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Jen0125
05/08/17 6:33:52 PM
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but he said he doesn't want to get married now because he really thinks you should only get married if you're ready to start a family and he feels since he doesn't have a career right now that's not possible

yayy
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Zeus
05/08/17 6:35:28 PM
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Dodged 2 bullets at the same time. Are you the Matrix?
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SmokeMassTree
05/08/17 6:36:35 PM
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I feel like you're going to be making the same topic in 10 years
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Jen0125
05/08/17 6:37:01 PM
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Zeus posted...
Dodged 2 bullets at the same time. Are you the Matrix?


lol!

SmokeMassTree posted...
I feel like you're going to be making the same topic in 10 years


if i am oh well

i'm pretty happy so it's not that big of a deal if we never got married
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Mead
05/08/17 6:37:17 PM
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You gotta help him find a career then, then he'll have no more excuses
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PKMNsony
05/08/17 6:37:38 PM
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SmokeMassTree posted...
I feel like you're going to be making the same topic in 10 years

It'll be for reals that time though.
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SmokeMassTree
05/08/17 6:37:42 PM
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See you say that, but how often you bring it up says something different.
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RCtheWSBC
05/08/17 6:37:45 PM
#8:


I call bridesmaid dibs and I totally won't bitch about my responsibility
to your face >:]
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Zeus
05/08/17 6:38:31 PM
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Mead posted...
You gotta help him find a career then, then he'll have no more excuses


Somehow I've never gotten the impression that Jen was in a rush to marry or have kids. Probably because she's mentioned things to that effect repeatedly.
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Jen0125
05/08/17 6:38:50 PM
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Mead posted...
You gotta help him find a career then, then he'll have no more excuses


i've encouraged him to go back to school for nutrition to become a dietician and he seems to be on track to start up again in the fall. that'll be really good for him.

SmokeMassTree posted...
See you say that, but how often you bring it up says something different.


no i mean i'd love to get married but it's not a deal breaker

RCtheWSBC posted...
I call bridesmaid dibs and I totally won't bitch about my responsibility
to your face >:]


lol i don't think we'd have a full on wedding where i'd even have bridesmaids
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RCtheWSBC
05/08/17 6:39:53 PM
#11:


Well I'm down to help set up the backyard barbecue!
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Jen0125
05/08/17 6:40:11 PM
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Zeus posted...
Mead posted...
You gotta help him find a career then, then he'll have no more excuses


Somehow I've never gotten the impression that Jen was in a rush to marry or have kids. Probably because she's mentioned things to that effect repeatedly.


yeah i'm not treating marriage like a race or anything but i really would get married to my boyfriend tomorrow if he wanted. but if he never wanted to get married but everything stayed the same i'd be fine.

kids i could go without but idk what the future holds there
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JanwayDaahl
05/08/17 6:49:51 PM
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Haven't you had sex with like multiple guys in the past? That's seriously gross if anyone wants to marry you. Does he even know about your past?
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Jen0125
05/08/17 6:51:11 PM
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JanwayDaahl posted...
Haven't you had sex with like multiple guys in the past? That's seriously gross if anyone wants to marry you. Does he even know about your past?


LOL

of course i have

and of course he does. he's had other partners too.

troll elsewhere little one
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wolfy42
05/08/17 6:52:33 PM
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JanwayDaahl posted...
Haven't you had sex with like multiple guys in the past? That's seriously gross if anyone wants to marry you. Does he even know about your past?



Lol.


Good luck finding people who havn't past the age of 20.
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eating4fun
05/08/17 6:54:19 PM
#16:


And here I am, girlfriendless because I don't think I'd find anyone if I don't have a career yet.
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Jen0125
05/08/17 7:03:32 PM
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eating4fun posted...
And here I am, girlfriendless because I don't think I'd find anyone if I don't have a career yet.


i mean he has jobs but he doesn't have a career that he's proud of yet

so i'm encouraging him to go back to school to become a dietician since that's like his main hobby and i'll try to work more to pay for some more of the bills so he can put his money more towards schooling
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JanwayDaahl
05/08/17 7:03:39 PM
#18:


Jen0125 posted...
JanwayDaahl posted...
Haven't you had sex with like multiple guys in the past? That's seriously gross if anyone wants to marry you. Does he even know about your past?


LOL

of course i have

and of course he does. he's had other partners too.

troll elsewhere little one


Let me guess, he's overweight or scrawny. Only those types of men have low enough standards to seriously put a ring on a girl who's used up

wolfy42 posted...
JanwayDaahl posted...
Haven't you had sex with like multiple guys in the past? That's seriously gross if anyone wants to marry you. Does he even know about your past?



Lol.


Good luck finding people who havn't past the age of 20.


I know plenty, though they're mostly Muslim. There's a reason why american divorce rates are through the roof.

Hell, I'll call it right now. If Jen marries anyone, I guarantee she'll be divorced within 3-5 years of the marriage.
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Jen0125
05/08/17 7:04:50 PM
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JanwayDaahl posted...

Let me guess, he's overweight or scrawny. Only those types of men have low enough standards to seriously put a ring on a girl who's used up


https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/3-poll-of-the-day/75317692

neither. he literally just did a powerlifting meet saturday and set two state records for his weight class >___>

and not everyone is a hardcore muslim like you. lots of people aren't living by some archaic rules.

JanwayDaahl posted...
I guarantee she'll be divorced within 3-5 years of the marriage.


all of my relationships have lasted as long or longer than that without even being married >_>
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Doctor Foxx
05/08/17 7:06:49 PM
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Lol adult virgin marriage in TYOOL 2017

I'm glad more people have sense about that
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Allisonata
05/08/17 7:08:43 PM
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I hope to get a boyfriend someday. :/
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SmokeMassTree
05/08/17 7:36:50 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
eating4fun posted...
And here I am, girlfriendless because I don't think I'd find anyone if I don't have a career yet.


i mean he has jobs but he doesn't have a career that he's proud of yet

so i'm encouraging him to go back to school to become a dietician since that's like his main hobby and i'll try to work more to pay for some more of the bills so he can put his money more towards schooling


You're making him a good man for the next girl
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Snuggletoof
05/08/17 7:40:22 PM
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I agree with Armando. I feel like if I were ready to start a family with someone, then that would probably be the best sign that marriage would be the right decision for us.

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thecolorgreen
05/08/17 7:46:20 PM
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Allisonata posted...
I hope to get a boyfriend someday. :/


hello!
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Jen0125
05/08/17 7:46:57 PM
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SmokeMassTree posted...

You're making him a good man for the next girl


lol who cares? he's a great person and i'll help him any way i can.

if we break up, we break up. i can always make more money.
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Allisonata
05/08/17 7:48:37 PM
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thecolorgreen posted...
Allisonata posted...
I hope to get a boyfriend someday. :/


hello!


Heya
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thecolorgreen
05/08/17 7:52:33 PM
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Allisonata posted...
thecolorgreen posted...
Allisonata posted...
I hope to get a boyfriend someday. :/


hello!


Heya


asl?

24/m/ga here
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Allisonata
05/08/17 7:59:14 PM
#28:


Lol, you aren't serious, right? O.o

I'm 30/F/Ma

Not really seeking something online though. I need body warmth right now, lol.
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thecolorgreen
05/08/17 8:08:39 PM
#29:


Allisonata posted...
Lol, you aren't serious, right? O.o

I'm 30/F/Ma

Not really seeking something online though. I need body warmth right now, lol.


Not serious. I was in boston for 3 days last week though I could have kept you warm if I knew lol
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Jen0125
05/08/17 8:09:00 PM
#30:


lol ryan stop
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RCtheWSBC
05/08/17 8:10:15 PM
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he's just tryna get it how he lives
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SkynyrdRocker
05/08/17 8:10:37 PM
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Don't marry him without discussing the whole "I don't want to have kids at all and you really want to have kids." That's definitely something you need to reconcile before marriage.
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Jen0125
05/08/17 8:12:02 PM
#33:


SkynyrdRocker posted...
Don't marry him without discussing the whole "I don't want to have kids at all and you really want to have kids." That's definitely something you need to reconcile before marriage.


i don't think that he really wants to have kids but i've already discussed that with him and on here
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FellWolf
05/08/17 8:12:13 PM
#34:


Is someone having a conversation with themselves in this topic.
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Allisonata
05/08/17 8:12:23 PM
#35:


thecolorgreen posted...
Allisonata posted...
Lol, you aren't serious, right? O.o

I'm 30/F/Ma

Not really seeking something online though. I need body warmth right now, lol.


Not serious. I was in boston for 3 days last week though I could have kept you warm if I knew lol


Haha, sometimes, I feel I need it.
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Jen0125
05/08/17 8:13:10 PM
#36:


FellWolf posted...
Is someone having a conversation with themselves in this topic.


ah the ever subtle "i want everyone to know i have someone ignored without saying it outright"
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RCtheWSBC
05/08/17 8:13:44 PM
#37:


Jen0125 posted...
FellWolf posted...
Is someone having a conversation with themselves in this topic.


ah the ever subtle "i want everyone to know i have someone ignored without saying it outright"

I thought he was implying that Ryan is also Allisonata
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FellWolf
05/08/17 8:14:17 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
FellWolf posted...
Is someone having a conversation with themselves in this topic.


ah the ever subtle "i want everyone to know i have someone ignored without saying it outright"


What. I don't have anyone ignored. I was asking in a roundabout way if Allisonata and thecolorgreen are the same user.
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Jen0125
05/08/17 8:14:37 PM
#39:


FellWolf posted...
What. I don't have anyone ignored. I was asking in a roundabout way if Allisonata and thecolorgreen are the same user.


RCtheWSBC posted...
Jen0125 posted...
FellWolf posted...
Is someone having a conversation with themselves in this topic.


ah the ever subtle "i want everyone to know i have someone ignored without saying it outright"

I thought he was implying that Ryan is also Allisonata


shut your faces up rn
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FellWolf
05/08/17 8:15:10 PM
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RCtheWSBC
05/08/17 8:16:18 PM
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heheheheeee
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thecolorgreen
05/08/17 8:16:52 PM
#42:


Allisonata posted...
thecolorgreen posted...
Allisonata posted...
Lol, you aren't serious, right? O.o

I'm 30/F/Ma

Not really seeking something online though. I need body warmth right now, lol.


Not serious. I was in boston for 3 days last week though I could have kept you warm if I knew lol


Haha, sometimes, I feel I need it.


Have you been going out and putting yourself in social situations where you meet new people?
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JanwayDaahl
05/08/17 8:19:26 PM
#43:


Jen0125 posted...
JanwayDaahl posted...

Let me guess, he's overweight or scrawny. Only those types of men have low enough standards to seriously put a ring on a girl who's used up


https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/3-poll-of-the-day/75317692

neither. he literally just did a powerlifting meet saturday and set two state records for his weight class >___>

and not everyone is a hardcore muslim like you. lots of people aren't living by some archaic rules.

JanwayDaahl posted...
I guarantee she'll be divorced within 3-5 years of the marriage.


all of my relationships have lasted as long or longer than that without even being married >_>


He lifts, fine, but that doesn't answer my question really.

You don't have to be a hardcore Muslim, you just have to know how slutty women behave. Promiscuous women are unable to pair bond and have higher rates of divorce. https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/

Last I checked, your liberal views on the matter are much more out of tune than these "archaic rules."

I'm not talking about relationships-- I'm talking about marriage.
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RCtheWSBC
05/08/17 8:20:51 PM
#44:


What is mando was a slutty man before meeting Jen

is he unable to pair bond for life
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Jen0125
05/08/17 8:22:43 PM
#45:


JanwayDaahl posted...
He lifts, fine, but that doesn't answer my question really.


uh you can see he's not overweight or scrawny in the videos so it DOES answer your question.

next

RCtheWSBC posted...
What is mando was a slutty man before meeting Jen

is he unable to pair bond for life


no of course it's just women
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Allisonata
05/08/17 8:26:40 PM
#46:


thecolorgreen posted...
Allisonata posted...
thecolorgreen posted...
Allisonata posted...
Lol, you aren't serious, right? O.o

I'm 30/F/Ma

Not really seeking something online though. I need body warmth right now, lol.


Not serious. I was in boston for 3 days last week though I could have kept you warm if I knew lol


Haha, sometimes, I feel I need it.


Have you been going out and putting yourself in social situations where you meet new people?


Almost all of those "situations" tend to be people looking for sex. I just assume and hope that one day, it will just happen. I am out and about almost every single day doing something without break.
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JanwayDaahl
05/08/17 8:32:35 PM
#48:


Jen0125 posted...
JanwayDaahl posted...
He lifts, fine, but that doesn't answer my question really.


uh you can see he's not overweight or scrawny in the videos so it DOES answer your question.

next

RCtheWSBC posted...
What is mando was a slutty man before meeting Jen

is he unable to pair bond for life


no of course it's just women


Way to dodge the article and what I said. And yes, it is just women. You can't really argue about this-- it's biological in nature. Promiscuous women= oxytocin resistance. Oxytocin= pair bonding in women, vasopressin= pair bonding in men. Promiscuous men don't experience the same issues.
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Jen0125
05/08/17 8:33:23 PM
#49:


I don't have any concern over you trying to shame me but the videos clearly show what my boyfriend looks like so eat your words
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RCtheWSBC
05/08/17 8:33:30 PM
#50:


I guess we could also pair bond together, Jen

y'know, if worst comes to worst and our vaginas start repelling every man we meet
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Zareth
05/08/17 8:34:16 PM
#51:


Jen0125 posted...
he really thinks you should only get married if you're ready to start a family

That's dumb.
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