Poll of the Day > Whatdoes it mean when a girl never texts you first but will always reply to you?

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thecolorgreen
07/11/17 5:58:48 PM
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80/80


We even hang out sometimes. But she will NEVER text me unless i text her first.
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adjl
07/11/17 6:06:14 PM
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Either she's shy and doesn't like initiating communication despite enjoying your conversations, or she doesn't actually want to talk to you and is just humouring you to be polite. Hard to say which from the information you've given.
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MNTwins1991
07/11/17 6:16:34 PM
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adjl posted...
Either she's shy and doesn't like initiating communication despite enjoying your conversations, or she doesn't actually want to talk to you and is just humouring you to be polite. Hard to say which from the information you've given.

probably the latter
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MICHALCOLE
07/11/17 6:20:24 PM
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You're not on her mind unless you put yourself there

Not a good sign if you're trying to give her the d
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Zeus
07/11/17 6:23:42 PM
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She's just not that into you.

adjl posted...
Either she's shy and doesn't like initiating communication despite enjoying your conversations, or she doesn't actually want to talk to you and is just humouring you to be polite. Hard to say which from the information you've given.


Possibly. But all the same it's weird for even a shy girl to not initiate after talking to a guy for a while.
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Superrpgman
07/11/17 6:26:09 PM
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My advice:

Make a supportive female friend, and ask her questions about girls.
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TheCyborgNinja
07/11/17 6:48:35 PM
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adjl posted...
Either she's shy and doesn't like initiating communication despite enjoying your conversations, or she doesn't actually want to talk to you and is just humouring you to be polite. Hard to say which from the information you've given.

Yeah, I mean it depends how talkative she becomes when you text her and what she says. The content and enthusiasm is pretty important to relay for an accurate assessment.
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Blighboy
07/11/17 6:56:52 PM
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Girl: k

Me: *imagining what our children will look like*
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TheCyborgNinja
07/11/17 7:11:39 PM
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It's hard to be objective sometimes though, because people are complex. I went out for lunch today and the waitress was seemingly looking at me a lot and smiling. Some people would read heavily into that, I simply think she's good at her job. There's no way to guess with complete accuracy.
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thecolorgreen
07/11/17 7:35:36 PM
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I asked her:

5GD0A14
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thecolorgreen
07/11/17 8:06:13 PM
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And this is what it looks like to be friend-zoned:

Dhynu1o
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Jen0125
07/11/17 8:08:57 PM
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ugh that is sooo cringy. why would you tell her you're hugging "the one?" you're not even dating her.
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DorkLink
07/11/17 8:10:06 PM
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Okay so you really are a super cringelord when it comes to talking to women. I had a faint hope that your Jen stalking was just a (really unfunny) joke but now I assume you're serious
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MICHALCOLE
07/11/17 8:10:12 PM
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Jesus Christ that's awful man

You need to play it cool. That was terrible to read.
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darcandkharg31
07/11/17 8:10:15 PM
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that was fucked, tell me that's fake, plz.
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Jen0125
07/11/17 8:11:44 PM
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@RCtheWSBC
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RCtheWSBC
07/11/17 8:36:35 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
RCtheWSBC

Don't @ me on this foolishness
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green dragon
07/11/17 8:44:16 PM
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Classic ryan
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DrPrimemaster
07/11/17 8:50:03 PM
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Can't even read that.

Also, this doesn't apply to you, but some girls will never text guys first, even if they are interested.
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Jen0125
07/11/17 8:55:48 PM
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RCtheWSBC posted...
Jen0125 posted...
RCtheWSBC

Don't @ me on this foolishness


Lmao you love it tho
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ProbablySkye
07/11/17 9:13:50 PM
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DrPrimemaster posted...
Can't even read that.

Also, this doesn't apply to you, but some girls will never text guys first, even if they are interested.


What if it's the other way around? Girl always texting first... and the guy doesn't?
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Snuggletoof
07/11/17 9:20:20 PM
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I dated someone who was like this. So I stopped texting her. Never heard from her again.

If they never put in an effort into a relationship, I just assume they aren't interested and move on.
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DrPrimemaster
07/11/17 9:22:20 PM
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ProbablySkye posted...
DrPrimemaster posted...
Can't even read that.

Also, this doesn't apply to you, but some girls will never text guys first, even if they are interested.


What if it's the other way around? Girl always texting first... and the guy doesn't?


The guy knows the girl is interested and doesn't feel the need to text her. Or the girl wants to text too much.
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MrMelodramatic
07/11/17 9:24:28 PM
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oh man those texts can't be real

right
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ProbablySkye
07/11/17 9:25:17 PM
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DrPrimemaster posted...
ProbablySkye posted...
DrPrimemaster posted...
Can't even read that.

Also, this doesn't apply to you, but some girls will never text guys first, even if they are interested.


What if it's the other way around? Girl always texting first... and the guy doesn't?


The guy knows the girl is interested and doesn't feel the need to text her. Or the girl wants to text too much.


Ahh makes sense
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wwinterj25
07/11/17 9:30:31 PM
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thecolorgreen posted...
And this is what it looks like to be friend-zoned:

Dhynu1o

I think this answers your topic question on so many levels and that's not because of her response.
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Flash
07/11/17 10:14:14 PM
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I cringed so hard my balls just dropped
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J_Dawg983
07/11/17 10:17:49 PM
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I thought you loved jen, and the poor girl came in here to see you macking on some other girl.
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adjl
07/11/17 10:34:23 PM
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It's no longer hard to say which of the possibilities I proposed is the right one here.
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FinalXemnas
07/11/17 11:17:04 PM
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Time for some karma on r/cringe.
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magemaximus
07/11/17 11:22:50 PM
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she probably isn't thinking of you as much as you are thinking of her. or not. I dunno.
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Sherm128
07/11/17 11:45:45 PM
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I'm a guy, but whenever I've had girls always message me first that I never message first, it's because I'm not into them and lowkey hope that they will stop talking to me. I would never put myself in that situation. If I find myself always messaging a girl first that never initiates contact with me, I'll stop trying to talk to them and move on with my life
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Dakooder
07/12/17 1:40:33 AM
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I was gonna post my experiences with these situations but goddamn, those screenshots were tragic. Don't do that ever again. She's gooooone dude.
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Melon_Master
07/12/17 1:56:17 AM
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Lil69Leo
07/12/17 1:58:50 AM
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Lol she kit ignores parts of his texts.
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MasterSword546
07/12/17 3:49:11 AM
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Lmao oh man you need to learn how to talk to a girl
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TheCyborgNinja
07/12/17 3:50:33 AM
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Jen0125 posted...
ugh that is sooo cringy. why would you tell her you're hugging "the one?" you're not even dating her.

Yeah, pity: confirmed.
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shadowsword87
07/12/17 3:53:51 AM
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Holy shit, I am literally speechless about those texts.
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TheCyborgNinja
07/12/17 3:59:42 AM
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shadowsword87 posted...
Holy shit, I am literally speechless about those texts.

Yeah, they were as cringy as a guy I used to work with that's two favourite topics were his "hot, young mom" and inviting another guy we worked with over to his parents' house for dinner "because it'd be really funny!"
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Babbit55
07/12/17 4:18:22 AM
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So to be a bit more constructive here.

Those texts are, well, bad. I wouldn't send that sort of stuff to my wife! And we have been married for 7 years......

I am 99.99999999% sure from her response too that she is not into you, don't force these things. In my experience trying to befriend someone you like then going from there is a horrendous idea, I asked my wife on a date like a week after I met her and went from there.

Read a message 3 times before you hit send, if it has even a hint of desperation, do not send it. Your texts are like holding a neon sign with a big arrow saying I am desperate please like me, it will send most people running to the hills, sadly she is likely using you to stroke her ego, I would stop texting her
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Yellow
07/12/17 4:27:24 AM
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I laugh, but I've been there too.

Be more attractive next time I guess, idk
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MoreRpgs
07/12/17 5:33:26 AM
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As long as she texts back and doesn't take too long to do it is good.
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Tropic_Sunset
07/12/17 5:42:30 AM
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wwinterj25 posted...
thecolorgreen posted...
And this is what it looks like to be friend-zoned:

Dhynu1o

I think this answers your topic question on so many levels and that's not because of her response.

I cringed so hard reading that I threw up and got sent home from work.
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SomeUsername529
07/12/17 5:51:07 AM
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I was gonna say something but then I got like 10 posts in and now I'm just gonna go take a shower instead.
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-Komaiko54-
07/12/17 6:06:07 AM
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U2aybUO

EDIT: Ok no seriously, wtf man? I kinda' went through this with a lot of my friends but then you had to go and post those pictures. I can only imagine how cringey your previous dialogue must be. God that was just painful to read!
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FinalXemnas
07/12/17 7:40:40 AM
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And I thought I was horrible with women.
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