Current Events > Hey guys. Just wanted to say that I'm giving up on trying to get a girl.

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Tadamoto38 posted...

Every girl has ridiculously high standards. And won't give the average guy a chance in hell. And you wonder why I'm bitter.

Most girls don't want a misogynist. Contrary to your idiotic beliefs, most girls don't enjoy being treated like crap in relationships.

I mean that bar is almost literally on the floor and you can't even get over that much.
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I'm pretty average and I can usually get at least one number while I'm out. I just talk to women like they are actual humans. Weird, huh?
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Twin3Turbo posted...

You've pretty much just listed out why you can't get a woman right here. Why would a woman want to be in a relationship with a guy that can't carry a conversation? A guy that has nothing going on in his life except for her? Why would anyone except a controlling and manipulative person want to get in a relationship with a doormat.

Fix these things, as well as the career aspirations and you'll do A LOT better. Also, get some hobbies besides video games and anime. Hot women don't care about either of those things.

I never said I couldn't carry a conversation. I can. Pick a subject and I'll tell you my honest opinion on it.

Crayon_Lover posted...

How many friends IRL do you have?

None.

Eevee-Trainer posted...

Most girls don't want a misogynist. Contrary to your idiotic beliefs, most girls don't enjoy being treated like crap in relationships.

I mean that bar is almost literally on the floor and you can't even get over that much.

But here's the thing. I wouldn't treat a girl that I'm dating/in a relationship with like crap. Like I've already said, I'm actually quite nice to girls I'm trying to get with. The only time I treat a girl badly is if she was mean/rude to me first.
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You treat all girls like shit unless the possibility of sex is on the table.

And then you throw a pity party until you drive it off the table again.
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Eevee-Trainer posted...

You treat all girls like shit unless the possibility of sex is on the table.

And then you throw a pity party until you drive it off the table again.

That is completely false. Why would I treat a girl like shit that I'm trying to get with? That doesn't even make sense. I'm always nice to girls unless they're mean to me first.
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Tadamoto is evolving. He is becoming a super nice guy that's ascended past a super nice guy. Or you can just call it a super nice guy 2.

But can he go further beyond?
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Xenozoa425 posted...

This this this

Women like assholes. I'm not one. When I'm nice to a girl, the same cycle always happen. They are my girlfriend for 1 date...then they only want to be friends right now...so I wait. And then they have a new boyfriend. What. The. Heck.

I'm nice and respectful to women, no doubt about that... And it has gotten me nowhere
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Chunkey Simmons posted...

This this this

Women like assholes. I'm not one. When I'm nice to a girl, the same cycle always happen. They are my girlfriend for 1 date...then they only want to be friends right now...so I wait. And then they have a new boyfriend. What. The. Heck.

I'm nice and respectful to women, no doubt about that... And it has gotten me nowhere

Yeah. Apparently women don't want guys that are doormats. But they also don't want guys that treat them like shit. So what the fuck are we supposed to do? I don't think girls are worth it anymore. They don't know what they want themselves.
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I say chat em up like you'd do with your buds. You're likely to make a better first impression that way.
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Lol. I think you confuse treating them like shit for "I don't put up with any bullshit."

So still not being a doormat.

Not every girl has a guy who looks like a Greek statue (because they're in short supply lol). You have a job, car, and aren't a felon. Congrats that's the bare ass minimum for not being a fuckup. Yet you aren't comfortable to be around or nice. Your definition of those is you just cry and bitch to them rather than swear. Not how it works lol, and that isn't comfortable to be around lol.

I'm having a very hard time trying to see how you don't understand this.
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Chunkey Simmons posted...

Xenozoa425 posted...

This this this

Women like assholes. I'm not one. When I'm nice to a girl, the same cycle always happen. They are my girlfriend for 1 date...then they only want to be friends right now...so I wait. And then they have a new boyfriend. What. The. Heck.

I'm nice and respectful to women, no doubt about that... And it has gotten me nowhere

Wtf does this mean. Girlfriend for one date? How old are you?
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EdgeMaster posted...

Lol. I think you confuse treating them like shit for "I don't put up with any bullshit."

So still not being a doormat.

Not every girl has a guy who looks like a Greek statue (because they're in short supply lol). You have a job, car, and aren't a felon. Congrats that's the bare ass minimum for not being a fuckup. Yet you aren't comfortable to be around or nice. Your definition of those is you just cry and bitch to them rather than swear. Not how it works lol, and that isn't comfortable to be around lol.

I'm having a very hard time trying to see how you don't understand this.

Despite what you guys think, I consider myself a nice person. I think that I'm comfortable to be around. I don't know how else to act.
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Tadamoto38 posted...

EdgeMaster posted...

Lol. I think you confuse treating them like shit for "I don't put up with any bullshit."

So still not being a doormat.

Not every girl has a guy who looks like a Greek statue (because they're in short supply lol). You have a job, car, and aren't a felon. Congrats that's the bare ass minimum for not being a fuckup. Yet you aren't comfortable to be around or nice. Your definition of those is you just cry and bitch to them rather than swear. Not how it works lol, and that isn't comfortable to be around lol.

I'm having a very hard time trying to see how you don't understand this.

Despite what you guys think, I consider myself a nice person. I think that I'm comfortable to be around. I don't know how else to act.

Yeah well we've seen you posts and the shit you say to girls.

Remember when you told that one chick your view of gays? Yeah, not exactly comfortable rofl.
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EdgeMaster posted...

Yeah well we've seen you posts and the shit you say to girls.

Remember when you told that one chick your view of gays? Yeah, not exactly comfortable rofl.

Sorry, but that's how I feel about them. I think it's wrong. It goes against my religious beliefs. If a girl has a problem with that, then it wouldn't have worked out for us anyway.
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Tadamoto38 posted...

Despite what you guys think, I consider myself a nice person.

That doesn't make you a nice person.

Tadamoto38 posted...

I think that I'm comfortable to be around.

You literally asked a girl for sex on the first date.

You are the opposite of comfortable to be around.
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yanksmtm posted...

Chunkey Simmons posted...

Xenozoa425 posted...

This this this

Women like assholes. I'm not one. When I'm nice to a girl, the same cycle always happen. They are my girlfriend for 1 date...then they only want to be friends right now...so I wait. And then they have a new boyfriend. What. The. Heck.

I'm nice and respectful to women, no doubt about that... And it has gotten me nowhere

Wtf does this mean. Girlfriend for one date? How old are you?

She broke up with me after the first date. I'm not following.
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Tadamoto38 posted...

I never said I couldn't carry a conversation. I can. Pick a subject and I'll tell you my honest opinion on it.

You said you don't talk much, which is where I got that from. That's a boring trait. You have to know how to keep an interesting conversation going and you don't really know how to do that. Example, that grocery list screen shot you shared recently

You also say that you're nice and comforting to be around but I can almost guarantee that it comes off as creepy if NO girl wants to be around you.

Also, how do you dress? Do you properly groom and take showers (a shame I have to ask this but it happens). Do you speak confidently, slowly and clearly? Do you have awkward mannerisms. All these things matter and they most likely matter to you too in regards to women.

A self assessment of "I dress well, and I'm comforting" doesn't mean anything. You need to take to heart what OTHERS say, as they are less likely to be biased. Show us how you dress on a typical day. You can cut off your face if you'd like.
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Chunkey Simmons posted...

yanksmtm posted...

Chunkey Simmons posted...

Xenozoa425 posted...

This this this

Women like assholes. I'm not one. When I'm nice to a girl, the same cycle always happen. They are my girlfriend for 1 date...then they only want to be friends right now...so I wait. And then they have a new boyfriend. What. The. Heck.

I'm nice and respectful to women, no doubt about that... And it has gotten me nowhere

Wtf does this mean. Girlfriend for one date? How old are you?

She broke up with me after the first date. I'm not following.

I think it's because you called her your girlfriend when there was only one date. That's strange. She was never your girlfriend. She's just a girl you went on a date with once.
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Silver Bearings posted...

I'm pretty average and I can usually get at least one number while I'm out. I just talk to women like they are actual humans. Weird, huh?

Getting a number isnt impressive. The fact that youre bragging about that instead of actual success with women speaks volumes.
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My girl said she saw me in line at the rave we went to and was low key checking me out. She thinks Im cute. You have to find a girl who is attracted to you. Then you can succeed.
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Twin3Turbo posted...

Chunkey Simmons posted...

yanksmtm posted...

Chunkey Simmons posted...

Xenozoa425 posted...

This this this

Women like assholes. I'm not one. When I'm nice to a girl, the same cycle always happen. They are my girlfriend for 1 date...then they only want to be friends right now...so I wait. And then they have a new boyfriend. What. The. Heck.

I'm nice and respectful to women, no doubt about that... And it has gotten me nowhere

Wtf does this mean. Girlfriend for one date? How old are you?

She broke up with me after the first date. I'm not following.

I think it's because you called her your girlfriend when there was only one date. That's strange. She was never your girlfriend. She's just a girl you went on a date with once.

Right, going out on a date doesn't make that your girlfriend...it means you went on a date and she wasn't feeling it and that was that
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don't give up tc!
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Chunkey Simmons posted...

My problem with women is I go on one date, and then they want to be friends for now...okay fine I can wait. But then they start dating another guy. I don't understand. I was supposed to be first in line, why is she dating someone else? She says she doesn't want to date right now, not never. It sucks because im respectful to women and I have nothing to show for it.

Hmm. How did I miss this? So you dated a girl, spend your hard earned money on her, and she says she only wants to be friends for now. Then starts dating another guy next week? Wow. How rotten can a person be? I hate when girls do this shit. Sadly this was her way of letting you down easy. She never had any intentions of getting back with you. She probably thought you were ugly. I'm sorry to say this. I know it's painful to hear. But you need to learn, this is just how girls are. In my opinion, you have every right to be very angry about this. And if I were you, I'd call her out on it.

Say something like "hey bitch, last week when we dated you said that you only wanted to be friends for now. Letting me think and have hope that we would hook up in the future. So why the fuck did I see you dating another guy just a few days later!? Why did you lie to me? What does that bastard have that I don't? Are you really so shallow that you care more about what a guy's face looks like than how he treats you? I demand an explanation"
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Tadamoto38 posted...

What does that bastard have that I don't?

Well for one, he probably doesn't talk to her like this

"hey bitch, last week when we dated you said that you only wanted to be friends for now. Letting me think and have hope that we would hook up in the future. So why the fuck did I see you dating another guy just a few days later!? Why did you lie to me? What does that bastard have that I don't? Are you really so shallow that you care more about what a guy's face looks like than how he treats you? I demand an explanation"
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After what she did to him, she deserves to be talked to like that.
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Tadamoto38 posted...

Chunkey Simmons posted...

My problem with women is I go on one date, and then they want to be friends for now...okay fine I can wait. But then they start dating another guy. I don't understand. I was supposed to be first in line, why is she dating someone else? She says she doesn't want to date right now, not never. It sucks because im respectful to women and I have nothing to show for it.

Hmm. How did I miss this? So you dated a girl, spend your hard earned money on her, and she says she only wants to be friends for now. Then starts dating another guy next week? Wow. How rotten can a person be? I hate when girls do this shit. Sadly this was her way of letting you down easy. She never had any intentions of getting back with you. She probably thought you were ugly. I'm sorry to say this. I know it's painful to hear. But you need to learn, this is just how girls are. In my opinion, you have every right to be very angry about this. And if I were you, I'd call her out on it.

Say something like "hey bitch, last week when we dated you said that you only wanted to be friends for now. Letting me think and have hope that we would hook up in the future. So why the fuck did I see you dating another guy just a few days later!? Why did you lie to me? What does that bastard have that I don't? Are you really so shallow that you care more about what a guy's face looks like than how he treats you? I demand an explanation"

yup, buy a girl a plate at applebees and she should be obligated to hook up with you
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Tadamoto38 posted...

After what she did to him, she deserves to be talked to like that.

This is literally your whole problem.
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Tadamoto38 posted...

Chunkey Simmons posted...

My problem with women is I go on one date, and then they want to be friends for now...okay fine I can wait. But then they start dating another guy. I don't understand. I was supposed to be first in line, why is she dating someone else? She says she doesn't want to date right now, not never. It sucks because im respectful to women and I have nothing to show for it.

Hmm. How did I miss this? So you dated a girl, spend your hard earned money on her, and she says she only wants to be friends for now. Then starts dating another guy next week? Wow. How rotten can a person be? I hate when girls do this shit. Sadly this was her way of letting you down easy. She never had any intentions of getting back with you. She probably thought you were ugly. I'm sorry to say this. I know it's painful to hear. But you need to learn, this is just how girls are. In my opinion, you have every right to be very angry about this. And if I were you, I'd call her out on it.

Say something like "hey bitch, last week when we dated you said that you only wanted to be friends for now. Letting me think and have hope that we would hook up in the future. So why the fuck did I see you dating another guy just a few days later!? Why did you lie to me? What does that bastard have that I don't? Are you really so shallow that you care more about what a guy's face looks like than how he treats you? I demand an explanation"

Who said the other guy she went on a date with was more attractive than him? When you go on a date with someone sometimes it doesn't work out because there's this thing called "chemistry". Not everyone is a good fit. Maybe they had different views on life or didn't like any of the same things
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Tadamoto38 posted...

After what she did to him, she deserves to be talked to like that.

Wow TC, I do sympathize with you at the beginning since girls are complicated.
But after seeing how your behaviour is after you get rejected, I think you are part of the problem.
I mean what don't you consider rude then if everything they say and do are offensive to you?
Had the girl straight up rejected you, you will probably be angry as well, what do you want them to say really?
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DezDroppedFreak posted...

Tadamoto38 posted...

After what she did to him, she deserves to be talked to like that.

This is literally your whole problem.

nah it's those ugly fat bitches, not him he's a nice guy
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Tadamoto38 posted...

Say something like "hey bitch, last week when we dated you said that you only wanted to be friends for now. Letting me think and have hope that we would hook up in the future. So why the fuck did I see you dating another guy just a few days later!? Why did you lie to me? What does that bastard have that I don't? Are you really so shallow that you care more about what a guy's face looks like than how he treats you? I demand an explanation"

Tadamoto still delivers!
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Tadamoto38 posted...

After what she did to him, she deserves to be talked to like that.

What did she "do" to him? Be specific.
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Pepys Monster posted...

Silver Bearings posted...

I'm pretty average and I can usually get at least one number while I'm out. I just talk to women like they are actual humans. Weird, huh?

Getting a number isnt impressive. The fact that youre bragging about that instead of actual success with women speaks volumes.

I wasn't bragging, merely stating that giving yourself a chance at something isn't some far-fetched fantasy. As for actual success? That depends on how you define success. I've been married, divorced, had one-night stands, one week stands, 2-6 month relationships, and non-sexual relationships with women. No need to get hostile about things to someone you don't even know @Pepys_Monster.
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Xenozoa425 posted...

Tadamoto is evolving. He is becoming a super nice guy that's ascended past a super nice guy. Or you can just call it a super nice guy 2.

But can he go further beyond?

AAAAAAAAAAA-
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Xenozoa425 posted...

Xenozoa425 posted...

Tadamoto is evolving. He is becoming a super nice guy that's ascended past a super nice guy. Or you can just call it a super nice guy 2.

But can he go further beyond?

AAAAAAAAAAA-

On the next episode of Tadamoto Z
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Prestoff posted...

Xenozoa425 posted...

Xenozoa425 posted...

Tadamoto is evolving. He is becoming a super nice guy that's ascended past a super nice guy. Or you can just call it a super nice guy 2.

But can he go further beyond?

AAAAAAAAAAA-

On the next episode of Tadamoto Z

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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MediumRare posted...

Wow TC, I do sympathize with you at the beginning since girls are complicated.
But after seeing how your behaviour is after you get rejected, I think you are part of the problem.
I mean what don't you consider rude then if everything they say and do are offensive to you?
Had the girl straight up rejected you, you will probably be angry as well, what do you want them to say really?

Hmm. I'll try to explain. See, here's what she did wrong. Instead of being honest with him about her feelings (that she just didn't like him romantically) she lied to him and let him think that she didn't want a bf at the moment, and that he still had a chance to hook up with her in the future. She basically gave him false hope. To me, this is worse than a flat out rejection.

She should have just told him straight up that she isn't into him for whatever reason. Sure he would have been hurt and angry. But that's better than being given false hope, and not dating another girl cause he's "waiting" for her.

Twin3Turbo posted...

What did she "do" to him? Be specific.

See above.
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Yes! He's still going! Keep it up taddy!
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Tadamoto38 posted...

Hmm. I'll try to explain. See, here's what she did wrong. Instead of being honest with him about her feelings (that she just didn't like him romantically) she lied to him and let him think that she didn't want a bf at the moment, and that he still had a chance to hook up with her in the future. She basically gave him false hope. To me, this is worse than a flat out rejection.

She should have just told him straight up that she isn't into him for whatever reason. Sure he would have been hurt and angry. But that's better than being given false hope, and not dating another girl cause he's "waiting" for her.

According to him, they went on a date and she decided she wanted to be a friend to him. Read between the damn lines, that means she isn't interested in you. She never told him to wait on her. He waited because he can't read between the lines. She never said that he'd be first in line if she decided she wanted to start dating. That was his own faulty assumption. Stop putting all your energy and effort into one girl until she makes it official with you. You pretty much set yourself up for failure when that happens.
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Let me write your lines for you TC
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Lmao
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Alexanaxela posted...

Prestoff posted...

Xenozoa425 posted...

Xenozoa425 posted...

Tadamoto is evolving. He is becoming a super nice guy that's ascended past a super nice guy. Or you can just call it a super nice guy 2.

But can he go further beyond?

AAAAAAAAAAA-

On the next episode of Tadamoto Z

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rGUB88dBwlY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yBLdQ1a4-JI
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She was still a bitch
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Maybe it's not her who is the bitch
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Twin3Turbo posted...

According to him, they went on a date and she decided she wanted to be a friend to him. Read between the damn lines, that means she isn't interested in you. She never told him to wait on her. He waited because he can't read between the lines. She never said that he'd be first in line if she decided she wanted to start dating. That was his own faulty assumption. Stop putting all your energy and effort into one girl until she makes it official with you. You pretty much set yourself up for failure when that happens.

tl;dr - don't put all your eggs in one basket
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MC_BatCommander posted...

Maybe it's not her who is the bitch

Yeah. Maybe it's your mother.
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Hmm, maybe mother problems would explain your general hatred and disdain towards women?
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