Lurker > KILBOTz

LurkerFAQs, Active DB, Database 1 ( 03.09.2017-09.16.2017 ), DB2, DB3, DB4, DB5, DB6, DB7, DB8, DB9, DB10, DB11, DB12, Clear
Board List
Page List: 1 ... 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 ... 50
TopicIt always surprises me how many smart people suck at managing money.
KILBOTz
08/24/17 3:12:17 PM
#26
SomeGuyUO posted...
His wife probably doing majority of spending lol.


from what I can tell the day to day bad money habits are her, the big decisions that are poorly made are him.
---
TopicIt always surprises me how many smart people suck at managing money.
KILBOTz
08/24/17 3:09:33 PM
#23
Super Saiyan 3 Goku posted...
Wish my student loans were only $50k - and that's between the 2 of them.

The credit card debt seems excessive, but those finances look to be pretty average. Not seeing the big deal really.

but they wanted a "new" but out of warranty Mazda 3 and pre-owned Lexus IS250 with like 1 year left on the warranty in their place.

Lol nothing special about those cars. That Lexus in particular has an anemic V6 engine and is slower than grandma in her Camry V6.


They are like 31 and 32 so they have been paying off student loans for a while.

The cars are really the ones that got me, their new cars are no better than their old ones that were paid off. I thought the lexus actually had an I4, if it is a v6 even more lol because it is about as fast as my 2001 4Runner.
---
TopicIt always surprises me how many smart people suck at managing money.
KILBOTz
08/24/17 2:46:28 PM
#9
Lost_All_Senses posted...
Being smart doesn't save you from also being impulsive.


I should know that by now but still always make the assumption they are.
---
TopicShould I wait for OLED to get a 4k TV?
KILBOTz
08/24/17 2:41:54 PM
#3
TopicIt always surprises me how many smart people suck at managing money.
KILBOTz
08/24/17 2:39:13 PM
#7
Balrog0 posted...
the only thing there that I find surprisingly stupid is the 401k loan bit

the rest seem like normal kind of american consumerism things, that is a bit excessive even for our excessive culture


their whole house thing really confused me when they were looking to buy. they bought a really nice house in a meh neighborhood that was very inconvenient for both his and his wife's commute. It's like a 3000 square foot house in Lynnwood, WA, and they seem to think it is worth like 3x what they paid for it 2 years ago now.

The cars were what got me. They had like a 2005 Ford Focus and a 1998 Honda Accord or roughly those years, both ran well, but they wanted a "new" but out of warranty Mazda 3 and pre-owned Lexus IS250 with like 1 year left on the warranty in their place.
---
TopicIt always surprises me how many smart people suck at managing money.
KILBOTz
08/24/17 2:31:30 PM
#4
CADE FOSTER posted...
People want everything now instead of saving and waiting to buy it


Oh definitely, it is totally just keeping up with the joneses. I guess I normally expect smart people to make rational choices and consider long term consequences when clearly that is not the case.
---
TopicIt always surprises me how many smart people suck at managing money.
KILBOTz
08/24/17 2:28:10 PM
#1
One of my friends who is making ~$90k and his wife makes ~$60k told me today he is $20k in credit card debt, took out a $40k 401K loan for a home down payment, 30k in 2 car loans and ~$50k for student loans between him and his wife.

Basically other than the student loans everything he and his wife get into financial troubles come from conspicuous consumption, he is classic first in his family to go to college so he bought a house before he could afford one, bought new cars when his old one was working because he wanted everyone to see his success, etc.

And he has been stably employed since he graduated at good paying jobs, they haven't had any emergency type situations where they had to go into debt, it's really just all money management.
---
TopicWhy did Vin Disel want to be Groot?
KILBOTz
08/24/17 12:57:28 PM
#2
He felt it would let him grow as an actor.
---
TopicDo you know how to swim in real life?
KILBOTz
08/24/17 12:12:57 PM
#37
im a great swimmer. from like 3 years old until 12 or so my parents took me and my brother to the community pool every Friday night for like 3 hours. I also grew up on rivers and creeks and did tons of swimming in pretty heavy currents, and a decent amount of swimming in oceans.
---
TopicJust got my glasses today. Son breaks them in two hours
KILBOTz
08/23/17 6:27:32 PM
#19
TopicFavorite Justice League episode? *Spoilers)
KILBOTz
08/23/17 5:09:05 PM
#35
The Booster Gold episode and any The Question heavy episodes. I wish they had some good BG/BB eps but I had to be ok with BG.
---
Topic"I'm sorry, sir/ma'am, but your card has declined."
KILBOTz
08/23/17 5:00:54 PM
#19
NibeIungsnarf posted...
I can't imagine my card being denied.

Is this a thing that happens outside of tv?


ive had a situation where my card was cancelled/on temporary hold because of suspected fraud without me being informed (this was before everyone could get a text message)
ive had my cards killed from magnets
ive had cards be just plain unreadable from overuse and not able to go through
ive had credit card machines not working and me being the first person to go try to get checked out since they went down

and once I had it rejected from having no money in college
---
TopicCurious, why do black pope lseem to rarely do mass shootings?
KILBOTz
08/23/17 4:28:39 PM
#16
They are stuck in a bullet proof bubble, no bullets get in or out making mass shootings by black pope Iseem rare.
---
Topic"I'm sorry, sir/ma'am, but your card has declined."
KILBOTz
08/23/17 4:13:58 PM
#10
Ivynn posted...
KILBOTz posted...
pull out one of my other cards and not panic. ive got money, its all good.


I've got money too but I still have an irrational fear of this happening. >_>


meh, ive seen people in front of me have cards rejected and never gave it a second thought, I assume in general no one gives a fuck about the shit I do so I don't get embarrassed about most things.
---
Topic"I'm sorry, sir/ma'am, but your card has declined."
KILBOTz
08/23/17 3:51:38 PM
#7
pull out one of my other cards and not panic. ive got money, its all good.
---
TopicEating peas. AMA.
KILBOTz
08/23/17 3:44:51 PM
#13
Captain Tenille: Tell me young man, what do you want out of life?
Homer: [straining to reach the peas on the table] I want peas.
Captain Tenille: Oh, we all want peace, but it's always just out of reach. [Homer groans and sits back in his chair] So, what's the best way to get peace?
Homer: [reaching out and picking up peas on his knife] With a knife.
Captain Tenille: Exactly! Not with the olive branch but the bayonet! Ah, Simpson, you're like the son I never had.
Homer: And you're like the father I never visit.
---
TopicAnimation outside of the U.S. and Japan?
KILBOTz
08/23/17 3:39:47 PM
#16
What about Chimpo or something like that, you know, the hit Afganistanimation.
---
TopicCantaloupe is a bad fruit.
KILBOTz
08/23/17 3:34:14 PM
#27
cantaloupe is great. honeydew is only good like 1 week a year. a great honey dew is good but hard to find.
---
TopicEver find yourself in that situation where someone refuses your help with dinner
KILBOTz
08/23/17 2:53:02 PM
#6
My sister in law refuses to lift a finger at my parents house.
---
TopicWhen did you realize you were gay
KILBOTz
08/23/17 2:29:22 PM
#4
When I was banging your mom and saw she had a sweet dick.
---
TopicHow do you stop comparing yourself to others?
KILBOTz
08/22/17 7:44:35 PM
#9
I know this Jim who never compares himself to others, so I try to be like him, though I often fall short.
---
TopicGood Lord help me. My little cousin has entered his anime phase
KILBOTz
08/22/17 7:43:02 PM
#16
Zombified_Toast posted...
KILBOTz posted...
Zombified_Toast posted...
Turbam posted...
Trayvon posted...
is sao shit? someone at work told me to watch it

The first couple of episodes are actually pretty good.
Then it just keeps getting worse and worse.


One of the villains is named Death Gun.

FUCKING.
DEATH
GUN!

Well tbh thats what I would expect from someone in an MMO.


why have anime on video games? doesnt that like lower any stakes to the point where there is no real conflict, just contrived shit?

IIRC they were stuck in the game in SAO, and it was a literal "If you die in the game, you die in real life" scenario


Well you've just got an answer for everything, don't you.
---
TopicMike Rowe seems like a very unlikable person.
KILBOTz
08/22/17 6:50:33 PM
#31
Ray_Dorset posted...
As a tradesman it is good to see someone advocating for it and trying to remove the stigma around it. There is a shortage of electricians where I live and a good one could realistically make six figures. Also as a tradesman, I can't wait to get out of it.


you can make 6 figures because there is a shortage. i would be thanking the stigma while you count your money instead of hoping the market becomes over saturated like they have been trying to do with engineering work.
---
TopicGood Lord help me. My little cousin has entered his anime phase
KILBOTz
08/22/17 6:47:51 PM
#12
Zombified_Toast posted...
Turbam posted...
Trayvon posted...
is sao shit? someone at work told me to watch it

The first couple of episodes are actually pretty good.
Then it just keeps getting worse and worse.


One of the villains is named Death Gun.

FUCKING.
DEATH
GUN!

Well tbh thats what I would expect from someone in an MMO.


why have anime on video games? doesnt that like lower any stakes to the point where there is no real conflict, just contrived shit?
---
TopicIs the South actually like those Southern gothic novels/short stories?
KILBOTz
08/22/17 6:45:46 PM
#5
TopicShould I still squat if my legs are tired?
KILBOTz
08/22/17 5:57:44 PM
#5
there are two types of lifters.
those who do leg days and those make excuses.
---
TopicDo you like your job?
KILBOTz
08/22/17 5:45:13 PM
#12
no, i have an interview Friday that hopefully is a good fit.
---
TopicMike Rowe seems like a very unlikable person.
KILBOTz
08/22/17 5:28:14 PM
#10
he comes across to me as a guy who wants to get into politics and is playing to the growing anti-education and anti-intellectualism crowd.
---
TopicWhat's the lowest financial situation you've been in?
KILBOTz
08/22/17 5:23:38 PM
#60
just graduated college, $0 credit card debt, $12k in student loans, hit $12 in the bank. i had a job lined up i had accepted but they kept pushing out the start date and slow rolling me. i had like $800 or so when i graduated but took 3 months to start my job.
---
TopicHow different would the world be if guys were the ones who got pregnant??
KILBOTz
08/22/17 5:21:42 PM
#11
If men were still the physically stronger and larger of the sexes i think the power structures would remain similar.
---
TopicFavorite bird of prey
KILBOTz
08/22/17 5:20:11 PM
#20
Osprey. Growing up there was an osprey nest in the lights of my high school football field and we got nesting ospreys at my house a few times.
---
TopicHow different would the world be if guys were the ones who got pregnant??
KILBOTz
08/22/17 5:16:25 PM
#8
hollow_shrine posted...
Well the whole barebacking thing from the seventies definitely doesn't happen. Really, I imagine the whole approach to casual sex in the gay community never really takes off until birth control in the seventies.


presumably it would still take a man and woman to make a baby. just with a nice feminine penis involved.
---
TopicIs it fucked up what my dad almost did to my little bro?
KILBOTz
08/22/17 5:05:57 PM
#30
It's a big enough asshole move that if your brother chose to cut contact with your dad it would be understandable. Trying to fuck with a man's livelihood is bullshit.
---
TopicAs a man, have you ever felt insecure about intimidating people?
KILBOTz
08/22/17 1:54:23 PM
#6
CapnMuffin posted...
I'm 6'2'' and pretty bulky so I get this sometimes.

Other times it's the opposite effect. People feel a need to intimidate me. Ever get that?


when I was younger all the short guys in school either loved me or hated me. no middle ground. once they realized I had no problem punching a smaller man they stopped coming at me though but still acted hard.
---
TopicMassachusetts official in trouble for making racial slur about CNN contributor
KILBOTz
08/22/17 1:52:46 PM
#4
Judge me based on how I view myself, not based on my actions!
---
TopicAs a man, have you ever felt insecure about intimidating people?
KILBOTz
08/22/17 1:45:24 PM
#3
not insecure but it happens a decent amount. especially when I had a huge beard. im 6'6" and work out so ive had quite a few women cross the street or straight up run if I was walking the same direction as them.
---
TopicOregon makes possession of cocaine, heroin, meth and other drugs a misdemeanor
KILBOTz
08/22/17 1:19:47 AM
#16
When I was in Salem today there was a dude smoking meth or crack or something out of a different type of pipe than weed, just out in the open no biggie.
---
TopicSaw my first R rated movie today.
KILBOTz
08/22/17 12:48:20 AM
#11
The Rock was the first one I saw in theaters, i was 13 or 14 at the time.

Terminator 2 was probably the first I saw period when I was 10 or 11.
---
TopicCan you ID these individuals who have passed?
KILBOTz
08/22/17 12:45:00 AM
#7
hunter s thompson
thereau? wilde? i confuse the two no matter what
guy that played piano with candleabra cant remember his name
lee harvey oswald maybe?
little richard?
mark twain

row 2
george reeves
the LSD guy
JFK
salvador dali
amelia earhardt
drummer for the beatles... i cant remember his name. im going on an hour of sleep last night so meh
---
TopicWow, Community gets so much better after the gas leak year
KILBOTz
08/22/17 12:38:33 AM
#3
TopicSaw my first R rated movie today.
KILBOTz
08/22/17 12:37:48 AM
#6
TopicITT: post pictures you took of the eclipse
KILBOTz
08/21/17 7:31:55 PM
#15
90% of them are just pure flare. those ones were the million monkeys at a million type writer best works.
---
TopicMy grandma is an old Asian lady (aka difficult to buy for) what do I get her
KILBOTz
08/21/17 6:30:12 PM
#9
carton of cigarettes and something that lets her play an afternoon of bingo for free.

or some other form of gambling she likes.
---
TopicITT: post pictures you took of the eclipse
KILBOTz
08/21/17 6:28:52 PM
#13
Most chimpanzees are better photographers than me and i somehow forgot my filters and didn't realize it until the eclipse was 5 minutes away.

took around 300 photos while messing with every setting i could and these are the most non-bad i took

http://imgur.com/a/ns2eo

also around 50 of my photos are missing from my memory card. Aliens?
---
Topicfor all the people excited for the solar eclipse
KILBOTz
08/21/17 9:49:42 AM
#16
Right? I live in Washington, everyone smokes but insurance and bullshit
---
Topicimagine how much money companies have made off 'eclipse glasses'
KILBOTz
08/21/17 9:43:50 AM
#2
Hahahahahahahah Omg your killing me here
---
Topicfor all the people excited for the solar eclipse
KILBOTz
08/21/17 9:41:33 AM
#14
Sativa_Rose posted...
KILBOTz posted...
I am in the path of totality (Salem, or) I will look directly at it without glasses for about a minute once it reaches totality


Wanna smoke weed with me?


Yes but I am in the middle of a job hunt so I can't.
---
TopicHave you ever had to give a speech in front of an audience before?
KILBOTz
08/21/17 8:52:32 AM
#10
I've done tons of professional presentations to up to 1000 people and regularly around 100 people. I gave the salutatorian speech to about 500, that was definitely the one I was most nervous about. After that they haven't been that hard.
---
TopicLol, there is a line of ~50 old people outside Denny's in Salem, OR
KILBOTz
08/21/17 8:42:26 AM
#1
Found a nice place right off I-5 to catch the eclipse. Walked over to Denny's hoping to grab breakfast but there was a line half way around the building of grey hairs.
---
Board List
Page List: 1 ... 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 ... 50