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| Topic | I'm very lonely |
| joe40001 11/27/19 9:29:33 PM #8 | Wii_Shaker posted... I wish you the best of luck, TC. I just don't know how I could put myself out there without bothering people who were never interested. Dating apps like bumble might fix that kinda thing, but I don't think I could use those. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | I'm very lonely |
| joe40001 11/27/19 9:11:47 PM #4 | metallica846 posted... How are you planning to get a girlfriend? What changes are you GOING to make? Well I figure I have to lose weight. I've made progress in that department, but I need to lose more. Beyond that I really don't know. I don't think I can do dating apps. It comes down to 2 things really: Be desirable, and meet girls. I'm working on losing weight, beyond the weight my desirability is ok, and meeting girls, idk where I can do that organically without being annoying. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Happy Dranksgiving |
| joe40001 11/27/19 9:06:04 PM #3 | Handles of Margarita mix --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | I'm very lonely |
| joe40001 11/27/19 9:05:41 PM #1 | I'd love a girlfriend in the next year. I'm so sick of being alone --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | So uhhh....this is a real ad for the War Thunder video game |
| joe40001 11/27/19 9:01:00 PM #5 | I wish there was a porn that delivered on that picture's promise --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Joe Rogan: Tulsi Gabbard on Being Called a Russian Asset by Hillary Clinton |
| joe40001 11/27/19 8:57:48 PM #11 | Lebronwon posted... joe40001 posted...Joe Rogan Experience #1391- Tulsi Gabbard & Jocko Willink I know who he is, but it's a weird combo. It's like "Joe Rogan Experience - Bernie Sanders & Joey Diaz" --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Is there any show fans have ruined more than Rick and Morty? |
| joe40001 11/27/19 8:51:15 PM #4 | Fans haven't ruined it. The people finding the .002% of fans that are shitty and saying "this is the rick and morty fanbase" are the ones who ruined it, just like they ruin everything, because that's their goal. To be shitbirds --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 8:40:22 PM #62 | I basically agree, with just the added claim that our pain is worse, I shouldn't have to apologize for knowing that. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 7:52:40 PM #59 | KogaSteelfang posted... joe40001 posted...Well that's a very rare situation and people should get the cops involved.True, but they might harrass/assault/stalk you or your loved ones anyway, or try various ways to ruin your life after. From what I've seen in bad relationships, clean breaks are the rarity, and I don't fault anyone for fearing the repurcussions. It's horrible you've had to endure that. But these people choose their relationships, people don't choose their parents. Anyway I guess I don't get the point of white knighting these people who aren't prisoners and have tons of relationships and options. Sure they deserve happier lives, but when it comes to who has gotten more fucked over by life, those who have had to be alone definitely win out. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 7:36:28 PM #57 | KogaSteelfang posted... joe40001 posted...Just as dangerous how? If you are in a bad relationship leave, if you legitimately fear for your safety from leaving tell a bunch of people and leave safely.If they know where you live, or where your family is, it's substantially harder to leave an abusive situation. Well that's a very rare situation and people should get the cops involved. 99.9999% of people aren't going to murder you or your family if you leave them. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 6:58:46 PM #55 | KogaSteelfang posted... Sometimes they are hostages though. Not in a traditional sense, but still just as dangerous. No one should ever stay in an abusive relationship. It's just an entirely different situation from actually not being able to find anyone. Just as dangerous how? If you are in a bad relationship leave, if you legitimately fear for your safety from leaving tell a bunch of people and leave safely. If you don't fear for your safety leaving a relationship then you are in no way in "just as dangerous" as a hostage situation. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 6:03:00 PM #51 | Vol2tex posted... I'm referring as well to psychological reasons why they stay, and the guys are not "bad boys" when they first start dating. After they've already been dating for a while, the guy then starts showing his true colors. By that point, they're already invested in the relationship and like certain aspects about the guy. They aren't hostages, they can still leave. If a person finds themselves in a bad relationship for a long time why do you seem to think they shouldn't take any accountability for that? They aren't hostages, they can leave. Why don't you think they are at all responsible? Why aren't they accountable for their relationship actions and choices? --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 5:37:01 PM #47 | Vol2tex posted... It's not as simple as that though. My own boss at work, when she was in her late teens, was with this guy who was extremely controlling (not letting her go anywhere without him, monitoring all her communication) and she was unhappy, yet she stayed with him for 5 years. These guys appear great in some respects but treat the women poorly and then apologize for their behavior, yet start behaving that way again. To some extent, they feel worried about leaving the guy, in terms of the guy trying to harm them. There's a variety of factors surrounding why they stay with these guys but I don't think it is productive to say that they can always simply leave. They aren't hostages, they can always leave. If they legitimately fear for their safety leaving 1. They really shouldn't date guys like that in the first place, but whatever 2. Tell people about it, find a safe way to break it off where people know you are going to break it off and you have people around you who can help you feel safe. I'm sorry but you aren't going to get me to cosign to the idea that these people who choose shitty guys, choose not to leave them, are actually stuck and helpless victims. Maybe they shouldn't go for the "bad boy" so damn much. They should take some accountability for the type of people they date. But regardless they can always leave so idk why they need you white knighting them. People who constantly choose to stay in relationships with shitty people aren't the people who have it rough, the people who have it rough are the ones who go their entire life not knowing what it's like to have physical/emotional intimacy. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 5:13:45 PM #42 | Vol2tex posted... Akagami_Shanks posted...Vol2tex posted...She's not the only one to say this, several women I know have stated the same thing about the guys they see only wanting sex or being jerks (many of them seem controlling). I know we are only getting one side of the story though, but these experiences are why they feel that they will "be alone".not gonna read all the other posts for context as i've seen you posted ITT before but I'm just gonna jump in to your last few sentences and say They aren't hostages. I don't understand why we are supposed to give them sympathy when they choose to be with weird shitty guys. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:58:04 PM #34 | Vol2tex posted... She's not the only one to say this, several women I know have stated the same thing about the guys they see only wanting sex or being jerks (many of them seem controlling). I know we are only getting one side of the story though, but these experiences are why they feel that they will "be alone". Sure, they will by definition not be happy with people until they are. But that's 1. not an objective measurement of the quality of the people. 2. Nowhere nowhere near as bad as being forced to be alone forever. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:50:43 PM #32 | GoodOlJr posted... joe40001 posted...Me: "I'm going to die alone" I'd prefer to have a girlfriend, but it's better than nothing I guess --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:49:49 PM #31 | Infost posted... The issue is that what one says as exaggerated self-depreciation in representation of their frustration, is actually literally true for other people. There's an argument to be made that you shouldn't complain at all when you have it much better than others, but whatever. Also long as we both agree we aren't saying "but the person who has many relationships but can't find the perfect one is the real victim here" it's fine. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | ICE should focus on incels instead of illegal immigrants |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:43:17 PM #12 | cmiller4642 posted... joe40001 posted...Jesus, what have "incels" ever done to you, TC? 1. Has that even happened? 2. Being a sociopath asshole is what makes you do shit like that, not being involuntarily celibate. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | ICE should focus on incels instead of illegal immigrants |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:40:52 PM #9 | coh posted... incels aren't a real thing Not the way most people talk about them, no --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | ICE should focus on incels instead of illegal immigrants |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:39:35 PM #7 | Jesus, what have "incels" ever done to you, TC? --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:34:47 PM #23 | Vol2tex posted... joe40001 posted...Vol2tex posted...joe40001 posted...Vol2tex posted...joe40001 posted...Vol2tex posted...It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling. First of all, it's according to her that they are jerks. But more than that having a bounty of relationships and not finding the perfect one is still a million times better than having to be alone forever. I'm still confused what your 2nd hand story about how 1 girl interprets her romantic life has to do with people who spend their whole life alone. Are you saying she has it worse or something? --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:25:53 PM #19 | Vol2tex posted... joe40001 posted...Vol2tex posted...joe40001 posted...Vol2tex posted...It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling. What does a girl being dumb has to do with anything though? --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:23:27 PM #17 | Vol2tex posted... joe40001 posted...Vol2tex posted...It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling. So what? She could say no and go get somebody else. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | She comes up to you and says ''I saw you sitting alone and wanted to say hi'' |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:19:39 PM #27 | Mistere Man posted... joe40001 posted...Mistere Man posted...joe40001 posted...I guess I'd assume she's an under dressed prostitute. No worries. I kinda thought that, I was just doubling down on my mentality. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | She comes up to you and says ''I saw you sitting alone and wanted to say hi'' |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:14:01 PM #25 | Mistere Man posted... joe40001 posted...I guess I'd assume she's an under dressed prostitute. Look, there is no way a girl is going to approach me with legitimate interest. Girls barely do that in general, and they certainly aren't going to do that for me. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | She comes up to you and says ''I saw you sitting alone and wanted to say hi'' |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:05:08 PM #23 | I guess I'd assume she's an under dressed prostitute. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 4:02:27 PM #10 | Vol2tex posted... It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling. Basically though you can't complain about not having perfect relationships when there are lots of us who have to make due without any affection, companionship, or intimacy whatsoever. Sure I have to go my whole adult life not knowing what it's like to cuddle with somebody who likes me, but you have it rough because you don't like how your bf does dishes or whatever. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 3:56:00 PM #3 | Orlando_Jordan posted... *Finds someone 1 week later* Me: "I'm going to die alone" The World: "Yep, you are" --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | me and my 20 yo GF are broken up but I'm getting 1 last chance... |
| joe40001 11/27/19 3:50:24 PM #16 | Pics or none of this is real --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Joe Rogan: Tulsi Gabbard on Being Called a Russian Asset by Hillary Clinton |
| joe40001 11/27/19 3:48:55 PM #9 | Joe Rogan Experience #1391- Tulsi Gabbard & Jocko Willink Lolwut? --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | What is something you feel self-esteem or pride about ? |
| joe40001 11/27/19 2:39:49 PM #14 | emblem boy posted... joe40001 posted...emblem boy posted... I have no self-esteem so part of this topic is me trying to figure out if that is uncommon. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | What is something you feel self-esteem or pride about ? |
| joe40001 11/27/19 2:35:46 PM #10 | emblem boy posted... Not much really. I mean, I can acknowledge things that I've accomplished, but I don't really feel pride about it. It's like " ehh, ya I did it, but so have hundreds of thousands of people" Would you say you have no self esteem then? --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | 10+ years age difference. Would you still date? |
| joe40001 11/27/19 2:24:45 PM #36 | Yes, it's about the only way I be able to date somebody who hasn't had 1000 more relationships than me. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | What is something you feel self-esteem or pride about ? |
| joe40001 11/27/19 2:08:21 PM #1 | List as many things as you like that you feel self-esteem or pride about --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | Took an online IQ test, this is the only one I couldn't solve. |
| joe40001 11/26/19 7:37:53 PM #30 | Zeeak4444 posted... joe40001 posted...You aren't finding a pattern in a sequence if you are supposed to ignore 1/3rd of it. IMO No it wouldn't. You are not finding a pattern in a whole sequence if you omit parts of it. Then you are a finding a pattern in a sub sequence. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | 10+ years age difference. Would you still date? |
| joe40001 11/26/19 6:29:20 PM #22 | |
| Topic | Took an online IQ test, this is the only one I couldn't solve. |
| joe40001 11/26/19 5:38:18 PM #21 | PrettyBoyFloyd posted... I got 45 for some Goddamn reason. Interesting, how did you get that? --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 10:26:30 AM #89 | CruelBuffalo posted... joe40001 posted...Unless I want to go to a liquor store hard lemonade is the most I can get from a gas station. I was saying I didn't want to go to the liquor store, it's far away, so just a quick drive to the gas station, and the hardest stuff a gas station has is mike's hard lemonade --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 10:14:29 AM #87 | CruelBuffalo posted... TC you could have just offered to buy the person who brought the drinks a drink at the restaurant.... leaving was the wrong choice just join them and have fun. Unless I want to go to a liquor store hard lemonade is the most I can get from a gas station. And they went to Denny's so I don't think I could buy a drink there. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 10:07:43 AM #85 | Hotel_Security posted... I'm very strict with myself about not driving after drinking. I've seen psychologists for a while. I'm currently seeing one now. He just kinda sits there and makes me do all the talking about everything, I'm not sure how to use him as a resource like you seem to be advising. If you have suggestions about what I should say to him I will. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 9:55:24 AM #76 | The Trent posted... brestugo posted...On top of everything everyone else has mentioned.......for fuck's sake, what does the fact that the roommate is gay have to do with anything? Think it through, imagine I had not included that fact, at least 1 person would have accused me of "macking on his girl" or something. "Bro, your roommate is probably trying to get with her, stop getting in the way!" they would have said. It's useful information why he has a female friend for whom he has 0 interest in a romantic way that my social interaction could complicate. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 9:52:23 AM #74 | brestugo posted... On top of everything everyone else has mentioned.......for fuck's sake, what does the fact that the roommate is gay have to do with anything? If he was straight it would be a bit odd he'd have female friends over and some people might say "stop trying to cockblock your roommate" or something. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 9:34:46 AM #70 | The Trent posted... No doofus I'm very strict with myself about not driving after drinking. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 9:24:02 AM #64 | TheGoldenEel posted... Perhaps next time you encounter female specimens in a scenario such as this you should hew more closely to standard human protocol I'm not particularly aware of standard protocol. Honestly my mind went "ok let's say they give me a shot, and I'm enjoying myself and i want to have more, well I don't have alcohol here, so I really can't ask for me, but if I went out and bought some quick then I could have more and even offer them some" --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 8:35:08 AM #60 | gatorsPENSbucs posted... joe40001 posted...I said I'd be right back, I wanted to just not be leaching off their stuff if I was drinking with them. Yeah, by trying to make things better I think I made them much worse. :/ Hopefully none of the people thought I was weird because of it. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 8:17:20 AM #53 | Kitt posted... Malfunction posted...*girl looks at tc* Nobody could possibly think that's what was happening. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 8:13:20 AM #51 | emblem boy posted... Ya, shouldn't have left. No worries though, always next time. I wasn't invited to the side room. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 8:03:41 AM #44 | The Trent posted... Everyone: you kinda fucked it up I did kinda fuck it up, I just didn't like the one guy who implied I had a shit personality. Everybody else is basically on point. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
| Topic | My roomate is gay, so has female friends. One of them knocked on my door and... |
| joe40001 11/26/19 7:59:43 AM #40 | Chicken_Butt posted... So you didn't actually tell her why you were going to the gas station? Fuck that, nobody would ever think that. Don't say stuff like that. Ultima Dragon posted... That sounds like something old me would have done to avoid the situation. Like a polite way of saying I wasn't interested. If you really just didn't know that was a bad move, they could have taken it as disinterest or avoidance as well. You are probably right, it would just feel weird to have like 1 shot of alcohol with people so I wanted to have extra. But I'm sure it looked bad. Dammit all, fuck. I would've been better off isolating, this probably looked worse. Fuck --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 |
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