o was homophobic would that be a dealbreaker?

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MysticBrohan 02/11/18 7:18:11 PM #1:	if you're gay let's assume they're heterophobic yeah i can't deal i mean i'm not happy about it but we can make it work View Results assume youve reasoned with them but they still disagree for whatever reason --- Esto es el fin, Grande Padre <cite>MysticBrohan posted [p:895903828] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote> if you're gay let's assume they're heterophobic yeah i can't deal i mean i'm not happy about it but we can make it work View Results assume youve reasoned with them but they still disagree for whatever reason</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Raka_Putra 02/11/18 7:21:38 PM #2:	That would be very weird. --- Fuhlt nicht durch dich Sarastro Todesschmerzen, So bist du meine Tochter nimmermehr-- eeeeeeeeeeeeeeehr. <cite>Raka_Putra posted [p:895903993] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>That would be very weird.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dels 02/11/18 7:23:06 PM #3:	Raka_Putra posted... That would be very weird. Well, heterophobic people do exist, don't they? Hating straight white men is really in nowadays. <cite>Dels posted [p:895904082] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote><cite>Raka_Putra posted...</cite> <quote>That would be very weird.</quote> Well, heterophobic people do exist, don't they? Hating straight white men is really in nowadays.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pjbasis 02/11/18 7:27:32 PM #4:	I would ask them why and depending on the reason we might be able to work it out. But I kinddddd of doubt any reason would be satisfactory. --- http://i498.photobucket.com/albums/rr345/Rakaputra/B8%20Girls%202012/pjbas.png <cite>pjbasis posted [p:895904329] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>I would ask them why and depending on the reason we might be able to work it out. But I kinddddd of doubt any reason would be satisfactory.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Raka_Putra 02/11/18 7:31:54 PM #5:	Dels posted... Raka_Putra posted... That would be very weird. Well, heterophobic people do exist, don't they? Hating straight white men is really in nowadays. They do, but that's outside the topic's question. --- Fuhlt nicht durch dich Sarastro Todesschmerzen, So bist du meine Tochter nimmermehr-- eeeeeeeeeeeeeeehr. <cite>Raka_Putra posted [p:895904566] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote><cite>Dels posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Raka_Putra posted...</cite> <quote>That would be very weird.</quote> Well, heterophobic people do exist, don't they? Hating straight white men is really in nowadays.</quote> They do, but that's outside the topic's question.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Johnbobb 02/11/18 7:32:12 PM #6:	Yeah I don't think so homophobia typically suggests a general "I'm inherently better than these people" attitude, same as things like racism, which is a dealbreaker --- Khal Kirby, warlord of the Super Star Khalasar PSN/Steam: CheddarBBQ https://goo.gl/Diw2hs <cite>Johnbobb posted [p:895904588] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>Yeah I don't think so homophobia typically suggests a general "I'm inherently better than these people" attitude, same as things like racism, which is a dealbreaker</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Johnbobb 02/11/18 7:32:37 PM #7:	Raka_Putra posted... Dels posted... Raka_Putra posted... That would be very weird. Well, heterophobic people do exist, don't they? Hating straight white men is really in nowadays. They do, but that's outside the topic's question. MysticBrohan posted... if you're gay let's assume they're heterophobic --- Khal Kirby, warlord of the Super Star Khalasar PSN/Steam: CheddarBBQ https://goo.gl/Diw2hs <cite>Johnbobb posted [p:895904614] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote><cite>Raka_Putra posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Dels posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Raka_Putra posted...</cite> <quote>That would be very weird.</quote> Well, heterophobic people do exist, don't they? Hating straight white men is really in nowadays.</quote> They do, but that's outside the topic's question.</quote> <cite>MysticBrohan posted...</cite> <quote>if you're gay let's assume they're heterophobic</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BowserCuffs 02/11/18 7:38:16 PM #8:	I'd try to work it out with him, try to understand why he's heterophobic, and try to get him to cease the bigotry. It would be really weird, though, considering he's bi so he likes girls, too, which gives him something in common with straight guys. If he was persistent in his hate and didn't want to let it go, though, yeah, it'd be a dealbreaker entirely. So, uh, both options simultaneously. That being said, heterophobia results in people being offended, homophobia results in people getting killed, so while it doesn't justify heterophobia, it's a bit silly when the results show that homophobia is ultimately worse than heterophobia. After all, parents don't kick their kids out, or send them to "conversion" camps that will torture them physically and mentally simply for being straight. --- Don't curse the darkness - light a candle. <cite>BowserCuffs posted [p:895904900] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>I'd try to work it out with him, try to understand why he's heterophobic, and try to get him to cease the bigotry. It would be really weird, though, considering he's bi so he likes girls, too, which gives him something in common with straight guys. If he was persistent in his hate and didn't want to let it go, though, yeah, it'd be a dealbreaker entirely. So, uh, both options simultaneously. That being said, heterophobia results in people being offended, homophobia results in people getting killed, so while it doesn't justify heterophobia, it's a bit silly when the results show that homophobia is ultimately worse than heterophobia. After all, parents don't kick their kids out, or send them to "conversion" camps that will torture them physically and mentally simply for being straight.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BowserCuffs 02/11/18 8:12:47 PM #10:	MycroProcessor posted... who says you can't be in a homosexual relationship with a homophobe Very good point - gay people (and bi people) can be homophobic. Internalized homophobia is very much a real thing. Especially the "I'm not like those OTHER gays" types that look down on the majority of the others for one reason or another. There's also those church preachers that preach family values and then have dalliances with men in secret. In that case, yeah, it'd still be a dealbreaker. --- Don't curse the darkness - light a candle. <cite>BowserCuffs posted [p:895906877] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote><cite>MycroProcessor posted...</cite> <quote>who says you can't be in a homosexual relationship with a homophobe</quote> Very good point - gay people (and bi people) can be homophobic. Internalized homophobia is very much a real thing. Especially the "I'm not like those OTHER gays" types that look down on the majority of the others for one reason or another. There's also those church preachers that preach family values and then have dalliances with men in secret. In that case, yeah, it'd still be a dealbreaker.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EndOfDiscOne 02/11/18 8:27:12 PM #11:	No ones perfect. As long as she kept her opinions to herself in public and on Facebook, I wouldnt care. --- I am the Cheese! I am the best character on the show! I am better than both the salami and the bologna *COMBINED!* <cite>EndOfDiscOne posted [p:895907623] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>No ones perfect. As long as she kept her opinions to herself in public and on Facebook, I wouldnt care.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
paperwarior 02/11/18 8:33:57 PM #12:	MycroProcessor posted... who says you can't be in a homosexual relationship with a homophobe Seems like an even more clear-cut dealbreaker. --- "God Hand is the ultimate expression of the joy of humanity, specifically the punching part of the joy of humanity."-Shigeru Miyamoto <cite>paperwarior posted [p:895907962] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote><cite>MycroProcessor posted...</cite> <quote>who says you can't be in a homosexual relationship with a homophobe</quote> Seems like an even more clear-cut dealbreaker.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Raka_Putra 02/11/18 9:48:15 PM #13:	Whoops, shoulda read the poll title. Also yeah, no. I don't really like people with strong negative values. --- Fuhlt nicht durch dich Sarastro Todesschmerzen, So bist du meine Tochter nimmermehr-- eeeeeeeeeeeeeeehr. <cite>Raka_Putra posted [p:895911871] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>Whoops, shoulda read the poll title. Also yeah, no. I don't really like people with strong negative values.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MZero11 02/11/18 9:52:48 PM #14:	it would depend on the degree and how often they talk about it probably --- MZero, to the extreme "2017 Guru champ BKSheikah is racist against cute Pokemon." - Luster <cite>MZero11 posted [p:895912126] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>it would depend on the degree and how often they talk about it probably</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TomNook 02/11/18 9:53:00 PM #15:	Doesn't sound like something that would affect me, so it'd be none of my business. --- Bells, bells, bells! <cite>TomNook posted [p:895912135] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>Doesn't sound like something that would affect me, so it'd be none of my business.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CaptainOfCrush 02/11/18 10:12:29 PM #16:	There are many different degrees of "homophobia." My gf, for example, is a practicing Catholic and more or less "isn't sure" if she believes in gay marriage, but she's never spoken insultingly towards gay people or homosexuality. So it's not something we ever fight about even if I may be more progressive on the issue. Now if someone was like "burn the gays," yeah that wouldn't work. --- Yoblazer http://i.imgur.com/gByqgPg.gif <cite>CaptainOfCrush posted [p:895913188] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>There are many different degrees of "homophobia." My gf, for example, is a practicing Catholic and more or less "isn't sure" if she believes in gay marriage, but she's never spoken insultingly towards gay people or homosexuality. So it's not something we ever fight about even if I may be more progressive on the issue. Now if someone was like "burn the gays," yeah that wouldn't work.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lopen 02/11/18 10:18:01 PM #17:	Kind of a dumb hypothetical cause I doubt people who are voting yes would have that person as a s/o to begin with. Like it probably would be but not because it'd be an auto dealbreaker as much as the type of person that would be a homophobe is probably going to be incompatible with me anyway. Like I'm just not going to get along with the personality of someone who is judging people for stuff like that-- particularly when you consider your stereotypical person who you'd identify as a homophobe is pretty open about the hate. But like, in a hypothetical situation assuming we're otherwise very compatible and then I'm told in confidence at some point "hey I've kept this a secret all this time but I just can't handle gay people" uhhh, whatever, as long as they're not being openly hateful that's all you can really ask. Like at that point you're sort of at this weird place where I wouldn't consider the homophobia something inherently wrong from a personality perspective, just a hateful outlook that's been burned into them somehow that they're trying to work around for society's sake. Judging them entirely for that isn't too far off from judging people for their sexuality. --- No problem! This is a cute and pop genocide of love! <cite>Lopen posted [p:895913510] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>Kind of a dumb hypothetical cause I doubt people who are voting yes would have that person as a s/o to begin with. Like it probably would be but not because it'd be an auto dealbreaker as much as the type of person that would be a homophobe is probably going to be incompatible with me anyway. Like I'm just not going to get along with the personality of someone who is judging people for stuff like that-- particularly when you consider your stereotypical person who you'd identify as a homophobe is pretty open about the hate. But like, in a hypothetical situation assuming we're otherwise very compatible and then I'm told in confidence at some point "hey I've kept this a secret all this time but I just can't handle gay people" uhhh, whatever, as long as they're not being openly hateful that's all you can really ask. Like at that point you're sort of at this weird place where I wouldn't consider the homophobia something inherently wrong from a personality perspective, just a hateful outlook that's been burned into them somehow that they're trying to work around for society's sake. Judging them entirely for that isn't too far off from judging people for their sexuality.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eddv 02/11/18 10:30:16 PM #18:	As long as my SO wasnt brohan id deal. --- Board 8's Voice of Reason http://i.imgur.com/chXIw06.jpg <cite>Eddv posted [p:895914117] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>As long as my SO wasnt brohan id deal.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlueCrystalTear 02/11/18 10:34:51 PM #19:	Depends. If they insist on being a bigot, then yes, it's a dealbreaker. If they're more open-minded and, with the right prodding, can realize that others' sexuality has almost no bearing on them - just who they can date - then it's not. --- BlueCrystalTear \| GNT BB4 Winner, Winner Chicken Dinner 3DS 4356-4163-4781 \| (((FREE HUGS))) \| You're living your own life. You're you. <cite>BlueCrystalTear posted [p:895914336] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>Depends. If they insist on being a bigot, then yes, it's a dealbreaker. If they're more open-minded and, with the right prodding, can realize that others' sexuality has almost no bearing on them - just who they can date - then it's not.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LapisLazuli 02/12/18 1:36:01 AM #21:	The fuck is an s/o? --- "I think Cuphead should be higher." - Abby from Brooklyn <cite>LapisLazuli posted [p:895921595] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>The fuck is an s/o?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
turbopuns2 02/12/18 1:41:26 AM #22:	LapisLazuli posted... The fuck is an s/o? significant other another way to say romantic partner without specifying gender or marital status <cite>turbopuns2 posted [p:895921785] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote><cite>LapisLazuli posted...</cite> <quote>The fuck is an s/o?</quote> significant other another way to say romantic partner without specifying gender or marital status</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LapisLazuli 02/12/18 1:50:01 AM #23:	All Google got me was "shout out", hm. --- "I think Cuphead should be higher." - Abby from Brooklyn <cite>LapisLazuli posted [p:895922072] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>All Google got me was "shout out", hm.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SeabassDebeste 02/12/18 9:05:49 AM #24:	that's because usually it's just SO and not S/O. --- yet all sailors of all sorts are more or less capricious and unreliable - they live in the varying outer weather, and they inhale its fickleness <cite>SeabassDebeste posted [p:895932395] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>that's because usually it's just SO and not S/O.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Steiner 02/12/18 10:03:04 AM #25:	LapisLazuli posted... The fuck is an s/o? this post checks out --- This body makes me feel eternal. All this pain is an illusion. <cite>Steiner posted [p:895934561] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote><cite>LapisLazuli posted...</cite> <quote>The fuck is an s/o?</quote> this post checks out</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Peace___Frog 02/12/18 10:12:46 AM #26:	Yes, some of my best friends are gay. If a romantic partner was prejudiced against them, it wouldn't work out. --- ~Peaf~ <cite>Peace___Frog posted [p:895935003] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>Yes, some of my best friends are gay. If a romantic partner was prejudiced against them, it wouldn't work out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kenri 02/12/18 10:21:09 AM #27:	Homophobia's a deal breaker but heterophobia's a bonus --- Congrats to BKSheikah, who knows more about years than anyone else. <cite>Kenri posted [p:895935398] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>Homophobia's a deal breaker but heterophobia's a bonus</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
scarletspeed7 02/12/18 10:22:37 AM #28:	Definitely a dealbreaker for me. Not as much as being a Marvel fan though. --- "Reading would be your friend." ~Dave Meltzer <cite>scarletspeed7 posted [p:895935473] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>Definitely a dealbreaker for me. Not as much as being a Marvel fan though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Peridiam 02/12/18 10:28:00 AM #29:	Steiner posted... LapisLazuli posted... The fuck is an s/o? this post checks out i laffd --- http://i.imgur.com/6Lra0Xf.gif http://i.imgur.com/fZbEYu0.gif <cite>Peridiam posted [p:895935714] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote><cite>Steiner posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LapisLazuli posted...</cite> <quote>The fuck is an s/o?</quote> this post checks out</quote> i laffd</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ashethan 02/12/18 10:44:32 AM #30:	Considering my sister is a lesbian, absolutely would be a dealbreaker. --- Growing up, I wish some teacher told me "You probably won't ever need this, but if you don't learn it, you might miss out on something really cool." <cite>Ashethan posted [p:895936407] in if your s/... [t:76309331]...</cite> <quote>Considering my sister is a lesbian, absolutely would be a dealbreaker.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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