Current Events > 50% of families are destroyed by divorce

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inloveanddeath0 10/01/23 9:01:02 PM #1:	https://youtu.be/k1BFHYtZlAU?si=UrT9ECQ3pOVLBrUk --- http://www.last.fm/user/PolarPolaroids <cite>inloveanddeath0 posted [p:976420355] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>https://youtu.be/k1BFHYtZlAU?si=UrT9ECQ3pOVLBrUk </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrizztLink 10/01/23 9:03:25 PM #2:	Staying together for the kids is a *much* worse option. --- He/Him http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://i.imgur.com/M8h2ATe.png https://i.imgur.com/6ezFwG1.png <cite>DrizztLink posted [p:976420400] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>Staying together for the kids is a much worse option. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
inloveanddeath0 10/01/23 9:04:52 PM #3:	DrizztLink posted... Staying together for the kids is a *much* worse option. I suppose that would be the thought of someone without kids --- http://www.last.fm/user/PolarPolaroids <cite>inloveanddeath0 posted [p:976420424] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>DrizztLink posted... </cite><quote>Staying together for the kids is a much worse option.</quote>I suppose that would be the thought of someone without kids </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bfslick50 10/01/23 9:08:44 PM #4:	inloveanddeath0 posted... I suppose that would be the thought of someone without kids Depends. Theres a lot of things that are easier when both parents are in the same house, especially with young children. If splitting leads to one parent not really being involved any more than thats worse. But if staying is a toxic household full of screaming then no kid should be forced to grow up around that. --- "Something's wrong! Murder isn't working and that's all we're good at." ~Futurama <cite>bfslick50 posted [p:976420485] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>inloveanddeath0 posted... </cite><quote>I suppose that would be the thought of someone without kids</quote>Depends. Theres a lot of things that are easier when both parents are in the same house, especially with young children. If splitting leads to one parent not really being involved any more than thats worse. But if staying is a toxic household full of screaming then no kid should be forced to grow up around that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dark_Arbron 10/01/23 9:11:46 PM #5:	Funny, Ive had four psychologists all tell me that staying together in an unhealthy relationship for the kids is indeed a worse idea than separating. --- "The US is not a single country. It is ~20 developed countries being held hostage by ~25 developing countries and ~5 failed states." -Calintares <cite>Dark_Arbron posted [p:976420561] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>Funny, Ive had four psychologists all tell me that staying together in an unhealthy relationship for the kids is indeed a worse idea than separating. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
StealThisSheen 10/01/23 9:12:48 PM #6:	inloveanddeath0 posted... I suppose that would be the thought of someone without kids Yeah, it's better to make the kids witness you scream and fight. That couldn't possibly have a negative impact. --- Seplito Nash, Smelling Like the Vault since 1996 Step FOUR! Get Paid! <cite>StealThisSheen posted [p:976420587] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>inloveanddeath0 posted... </cite><quote>I suppose that would be the thought of someone without kids</quote>Yeah, it's better to make the kids witness you scream and fight.That couldn't possibly have a negative impact. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Big_Nabendu 10/01/23 9:13:47 PM #8:	Fuck that's such a jammer. Love playing that riff on me guitar --- The embrace of the Dark is gentle. Let it absorb your sorrows, forever. \[T]/ Owner of the 500 board and Leader of sunbro board GT Nabendu <cite>Big_Nabendu posted [p:976420610] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>Fuck that's such a jammer. Love playing that riff on me guitar </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
inloveanddeath0 10/01/23 9:14:06 PM #9:	I'm not disagreeing but I wouldn't exist with that way of thinking --- http://www.last.fm/user/PolarPolaroids <cite>inloveanddeath0 posted [p:976420617] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>I'm not disagreeing but I wouldn't exist with that way of thinking </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dark_Arbron 10/01/23 9:23:27 PM #10:	inloveanddeath0 posted... I'm not disagreeing but I wouldn't exist with that way of thinking As in you wouldnt have been born? You were conceived after your parents wanted to separate but decided not to? --- "The US is not a single country. It is ~20 developed countries being held hostage by ~25 developing countries and ~5 failed states." -Calintares <cite>Dark_Arbron posted [p:976420820] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>inloveanddeath0 posted... </cite><quote>I'm not disagreeing but I wouldn't exist with that way of thinking</quote>As in you wouldnt have been born?You were conceived after your parents wanted to separate but decided not to? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smiffwilm 10/01/23 9:24:07 PM #11:	So... 50% aren't? --- My Mario Maker 2 ID is 6RG-5XK-JCG <cite>Smiffwilm posted [p:976420836] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>So... 50% aren't? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dark_Arbron 10/01/23 9:25:27 PM #12:	Thats the thing with statistics. Im sure there are cases where parents can make it work. But the experts wouldnt advise against it if it wasnt known to be a bad idea more often than not. --- "The US is not a single country. It is ~20 developed countries being held hostage by ~25 developing countries and ~5 failed states." -Calintares <cite>Dark_Arbron posted [p:976420861] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>Thats the thing with statistics. Im sure there are cases where parents can make it work. But the experts wouldnt advise against it if it wasnt known to be a bad idea more often than not. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corbenik 10/01/23 9:26:18 PM #13:	change it to learn to be civil with each other for the sake of the kids thank you --- The power it holds can bring either salvation or destruction at the whim of the user - Aura <cite>Corbenik posted [p:976420883] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>change it to learn to be civil with each other for the sake of the kidsthank you </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
inloveanddeath0 10/01/23 9:26:25 PM #14:	Dark_Arbron posted... As in you wouldnt have been born? You were conceived after your parents wanted to separate but decided not to? Don't think too hard --- http://www.last.fm/user/PolarPolaroids <cite>inloveanddeath0 posted [p:976420889] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>Dark_Arbron posted... </cite><quote>As in you wouldnt have been born?You were conceived after your parents wanted to separate but decided not to?</quote>Don't think too hard </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lilORANG 10/01/23 9:28:05 PM #15:	Grown ass adults who can't get along are the worst tbh. --- Let's all please just get along. <cite>lilORANG posted [p:976420910] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>Grown ass adults who can't get along are the worst tbh. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mystic_belmont 10/01/23 9:28:44 PM #16:	Marital homicide dropped considerably after no-fault divorces became a thing. --- "Freedom was meaningless without ownership and control over one's own body" -Tera Hunter 'Joy My Freedom' [Evil Republican] 3DS FC: 5429-7297-4842 <cite>mystic_belmont posted [p:976420921] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>Marital homicide dropped considerably after no-fault divorces became a thing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
supervaan 10/01/23 9:32:17 PM #17:	lilORANG posted... Grown ass adults who can't get along are the worst tbh. --- :^) <cite>supervaan posted [p:976420964] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>lilORANG posted... </cite><quote>Grown ass adults who can't get along are the worst tbh.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Metal_Gear_Raxis 10/01/23 9:33:24 PM #18:	inloveanddeath0 posted... I'm not disagreeing but I wouldn't exist with that way of thinking Appeal to Consequences. --- As the morning sun rises, my lingering memories fade. I no longer see your silhouette. It's too far gone into the haze. <cite>Metal_Gear_Raxis posted [p:976420988] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>inloveanddeath0 posted... </cite><quote>I'm not disagreeing but I wouldn't exist with that way of thinking</quote>Appeal to Consequences. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dark_Arbron 10/01/23 9:34:29 PM #19:	I get along just fine with people Id have second thoughts about actually living with. --- "The US is not a single country. It is ~20 developed countries being held hostage by ~25 developing countries and ~5 failed states." -Calintares <cite>Dark_Arbron posted [p:976421009] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>I get along just fine with people Id have second thoughts about actually living with. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabinogiFan 10/01/23 9:34:29 PM #20:	lilORANG posted... Grown ass adults who can't get along are the worst tbh. Not even get along, just act civil and not be an ass to each other. Can't be that hard. <cite>MabinogiFan posted [p:976421010] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>lilORANG posted... </cite><quote>Grown ass adults who can't get along are the worst tbh.</quote>Not even get along, just act civil and not be an ass to each other. Can't be that hard.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KTG2 10/01/23 9:37:08 PM #21:	If 50% of marriages end in divorce, maybe people need to be getting married less and having fewer children; not staying with someone who makes them miserable because they happened to have kids As a child who grew up with two parents who despised each other, and stayed together because of their kids, I assure you: it's not actually better to live with two people who actively hate each other They're separated now and both significantly happier, and I'd have been just fine without having to wonder if tonight was the night one of them would kill the other or themselves when I went to sleep --- ADHD/ASD/Non-Binary. they/them. I stream on twitch. Your hateful comments will be used as fuel for my LGBT conversion engine. <cite>KTG2 posted [p:976421067] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>If 50% of marriages end in divorce, maybe people need to be getting married less and having fewer children; not staying with someone who makes them miserable because they happened to have kidsAs a child who grew up with two parents who despised each other, and stayed together because of their kids, I assure you: it's not actually better to live with two people who actively hate each otherThey're separated now and both significantly happier, and I'd have been just fine without having to wonder if tonight was the night one of them would kill the other or themselves when I went to sleep </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LeoRavus 10/01/23 9:38:33 PM #22:	Sure, kids being surrounded by 2 adults who hate each other and fight all the time is healthy. I'll take when angsty 20 year olds write songs for 100 Alex. --- This is where cool people write stuff. <cite>LeoRavus posted [p:976421088] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>Sure, kids being surrounded by 2 adults who hate each other and fight all the time is healthy.I'll take when angsty 20 year olds write songs for 100 Alex. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem-man 10/01/23 9:41:22 PM #23:	Is that 50% stat even true? --- http://avatar.xboxlive.com/avatar/emblem%20boy/avatar-body.png haters gonna hate <cite>emblem-man posted [p:976421123] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>Is that 50% stat even true? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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willythemailboy 10/01/23 9:42:49 PM #25:	mystic_belmont posted... Marital homicide dropped considerably after no-fault divorces became a thing. As one might expect, this was not true equally. Women murdering their husbands went down but men murdering their wives did not, or at least not nearly to the same extent. It depends on which studies and methodologies used but the homicide rate for husbands went down 20-30% while the murder rate for wives was between statistical insignificant change to 10%. Suicide rates did substantially decline for women but not for men. --- There are four lights. <cite>willythemailboy posted [p:976421143] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>mystic_belmont posted... </cite><quote>Marital homicide dropped considerably after no-fault divorces became a thing.</quote>As one might expect, this was not true equally. Women murdering their husbands went down but men murdering their wives did not, or at least not nearly to the same extent. It depends on which studies and methodologies used but the homicide rate for husbands went down 20-30% while the murder rate for wives was between statistical insignificant change to 10%.Suicide rates did substantially decline for women but not for men. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ThePieReborn 10/01/23 9:43:31 PM #26:	Having seen a small spattering of 25 divorce appeals where I had the luxury of seeing: Husband and wife being absolute shitstains to each other One, the other, or both being absolute shitstains to the kids as a result of #1 The children testifying when neither were around telling all for how shitty H and/or W are, I'm disinclined to think "stay together for the kids" is ideal. Can't really comment on the child therapist side of things, so I won't. --- Party leader, passive-aggressive doormat, pasta eater extraordinaire! <cite>ThePieReborn posted [p:976421157] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>Having seen a small spattering of 25 divorce appeals where I had the luxury of seeing:Husband and wife being absolute shitstains to each otherOne, the other, or both being absolute shitstains to the kids as a result of #1The children testifying when neither were around telling all for how shitty H and/or W are,I'm disinclined to think "stay together for the kids" is ideal.Can't really comment on the child therapist side of things, so I won't. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Priere 10/01/23 9:43:58 PM #27:	Here's a pro tip, don't ever get married. --- https://imgur.com/iQep35u https://i.imgur.com/PmX8smn.gif https://i.imgur.com/mwTy0iF.gif https://i.imgur.com/FCER80e.gif <cite>Priere posted [p:976421168] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>Here's a pro tip, don't ever get married. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LeoRavus 10/01/23 9:45:50 PM #28:	I was relieved when my parents got divorced. I remember mom staying home from work and told us to pack our stuff. It was exciting. The childish shit that went down after sucked but I was glad to not hear all that yelling every night. --- This is where cool people write stuff. <cite>LeoRavus posted [p:976421201] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote>I was relieved when my parents got divorced. I remember mom staying home from work and told us to pack our stuff. It was exciting. The childish shit that went down after sucked but I was glad to not hear all that yelling every night. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabinogiFan 10/02/23 5:18:27 PM #29:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I agree that it doesn't work for everybody. My parents divorced after my 18th birthday so I think they might've stayed married for my sake. If they were unhappy they did a pretty good job of hiding it though. They're on good terms now though. <cite>MabinogiFan posted [p:976435876] in 50% of fam... [t:80582723]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> I agree that it doesn't work for everybody. My parents divorced after my 18th birthday so I think they might've stayed married for my sake. If they were unhappy they did a pretty good job of hiding it though. They're on good terms now though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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