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ssj3vegeta
08/31/17 8:57:11 PM
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ssj3vegeta
08/31/17 9:00:54 PM
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joe40001
08/31/17 9:13:57 PM
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I think this is trolling but if not it really shows a lack of understanding.
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Cleo_II
08/31/17 9:15:28 PM
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Lmao. So true.
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pkmnlord
08/31/17 9:17:37 PM
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It'd be pretty cool if sex worked like that tbh.
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08/31/17 9:18:49 PM
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PiOverlord
08/31/17 9:20:18 PM
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Haha.
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09/01/17 6:34:06 AM
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the_cajun88
09/01/17 6:35:16 AM
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Good boy points get you chicken tendies, not sex IIRC.
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Kanaya413
09/01/17 6:36:26 AM
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OMFF IT REALLY WAS YHE MORTY PICTURE ICFUCKING NEW IT LMFAO
Wis h I had a card for a,vindicators adventure ;(
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itachi15243
09/01/17 6:37:09 AM
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The way some of them act, I wouldn't be surprised
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Coolppl Owns
09/01/17 6:40:23 AM
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lol I'm saving that
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D-Lo_BrownTown
09/01/17 6:45:52 AM
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It's kind of like how women think just because they put out, it means I'm going to marry them.

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Swagnificent119
09/01/17 6:51:00 AM
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D-Lo_BrownTown posted...
It's kind of like how women think just because they put out, it means I'm going to marry them.

lol


someone already has you covered

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itachi15243
09/01/17 7:01:06 AM
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Can someone please do a "How Hillary thinks elections work" one? Maybe a "Times ran for president" on the top of the card or something?

And a Trump one: "How Trump thinks solving problems works" with a "days spent golfing" card or something like that
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Swagnificent119
09/01/17 7:01:41 AM
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itachi15243 posted...
Can someone please do a "How Hillary thinks elections work" one? Maybe a "Times ran for president" on the top of the card or something?

And a Trump one: "How Trump thinks solving problems works" with a "days spent golfing" card or something like that


lol these are both pretty good.
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Kanaya413
09/01/17 7:10:04 AM
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Swagnificent119 posted...
D-Lo_BrownTown posted...
It's kind of like how women think just because they put out, it means I'm going to marry them.

lol


someone already has you covered

qaRxeQH

LMFAO OH MY GOD
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kkTheKiller42
09/01/17 7:11:53 AM
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ArchiePeck
09/01/17 7:19:56 AM
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This certainly seems to be how many "nice guys" on CE think dating is supposed to work...
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ssj3vegeta_
09/01/17 7:21:06 AM
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Kolibri X
09/01/17 7:28:30 AM
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Women dont respect being respected.
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cjsdowg
09/01/17 7:49:23 AM
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Like in the past five years for some reason nice guys have been come the target for all this hate, I don't get it.
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Turtlebread
09/01/17 7:50:45 AM
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Nice guys bring it on themselves
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kkTheKiller42
09/01/17 7:55:32 AM
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ArchiePeck
09/01/17 12:15:11 PM
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cjsdowg posted...
Like in the past five years for some reason nice guys have been come the target for all this hate, I don't get it.


Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.
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ssj3vegeta
09/01/17 3:35:35 PM
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LittleRoyal
09/01/17 3:40:02 PM
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Swagnificent119 posted...
D-Lo_BrownTown posted...
It's kind of like how women think just because they put out, it means I'm going to marry them.

lol


someone already has you covered

qaRxeQH

My grandma told me that's how it'll work for me :(

But I'm Incel
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Gamer99z
09/01/17 3:43:26 PM
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Kanaya413 posted...
OMFF IT REALLY WAS YHE MORTY PICTURE ICFUCKING NEW IT LMFAO
Wis h I had a card for a,vindicators adventure ;(

Are you having a stroke?
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cjsdowg
09/01/17 4:00:55 PM
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ArchiePeck posted...

Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.



When did this become what people think nice people are ?
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ssj3vegeta
09/01/17 4:04:52 PM
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@Kanaya413 posted...
OMFF IT REALLY WAS YHE MORTY PICTURE ICFUCKING NEW IT LMFAO
Wis h I had a card for a,vindicators adventure ;(

but...dey are dead :(
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Kanaya413
09/01/17 5:09:21 PM
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@ssj3vegeta posted...
@Kanaya413 posted...
OMFF IT REALLY WAS YHE MORTY PICTURE ICFUCKING NEW IT LMFAO
Wis h I had a card for a,vindicators adventure ;(

but...dey are dead :(

Not in every universe shhhhhh
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ssj3vegeta_
09/01/17 5:17:11 PM
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Kanaya413
09/01/17 5:22:56 PM
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Gamer99z posted...
Kanaya413 posted...
OMFF IT REALLY WAS YHE MORTY PICTURE ICFUCKING NEW IT LMFAO
Wis h I had a card for a,vindicators adventure ;(

Are you having a stroke?

Yes
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pkmnlord
09/02/17 1:09:16 AM
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cjsdowg posted...
ArchiePeck posted...

Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.

When did this become what people think nice people are ?

The whole nice guy vs. "nice guy" debacle has been a thing for way longer than it ever should be, I'm talking like the past 7 years, maybe 8. People keep asking the same question "why don't girls like me I'm a nice guy" and the answer is usually given, which is simple "if you're only being nice in order to goad the girl into having sex with you, then you're being dishonest on top of the fact that no matter how nice you are to someone, at no point are they obligated to give you sex for any reason whatsoever, no matter how long you've been consistently there for them or whatever you feel your accomplishments are".

But yet people keep asking why it's a thing. Like, it's nowhere near as deep as you think, it's pretty set in stone.
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joe40001
09/02/17 1:16:07 AM
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pkmnlord posted...
cjsdowg posted...
ArchiePeck posted...

Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.

When did this become what people think nice people are ?

The whole nice guy vs. "nice guy" debacle has been a thing for way longer than it ever should be, I'm talking like the past 7 years, maybe 8. People keep asking the same question "why don't girls like me I'm a nice guy" and the answer is usually given, which is simple "if you're only being nice in order to goad the girl into having sex with you, then you're being dishonest on top of the fact that no matter how nice you are to someone, at no point are they obligated to give you sex for any reason whatsoever, no matter how long you've been consistently there for them or whatever you feel your accomplishments are".

But yet people keep asking why it's a thing. Like, it's nowhere near as deep as you think, it's pretty set in stone.


You really don't get what is going on.

I'm so tired of strawmaning "neckbeard nice guys"
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DarkChozoGhost
09/02/17 1:18:00 AM
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This could be a good meme for a long time
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MutantJohn
09/02/17 1:18:56 AM
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joe40001 posted...
pkmnlord posted...
cjsdowg posted...
ArchiePeck posted...

Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.

When did this become what people think nice people are ?

The whole nice guy vs. "nice guy" debacle has been a thing for way longer than it ever should be, I'm talking like the past 7 years, maybe 8. People keep asking the same question "why don't girls like me I'm a nice guy" and the answer is usually given, which is simple "if you're only being nice in order to goad the girl into having sex with you, then you're being dishonest on top of the fact that no matter how nice you are to someone, at no point are they obligated to give you sex for any reason whatsoever, no matter how long you've been consistently there for them or whatever you feel your accomplishments are".

But yet people keep asking why it's a thing. Like, it's nowhere near as deep as you think, it's pretty set in stone.


You really don't get what is going on.

I'm so tired of strawmaning "neckbeard nice guys"

It's not really strawmanning, it's just a thing that exists, man.

There's weird dudes on the internet who are vocal.
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joe40001
09/02/17 1:27:46 AM
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MutantJohn posted...
joe40001 posted...
pkmnlord posted...
cjsdowg posted...
ArchiePeck posted...

Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.

When did this become what people think nice people are ?

The whole nice guy vs. "nice guy" debacle has been a thing for way longer than it ever should be, I'm talking like the past 7 years, maybe 8. People keep asking the same question "why don't girls like me I'm a nice guy" and the answer is usually given, which is simple "if you're only being nice in order to goad the girl into having sex with you, then you're being dishonest on top of the fact that no matter how nice you are to someone, at no point are they obligated to give you sex for any reason whatsoever, no matter how long you've been consistently there for them or whatever you feel your accomplishments are".

But yet people keep asking why it's a thing. Like, it's nowhere near as deep as you think, it's pretty set in stone.


You really don't get what is going on.

I'm so tired of strawmaning "neckbeard nice guys"

It's not really strawmanning, it's just a thing that exists, man.

There's weird dudes on the internet who are vocal.


Yeah but people make 0 effort to understand what these people really are like and just get off on mocking them.
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DarkChozoGhost
09/02/17 1:28:52 AM
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joe40001 posted...
people make 0 effort to understand what these people really are like

What are they really like?
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cjsdowg
09/02/17 1:50:00 AM
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MutantJohn posted...

It's not really strawmanning, it's just a thing that exists, man.

There's weird dudes on the internet who are vocal.


A lot of people are looking for someone just in general to act like these people only act that way for booty is the a strawman. These people act like nice manner than get rejected time after time. And when they say hey what the hell is going on here. People say they are just in it for sex.
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Millennials
09/02/17 2:18:10 AM
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I was friends with this chick for almost 15 years with very little interest in her romantically/sexually aside from the latent, intrusive thoughts many people have about someone they spend a lot of time around. We hung out almost every day, knew all of each other's family members, etc. We were close and tbh she is still the best friend I've ever had, even accounting for how it ended.

We were friends since before puberty, before we even knew what sex was. We were our only friends of the opposite sex when we were still in the "ew boys/girls" phase of life. That's how far back the friendship went but it never went to that "sibling-zone" some people try to trap someone in to super, duper ensure that nothing would ever happen.

So, she was sexually active years before I was. She was having sex when she was 14 while I didn't start having sex until I was 19. I never judged her or tried to interfere in that aspect of her life, even if she asked me to. I just really didn't care about it. She had sex with a lot of dudes rather indiscriminately but like I said, it was none of my business. My problem was that she tried to make it my business. She would always talk about how she didn't even like that guy, he was so ugly and annoying, yet she still fucked him and would agonize over why she did that. This is not one specific dude but probably a dozen or so before high school ended. I would just let her vent or ask vague, light questions about why she would do it but never say anything judgmental or hostile.

She ended up getting addicted to painkillers when she was 18 after she was in an accident. This spiraled out of control and she ended up doing any drug she could get her hands on, something that only exacerbated her already adventurous sex life. We were still close friends but not as close because to be honest, she was difficult to be around. I cared about her a lot and didn't want to see someone putting themselves and other people through that.

When we were 22, she came to me one night after a really bad bender where she ended up getting smacked around by some guy and he tried to rape her and all this craziness. We went to the police and the hospital and she ultimately got help and was clean for a while.

She was clean for about a year when she started things up again. At first it was just weed, but she would fuck dudes just for sharing a joint with her. She would hang out with really sketchy people, too. Before long she was stealing shit to get drugs.

She got herself cleaned up again and really settled down. She actually started calling herself "boring" but was really just being normal, occasionally getting drunk but holding the rest of life down. So we were in each other's lives a lot more and things were fine. One night at a party, some chick asked if we were together. We both were like, "um, no" and the lady laughed and asked why not. I just complimented her and said that I didn't see her like that. She, however, said that she would "never go for a guy like me."

So I was like, "Okay what is that supposed to mean?" And she was like, "just your personality and the way you dress. You're also very immature." Naturally, I was offended by that, not because I wanted to be with her or even have sex with her but because I knew all the sordid details of all the gross shit she did with all the trashy people she did it with. She bagged some hotties but she also slummed it fucking hardcore and basically prostituted herself, so it was just mind bogglingly offensive that I would not be good enough for her based on that. I understand not being attracted to someone and not feeling "it" but to imply there was something wrong with me just bugged the shit out of me.
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Millennials
09/02/17 2:18:21 AM
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I tried to internalize all of it and jokingly changed the subject but I was pretty buzzed at that point and I guess wasn't doing too good of a job. She was also drunk and yelled out, "So you're really mad that I never wanted to fuck you?" I just kinda blinkeyeswhat.gif'd her and she started talking about how that was evidence that I was immature and that I sucked with women because I felt entitled. I blew up and lost at it that point, reminding her of how much objectively better I was than most of the dudes she fucked and she was like, "okay so do you think making me feel like a slut is going to help change my mind?" I told her I didn't want to ever and certainly not at that point change her mind and convince her to have sex with me. She was like, "good because you're not good enough." I reminded her of all the times I was there for her and how I was good enough to pick up the pieces of her shattered life more times than I should've. She said didn't matter because of that because my Kroger reward card wouldn't work on her coochy.

Lots of people were cheering her on and I just said to hell with her and left. the next day, she posted on facebook about how I humiliated her and made her feel like 15 years of friendship was a waste and that I was just being nice to her to get in her pants. Lots of our mutual friends took her side and got mad at me. Her little brother messaged me and said I really hurt her and that if I tried to talk to her again, he would kill me. I got lumped in with the actual "fake nice guys" and it really fucking pissed me off. Had it not been for moving, I'd probably still have that reputation with a lot of people.

I know there are a lot of those types but it made me wonder how many other guys were like me, actually just normal guys who got caught up with the wrong type of girl and ended up with an unfair reputation.
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Giblet_Enjoyer
09/02/17 2:37:27 AM
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Swagnificent119 posted...
D-Lo_BrownTown posted...
It's kind of like how women think just because they put out, it means I'm going to marry them.

lol


someone already has you covered

qaRxeQH

LOL

It'd be a little funnier if it just said "women" instead though

Or maybe even "basic bitches"
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joe40001
09/02/17 3:05:23 AM
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Millennials posted...
I tried to internalize all of it and jokingly changed the subject but I was pretty buzzed at that point and I guess wasn't doing too good of a job. She was also drunk and yelled out, "So you're really mad that I never wanted to fuck you?" I just kinda blinkeyeswhat.gif'd her and she started talking about how that was evidence that I was immature and that I sucked with women because I felt entitled. I blew up and lost at it that point, reminding her of how much objectively better I was than most of the dudes she fucked and she was like, "okay so do you think making me feel like a slut is going to help change my mind?" I told her I didn't want to ever and certainly not at that point change her mind and convince her to have sex with me. She was like, "good because you're not good enough." I reminded her of all the times I was there for her and how I was good enough to pick up the pieces of her shattered life more times than I should've. She said didn't matter because of that because my Kroger reward card wouldn't work on her coochy.

Lots of people were cheering her on and I just said to hell with her and left. the next day, she posted on facebook about how I humiliated her and made her feel like 15 years of friendship was a waste and that I was just being nice to her to get in her pants. Lots of our mutual friends took her side and got mad at me. Her little brother messaged me and said I really hurt her and that if I tried to talk to her again, he would kill me. I got lumped in with the actual "fake nice guys" and it really fucking pissed me off. Had it not been for moving, I'd probably still have that reputation with a lot of people.

I know there are a lot of those types but it made me wonder how many other guys were like me, actually just normal guys who got caught up with the wrong type of girl and ended up with an unfair reputation.


This guy fucking gets it.

There is this gross twisted thing where people do not look at situations like this with any intellectual scrutiny, a guy is at all bitter towards a woman's treatment? He's an entitled perverted psycho, nevermind at all how he has acted his entire life.

You dare have the nerve to get upset when somebody calls you "not good enough" when compared against abusive people who get people hooked on drugs? Not acceptable.

The problem is the absolutely glee people take in villifying any guy who is bitter and has tried to be a "nice-guy" and has not had romantic success because of it. And your case isn't really even that but still jesus she sounds horrible.

And it's disgusting how blind the world can be to shit like that.
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MutantJohn
09/02/17 11:10:45 AM
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joe, you're definitely 100% projecting lol.

Millenials, that fucking sucks, dude. I'm sorry but hos is hos is hos.
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Banjo2553
09/02/17 11:51:59 AM
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On this whole "nice guys" thing, I think they should really be called one thing since it does unfairly lump them in with actual nice guys (who just do nice things because it's the right thing to do)...

Just call them fuckboys. They're literally the same thing.
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joe40001
09/02/17 5:49:28 PM
#48:


MutantJohn posted...
joe, you're definitely 100% projecting lol.

Millenials, that fucking sucks, dude. I'm sorry but hos is hos is hos.


I'm not projecting, that is what he said and I was agreeing with him.

Look at the comments of the imgur post. It's tons of people strawmanning entitled "nice guys" without ever considering there might be a lot more going on that they are simply dismissing out of convenience.

I really think it stems from the heavily male demographics of the internet and so until we are savvy to it, guys on the internet will instinctively react in a way that distances themself from guys they wouldn't want to be compared to.

People might not remember but for a while people would white-knight and nobody would call them out because as a culture we weren't savvy enough to have a name for what they were doing so such people were able to pretend that it was an act of sincere decency when they white-knighted.
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cjsdowg
09/02/17 8:36:42 PM
#49:


joe40001 posted...

I'm not projecting, that is what he said and I was agreeing with him.



Honestly I have to agree with this, I was a nice guy. Nice just because that was who I am, not because I wanted to get some. It took me until getting into college to really start having real relationships. And I mean before that if I was nice to someone and then they reject me while bitching about the guy who hits them. Me asking why not me doesn't mean that I was just in it for sex. It just means that most people think they should be held in higher standing then an asshole.

Are there guys who claim to be nice who are just in it for the tang, yeah. But that can cover a great number of lies. A guy might claim to be rich just to get some. I don't see people saying. " See this rich guys make me so mad.. place meme here".
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KarmaMuffin
09/02/17 8:49:58 PM
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Millennials posted...
She, however, said that she would "never go for a guy like me."

So I was like, "Okay what is that supposed to mean?" And she was like, "just your personality and the way you dress. You're also very immature." Naturally, I was offended by that, not because I wanted to be with her or even have sex with her but because I knew all the sordid details of all the gross shit she did with all the trashy people she did it with. She bagged some hotties but she also slummed it fucking hardcore and basically prostituted herself, so it was just mind bogglingly offensive that I would not be good enough for her based on that. I understand not being attracted to someone and not feeling "it" but to imply there was something wrong with me just bugged the shit out of me.

I was with you until this
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