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| Topic | if your s/o was homophobic would that be a dealbreaker? |
| Lopen 02/11/18 10:18:01 PM #17: | Kind of a dumb hypothetical cause I doubt people who are voting yes would have that person as a s/o to begin with. Like it probably would be but not because it'd be an auto dealbreaker as much as the type of person that would be a homophobe is probably going to be incompatible with me anyway. Like I'm just not going to get along with the personality of someone who is judging people for stuff like that-- particularly when you consider your stereotypical person who you'd identify as a homophobe is pretty open about the hate. But like, in a hypothetical situation assuming we're otherwise very compatible and then I'm told in confidence at some point "hey I've kept this a secret all this time but I just can't handle gay people" uhhh, whatever, as long as they're not being openly hateful that's all you can really ask. Like at that point you're sort of at this weird place where I wouldn't consider the homophobia something inherently wrong from a personality perspective, just a hateful outlook that's been burned into them somehow that they're trying to work around for society's sake. Judging them entirely for that isn't too far off from judging people for their sexuality. --- No problem! This is a cute and pop genocide of love! ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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