OkCupid account tonight

Not sure what my username should be though. I didn’t like my old one
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Tomorrow is the day, I am deleting my accounts on everything.

I really don't know how long I will keep them deleted. I mean I know I will be back, probably sooner than later, but I am not setting a time table on it. I mean, it's not like I am gonna meet somebody some other way lol.
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If a condom breaks, it's noticable right? It would be a rip and wouldn't be like small holes right?
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emblem boy posted...

If a condom breaks, it's noticable right? It would be a rip and wouldn't be like small holes right?

In my experience, it rips completely.
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emblem boy posted...

If a condom breaks, it's noticable right? It would be a rip and wouldn't be like small holes right?

EB going hard
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Coolppl Owns posted...

emblem boy posted...

If a condom breaks, it's noticable right? It would be a rip and wouldn't be like small holes right?

EMgoing hard

OpShaft posted...

emblem boy posted...

If a condom breaks, it's noticable right? It would be a rip and wouldn't be like small holes right?

In my experience, it rips completely.

Aight. That's what I'm seeing from what I've read. I've been paranoid about trying to make sure nothing is like dripping.

Coolppl Owns posted...

emblem boy posted...

If a condom breaks, it's noticable right? It would be a rip and wouldn't be like small holes right?

EB going hard

Blue_Popo posted...

Coolppl Owns posted...

emblem boy posted...

If a condom breaks, it's noticable right? It would be a rip and wouldn't be like small holes right?

E Mgoing hard

By going hard, you mean paranoid as fuck
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Ok guys, I got questions.

Was talking to a friend that's been dating a girl for 4 years.

In the beginning he would use condoms while also pulling out while she was on birth control.

At times when she hasn't been on birth control they'll just use condoms and he still pulls out.

And at times she'll be on no birth control and he'll use no condoms but then just pull out.

He's never finished inside her before as well.

Like, he's either going safe as fuck or risky.

Is that weird? Mainly the BC, condom, and pull out at the same times
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What should I put in my profile thing on these sites? I'm not looking for hook ups, how should I word that(if at all)?

I'm 26 and I was with a chick from 17. Not really used to all this dating stuff
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Shit this chick matched with me and already said hi :(

I'm not ready
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You ain't gonna believe it

Fantastic Saturday ruined by guess who...Halloween girl

Took my girl out for breakfast after boxing weigh ins. Had Cracker Barrel. Was amazing.

I won my amateur boxing match at the Johnny tapia memorial event by unanimous. Got one of the first ever amateur WBC medals handed out.

Went to SOMOS show in my city's downtown area. To watch Dillon Francis and Minus the Bear. I was drunk as fuck, show was amazing. My girl couldn't go though. SO I'm with a few college friends.

After show is over we go to el Rey theater to drink some more and dance more. Halloween girl texts my friend to meet her there (mutual friends)

So she actually fucking shows up. WITH this new tall white boy she's dating (different from the previous one) idk wtf she has for tall lanky pale white blonde boys.

Things get awkward quick. She acts like she doesn't notice me, until my friend awkwardly points me out in front of her and is like "did you see gna647?" And she acts surprised and gives me a hug and says "omg didn't recognize you."


Buys us drinks. She starts dancing with my friend and her dude. I dip the fuck out.

Amazing Saturday ending horribly within 5 minutes. Wow.
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A girl I met with last week has been going well. We've met 3 times since and it's going good. I deleted pof and bumble, met another girl today out of fairness since our conversation was going for a while. She was a little shy but we are still texting afterwards and it seems like she's into me as well

Deleted bumble.
But matched with like 4 people this week on tinder so I haven't deleted yet, probably will tomorrow.

Have a tentative date set for next weekend. She seems way too excited to go out though, almost seems like a red flag.

Having never been in a relationship I don't think I have a fear of commitment but I am afraid I do and that when the chance arises I will run away.

Also I really need some closure with the girl I hung out with last year, like we haven't even seen each other in months but I need some answers about stuff.
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I feel like a lot of girls(and guys) have their "slut phase." And you don't want to catch feelings for a girl in their "slut phases"

Basically people that are really horny and aren't settling down anytime soon and they just wanna fuck guys they think are hot.

And yeah they might not even show it at first when you take them out on a date.

Pretty sure the Latina I slept with a couple months back was in the middle of her slut phase. Cause we went out on a nice date, fucked, fucked again in the morning and she stopped messaging me after that. But kept me on her social media.
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billcom6 posted...

Deleted bumble.
But matched with like 4 people this week on tinder so I haven't deleted yet, probably will tomorrow.

Have a tentative date set for next weekend. She seems way too excited to go out though, almost seems like a red flag.

Having never been in a relationship I don't think I have a fear of commitment but I am afraid I do and that when the chance arises I will run away.

Also I really need some closure with the girl I hung out with last year, like we haven't even seen each other in months but I need some answers about stuff.

We were suppose to hang out tonight. She canceled. This isn't the first time.
I know people outside the situation would say just tell her to "fuck off" but I could never. She isn't a bad person she is just dealing with a lot. It seems like a lot of people in the past have treated her overly negatively about stuff and I am not going to add to that.
We talked on the phone for awhile and she really talked a lot about missing me, which I believe, but at a certain point (unless we go back to seeing each other all the time) I will have to just tell her "goodbye" and I know I am putting it off, not just because of how it will affect her, but how it will affect me.

I don't really know. This is what happens when you are 33 and only had one person ever really care about you that way. You don't know how to handle any kind of emotions.
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^Why does anyone do anything unhealthy? Most people are neurotic and get stuck in patterns.
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She almost broke up with me because she felt like she would carry that burden forever if she's gave me her STD

I told her it's my choice and that if she wants me then I'm hers. Told her to choose what makes her happy
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Condom broke last night. She said not to worry because she tracks her periods and stuff and she should be starting her period today or tomorrow. And from what I've read online, it's really small chance of pregnancy happening that close to a period... Assuming her cycle is regular.
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emblem boy posted...

Condom broke last night. She said not to worry because she tracks her periods and stuff and she should be starting her period today or tomorrow. And from what I've read online, it's really small chance of pregnancy happening that close to a period... Assuming her cycle is regular.

Who supplied the condoms?
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OpShaft posted...

emblem boy posted...

Condom broke last night. She said not to worry because she tracks her periods and stuff and she should be starting her period today or tomorrow. And from what I've read online, it's really small chance of pregnancy happening that close to a period... Assuming her cycle is regular.

Who supplied the condoms?

Me
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Okay good
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Everything I'm reading pretty much shows that I shouldn't worry, but still.
She seems to not be worrying at all as well
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emblem boy posted...

Everything I'm reading pretty much shows that I shouldn't worry, but still.
She seems to not be worrying at all as well

I don't see why any sexually active female isn't on birth control.

Tell her to get on birth control.
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