Lurker > joe40001

UT1999 posted...

I really like this group don't know about you. I really like like 4 of their songs. I'm a taylor swift fan too come at me.

You are wrong about Tswift but yeah I really like Imagine Dragons, they have like 3 or 4 songs I like and just about every other artist in the world they'll just have 1 song I like.
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AsianRobertLee posted...

joe40001 posted...

Jeffery Donovan

He was bad ass in Fargo season 2, but, in general, yeah.

The only reason he worked in that was the brilliance of the casting/director.

The character he was playing was a loser who very transparently acted like a wannabe tough guy.

The acting direction they must have given him was "ok you are a tough guy"
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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Jennifer Lawrence isn't that great

Olivia Munn isn't a real actress so yeah she probably should never get hired.

If I really spent a long time thinking about it I could come up with some good answers.

The only actor I know who is actively bad is Jeffery Donovan.

Johnny Depp hasn't earned the level of value he's assessed as having.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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I honestly wish more of CE and even the world acted like this about dates.

Everybody is so jaded and lame
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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Syntheticon posted...

AsucaHayashi posted...

The photo only showed the woman from the neck down

yeah i don't really believe being married for 19 years(and together for however long before that) and not recognize your wife's own body.

Yeah that was the first red flag for me, also that she was 40+ and passing herself off as 27 but maybe he didn't care or that's standard for prostitutes? I'm certainly no expert, either way it's no surprise it was fake.

What would the prostitute age conversion be?

if 40 is 27 it would be something like 9(ACTUAL_AGE-18)/22=HO_AGE-18

9a-162=22H-22*18 -> 9A+378=22H ->

(9A+234)/22=H

So for example a 70 yo would be 630+234=854/22= 38.8 yo
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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cowabunga
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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They both seem happy, I choose to not have a negative reaction to two people being happy and seemingly making each other happy
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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WaterLink posted...

joe40001 posted...

For example, the phrase "wah I can't get a gf" is designed to suggest the speaker of such a phrase to be a entitled whiny person, when in fact many lonely people are simply lonely due to circumstances or choices that were not presented to them fairly.

Put simply, you really seem to not understand those you are shittalking.

I haven't had a gf since 2010. Partly due to lack of effort on my part in certain parts of this period, partly due to being shut down by multiple people, partly due to me and one of my female friends having an agreement because we both weren't getting any. But then that ended because she got a bf and never talked to me again.

But despite it all, I don't feel the need to spend $500 on a girl who I'll never meet and who doesn't give a fuck about me. If I was going to spend that, I'd go buy a goddamn escort or something because at least then I'm having some sort of physical encounter and some kind of return for my money, even if I think that's a rip-off as well.

I understand getting shut down frequently. I understand feeling hopeless and feeling like I'll be alone forever. I was this close to ending it all at one point.

But eventually I just started living for myself and my friends and stopped worrying about all that. Once that stopped being at the front of my mind constantly I actually started having more success with girls.

So you are coming at me acting like I'm sitting here with no frame of reference and can't relate to these kids throwing their money around for no reason, but it's actually YOU, sir, who has no frame of reference for where I'm coming from. I am staunchly against enabling this spending behavior. Also against attacking the girls and not attacking the people who throw their money around pointlessly which is what creates more of these girls doing these things.

I never claimed to have a frame of reference for your life experience just an inference based on how you talked. It seems now that you aren't dismissive of them because you don't empathize but rather because you feel pride that you escaped lowness yourself.

It would still seem like you were only adjacent to the lowness rather than in the thick of it, (you had a FWB you had a girlfriend for a time before this all) that said I'm not saying them spending that money is like right or something just that insulting such people is really just insult to injury. They are affection starved and even being on the periphery of that you must appreciate how bad that can feel.

The solution for them is not at all what they are doing to get out of it, but idk it seemed like you weren't giving them any sympathy and considering how depressed they probably are already that's harsh by my assessment.
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soulunison2 posted...

joe40001 posted...

soulunison2 posted...

joe40001 posted...

soulunison2 posted...

Harpie posted...

soulunison2 posted...

I lost my virginity to a girl in my college's library - one of the conference rooms.

Shit was dank

omg why

Locked room, 29 year old woman with a man overseas, horny 19year old

Come on duuuude

You enabled her to cheat on her man? idk about that one

Man I was an awkward overweight teen lmao

Tell me now, In the same situation, I wouldn't do it man,

Real talk I feel because i did that wit her her it's why I'm having bad luck in love man

Being an awkward overweight teen doesn't excuse any of it. I'm not saying feel shit about it, because there are lots of adults who do the same thing less apologetically, but I certainly think being a participant in cheating isn't a thing one should want to do.

That was like 8 years ago dude, of course I look back at it and wish I was better at it. Like I get paranoid when the girls I date start hanging with their guy friends cuz of the shit I did man

Ok fair enough.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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WesternMedia posted...

How's the game going?

Good, I fully expect to push the update in the next week, hopefully sooner.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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soulunison2 posted...

joe40001 posted...

soulunison2 posted...

Harpie posted...

soulunison2 posted...

I lost my virginity to a girl in my college's library - one of the conference rooms.

Shit was dank

omg why

Locked room, 29 year old woman with a man overseas, horny 19year old

Come on duuuude

You enabled her to cheat on her man? idk about that one

Man I was an awkward overweight teen lmao

Tell me now, In the same situation, I wouldn't do it man,

Real talk I feel because i did that wit her her it's why I'm having bad luck in love man

Being an awkward overweight teen doesn't excuse any of it. I'm not saying feel shit about it, because there are lots of adults who do the same thing less apologetically, but I certainly think being a participant in cheating isn't a thing one should want to do.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

WaterLink posted...

joe40001 posted...

The problem comes from your premise of "I've gotten girlfriends easily so it's not that hard for anybody to get one" which is a false premise, and in turn all conclusions from that false premise are unsound

That doesn't mean giving $500 to a girl across the country who ultimately doesn't give two fucks about you is excusable behavior just because "wah I can't get a gf".

If you've got that kinda money to spend then invest in yourself and the result will come. We live in a society that's too obsessed with instant gratification rather than putting in the work in for the prize at the end and blanket blaming society for our shortcomings. This mentality has got to end

I'm not defending them so much as saying that how you act seems to demonstrate a lack of familiarity or context for such people's emotional state that you are not treating them with fairness.

For example, the phrase "wah I can't get a gf" is designed to suggest the speaker of such a phrase to be a entitled whiny person, when in fact many lonely people are simply lonely due to circumstances or choices that were not presented to them fairly.

Put simply, you really seem to not understand those you are shittalking.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

soulunison2 posted...

Harpie posted...

soulunison2 posted...

I lost my virginity to a girl in my college's library - one of the conference rooms.

Shit was dank

omg why

Locked room, 29 year old woman with a man overseas, horny 19year old

Come on duuuude

You enabled her to cheat on her man? idk about that one
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

VandorLee posted...

joe40001 posted...

VandorLee posted...

Im not hating the people doing it but the people donating. Like, I can just go on dates, and i did and if you actually try and be a decent person getting a gf is not hard yet youre giving a girl money to watch her play games?

Sad sad people.

You sound like a rich person talking about how they don't understand some choices poor people make.

Im saying they sound like theyve given up and now just give money to girls online when its really not hard to get a girl friend. If youll just give money to girls online i feel your standards are low and that only helps. You dont start with 10s anyway.

The problem comes from your premise of "I've gotten girlfriends easily so it's not that hard for anybody to get one" which is a false premise, and in turn all conclusions from that false premise are unsound
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

Romulox28 posted...

joe40001 posted...

Romulox28 posted...

Applebees is more than just a restaurant, it is an experience.

When you step through the door of the restaurant your first time, you are transported into a world unlike any other. The low light of the restaurant casts shadows on the knick-knacks adorning the walls, and the translucent hum of the various screens through the restaurant create a sort of ethereal presence in the restaurant.

Right off the bat, you know you are in for a dining experience like no other.

"Welcome to Applebees!" a cheerful host says to you. "How many are in your party?" You hold up two fingers. "Right this way!" She responds. As you walk to your table, you wonder how she can deal with so many customers, yet remain so chipper, but shrug it off as another wonderful mystery caused by the splendor of Applebees.

The waitress takes your drink order and for a moment, your head is spinning. Do you want a soda? Do you want iced tea? You look at the drink menu and you see a litany of alcoholic beverages you have only dreamed about - Bud Light, Coors Light, Miller Light...

The waitress offers a helpful suggestion of an Oreo Shake, and you say that sounds great. She asks if you'd like a round of water for the table as well. You smile. This is the kind of attention to detail that you expect from Michelin Star rated restaurants, not a Neighborhood Bar & Grill!

As the waitress goes to fetch your shake, you peruse the menu. The pages are jam-packed with the names of delicacies that you can only imagine. Fiesta Lime Chicken? Shrimp N' Parmesan Sirloin? You shift in your seat; you suddenly feel very self-aware that you do not belong in this restaurant. Your palatte does not feel sophisticated enough for these cuisines, and you worry that you will not do these delicacies justice when you enjoy them.

Just at this moment, the waitress comes to your table and all your fears are dissuaded. You order the Chicken Tenders Platter (a local favorite). You take a sip from your Oreo Shake and breath a sigh of relief as liquified Oreos slide down your throat. You lean back in your booth and relax.

Suddenly, you hear a chorus of heavenly voices rise from behind you. You turn around to see all of the Applebees wait staff coming towards you, singing and clapping their hands. "Happy happy birthday, from Applebees to you," they cheer. "We wish it was our birthday, so we could party too, hey!"

As soon as they arrived, the employees scatter, leaving you to dwell on the beauty of it all; the fact that Applebees treats you with such precise, special attention, the five-star cuisine, the exotic decor, and the fact that the wait staff is so eager to share in your special moments with you.

This is great

Did you create this?

Yes

Can I make a dramatic reading of this?
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

Antifar posted...

In life, the majority of us will do things for money that
- We find unpleasant, or demeaning
- Take advantage of others

Singling out this one just strikes me as bitterness.

A lot of us will do some job at some point that we find unpleasant, but the way you just lump that in with "nobody should care about those who take advantage of others" is pretty dishonest.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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VandorLee posted...

Im not hating the people doing it but the people donating. Like, I can just go on dates, and i did and if you actually try and be a decent person getting a gf is not hard yet youre giving a girl money to watch her play games?

Sad sad people.

You sound like a rich person talking about how they don't understand some choices poor people make.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

I feel like there is a way to make this into a joke referencing the pina coladas song but I can't quite thread that needle.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

I don't think the word "successfully" is necessary
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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EffectAndCause posted...

Soooo many girls I could've banged but I decided to get to know them instead.

fuck you

Me? I guess it's a big regret that I've lived a long life of loniness including highschool but I also didn't want to be the kind of guy who ended up with relationships and stuff.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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butthole666 posted...

I'm 21, my window for "socially formative experiences" is closed. My life is lonely and sad and will remain as such.

You better be trolling, because if I were 21 instead of what I am I'd have so much more hope/possibility.

If you are serious let me know I can give you advice that you better fucking listen to.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

FightingGames posted...

they deserve it for exploiting these pathetic virgins

And yeah, the probably are a bit exploitative, not they necessarily know so.

The are milking the desperation of lonely people for money, and it's far from new, but it's also not the most classy thing one can do for money.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

WaterLink posted...

joe40001 posted...

Antifar posted...

joe40001 posted...

It is bullshit obviously and I can't tell if people defending it are being contrarian or trolling.

What's bullshit about it?

Play video games and getting money for just being female and not much else isn't a thing worth defending. I'm not going to stop people from doing it or for paying for it, but that people actually white knight twitch girls who are pretty much uber fortunate to begin with while loads of people have rough goes of life is what is bullshit.

Maybe guys shouldn't be so desperate. Maybe if guys could control themselves more and not throw half a grand at chicks they're watching play VGs from across the country that they'll never meet, then this opportunity wouldn't be there for girls?

Don't get mad at the girls for it. If girls were paying money for this stuff then I'd do it too as a guy.

I'm not mad at them, I just saying they deserve 0 defending. The rich kid who gets 1 less free car from his parents doesn't need defending, girls who get paid lots of money just to play games and are given tons of praise and attention for doing so don't need any defenders. Not a single person here needs to waste energy white-knighting them.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

OrtegaTron posted...

Harpie posted...

why am i so nervous jfc

Based on what I can tell from your posting on CE, you lack confidence and aren't very mature. But you're young, so its understandable.

wow, what you do you really think?

You be you, TC. "Maturity" and "Confidence" are overrated.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

OctilIery posted...

joe40001 posted...

Harpie posted...

voldothegr8 posted...

Why do women celebrate getting dates? That's like celebrating taking a piss.

Women don't have it as easy as you think

I'm pretty sure they do but whatever.

They don't.

I'm pretty sure they do but whatever
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

Romulox28 posted...

Applebees is more than just a restaurant, it is an experience.

When you step through the door of the restaurant your first time, you are transported into a world unlike any other. The low light of the restaurant casts shadows on the knick-knacks adorning the walls, and the translucent hum of the various screens through the restaurant create a sort of ethereal presence in the restaurant.

Right off the bat, you know you are in for a dining experience like no other.

"Welcome to Applebees!" a cheerful host says to you. "How many are in your party?" You hold up two fingers. "Right this way!" She responds. As you walk to your table, you wonder how she can deal with so many customers, yet remain so chipper, but shrug it off as another wonderful mystery caused by the splendor of Applebees.

The waitress takes your drink order and for a moment, your head is spinning. Do you want a soda? Do you want iced tea? You look at the drink menu and you see a litany of alcoholic beverages you have only dreamed about - Bud Light, Coors Light, Miller Light...

The waitress offers a helpful suggestion of an Oreo Shake, and you say that sounds great. She asks if you'd like a round of water for the table as well. You smile. This is the kind of attention to detail that you expect from Michelin Star rated restaurants, not a Neighborhood Bar & Grill!

As the waitress goes to fetch your shake, you peruse the menu. The pages are jam-packed with the names of delicacies that you can only imagine. Fiesta Lime Chicken? Shrimp N' Parmesan Sirloin? You shift in your seat; you suddenly feel very self-aware that you do not belong in this restaurant. Your palatte does not feel sophisticated enough for these cuisines, and you worry that you will not do these delicacies justice when you enjoy them.

Just at this moment, the waitress comes to your table and all your fears are dissuaded. You order the Chicken Tenders Platter (a local favorite). You take a sip from your Oreo Shake and breath a sigh of relief as liquified Oreos slide down your throat. You lean back in your booth and relax.

Suddenly, you hear a chorus of heavenly voices rise from behind you. You turn around to see all of the Applebees wait staff coming towards you, singing and clapping their hands. "Happy happy birthday, from Applebees to you," they cheer. "We wish it was our birthday, so we could party too, hey!"

As soon as they arrived, the employees scatter, leaving you to dwell on the beauty of it all; the fact that Applebees treats you with such precise, special attention, the five-star cuisine, the exotic decor, and the fact that the wait staff is so eager to share in your special moments with you.

This is great

Did you create this?
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

Lightsasori posted...

I meant the description that Netflix had before going into watching the movie, other than that I barely know a thing about the movie. So yeah me using the word "synopsis" was a poor choice lol.

No I know, but what I meant by blind was "don't even read the description".

Yeah most people can't do this for every movie, but if you've ever enjoyed a movie for a twist or reveal watching a movie blind will make even the premise seem like a cool reveal.

My hope was that my recommendation will get somebody to watch the film knowing 0 about it like I did (that means no trailers or even synopsis) and then they go it and they have the awesome viewing experience I just did.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

I think this is trolling but if not it really shows a lack of understanding.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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Antifar posted...

joe40001 posted...

It is bullshit obviously and I can't tell if people defending it are being contrarian or trolling.

What's bullshit about it?

Play video games and getting money for just being female and not much else isn't a thing worth defending. I'm not going to stop people from doing it or for paying for it, but that people actually white knight twitch girls who are pretty much uber fortunate to begin with while loads of people have rough goes of life is what is bullshit.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

Trust me, you can go to college and not have "the college experience".

I've lived a lot of life and not had the corresponding "life experience".
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

Lightsasori posted...

The synopsis looks interesting. My friend says Willaim Dafoe is in the movie, so I might check it out .

Dammit, you'd enjoy the movie more if you went in blind :/

Having the movie itself reveal the premise/synopsis is so much more fun than just reading the blurb.

I don't know why people like going into a movie only after they know exactly what is going to happen for the first 15-30 minutes. But to each their own I guess.

That said I do appreciate you not posting any spoilers here greatly. It really is a good movie.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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Raikuro posted...

I like how it subverted the whole jumping into a dumpster for a soft landing trope.

It went between subverting expectations and fulfilling them brilliantly such that you never new what was going to happen at any given time.

It was exactly what this kind of movie should be.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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ItsYourFault posted...

I listened to the Joe Rogan podcast with Ben Shapiro, very enlightening.

Felt so sorry for that guy.

Do you mean Brett Weinstein?

Brett Weinstein was a professor at evergreen who had to deal with extreme SJW bs, Ben Shapiro is a free speech guy who has gotten some SJW protesting for a few of his positions as well as just what some people confusingly treat him as.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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What's wrong with applebee's?
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

It is bullshit obviously and I can't tell if people defending it are being contrarian or trolling. But the level of defense of it is borderline compulsive here.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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Harpie posted...

voldothegr8 posted...

Why do women celebrate getting dates? That's like celebrating taking a piss.

Women don't have it as easy as you think

I'm pretty sure they do but whatever.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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GOATSLAYER posted...

joe40001 posted...

No, it is great though, and there will be some people who enjoy it more.

BB is going to be too anxiety inducing for some.

It wasn't anxiety inducing to me

for some
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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Kitt posted...

It was okay.

Did you know the whole premise/plot going in? Because I strongly disagree with you. The world building was great, every choice was great and allowed for a narrative where you really do not know what is going to happen next.

The majority of movies suffer from me knowing exactly what was going to happen or being uninvested due to uninteresting premise or unlikable characters, this had likable characters, an interesting premise, and a really robust job of world building and premise execution.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

The experience I had is exactly why I don't watch movie trailers or read descriptions. I had 2 or 3 moments of "Oh THIS is what the movie is about?" as the worldbuilding did a great job showing itself to me.

If you haven't seen it and like a sci-fi movie just go watch it blind. Don't read the description, don't watch a trailer just go watch it blind. It's a really amazingly good movie.


It's on netflix right now.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

Well feeling valued as a sex partner would be a step up from not feeling valued at all so I've got to assume yes
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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MrStabbath posted...

LysistrataMedea posted...

it's pretty weird to see a girl talk about not being sure if a guy likes her because it makes me realize most CEmen probably know a girl that is pining for attention from him

dohohohoho

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7w2YrPxXraQ#t=57.5s
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

I cry more now that I realize nobody is playing the "who can be the least emotional game" if we were playing that game I could probably do well, but since we are not there is no need to play it.

Working through your emotional shit is going to be better than ignoring it.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

Doesn't anybody else find "women as a casting gimmick" to be antithetical to the idea of gender equality?
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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#LonienessTriggered
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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DocileOrangeCup posted...

What a douchey activity

Oh pfft, let happy people be happy. It's only douchey if they are playing with sound on and talking a lot in such a way as to be actively distracting to others.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

I think I won the topic
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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USANumber1 posted...

I don't need anyone to tell me I'm a mess to know I'm a mess. Sorry for jumping up your ass. I've just met so many misogynistic hostile Elliott Roger's esque dudes online it's rediculois. If I jumped to conclusions I apologize. That's my bad. I was expecting worse.

Insofar as I would understand them as evidenced by you conflating me with them I will say that you likely don't understand them that well either. I wrote up a really good explanation of it a few years back I'll see if I still have it.

The main part of it is that people get bitter because if you are as hyper-considerate towards a woman's space and person that you might be lead by society to believe you should be, you will likely end up never in a relationship. And for several years you will blame solely yourself for that, but in reality it was the misleading rules that are to blame.

Guys who don't care if they bug a woman by hitting on them will as a point of fact have more success with women then guys who care so much that they never hit on women because they can never be sure the woman wants to be hit on. This isn't an alpha/beta thing or a confidence thing, this is one guy trying desperately to do what he thinks is the respectful thing and the other guy not giving a fuck, and the latter guy having more success because of it.

After sufficient internalization of self-loathing due to this you will lash out at that which seemed to cause your loneliness and self hate, and in that emotional time in the broadest strokes you will think it was women who did it. Women never did, but rather the expectations you put on yourself out of what you thought was the respectful kind way to be with women.

People who have never been alone for a long long time really struggle to relate to this, but there is no question extreme prolonged loneliness and lack of affection emotionally will fuck up anybody.

These people get alienated and then on top of that get called "Elliot Rodgers types" for feeling alienated. When they shouldn't, not because their hate is well directed, but because in the end their feelings do come from an emotionally true place. Elliot Rodgers wasn't a shitty guy for how he felt, he was a shitty guy for how he acted.

And all this isn't to even say your feelings are wrong. Likely your desire to jump to calling somebody like me an elliot rodgers type doesn't come from a place of pure hate but rather one of "I don't like how somebody is making me feel guilty for being happy" and it's true you shouldn't feel guilty for being happy. That wasn't my design of my post, my post was to share how your post prompted a feeling of loneliness and bitterness in me. And I was acknowledging that feeling. That acknowledgement didn't have a particular agenda as it related to you, except for maybe to give you context to realize you maybe should treasure your happy times even more as there are many people who have a life completely devoid of such joys.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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USANumber1 posted...

Nice gif. -Gavirulax- posted...

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I can almost guarantee that the dudes bitter cynicism boils down to "girls are shallow bitches." and I'm not fucking buying it.

Not at all.

Here is a teachable moment: When you are making (inaccurate) assumptions about what other people believe and why, and then getting mad at that person because of the assumptions you are projecting on them, it is you who probably need to do some introspection.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
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USANumber1 posted...

How about you fuck off, loser. I wouldn't let you within the same zip code of my vagina. You act like sex is something you've been deprived of. Guess what, the vast majority of the world has had it.

Every fucking one of your ancestors from before they even evolved into humans got laid. Hundreds of thousands of creatures managed to find a partner that eventually led to you from the lowliest lung fish to your grand parents. Imagine if the buck stops with you? That's on you, pal. What does it say about you? Sex isn't something you're entitled to. It's a natural result or having a healthy relationship with someone who belongs to the same species as you.

Jesus christ you are going off on this.

I just admitted I was bitter, that's it, and it very reasonable because most people derive joy from physical intimacy. I'm not entitled to it, but neither is anybody. I act no more entitled to it that you. It just happens for some people and doesn't happen for others, that said it's batshit looney toons to act like those it doesn't happen for shouldn't feel bitter or unhappy about it, or that they deserve their loneliness.

I only act as entitled to it as everybody else in the world, including you which is to say when you go without it, it makes you an unhappy person.

Your post shows an extreme lack of understanding of somebody like me, which is fine if you didn't also layer on top of that an extremely insulting hostility.

Like I said, You are fortunate, enjoy your good times, feel good for those who can relate, and have empathy for those who can't. Now is not the time to act superior to people who are already having a much rougher go of it than you are.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif

Because he's not comfortable being anything but the underdog.
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"joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori
http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif