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Topic	Hey guys. Just wanted to say that I'm giving up on trying to get a girl.
Tadamoto38 02/23/18 4:06:31 PM #170:	MediumRare posted... Wow TC, I do sympathize with you at the beginning since girls are complicated. But after seeing how your behaviour is after you get rejected, I think you are part of the problem. I mean what don't you consider rude then if everything they say and do are offensive to you? Had the girl straight up rejected you, you will probably be angry as well, what do you want them to say really? Hmm. I'll try to explain. See, here's what she did wrong. Instead of being honest with him about her feelings (that she just didn't like him romantically) she lied to him and let him think that she didn't want a bf at the moment, and that he still had a chance to hook up with her in the future. She basically gave him false hope. To me, this is worse than a flat out rejection. She should have just told him straight up that she isn't into him for whatever reason. Sure he would have been hurt and angry. But that's better than being given false hope, and not dating another girl cause he's "waiting" for her. Twin3Turbo posted... What did she "do" to him? Be specific. See above. --- http://i.imgtc.com/GOunQGg.gif, http://tinyurl.com/yb54cmjm, http://i.imgtc.com/jyRq6FW.gif, http://i.imgtc.com/565zHA5.gif <cite>Tadamoto38 posted [p:896639446] in Hey guys. ... [t:76339526]...</cite> <quote><cite>MediumRare posted...</cite> <quote>Wow TC, I do sympathize with you at the beginning since girls are complicated. But after seeing how your behaviour is after you get rejected, I think you are part of the problem. I mean what don't you consider rude then if everything they say and do are offensive to you? Had the girl straight up rejected you, you will probably be angry as well, what do you want them to say really?</quote> Hmm. I'll try to explain. See, here's what she did wrong. Instead of being honest with him about her feelings (that she just didn't like him romantically) she lied to him and let him think that she didn't want a bf at the moment, and that he still had a chance to hook up with her in the future. She basically gave him false hope. To me, this is worse than a flat out rejection. She should have just told him straight up that she isn't into him for whatever reason. Sure he would have been hurt and angry. But that's better than being given false hope, and not dating another girl cause he's "waiting" for her. <cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote>What did she "do" to him? Be specific.</quote> See above. --- http://i.imgtc.com/GOunQGg.gif, http://tinyurl.com/yb54cmjm, http://i.imgtc.com/jyRq6FW.gif, http://i.imgtc.com/565zHA5.gif</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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