Poll of the Day > would you feel cheap buying an $80 engagement ring?

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SmokeMassTree
06/19/17 9:19:33 PM
#51:


SunWuKung420 posted...
DrPrimemaster posted...
Tungsten looks pretty sweet.


I'm getting a tungsten ring inlaid with a band each of ironwood and meteorite.


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CountessRolab
06/19/17 9:22:00 PM
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PK_Spam posted...
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I would turn someone down who bought me an $80 engagement ring. Aside from the fact that it is tasteless, insulting, and tacky, it shows that they are either financially unstable or a total cheapass. Either one is a recipe for a shitty marriage.
Frankly, i wouldnt propose using anything less than Tiffany's. If you can't afford a nice ring, you cant afford to start a family.
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wolfy42
06/19/17 9:27:07 PM
#53:


CountessRolab posted...
PK_Spam posted...
@CountessRolab?


I would turn someone down who bought me an $80 engagement ring. Aside from the fact that it is tasteless, insulting, and tacky, it shows that they are either financially unstable or a total cheapass. Either one is a recipe for a shitty marriage.
Frankly, i wouldnt propose using anything less than Tiffany's. If you can't afford a nice ring, you cant afford to start a family.



I agree, so when are chicks gonna start getting decent rings for their BFs, I mean most of em don't even get them an engagement ring at all. Talk about cheap!!
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RCtheWSBC
06/19/17 9:29:15 PM
#54:


CountessRolab posted...
Frankly, i wouldnt propose using anything less than Tiffany's. If you can't afford a nice ring, you cant afford to start a family

I'd personally think less of a partner who didn't consult with me and chose to spend anything close to $1,000 or above on a ring. It isn't worth it. That money could go towards things that actually matter towards forming a family together, such as a down payment for a mortgage.
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Jen0125
06/19/17 9:41:25 PM
#55:


SmokeMassTree posted...
Yes

Would you feel cheap accepting an $80 engagement ring?


I don't think so. Not if I liked it.
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wolfy42
06/19/17 9:41:56 PM
#56:


RCtheWSBC posted...
CountessRolab posted...
Frankly, i wouldnt propose using anything less than Tiffany's. If you can't afford a nice ring, you cant afford to start a family

I'd personally think less of a partner who didn't consult with me and chose to spend anything close to $1,000 or above on a ring. It isn't worth it. That money could go towards things that actually matter towards forming a family together, such as a down payment for a mortgage.


See, here is someone I could see getting together with, she has a clue. If you want a guy to waste money on you, then your wasting money as well, at least if you plan on sharing expenses etc. It's not a way to start any kind of life together. If he's rich, that is one thing, but if you are working for a living, use the money to make a better life, have security, save for your childs education (if you will have one) etc.

Rings resale value is about the worst in the world. In fact, best bet is to buy a used ring tbh cause they are seriously cheap. You can often get them for the price of gold per pound (Even with diamonds in them if they are not large). That is less then 1/20th of the cost of the ring from a store.
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Blighboy
06/19/17 9:52:05 PM
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My parents never wore rings, but they were married a long time before I was born and afterwards it wasn't really a happy marriage. I'm not actually really familiar with most ring traditions. You need a different ring for engagement and for marriage? And three months salary, wtf?

I can't imagine myself spending more than 1k on a ring but I have no idea what kind of quality that would get me. I do understand wanting to spend a lot though, as it's something that will have a lot of sentimental value and you'll be wearing for a long time. I've spent more money on dumber shit.
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CountessRolab
06/19/17 9:53:32 PM
#58:


RCtheWSBC posted...
CountessRolab posted...
Frankly, i wouldnt propose using anything less than Tiffany's. If you can't afford a nice ring, you cant afford to start a family

I'd personally think less of a partner who didn't consult with me and chose to spend anything close to $1,000 or above on a ring. It isn't worth it. That money could go towards things that actually matter towards forming a family together, such as a down payment for a mortgage.


The definition of "worth it" changes based on your income level. It is like first class seating when flying. For most people, they couldnt justify spending that much extra money, but for people who are bringing in a substantial amount, they figure "why the hell not?". Money is worth less to you when you have a lot.
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VeeVees
06/19/17 9:57:52 PM
#59:


diamond rings are scams created by diamond companies to sell their cheap rocks
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Veemon_X
06/19/17 10:00:47 PM
#60:


It depends for me. If I think the ring is pretty damn good or strongly resonates, regardless of being $80, I'd buy it.
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helIy
06/19/17 10:02:25 PM
#61:


spent $290 on the engagement ring

when she found out what i spent on it she was mad at me for spending so much. i told her we could still return it and i could get her a ringpop and she just kinda dropped it after that

RCtheWSBC posted...
CountessRolab posted...
Frankly, i wouldnt propose using anything less than Tiffany's. If you can't afford a nice ring, you cant afford to start a family

I'd personally think less of a partner who didn't consult with me and chose to spend anything close to $1,000 or above on a ring. It isn't worth it. That money could go towards things that actually matter towards forming a family together, such as a down payment for a mortgage.

word.

it shows better financial sense to do it that way
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PK_Spam
06/19/17 10:09:25 PM
#62:


While we're at it, can we talk about how grossly overpriced weddings are? I know a guy who owns a flower boutique, and he once told me that "wedding flowers" and regular flowers are exactly the same, but he jacks up the price of the former almost 4 times that of the latter because people don't know or just want to feel special.
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RCtheWSBC
06/19/17 10:12:53 PM
#63:


PK_Spam posted...
While we're at it, can we talk about how grossly overpriced weddings are? I know a guy who owns a flower boutique, and he once told me that "wedding flowers" and regular flowers are exactly the same, but he jacks up the price of the former almost 4 times that of the latter because people don't know or just want to feel special.

That's why I'm telling them I'm getting bouquets for a funeral

Try to mark me up, bitch!
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ReggieTheReckless
06/19/17 10:13:43 PM
#64:


Cost shouldnt matter and should be decided by what the people can afford and agree on for each other

I think my wifes setting was somewhere between 1500 and 2500, and then we had a nice diamond from My grandma to go in the setting. For wedding bands, hers was 200 or 300 and mine was 500 for plain white gold bands of varying thickness
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Dakooder
06/19/17 10:19:57 PM
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This reminds me of my friend's very shitty and petty wife. Her friend got engaged and had a much bigger rock on her finger, so she got jealous. She threatened to leave him if he didn't get her a bigger diamond. He caved. I just don't see a diamond being worth anything at all, let alone thousands of dollars when the market for them was artificially created way back in the day.
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AllstarSniper32
06/19/17 10:21:54 PM
#66:


Dakooder posted...
I just don't see a diamond being worth anything at all,

Dakooder posted...
when the market for them was artificially created way back in the day.

If that's the case then you answered your own question.
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mastermix3000
06/19/17 10:25:17 PM
#67:


Dakooder posted...
This reminds me of my friend's very shitty and petty wife. Her friend got engaged and had a much bigger rock on her finger, so she got jealous. She threatened to leave him if he didn't get her a bigger diamond. He caved. I just don't see a diamond being worth anything at all, let alone thousands of dollars when the market for them was artificially created way back in the day.


Yea she doesn't deserve to get married to anyone with that attitude

Also guys like that are doomed to fail in marriage. Both of them suck

He should've dumped her ass OR said something along the lines of comparing his girl to her friend

But seriously they both suck and nobody should date either of them
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Mead
06/19/17 10:26:20 PM
#68:


Dakooder posted...
She threatened to leave him if he didn't get her a bigger diamond. He caved.


I'll never understand how someone can stay with a person after something like that.

"This person clearly has no respect for me but maybe if I give into their demands everything will be fine and dandy from here on out"
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Doctor Foxx
06/19/17 10:29:31 PM
#69:


RCtheWSBC posted...
PK_Spam posted...
While we're at it, can we talk about how grossly overpriced weddings are? I know a guy who owns a flower boutique, and he once told me that "wedding flowers" and regular flowers are exactly the same, but he jacks up the price of the former almost 4 times that of the latter because people don't know or just want to feel special.

That's why I'm telling them I'm getting bouquets for a funeral

Try to mark me up, bitch!

"And the funeral colors are purple and yellow, and I'll need about 30 bouquets and a few other things. The departed really liked flowers and the Lakers."
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RCtheWSBC
06/19/17 10:31:19 PM
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lolol
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Zeus
06/19/17 10:36:02 PM
#71:


SmokeMassTree posted...
Yes

Would you feel cheap accepting an $80 engagement ring?


Kinky. That makes the whole thing seem that much more amusing.

Kyuubi4269 posted...
Zeus posted...
They're both "forever" -- barring divorce or death (thanks, Trump!) -- but the wedding band tends to be a lot cheaper since it doesn't have a stone. And they're also both "traditions" which are more symbolic than anything else. The only practical benefit is that it discourages some men from hitting on your woman (not all of them, mind you. Biden, Trump, Clinton, etc, being noteworthy exceptions.)

An engagement ring is for proposal to wedding, after it's a pretty trinket, it's fine to sell that off if times get tough as it doesn't hold current value. All issues are sentimental.

A wedding ring is from wedding til death/divorce as you said. It is given to be worn for the duration of the relationship and is representative of the relationship from now on. If you sold/lost your wedding ring it would have implications to the state of your relationship currently. It has real world present symbology so the care put in to the choice of ring is far more significant.


idk, most women seem to wear both their engagement ring and their wedding band. The engagement ring is usually a more prominent fixture because it's of a more significant quality.
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Epicvon
06/19/17 10:38:55 PM
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I spent 8k on love of my life and she said thats a cheap engagement ring. So yeah i think 80$ is not acceptable.
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Kyuubi4269
06/19/17 10:42:11 PM
#73:


Epicvon posted...
I spent 8k on love of my life and she said thats a cheap engagement ring. So yeah i think 80$ is not acceptable.

The love of your life believes you're a door mat lol
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SushiSquid
06/19/17 10:47:44 PM
#74:


RCtheWSBC posted...
CountessRolab posted...
Frankly, i wouldnt propose using anything less than Tiffany's. If you can't afford a nice ring, you cant afford to start a family

I'd personally think less of a partner who didn't consult with me and chose to spend anything close to $1,000 or above on a ring. It isn't worth it. That money could go towards things that actually matter towards forming a family together, such as a down payment for a mortgage.

$1000 was the limit my wife said she thought was reasonable for engagement and wedding rings for her. She didn't want me spending more than that for exactly the reasons you listed. We've got better things to spend that shit on.
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RCtheWSBC
06/19/17 10:48:38 PM
#75:


Epicvon posted...
I spent 8k on love of my life and she said thats a cheap engagement ring. So yeah i think 80$ is not acceptable.

Your girl is bougie af
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SushiSquid
06/19/17 10:52:41 PM
#76:


PK_Spam posted...
While we're at it, can we talk about how grossly overpriced weddings are? I know a guy who owns a flower boutique, and he once told me that "wedding flowers" and regular flowers are exactly the same, but he jacks up the price of the former almost 4 times that of the latter because people don't know or just want to feel special.

My wife made synthetic flowers (yes she made them) for our wedding. Bridesmaids' bouquets, corsages, and boutonnieres. It saved a lot and they looked great. We had an outdoor wedding at a county park and her cousin and his wife officiated. Weddings are expensive, but you can find all sorts of savings if you plan and do stuff yourself. Including our honeymoon we spent just under $10k, and our parents helped with a few thousand of that.
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green dragon
06/19/17 11:03:56 PM
#77:


Dakooder posted...
She threatened to leave him if he didn't get her a bigger diamond

What a terrible human being.

Was/is she at least hot?
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SideshowBob311
06/19/17 11:05:04 PM
#78:


Unless the $80 ring was something my fiancée specifically wanted/asked for, yes, that seems ****ty and cheap.
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mastermix3000
06/19/17 11:09:28 PM
#79:


green dragon posted...
Dakooder posted...
She threatened to leave him if he didn't get her a bigger diamond

What a terrible human being.

Was/is she at least hot?


No girl is hot enough for that

She better know how to clean, take care if the kids on her own, and give bomb massages/head (optional)
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wolfy42
06/19/17 11:12:03 PM
#80:


I'll spend $1000 on an engagement big screen TV though.

And yeah, if she's the one for me, she'd be into that.
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myghostisdead
06/19/17 11:15:12 PM
#81:


I think my wedding set cost around $650. I kept getting it caught in things and having to have it fixed. I finally just quit wearing it and stored it in my jewelry box. I now wear an antique silver band a a $10 tiger eye ring my husband bought me at an arts and crafts jewelry booth. I like the Tiger's eye better than the gold and diamond anyway.
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ChaoticKnuckles
06/19/17 11:42:45 PM
#82:


I would since three months salary for me is way more than $80. I actually spent a bit more than that because I wanted to get my wife something really nice. She didn't make any demands of the sort though, that's probably why I wanted to do the traditional thing in the first place, because she didn't act like I was obligated to do it.
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Zeus
06/19/17 11:46:56 PM
#83:


tbh, if you can give her an $80 engagement ring and she doesn't say "no," she's a keeper.
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DrPrimemaster
06/20/17 12:19:02 AM
#84:


Ive always wanted to make something, I remember kreimhilde had something that was awesome.
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spooky96
06/20/17 12:31:35 AM
#85:


I'd be happy if someone bought a cheap ring, it shows they're not willing to spend a lot on such stupid, trivial things.
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DeathMagnetic80
06/20/17 1:26:23 AM
#86:


Dude, when I first asked my wife what kind of ring she might want if I proposed, she said "I don't want a big diamond, because that's too much stress for me to wear around, and for god's sake,get it off Overstock.com and save money"

Ended up getting her a synthetic white sapphire that was like, $230 or so, with a full retail value of $700-something, She loved it.
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wwinterj25
06/20/17 1:30:23 AM
#87:


Jen0125 posted...
would you feel cheap buying an $80 engagement ring?


Not really. Hypothetically though it would only matter what the person I'd be engaged to(hopefully) would think. If she would be the type of gal who doesn't care the price of things then I'd be cool with it. If however she's in the mindset of 'the more expensive the better!' then I'd think she's with the wrong guy. :3

Raganork posted...
If I skimp out on the engagement ring, I can spend more on the wedding ring. The way I see it, might as well spend more on the rock you're gonna wear for the longer period of time.


Good point actually. I've never understood why a engagement ring that is temporary should cost more than the actual wedding ring that is supposedly on your finger longer.
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Dakooder
06/20/17 4:37:23 AM
#88:


Mead posted...
Dakooder posted...
She threatened to leave him if he didn't get her a bigger diamond. He caved.


I'll never understand how someone can stay with a person after something like that.

"This person clearly has no respect for me but maybe if I give into their demands everything will be fine and dandy from here on out"

They're the couple that almost get divorced every year. They need to just do it already while their kids are still young.
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Kyuubi4269
06/20/17 4:52:40 AM
#89:


spooky96 posted...
I'd be happy if someone bought a cheap ring, it shows they're not willing to spend a lot on such stupid, trivial things.

You are not things.
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Duck-I-Says
06/20/17 5:06:41 AM
#90:


Not if she doesn't care. I'd actually rather spend all of that money on a much better honeymoon.
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usui88
06/20/17 5:36:31 AM
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Depends how cheap she is.
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ChaoticKnuckles
06/20/17 7:49:23 AM
#92:


wwinterj25 posted...
Jen0125 posted...
would you feel cheap buying an $80 engagement ring?


Not really. Hypothetically though it would only matter what the person I'd be engaged to(hopefully) would think. If she would be the type of gal who doesn't care the price of things then I'd be cool with it. If however she's in the mindset of 'the more expensive the better!' then I'd think she's with the wrong guy. :3

Raganork posted...
If I skimp out on the engagement ring, I can spend more on the wedding ring. The way I see it, might as well spend more on the rock you're gonna wear for the longer period of time.


Good point actually. I've never understood why a engagement ring that is temporary should cost more than the actual wedding ring that is supposedly on your finger longer.


Many women wear both all the time.
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Dikitain
06/20/17 7:51:11 AM
#93:


If it was an "Oh shit you're pregnant and your parents are forcing us to get married" thing then no.

If I actually cared about the girl I was giving it too, then yea. I spend 4X that on a necklace for a girl I have only been dating for 3 months.
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spooky96
06/20/17 8:05:07 AM
#94:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
spooky96 posted...
I'd be happy if someone bought a cheap ring, it shows they're not willing to spend a lot on such stupid, trivial things.

You are not things.


I really hope you're feeling better about yourself by posting that.
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06/20/17 8:56:16 AM
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Nah is good.
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Epicvon
06/20/17 8:58:27 AM
#96:


RCtheWSBC posted...
Epicvon posted...
I spent 8k on love of my life and she said thats a cheap engagement ring. So yeah i think 80$ is not acceptable.

Your girl is bougie af

She been damage in past and she done with me now so im in heartbreak hotel. I thought it was fuck up too, 8k is alot... still love everything about her.

Kyuubi4269 posted...
Epicvon posted...
I spent 8k on love of my life and she said thats a cheap engagement ring. So yeah i think 80$ is not acceptable.

The love of your life believes you're a door mat lol

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Jiggy101011
06/20/17 9:17:40 AM
#97:


My fiances engagement ring is the ring my Dad bought my Mum when they first got engaged. It's nothing to scoff over because they didn't have a lot of money back then but it has significant meaning behind it and my fiance loves it.
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Firewood18
06/20/17 9:32:06 AM
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I've only bought my wife three things of jewelry since we've been together. She is pretty low maintenance and doesn't need me to buy her things all the time. So when it came to the engagement ring, I spent quite a bit to have one hand made. I also had alot more in savings back then.
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Blue_Target
06/20/17 9:33:19 AM
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If you are smart or know where to check, you should get the stone and the band separately.
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RFC22
06/20/17 10:52:38 AM
#100:


No. A better use of $750 to $999 Plus would be to pay bills, mortgage payments, student loan payments, car expenses, food, and about anything else that requires money.
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