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thelovefist 06/25/18 5:29:39 AM #51:	WafflehouseJK posted... I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex. That's rather presumptuous of you. --- "honestly the worst thing about Shaun King is how pro-cop he is" - averagejoel <cite>thelovefist posted [p:903917168] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>WafflehouseJK posted...</cite> <quote>I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex.</quote> That's rather presumptuous of you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
--Zero- 06/25/18 5:31:41 AM #52:	My ex wife and I wouldn't have sex for at least once a month too. That was when we were having some serious problems the last year of the relationship before if ended. --- SIGNATURE <cite>--Zero- posted [p:903917216] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>My ex wife and I wouldn't have sex for at least once a month too. That was when we were having some serious problems the last year of the relationship before if ended.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WafflehouseJK 06/25/18 5:47:39 AM #53:	thelovefist posted... WafflehouseJK posted... I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex. That's rather presumptuous of you. I know, it is. :( I doubt I'm completely wrong though. --- "She was like, 'Oh, did you see that firefighter? Hes so cute.' And I was like, Mom, I just got blown up." <cite>WafflehouseJK posted [p:903917575] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>thelovefist posted...</cite> <quote><cite>WafflehouseJK posted...</cite> <quote>I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex.</quote> That's rather presumptuous of you.</quote> I know, it is. :( I doubt I'm completely wrong though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
iClockwork 06/25/18 5:55:43 AM #54:	WafflehouseJK posted... I doubt I'm completely wrong though. Huge difference between wanting sex all the time and monthly. At least be responsible in your argument and acknowledge this. <cite>iClockwork posted [p:903917735] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>WafflehouseJK posted...</cite> <quote>I doubt I'm completely wrong though. </quote> Huge difference between wanting sex all the time and monthly. At least be responsible in your argument and acknowledge this.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SavenForever 06/25/18 5:56:14 AM #55:	DarthGravid posted... She's either telling you to handle your business, or, advertising that she's looking for someone else to do it. Don't delay. --- https://imgur.com/aFt7pKH <cite>SavenForever posted [p:903917751] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>DarthGravid posted...</cite> <quote>She's either telling you to handle your business, or, advertising that she's looking for someone else to do it. Don't delay.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Patchwork 06/25/18 5:57:53 AM #56:	--Zero- posted... My ex wife and I wouldn't have sex for at least once a month too. That was when we were having some serious problems the last year of the relationship before if ended. Same, with my ex. Underlying issues made me not want to even touch her, honestly. --- The mind is its own place, and in itself Can make a heav'n of hell, a hell of heav'n. <cite>Patchwork posted [p:903917784] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>--Zero- posted...</cite> <quote>My ex wife and I wouldn't have sex for at least once a month too. That was when we were having some serious problems the last year of the relationship before if ended.</quote> Same, with my ex. Underlying issues made me not want to even touch her, honestly.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AwesomeOSauce 06/25/18 6:03:36 AM #57:	When girls start doing that its a thing that goes deep into their dna level from ancient times. like feral wild caveman days. They feel that the last hope is maybe shaming you in a public place because males usually don't want to be viewed as "less than" or inferior so she must really want it and in a daze her mind made her go to the extreme in what might help bring a solution. in some kinda weird or crazy roundabout way. Girls do this stuff all the time in social circles when they are frustrated with certain males. Usually they might have other female friends in a group join in with the discussion trying to coax the male into doing something. Also go have sex with your gf like now. --- http://soundcloud.com/sunnyterra/audio-recording-on-monday-29 ^ Hermiione / Aeriis says my name and says I'm cute! ^_^ <cite>AwesomeOSauce posted [p:903917892] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>When girls start doing that its a thing that goes deep into their dna level from ancient times. like feral wild caveman days. They feel that the last hope is maybe shaming you in a public place because males usually don't want to be viewed as "less than" or inferior so she must really want it and in a daze her mind made her go to the extreme in what might help bring a solution. in some kinda weird or crazy roundabout way. Girls do this stuff all the time in social circles when they are frustrated with certain males. Usually they might have other female friends in a group join in with the discussion trying to coax the male into doing something. Also go have sex with your gf like now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cerealbox760 06/25/18 6:04:17 AM #58:	Get Viagra. Get pheromone oils. Workout to increase nitric oxide for better libido and don't masturbate. Eat plenty of healthy fats (oysters and egg yolks) along with vegetables (don't confuse green vegetables with fruit, common mistake) . Zinc works great. Do a combination of all that and f* her right in the p* <cite>cerealbox760 posted [p:903917910] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>Get Viagra. Get pheromone oils. Workout to increase nitric oxide for better libido and don't masturbate. Eat plenty of healthy fats (oysters and egg yolks) along with vegetables (don't confuse green vegetables with fruit, common mistake) . Zinc works great. Do a combination of all that and f* her right in the p*****</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WafflehouseJK 06/25/18 6:07:30 AM #59:	iClockwork posted... WafflehouseJK posted... I doubt I'm completely wrong though. Huge difference between wanting sex all the time and monthly. At least be responsible in your argument and acknowledge this. That's completely fair, and as I said in my original post, there's probably some deeper issue's in TC's relationship. I was more referring to comments like these though: thelovefist posted... Why are you ever saying no? SpaceBear_ posted... It's not your job to say no, ffs. She's your lady, wtf is this topic? Scottydoesntno posted... the female controls sex. you are just a lowly male. when she wants sex, give her sex Aloner posted... At least you had sex, quit bitchin. Also lol at that last username. --- "She was like, 'Oh, did you see that firefighter? Hes so cute.' And I was like, Mom, I just got blown up." <cite>WafflehouseJK posted [p:903917983] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>iClockwork posted...</cite> <quote><cite>WafflehouseJK posted...</cite> <quote>I doubt I'm completely wrong though. </quote> Huge difference between wanting sex all the time and monthly. At least be responsible in your argument and acknowledge this.</quote> That's completely fair, and as I said in my original post, there's probably some deeper issue's in TC's relationship. I was more referring to comments like these though: <cite>thelovefist posted...</cite> <quote> Why are you ever saying no?</quote> <cite>SpaceBear_ posted...</cite> <quote>It's not your job to say no, ffs. She's your lady, wtf is this topic?</quote> <cite>Scottydoesntno posted...</cite> <quote>the female controls sex. you are just a lowly male. when she wants sex, give her sex</quote> <cite>Aloner posted...</cite> <quote>At least you had sex, quit bitchin.</quote> Also lol at that last username.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OpenlyGator 06/25/18 6:13:24 AM #60:	There's plenty of valid reasons to pass on sex when offered, for both women and men. But if you give a shit about this girl, you might want to take the hint and nail that a couple times at the soonest convenience. --- 1990:You didn't get the memo? 2018:What's a memo...? http://tryimg.com/8/2017/06/28/IdPuv.png http://tryimg.com/8/2017/06/28/IdSqD.png <cite>OpenlyGator posted [p:903918084] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>There's plenty of valid reasons to pass on sex when offered, for both women and men. But if you give a shit about this girl, you might want to take the hint and nail that a couple times at the soonest convenience.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KillerKhan420 06/25/18 7:08:23 AM #61:	That's a shitty thing to do tbh. I would take the hint and drop her already, if you don't have any kids with her and the relationship is fairly new, I'd be smashing all the time. When you do got kids and work and that life it gets even harder to make time for it. --- "I know how the business works because I'm a wrestling fan"-hulkhogan1 <cite>KillerKhan420 posted [p:903919062] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>That's a shitty thing to do tbh. I would take the hint and drop her already, if you don't have any kids with her and the relationship is fairly new, I'd be smashing all the time. When you do got kids and work and that life it gets even harder to make time for it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Howl 06/25/18 7:09:56 AM #62:	WafflehouseJK posted... lol at the people in this topic who thinks dudes have to want to have sex 24/7. If you're not feeling it, you shouldn't feel pressured into doing it. That being said, if she's long term not feeling satisfied, especially to say something like that in public, you guys seriously need to have a talk. Explain to her that you have a lower sex-drive, offer solutions (performing oral more often, getting a vibrator, etc.) and get on the same page, or it's not going to work out. My GF has a WAY higher sex drive than I do. We both recognize that though, and I try to do at least something for her whenever she's in the mood, and in exchange she doesn't pressure me into having full out sex if I'm not feeling it. But I also do that stuff because I want to do that for her. If you're at the point where you don't want to do anything for her at all, there's likely some underlying issues the two of you need to address. When my wife was pregnant, near the end of her pregnancy, like 7 months in I just got ED to an extreme degree to the point that I couldn't even masturbate if I wanted to. It was difficult to deal with but I went to the doctor and got some Cialis and that really helped. It wasn't that I didn't want to have sex either though it just straight would not happen. Right after she had the baby, the ED went away entirely and now we do it at least 2-3 times a week again no problems at all. Maybe your hormones are out of whack TC. I honestly think mine were messed up from my wife being pregnant for that period of time. I'd recommend going to the doctor if that's your issue, but if it's purely psychological you and your gf should seriously consider going to a therapist. Her publicly shaming you in the way she did is absolutely not normal or healthy for a relationship in any way, and she needs to know as much or your relationship is going to end very soon. If you love her enough you owe it to your relationship to try any avenue to save it such as therapy etc. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 <cite>Howl posted [p:903919091] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>WafflehouseJK posted...</cite> <quote>lol at the people in this topic who thinks dudes have to want to have sex 24/7. If you're not feeling it, you shouldn't feel pressured into doing it. That being said, if she's long term not feeling satisfied, especially to say something like that in public, you guys seriously need to have a talk. Explain to her that you have a lower sex-drive, offer solutions (performing oral more often, getting a vibrator, etc.) and get on the same page, or it's not going to work out. My GF has a WAY higher sex drive than I do. We both recognize that though, and I try to do at least something for her whenever she's in the mood, and in exchange she doesn't pressure me into having full out sex if I'm not feeling it. But I also do that stuff because I want to do that for her. If you're at the point where you don't want to do anything for her at all, there's likely some underlying issues the two of you need to address.</quote> When my wife was pregnant, near the end of her pregnancy, like 7 months in I just got ED to an extreme degree to the point that I couldn't even masturbate if I wanted to. It was difficult to deal with but I went to the doctor and got some Cialis and that really helped. It wasn't that I didn't want to have sex either though it just straight would not happen. Right after she had the baby, the ED went away entirely and now we do it at least 2-3 times a week again no problems at all. Maybe your hormones are out of whack TC. I honestly think mine were messed up from my wife being pregnant for that period of time. I'd recommend going to the doctor if that's your issue, but if it's purely psychological you and your gf should seriously consider going to a therapist. Her publicly shaming you in the way she did is absolutely not normal or healthy for a relationship in any way, and she needs to know as much or your relationship is going to end very soon. If you love her enough you owe it to your relationship to try any avenue to save it such as therapy etc.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
3khc 06/26/18 6:24:54 PM #63:	Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:904015383] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Howl 06/26/18 6:26:58 PM #64:	3khc posted... Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway? --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 <cite>Howl posted [p:904015518] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote> Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be</quote> Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Genocet_10-325 06/26/18 6:27:48 PM #65:	WafflehouseJK posted... I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex. I agree, but however a month is an inexcusably long time --- No one triggers the Trumpanzees quite like you do - Bullet_Wing Conservatism is a plague on society. Formerly known as The_Great_Geno. <cite>Genocet_10-325 posted [p:904015561] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>WafflehouseJK posted...</cite> <quote>I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex.</quote> I agree, but however a month is an inexcusably long time</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
3khc 06/26/18 6:30:35 PM #66:	Howl posted... 3khc posted... Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway? Facebook message. I guess he found her via party invite list. She just dropped me off at home so she can go shopping. I'll see if I can look at it when she returns. Genocet_10-325 posted... WafflehouseJK posted... I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex. I agree, but however a month is an inexcusably long time I been trying more the past few days. Got a bj. But she didn't want any. Says mood has to be right. Idk with her anymore. --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:904015748] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote> Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be</quote> Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway?</quote> Facebook message. I guess he found her via party invite list. She just dropped me off at home so she can go shopping. I'll see if I can look at it when she returns. <cite>Genocet_10-325 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>WafflehouseJK posted...</cite> <quote>I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex.</quote> I agree, but however a month is an inexcusably long time</quote> I been trying more the past few days. Got a bj. But she didn't want any. Says mood has to be right. Idk with her anymore.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 06/26/18 6:37:03 PM #67:	Shes getting sex from somewhere else --- Him being greedy is a good thing. That means he'll want to spend less and help us get out of this debt. Gamefreak36 <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:904016124] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>Shes getting sex from somewhere else</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Weezy_Tha_Don 06/26/18 6:42:11 PM #68:	when she returns from shopping? you mean if. dun goofed TC --- https://imgur.com/hwZyGuA - courtesy of the homie United_World I speak my mind, cause biting my tongue hurts. <cite>Weezy_Tha_Don posted [p:904016404] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>when she returns from shopping? you mean if. dun goofed TC</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Howl 06/26/18 6:42:51 PM #69:	3khc posted... Howl posted... 3khc posted... Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway? Facebook message. I guess he found her via party invite list. She just dropped me off at home so she can go shopping. I'll see if I can look at it when she returns. Genocet_10-325 posted... WafflehouseJK posted... I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex. I agree, but however a month is an inexcusably long time I been trying more the past few days. Got a bj. But she didn't want any. Says mood has to be right. Idk with her anymore. Why does your gf have FB messages set so that she can receive messages from people she hasn't friended? It's such a common thing for women to get unsolicited dick pics from strangers that I thought it was a pretty common practice to set it to friends only. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 <cite>Howl posted [p:904016439] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote> Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be </quote> Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway?</quote> Facebook message. I guess he found her via party invite list. She just dropped me off at home so she can go shopping. I'll see if I can look at it when she returns. <cite>Genocet_10-325 posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>WafflehouseJK posted...</cite> <quote> I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex. </quote> I agree, but however a month is an inexcusably long time</quote> I been trying more the past few days. Got a bj. But she didn't want any. Says mood has to be right. Idk with her anymore.</quote> Why does your gf have FB messages set so that she can receive messages from people she hasn't friended? It's such a common thing for women to get unsolicited dick pics from strangers that I thought it was a pretty common practice to set it to friends only.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VandorLee 06/26/18 6:44:23 PM #70:	Maybe if youre married with multiple jobs and a daughter but in that situation (mine) she understands and would not say something like that and we still do it at least once a week. --- "God didn't create humans, no, it's humans who created God." Dr. Londes, Cowboy Bebop: "Brain Scratch" (#1.23) (1999) <cite>VandorLee posted [p:904016531] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>Maybe if youre married with multiple jobs and a daughter but in that situation (mine) she understands and would not say something like that and we still do it at least once a week.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
3khc 06/26/18 6:45:43 PM #71:	Howl posted... 3khc posted... Howl posted... 3khc posted... Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway? Facebook message. I guess he found her via party invite list. She just dropped me off at home so she can go shopping. I'll see if I can look at it when she returns. Why does your gf have FB messages set so that she can receive messages from people she hasn't friended? It's such a common thing for women to get unsolicited dick pics from strangers that I thought it was a pretty common practice to set it to friends only. She has it set to where she cannot see what they send her. She has to approve recieiving it. I saw the notification, but she said not to open it so he will stop sending. --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:904016618] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote> Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be </quote> Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway?</quote> Facebook message. I guess he found her via party invite list. She just dropped me off at home so she can go shopping. I'll see if I can look at it when she returns. </quote> Why does your gf have FB messages set so that she can receive messages from people she hasn't friended? It's such a common thing for women to get unsolicited dick pics from strangers that I thought it was a pretty common practice to set it to friends only.</quote> She has it set to where she cannot see what they send her. She has to approve recieiving it. I saw the notification, but she said not to open it so he will stop sending.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Howl 06/26/18 6:48:53 PM #72:	3khc posted... Howl posted... 3khc posted... Howl posted... 3khc posted... Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway? Facebook message. I guess he found her via party invite list. She just dropped me off at home so she can go shopping. I'll see if I can look at it when she returns. Why does your gf have FB messages set so that she can receive messages from people she hasn't friended? It's such a common thing for women to get unsolicited dick pics from strangers that I thought it was a pretty common practice to set it to friends only. She has it set to where she cannot see what they send her. She has to approve recieiving it. I saw the notification, but she said not to open it so he will stop sending. He's definitely trying to creep on her because of what she said at the party dude. You gotta put a stop to it somehow. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 <cite>Howl posted [p:904016790] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote> Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be </quote> Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway? </quote> Facebook message. I guess he found her via party invite list. She just dropped me off at home so she can go shopping. I'll see if I can look at it when she returns. </quote> Why does your gf have FB messages set so that she can receive messages from people she hasn't friended? It's such a common thing for women to get unsolicited dick pics from strangers that I thought it was a pretty common practice to set it to friends only.</quote> She has it set to where she cannot see what they send her. She has to approve recieiving it. I saw the notification, but she said not to open it so he will stop sending.</quote> He's definitely trying to creep on her because of what she said at the party dude. You gotta put a stop to it somehow.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
3khc 06/26/18 6:50:08 PM #73:	Howl posted... 3khc posted... Howl posted... 3khc posted... Howl posted... 3khc posted... Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway? Facebook message. I guess he found her via party invite list. She just dropped me off at home so she can go shopping. I'll see if I can look at it when she returns. Why does your gf have FB messages set so that she can receive messages from people she hasn't friended? It's such a common thing for women to get unsolicited dick pics from strangers that I thought it was a pretty common practice to set it to friends only. She has it set to where she cannot see what they send her. She has to approve recieiving it. I saw the notification, but she said not to open it so he will stop sending. He's definitely trying to creep on her because of what she said at the party dude. You gotta put a stop to it somehow. Maybe. I'm actually not sure if ge was around when she said it, but word can get around fast. Smh drunk ass girl can't keep her big mouth shut. I do want to read what it says tho. She is so stuck on deleting it before opening. I'm not going to go thru her phone without permission. But how can i persuade her to shoe me without coming off as an insecure jerk. --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:904016852] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote> Girlfriend just got a message from a dude at the party. I remember he was bugging her to get hum a beer. Girlfriend doesn't want to open the message and just block him. I want to see what it says. What would your next move be </quote> Take her phone from her and read it. I really can't overstate how much you need to do that. If it's a message she doesn't intend to read she has no reason to claim that it's a privacy issue. Regardless fuck that how did he get her number anyway? </quote> Facebook message. I guess he found her via party invite list. She just dropped me off at home so she can go shopping. I'll see if I can look at it when she returns. </quote> Why does your gf have FB messages set so that she can receive messages from people she hasn't friended? It's such a common thing for women to get unsolicited dick pics from strangers that I thought it was a pretty common practice to set it to friends only.</quote> She has it set to where she cannot see what they send her. She has to approve recieiving it. I saw the notification, but she said not to open it so he will stop sending.</quote> He's definitely trying to creep on her because of what she said at the party dude. You gotta put a stop to it somehow.</quote> Maybe. I'm actually not sure if ge was around when she said it, but word can get around fast. Smh drunk ass girl can't keep her big mouth shut. I do want to read what it says tho. She is so stuck on deleting it before opening. I'm not going to go thru her phone without permission. But how can i persuade her to shoe me without coming off as an insecure jerk.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EpicMickeyDrew 06/26/18 7:01:53 PM #74:	She's hiding it because she know the message is incriminating her, You should look at it --- Just how, pray tell, does your dick "take life"? How could a dick take a life? - XciteMe <cite>EpicMickeyDrew posted [p:904017510] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>She's hiding it because she know the message is incriminating her, You should look at it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrProfessor 06/26/18 7:39:28 PM #75:	WafflehouseJK posted... I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex. Exactly. So many virgins in this thread running their mouths like they Hugh Hefner. --- "I would fire anyone who teabags because it's indicative of being a child, and I do not support child labor." The_Undying_84 <cite>DrProfessor posted [p:904019673] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>WafflehouseJK posted...</cite> <quote>I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex.</quote>Exactly. So many virgins in this thread running their mouths like they Hugh Hefner.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DavidWong 06/26/18 7:43:04 PM #76:	get drunk together --- When goods do not cross borders, soldiers will. Frederic Bastiat, French economist (1801-1850) <cite>DavidWong posted [p:904019893] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>get drunk together</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
3khc 06/26/18 10:34:24 PM #77:	I just woke up from a long nap. She still out shopping. Hopefully the message hasn't been deleted yet. --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:904029445] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>I just woke up from a long nap. She still out shopping. Hopefully the message hasn't been deleted yet.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clearaflagrantj 06/26/18 10:41:37 PM #78:	3khc posted... I just woke up from a long nap. She still out shopping. Hopefully the message hasn't been deleted yet. Shopping for dick <cite>clearaflagrantj posted [p:904029862] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>I just woke up from a long nap. She still out shopping. Hopefully the message hasn't been deleted yet.</quote> Shopping for dick</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthGravid 06/26/18 11:01:30 PM #79:	3khc posted... I just woke up from a long nap. She still out shopping. Hopefully the message hasn't been deleted yet. I'm so sorry. She went to see him. I honestly feel terrible for you. --- Torn between two minds. Is either correct? Perhaps together.....but how? Can it be done? <cite>DarthGravid posted [p:904030870] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>I just woke up from a long nap. She still out shopping. Hopefully the message hasn't been deleted yet.</quote> I'm so sorry. She went to see him. I honestly feel terrible for you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 06/26/18 11:04:27 PM #80:	Bro youve been posting about relationship troubles for years Time to cut your losses --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:904031070] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>Bro youve been posting about relationship troubles for years Time to cut your losses</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Howl 06/26/18 11:11:21 PM #81:	3khc posted... I just woke up from a long nap. She still out shopping. Hopefully the message hasn't been deleted yet. She's been gone 4 hours? Yeah these are real bad signs bro. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 <cite>Howl posted [p:904031471] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>I just woke up from a long nap. She still out shopping. Hopefully the message hasn't been deleted yet.</quote> She's been gone 4 hours? Yeah these are real bad signs bro.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Weezy_Tha_Don 06/26/18 11:31:24 PM #82:	yikes, I was kidding at first but for real bro you might wanna check your girl --- https://imgur.com/hwZyGuA - courtesy of the homie United_World I speak my mind, cause biting my tongue hurts. <cite>Weezy_Tha_Don posted [p:904032620] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>yikes, I was kidding at first but for real bro you might wanna check your girl</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 06/26/18 11:34:26 PM #83:	iClockwork posted... She isn't really even your girlfriend at this point. Ya'll just friends now. --- Remember kids, Jesus died for your sins. So if you don't sin, Jesus died for nothing. <cite>Vermander posted [p:904032779] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>iClockwork posted...</cite> <quote>She isn't really even your girlfriend at this point. Ya'll just friends now.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
3khc 06/26/18 11:35:16 PM #84:	Well she still refuses to open the message. I aint pushing anymore. Not my choice and honestly I aint tripping. --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:904032829] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>Well she still refuses to open the message. I aint pushing anymore. Not my choice and honestly I aint tripping.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Howl 06/27/18 12:13:02 AM #85:	3khc posted... Well she still refuses to open the message. I aint pushing anymore. Not my choice and honestly I aint tripping. You should be tbh. She's either A. afraid of what it might say and doesn't want you to know. Or B. she knows what it says and doesn't want you to know. Either way she has 0 reason to actually hide the message from you if it's just an innocent text that she's unaware of the contents of. What possible reason could she have to purposely hide the contents of a message she doesn't know about if she's totally innocent in the situation? There isn't one. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 <cite>Howl posted [p:904034874] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>Well she still refuses to open the message. I aint pushing anymore. Not my choice and honestly I aint tripping.</quote> You should be tbh. She's either A. afraid of what it might say and doesn't want you to know. Or B. she knows what it says and doesn't want you to know. Either way she has 0 reason to actually hide the message from you if it's just an innocent text that she's unaware of the contents of. What possible reason could she have to purposely hide the contents of a message she doesn't know about if she's totally innocent in the situation? There isn't one.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingArthur3D 06/27/18 12:14:35 AM #86:	TC = destroyed. I bet there's some athletic Black dude moving into position behind her as we speak. <cite>KingArthur3D posted [p:904034958] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>TC = destroyed. I bet there's some athletic Black dude moving into position behind her as we speak.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
3khc 06/27/18 12:21:37 AM #87:	Howl posted... 3khc posted... Well she still refuses to open the message. I aint pushing anymore. Not my choice and honestly I aint tripping. You should be tbh. She's either A. afraid of what it might say and doesn't want you to know. Or B. she knows what it says and doesn't want you to know. Either way she has 0 reason to actually hide the message from you if it's just an innocent text that she's unaware of the contents of. What possible reason could she have to purposely hide the contents of a message she doesn't know about if she's totally innocent in the situation? There isn't one. Her reasoning is that she wants to act like she's not there. Says she doesn't care what it says. --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:904035294] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>Well she still refuses to open the message. I aint pushing anymore. Not my choice and honestly I aint tripping.</quote> You should be tbh. She's either A. afraid of what it might say and doesn't want you to know. Or B. she knows what it says and doesn't want you to know. Either way she has 0 reason to actually hide the message from you if it's just an innocent text that she's unaware of the contents of. What possible reason could she have to purposely hide the contents of a message she doesn't know about if she's totally innocent in the situation? There isn't one.</quote> Her reasoning is that she wants to act like she's not there. Says she doesn't care what it says.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpinKirby 06/27/18 12:27:50 AM #88:	What are you trying to salvage in this relationship? --- MHW Supplemental Discord: https://discord.gg/ChHjtYQ https://imgur.com/QL6WJAl https://imgur.com/lGlcDyU <cite>SpinKirby posted [p:904035568] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>What are you trying to salvage in this relationship?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Howl 06/27/18 12:29:07 AM #89:	3khc posted... Howl posted... 3khc posted... Well she still refuses to open the message. I aint pushing anymore. Not my choice and honestly I aint tripping. You should be tbh. She's either A. afraid of what it might say and doesn't want you to know. Or B. she knows what it says and doesn't want you to know. Either way she has 0 reason to actually hide the message from you if it's just an innocent text that she's unaware of the contents of. What possible reason could she have to purposely hide the contents of a message she doesn't know about if she's totally innocent in the situation? There isn't one. Her reasoning is that she wants to act like she's not there. Says she doesn't care what it says. She can act like it's not there all she wants that doesn't mean it's not though. I went through a kinda similar situation with my wife while we were still dating like 2 years ago and we almost broke up over it. I had her phone and was reading her messages on FB. There was nothing there, but while I was reading through it my then gf got mad and was like give my phone back. I said no, and right then her ex-bf sent her a message that said I wish we could get back together again. I know you won't talk to me anymore but I still really am in love with you. That led to the biggest fight I think we ever had in our relationship. She blocked him and we got over it, but it was still a bad fight. The only reason I didn't outright leave her at the time was because he said I know you won't talk to me anymore and I really just believe my wife wasn't trying to actually talk to him. But my wife also wasn't outright trying to hide messages from me either at the time though. She let me look through her messages and just really wasn't expecting her ex to message her like that. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 <cite>Howl posted [p:904035631] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote> Well she still refuses to open the message. I aint pushing anymore. Not my choice and honestly I aint tripping. </quote> You should be tbh. She's either A. afraid of what it might say and doesn't want you to know. Or B. she knows what it says and doesn't want you to know. Either way she has 0 reason to actually hide the message from you if it's just an innocent text that she's unaware of the contents of. What possible reason could she have to purposely hide the contents of a message she doesn't know about if she's totally innocent in the situation? There isn't one. </quote> Her reasoning is that she wants to act like she's not there. Says she doesn't care what it says.</quote> She can act like it's not there all she wants that doesn't mean it's not though. I went through a kinda similar situation with my wife while we were still dating like 2 years ago and we almost broke up over it. I had her phone and was reading her messages on FB. There was nothing there, but while I was reading through it my then gf got mad and was like give my phone back. I said no, and right then her ex-bf sent her a message that said I wish we could get back together again. I know you won't talk to me anymore but I still really am in love with you. That led to the biggest fight I think we ever had in our relationship. She blocked him and we got over it, but it was still a bad fight. The only reason I didn't outright leave her at the time was because he said I know you won't talk to me anymore and I really just believe my wife wasn't trying to actually talk to him. But my wife also wasn't outright trying to hide messages from me either at the time though. She let me look through her messages and just really wasn't expecting her ex to message her like that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthGravid 06/27/18 12:29:32 AM #90:	3khc posted... Howl posted... 3khc posted... Well she still refuses to open the message. I aint pushing anymore. Not my choice and honestly I aint tripping. You should be tbh. She's either A. afraid of what it might say and doesn't want you to know. Or B. she knows what it says and doesn't want you to know. Either way she has 0 reason to actually hide the message from you if it's just an innocent text that she's unaware of the contents of. What possible reason could she have to purposely hide the contents of a message she doesn't know about if she's totally innocent in the situation? There isn't one. Her reasoning is that she wants to act like she's not there. Says she doesn't care what it says. Have you seen proof that the message has not been opened? --- Torn between two minds. Is either correct? Perhaps together.....but how? Can it be done? <cite>DarthGravid posted [p:904035655] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Howl posted...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>Well she still refuses to open the message. I aint pushing anymore. Not my choice and honestly I aint tripping.</quote> You should be tbh. She's either A. afraid of what it might say and doesn't want you to know. Or B. she knows what it says and doesn't want you to know. Either way she has 0 reason to actually hide the message from you if it's just an innocent text that she's unaware of the contents of. What possible reason could she have to purposely hide the contents of a message she doesn't know about if she's totally innocent in the situation? There isn't one.</quote> Her reasoning is that she wants to act like she's not there. Says she doesn't care what it says.</quote> Have you seen proof that the message has not been opened?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 06/27/18 9:59:57 AM #91:	Any update? Don't leave us hanging @3khc <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:904051741] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>Any update? Don't leave us hanging @3khc</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
spanky1 06/27/18 10:37:38 AM #92:	Sounds like two issues going on here. The lack of sex is one, and it's a fairly mundane issue. It happens. Couples go through this. Sex just becomes less frequent. Yeah you should probably have more sex but whatever, it's not too terribly interesting of a problem. Her humiliating you in public is a far more concerning issue. And no it doesn't necessarily mean she's putting it out there for other guys to potentially come get her. What it is, is a classic abusive move. Belittling or putting down a partner in public in front of friends is something that abusers do. You need to stop that shit immediately before it becomes more comfortable for her. It is not something you do to your partner. I've seen it before and it's a very ugly thing and it never ends well. It can grow and escalate to the point where your woman is just always putting you down for any number of things in front of people. --- https://imgur.com/DCjoiZ0 <cite>spanky1 posted [p:904053541] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like two issues going on here. The lack of sex is one, and it's a fairly mundane issue. It happens. Couples go through this. Sex just becomes less frequent. Yeah you should probably have more sex but whatever, it's not too terribly interesting of a problem. Her humiliating you in public is a far more concerning issue. And no it doesn't necessarily mean she's putting it out there for other guys to potentially come get her. What it is, is a classic abusive move. Belittling or putting down a partner in public in front of friends is something that abusers do. You need to stop that shit immediately before it becomes more comfortable for her. It is not something you do to your partner. I've seen it before and it's a very ugly thing and it never ends well. It can grow and escalate to the point where your woman is just always putting you down for any number of things in front of people.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alexanaxela 06/27/18 11:43:29 AM #93:	sound like she was out shopping for dick tc --- Tomorrow will be the most beautiful day of Raymond K. Hessel's life. His breakfast will taste better than any meal you and I have ever tasted. <cite>Alexanaxela posted [p:904057126] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>sound like she was out shopping for dick tc</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lww99 06/27/18 12:09:53 PM #94:	Gf and I have been together for 4 years. Every so often, we'll have sex like once a month as well. We usually work through it though. Never blasted me at a party about it though, shieeet --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif <cite>lww99 posted [p:904058954] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>Gf and I have been together for 4 years. Every so often, we'll have sex like once a month as well. We usually work through it though. Never blasted me at a party about it though, shieeet</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorenzo_2003 06/27/18 12:16:09 PM #95:	3khc posted... We both initiate at wrong times. Someone is usually not in the mood. Libidos are not in sync. Are you both 55 years old? Wtf, why are you still with this person? --- ... <cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted [p:904059335] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>We both initiate at wrong times. Someone is usually not in the mood. Libidos are not in sync.</quote> Are you both 55 years old? Wtf, why are you still with this person?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
3khc 06/28/18 4:22:25 AM #96:	Yeah she definitely never in the mood. Been trying since I made this topic. Kinda makes me more upset she told people since she's the one refusing. --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:904109483] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>Yeah she definitely never in the mood. Been trying since I made this topic. Kinda makes me more upset she told people since she's the one refusing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpinKirby 06/28/18 4:31:14 AM #97:	SpinKirby posted... What are you trying to salvage in this relationship? --- MHW Supplemental Discord: https://discord.gg/ChHjtYQ https://imgur.com/QL6WJAl https://imgur.com/lGlcDyU <cite>SpinKirby posted [p:904109690] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>SpinKirby posted...</cite> <quote>What are you trying to salvage in this relationship?</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheShadowViper 06/28/18 4:44:13 AM #98:	WafflehouseJK posted... I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex. Not necessarily true. People just have a hard time understanding differences in libido. This is actually the root cause of TC's problem. TC, I have to be honest with you and tell you this relationship is probably done. If she threw that out there then she does not respect your privacy and whether or not it continues that is going to be something you will have to worry about. Not worth it. I would also make sure you work on whatever issues you are having and make sure you are enjoying life. If you are, and your libido is precisely where you want it, then it is best to let her find someone more in tune with her while you find someone more in tune with you. This issue will not go away and will continue to cause resentment from her until she leaves you or does something that prompts you to leave her. Get out in front of the problem. <cite>TheShadowViper posted [p:904109946] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>WafflehouseJK posted...</cite> <quote>I can't help but assume that the people who think that people should want sex all the time are the people who never have sex.</quote> Not necessarily true. People just have a hard time understanding differences in libido. This is actually the root cause of TC's problem. TC, I have to be honest with you and tell you this relationship is probably done. If she threw that out there then she does not respect your privacy and whether or not it continues that is going to be something you will have to worry about. Not worth it. I would also make sure you work on whatever issues you are having and make sure you are enjoying life. If you are, and your libido is precisely where you want it, then it is best to let her find someone more in tune with her while you find someone more in tune with you. This issue will not go away and will continue to cause resentment from her until she leaves you or does something that prompts you to leave her. Get out in front of the problem.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Miz_iZ_AwSOme_X 06/28/18 4:54:52 AM #99:	3khc posted... No luck tonite again. I even powdered my balls. The fuck is this married life already. She fucked your bestfriend or brother most likely --- PSN xJokerLastLaughx Currently playing GTA O Starwars Battlefront 2 Rayman Legends and xcom 2. <cite>Miz_iZ_AwSOme_X posted [p:904110169] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>No luck tonite again. I even powdered my balls. The fuck is this married life already.</quote> She fucked your bestfriend or brother most likely</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Typhon 06/28/18 5:23:42 AM #100:	If this is real, she has most likely been sleeping with someone else for months. Sorry. :( <cite>Typhon posted [p:904110789] in Girlfriend... [t:76745114]...</cite> <quote>If this is real, she has most likely been sleeping with someone else for months. Sorry. :(</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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