Current Events > okcupid/Tinder/online dating /regular dating general topic IX

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I'm almost tempted to go out to a bar tonight, by myself.

The bars in my town are kind of shitty but the next town over (25 minute drive) has a few decent ones.

I will probably stay home and drink alone though.
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DeroIin posted...

Looks like my Tinder drought might be ending; meeting with a cute freshman chick from a nearby college to mine Friday morning. Cheesecake Factory, looking forward to it

We never hung out today but that worked out because I had class anyways and her car broke down, so she's going to borrow her dads. We are going to hang out tomorrow in the afternoon, looking forward to it considering this is only my 2nd Tinder date in 20 months
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Here is my last 10 months dating summed up in a song

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kMrJ3TpZXbs&feature=youtu.be
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Cheesecake Factory is an expensive first date

Make sure she's not using you for a free dinner because there's a lot of girls out there that do that

Even my current girlfriend admitted she did that to guys before meeting me
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billcom6 posted...

I'm almost tempted to go out to a bar tonight, by myself.

The bars in my town are kind of shitty but the next town over (25 minute drive) has a few decent ones.

I will probably stay home and drink alone though.

Do it man. I've seen a lot of girls going out by themselves, too. It's like the girls are trying harder now to meet men.
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Everytime I go out drinking by myself I get more guys coming to talk to me than anything >___>
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Yeah never take girls you've never met out to dinner

Pulled off the double-header sweep tonight -- had dates with two girls, hooked up with both. The second girl just left my place.

This week, going back to Sunday, I've hooked up with four different girls -- two were first times (tonight), the other two were not. Also passed up a lay-up on Tues because I was watching the baseball game. Not bad.

Actually still alert enough now (2:15am ET) that I'm going to go to my local bar and see what's up. Maybe I'll pull off a trifecta. Most likely not, but I'll update CE if I do.
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Was definitely over-optimistic (and drunk) when I wrote that last message. Ended up coming back home in 20 minutes, but I did stop to get pizza. Hangover is about a 4 this morning.
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The Admiral posted...

Was definitely over-optimistic (and drunk) when I wrote that last message. Ended up coming back home in 20 minutes, but I did stop to get. Hangover is about a 4 this morning.

Stop to get...?
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DeroIin posted...

The Admiral posted...

Was definitely over-optimistic (and drunk) when I wrote that last message. Ended up coming back home in 20 minutes, but I did stop to get. Hangover is about a 4 this morning.

Stop to get...?

Whoops. Stop to get pizza. Guess missing word is a side effect of being hungover for me.
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Blue_Popo posted...

Yeah never take girls you've never met out to dinner

Ehh
Wouldn't say it's not a bad thing as long as it's not expensive like cheesecake

I took this Latina to this Asian restaurant for dinner and we hooked up for the night and I can say it was well worth it.
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So, OKC girl came home about an hour ago. I was too happy to get to spend the whole evening with her.

She told me that unfortunately she's not ready for a relationship now, and she broke up with me.

I just want to crawl in a hole and stay there the whole weekend. Much like I've never imagined how happy I would feel with a girlfriend, I could have never imagined how much it hurts now.

A few minutes ago, I sent her a Whatsapp saying how much she meant to me, that I would like to know the reason behind it and that if it's just a problem of timing, I can wait. I know it's pathetic and desperate, and won't amount to anything, but I had to say it. I don't regret it.

I guess it's back to square one for me. I'll reopen my OKC account, but not this instant. I need to take it out of my system first.

Still, there is a bright side to this: if someone had told me a year ago that I would get into a romantic relationship, I would have laughed at him. I've gone from not even daring to talk to women to here. And now I know that I can do it again. And again. Until it works.

Plus A Hat in Time is finally out. Who would have thought.
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ArchangelBaruch posted...

So, OKC girl came home about an hour ago. I was too happy to get to spend the whole evening with her.

She told me that unfortunately she's not ready for a relationship now, and she broke up with me.

I just want to crawl in a hole and stay there the whole weekend. Much like I've never imagined how happy I would feel with a girlfriend, I could have never imagined how much it hurts now.

A few minutes ago, I sent her a Whatsapp saying how much she meant to me, that I would like to know the reason behind it and that if it's just a problem of timing, I can wait. I know it's pathetic and desperate, and won't amount to anything, but I had to say it. I don't regret it.

I guess it's back to square one for me. I'll reopen my OKC account, but not this instant. I need to take it out of my system first.

Still, there is a bright side to this: if someone had told me a year ago that I would get into a romantic relationship, I would have laughed at him. I've gone from not even daring to talk to women to here. And now I know that I can do it again. And again. Until it works.

Plus A Hat in Time is finally out. Who would have thought.

Wow, that's really terrible to hear. Sorry, man.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/74v4yf/tifu_by_meeting_a_girl_from_tinder_nsfw/
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ArchangelBaruch posted...

I was too happy to get to spend the whole evening with her.

She told me that unfortunately she's not ready for a relationship now, and she broke up with me.

Gee, didn't see that one coming.

Not to rub salt in the wound. But most of us have been there. It sucks, but you have to learn from it.
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Tanoomba posted...

ArchangelBaruch posted...

I was too happy to get to spend the whole evening with her.

She told me that unfortunately she's not ready for a relationship now, and she broke up with me.

Gee, didn't see that one coming.

Not to rub salt in the wound. But most of us have been there. It sucks, but you have to learn from it.

This

Blue_Popo posted...

Tanoomba posted...

ArchangelBaruch posted...

I was too happy to get to spend the whole evening with her.

She told me that unfortunately she's not ready for a relationship now, and she broke up with me.

Gee, didn't see that one coming.

Not to rub salt in the wound. But most of us have been there. It sucks, but you have to learn from it.

This

Will do. In retrospective it would have been a monumental coincidence to find the perfect girl on first try.

It's just that normal people get this lesson in their teenage years, not when they are 28. I don't know if it's better or worse.
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ArchangelBaruch posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Tanoomba posted...

ArchangelBaruch posted...

I was too happy to get to spend the whole evening with her.

She told me that unfortunately she's not ready for a relationship now, and she broke up with me.

Gee, didn't see that one coming.

Not to rub salt in the wound. But most of us have been there. It sucks, but you have to learn from it.

This

Will do. In retrospective it would have been a monumental coincidence to find the perfect girl on first try.

It's just that normal people get this lesson in their teenage years, not when they are 28. I don't know if it's better or worse.

Don't limit yourself to one app when you do decide to go back. Get on bumble, tinder, okc and pof

It doesn't matter how old you are. Just have fun. Even people who fuck up relationships when they're teens still don't learn their lesson when they're much older. You have to be willing to learn
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Hell of a ride
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