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OmegaTomHank 01/14/18 12:14:28 PM #158: |
COVxy posted...
Steve Nick posted...Sounds like he basically just repeatedly badgered her with "Sex now? How about now? Now? How about this? This? Wanna do it over there? Here do this" and she did like half the things he asked. nope ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DezDroppedFreak 01/14/18 12:15:08 PM #159: |
So is everybody in Hollywood a dick
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KingCrabCake 01/14/18 12:16:19 PM #160: |
Trigg3rH4ppy posted...
Coolppl Owns posted...victim blaming everywhere why am I not surprised Some are --- Waaaah. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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COVxy 01/14/18 12:16:31 PM #161: |
OmegaTomHank posted...
COVxy posted...Steve Nick posted...Sounds like he basically just repeatedly badgered her with "Sex now? How about now? Now? How about this? This? Wanna do it over there? Here do this" and she did like half the things he asked. Lol. Why would you defend shitty and obviously coercive behavior? Trying to manipulate someone into having sex with you is not okay. Very easy statement to make. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Akagami_Shanks 01/14/18 12:16:40 PM #162: |
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OmegaTomHank 01/14/18 12:16:56 PM #163: |
ClutchMcBeast posted...
i kinda get why rich people pay for sex not just rich people :) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Admiral 01/14/18 12:16:58 PM #164: |
DezDroppedFreak posted...
So is everybody in Hollywood a dick If going on a date and expecting to engage in consensual sex with someone afterwards when they return to your home, get naked, and start performing oral makes you a dick... then yes, all men are probably dicks. --- - The Admiral ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OmegaTomHank 01/14/18 12:17:56 PM #165: |
COVxy posted...
coercion COVxy posted... OmegaTomHank posted...COVxy posted...Steve Nick posted...Sounds like he basically just repeatedly badgered her with "Sex now? How about now? Now? How about this? This? Wanna do it over there? Here do this" and she did like half the things he asked. Its only coercion if its threatening or forceful ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Steve Nick 01/14/18 12:18:06 PM #166: |
The Admiral posted...
DezDroppedFreak posted...So is everybody in Hollywood a dick he should be waiting until marriage --- This is my signature. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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COVxy 01/14/18 12:20:35 PM #167: |
OmegaTomHank posted...
Its only coercion if its threatening or forceful So the only emotion someone can coerce another person with is fear? Lol. I guess women who emotionally manipulate men in abusive borderline relationships is completely fine then. I mean, it's not coercion. She may cry and threaten to kill herself if you don't show her affection, but you don't have a gun to your head! --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DezDroppedFreak 01/14/18 12:24:41 PM #168: |
The Admiral posted...
DezDroppedFreak posted...So is everybody in Hollywood a dick Sounds more like she wanted the situation to end and thought doing that would, but it didn't. --- DezCaughtIt AKA freakofnature30 Brockhampton makes me saturate ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Admiral 01/14/18 12:29:41 PM #169: |
DezDroppedFreak posted...
The Admiral posted...DezDroppedFreak posted...So is everybody in Hollywood a dick If I blow him, hell definitely get the hint I dont want more and am not into him Im not really following that logic. --- - The Admiral ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TommyG663513 01/14/18 12:29:44 PM #170: |
Funbazooka posted...
countzander posted...She used verbal and non-verbal cues to indicate how uncomfortable and distressed she was. --- just tell them all your base doesn't belong to us because we were getting stoned...they'll understand-Ken156 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Phenomenal_one 01/14/18 12:31:05 PM #171: |
Aziz does look like the type of person who wouldn't take no for an answer.
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Two_Dee 01/14/18 12:39:05 PM #172: |
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LittleRoyal 01/14/18 12:40:11 PM #173: |
xBloodBrotherx posted...
LittleRoyal posted...Lorenzo_2003 posted...LittleRoyal posted... Okay well sorry Im my situation it seemed like it would just make him more and and I was scared more than mostly other times in life. I dont at all blame girls who cant figure out what to do or how to scream especially when the person is much more powerful or influential to you. Sexual harassment or sexual violence is not at all easy to handle even though most girls are exposed to it. --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KTG2 01/14/18 12:40:44 PM #174: |
Funbazooka posted...
hortanz posted...After dinner, they went back to Ansari's apartment. Grace says Ansari was quick to undress her and then himself. She said he repeatedly pulled her hand towards his privates multiple times throughout the night and "kept doing it after I moved it away. Yeahhhhhhhhhhh, you have definitely raped somebody before Not even saying Aziz did But you definitely have --- I just realized I hadn't changed my signature since 2013. - Changed 12/3/17 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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masticatingman 01/14/18 12:40:52 PM #175: |
Phenomenal_one posted...
Aziz does look like the type of person who wouldn't take no for an answer. He also looks like the type of person that would understand if the woman just got an Uber home after the date. --- I am I - you are you. These are irrefutable truths. Possibly. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Steve Nick 01/14/18 12:41:50 PM #176: |
The real decision comes before they get to his apartment.
When you're out at night drinking and flirting, and a guy invites you to his apartment, it is assumed that he will make sexual advances. If you don't know how to deal with sexual advances, you probably shouldn't go home with a guy and drink with him. --- This is my signature. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MacDaMurderer 01/14/18 12:44:45 PM #177: |
Phenomenal_one posted...
Aziz does look like the type of person who wouldn't take no for an answer. Yea he will beg like fucking urkel for the pussy. --- @macdamurderer GT: Mac Da Murderer ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NinjaBreakfast 01/14/18 12:50:53 PM #178: |
CE, where rape apologists joke about 'liberals' expecting people to sign consent forms before engaging in sex, now argues that only explicitly leaving a situation like this counts as being reticent about engaging in sexual intercourse.
masticatingman posted... Phenomenal_one posted...Aziz does look like the type of person who wouldn't take no for an answer. must be weird for your dudes trying to perform the mental gymnastics whereby dude is a manic sex pest liberal hiding behind virtue signalling but also simultaneously a beta male getting cucked by women on the reg or w/e. --- http://i.imgur.com/nGZeEqw.png Do you really think you can beat me? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BarneyBosco 01/14/18 12:51:50 PM #179: |
Coolppl Owns posted...
victim blaming everywhere why am I not surprised Yeah, poor guy. --- http://celebmafia.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/Ana-Ivanovic-5.jpg PSN J_Frost77 search my PSN to join the Divinity Original Sin Community ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrPeppers 01/14/18 12:53:01 PM #181: |
NinjaBreakfast posted...
CE, where rape apologists joke about 'liberals' expecting people to sign consent forms before engaging in sex, now argues that only explicitly leaving a situation like this counts as being reticent about engaging in sexual intercourse. Reel it in, buddy. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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legendary_zell 01/14/18 1:34:12 PM #182: |
Is having sex immediately in each specific instance really worth potentially going too far? It is one hundred percent CLEAR that she did not want to have sex. She gave more verbal and non-verbal cues than I've EVER heard from a girl in real life and I completely gave it up at the first sign of any reluctance. Because being horny doesn't excuse willfully ignoring whether you have affirmative consent.
If you don't understand that based on what this woman said and did, he should have chilled the fuck out, I'm scared for women in your life. And the fact that so many people are defending him and saying that they ignore signs of non-consent like this or say "well if what he did is wrong, throw me in jail"...you see why some women have the opinions of the average man that they do. Y'all sexual scripts are fundamentally broken and dangerous. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KingCrabCake 01/14/18 1:37:17 PM #183: |
MrPeppers posted...
NinjaBreakfast posted...CE, where rape apologists joke about 'liberals' expecting people to sign consent forms before engaging in sex, now argues that only explicitly leaving a situation like this counts as being reticent about engaging in sexual intercourse. Seriously --- Waaaah. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Funbazooka 01/14/18 1:51:08 PM #184: |
COVxy posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...COVxy posted...Steve Nick posted...Sounds like he basically just repeatedly badgered her with "Sex now? How about now? Now? How about this? This? Wanna do it over there? Here do this" and she did like half the things he asked. coercion [krZHn, krSHn] NOUN the practice of persuading someone to do something by using force or threats --- I'll defend any man's Funbazooka! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KINDERFELD 01/14/18 1:57:59 PM #185: |
Indian men do not sexually assault women.
We just take the rejection, and cry and drown out the pain with vodka. #fake news. --- the polyfilla way look strong in the weakness of the gaps ... Copied to Clipboard!
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dirtycommunist 01/14/18 2:00:20 PM #186: |
hortanz posted...
She says she used verbal and non-verbal cues to indicate how uncomfortable and distressed she was. Making absolutely no judgement on whether this is true or not, but this seems like a strange way to put it. --- ***not actually a communist, only dirty on occasion ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sami1000 01/14/18 2:07:17 PM #187: |
I don't really care about Ansari, but i'm fucking pissed for Netflix for removing Louis C.K from Netlifx. There's god awful comedians there and like 3 good ones.
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The Admiral 01/14/18 2:15:59 PM #188: |
legendary_zell posted...
It is one hundred percent CLEAR that she did not want to have sex Uh, no. Going back to a guy's place, making out with him, giving him oral twice, and letting him give you oral is not "100% CLEAR" that a girl doesn't want sex. It's quite the opposite. If a girl doesn't want to have sex, tell the guy, clearly and unambiguously, "I don't want to have sex." None of this "he didn't pick up on non-verbal cues while I was blowing him" nonsense. Your excuses for this woman's timidity are absurd. Don't engage in sexual situations with someone if you're mature enough to express your desires confidently and clearly. That's all that's required. --- - The Admiral ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Drasilor 01/14/18 2:20:46 PM #189: |
Lol she sucked him off twice...oh that let him knew.
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KingCrabCake 01/14/18 2:21:26 PM #190: |
Drasilor posted...
Lol she sucked him off twice...oh that let him knew. Also let him eat her box Totally signs of not wanting the D --- Waaaah. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrBobGray 01/14/18 2:25:22 PM #191: |
This just in: Nameless girl accuses yet another celebrity of sexual assault with zero evidence.
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prince_leo 01/14/18 2:28:01 PM #192: |
The Admiral posted...
If I blow him, hell definitely get the hint I dont want more and am not into him I definitely know girls who don't want to have sex but go ahead and give oral just to "get it over with" I mean, they're generally upfront about it and say "I'll blow you but we're not having sex" so it's not the same situation as this --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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legendary_zell 01/14/18 2:28:18 PM #193: |
The Admiral posted...
legendary_zell posted...It is one hundred percent CLEAR that she did not want to have sex Going to someone's place does not give them the right to do anything you told them you didn't want them to do. Making out with them doesn't either. Sex isn't a "yes, unless no situation", it's a no unless yes situation. This woman told him repeatedly she was uncomfortable and he acknowledged that. She stood up and said no at one point. She told him she would end up hating him if he persisted. He persisted anyway. That's not affirmative consent and it was his responsibility to stop making advances at that point. All the other stuff could have happened because she was too scared to leave initially or she did not want to leave, she just did not want to have sex and she left when it was clear he wasn't going to stop at anything short of PIV. There's any number of reasons, but no person who cares about consent should have continued in that situation. Period. It's pretty simple, in the face of all the things she said and did indicating opposition to sexual contact, would you ignore all of that and whip it out? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrBobGray 01/14/18 2:28:43 PM #194: |
prince_leo posted...
The Admiral posted...If I blow him, hell definitely get the hint I dont want more and am not into him Twice? --- Do you have Prince Albert in a can? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Funkydog 01/14/18 2:29:02 PM #195: |
legendary_zell posted...
Is having sex immediately in each specific instance really worth potentially going too far? It is one hundred percent CLEAR that she did not want to have sex. She gave more verbal and non-verbal cues than I've EVER heard from a girl in real life and I completely gave it up at the first sign of any reluctance. Because being horny doesn't excuse willfully ignoring whether you have affirmative consent. This, really. If she didn't want to do anything with him, should she have done the sexual things she did? Probably not. But either from wanting him to stop, being too timid to say no properly after her signs were ignored or just not feelings safe she may have thought the best solution was to do it and hope he'd stop. A bit naive perhaps, but I can understand why someone might feel just "giving in" to do one thing would stop someone who is pestering you despite you turning them down. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Admiral 01/14/18 2:32:43 PM #196: |
legendary_zell posted...
The Admiral posted...legendary_zell posted...It is one hundred percent CLEAR that she did not want to have sex Most of my discomfort was expressed in me pulling away and mumbling Sorry, your narrative is not correct. Also, spare me this "too afraid to leave" nonsense. She wasn't being threatened in any form. If you're too timid enough to leave or express yourself clearly during a sexual encounter when you're uncomfortable, then you're not mature enough to be engaging in sexual encounters and shouldn't be going back to guys' places. Period. --- - The Admiral ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KingCrabCake 01/14/18 2:33:38 PM #197: |
MrBobGray posted...
prince_leo posted...The Admiral posted...If I blow him, hell definitely get the hint I dont want more and am not into him Along with muff diving --- Waaaah. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DezDroppedFreak 01/14/18 2:34:48 PM #198: |
KingCrabCake posted...
Drasilor posted...Lol she sucked him off twice...oh that let him knew. Have y'all seriously never heard of girls giving oral to try to deter from actually having penetrable sex? I agree there's a social implication to going to someone's apartment after a date. I don't really think that's the argument. That in itself isn't consent though. It seems like a case of her freezing up and not really knowing how to say no to him until they nearly actually had sex --- DezCaughtIt AKA freakofnature30 Brockhampton makes me saturate ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Funkydog 01/14/18 2:35:20 PM #199: |
The Admiral posted...
Sorry, your narrative is not correct. Some people deal differently with these situations. Not everyone is the sturdy rock you are and can find it hard to properly voice this - but it should be remarkably obvious to the other person when someone is like this, unless they are some emotionless rock. Which would be a sign by itself. Simply saying unless you can properly and eloquently say no in uncomfortable situations is incredibly naive as to how some people actually deal with them. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Admiral 01/14/18 2:36:42 PM #200: |
Funkydog posted...
The Admiral posted...Sorry, your narrative is not correct. Tough shit. If you're not mature enough to express your sexual desires clearly, you're not mature enough for sex and should never be going back to other people's places. --- - The Admiral ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NinjaBreakfast 01/14/18 2:36:44 PM #201: |
Could def see the usual suspects itt getting violent if somebody dared to enter their dungeon w/o immediately consenting to any and all sex acts.
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joestarrr 01/14/18 2:37:00 PM #202: |
DezDroppedFreak posted...
KingCrabCake posted...Drasilor posted...Lol she sucked him off twice...oh that let him knew. i've actually done this because i wasn't too comfortable with the situation. granted, i didn't slander their name everywhere, but still. it's uncomfortable af and not a position you want to be in --- "I attribute my success to this - I never gave or took any excuse." - Florence Nightingale https://joestarrr.sarahah.com/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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hockeybub89 01/14/18 2:37:13 PM #203: |
Funkydog posted...
The Admiral posted...Sorry, your narrative is not correct. I agree. If this happened and she was acting this uncomfortable, then Aziz either ignored it or is literally a sociopath. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Leanaunfurled 01/14/18 2:38:49 PM #204: |
If a girl friend came to me telling me this story, going to his place after a date, multiple oral sessions, how she gave him "clues" and "cues," I'll just be straight, our friendship would probably end. Not on my end, but my lack of sympathy at her naive and completely-opposite-of-upfront attitude and trying to tell her that (nicely), I imagine someone like this girl would wig out and stop talking to me and go find someone that would say what she wants to hear.
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Funkydog 01/14/18 2:39:15 PM #205: |
The Admiral posted...
Tough shit. If you're not mature enough to express your sexual desires clearly, you're not mature enough for sex and should never be going back to other people's places. That's an incredibly stupid stance to take on the world. If you think it is okay to ignore someone who has frozen up, is mumbling and/or pulling away from you just because they didn't say "I do not wish to do this, please can you stop" then it is kind of sad. People generally wouldn't stand for it in typical social situations, so why is it okay when sex is involved? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ClutchMcBeast 01/14/18 2:41:08 PM #207: |
you say you're uncomfortable but you stay in his apartment for hours, make out with him several times, and perform and receive oral sex. tbh, this was just an awkward sexual encounter; im annoyed people are trying to vilify aziz for being goofy and swagless; he didn't do anything criminal
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