Current Events > Woman calls men in their late 30s/40s who date women in 20s gross

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Someone who is 21 is not fully mentally mature, where someone in their 40s is a fully developed adult. Unless it is predatory or they are some celebrity I dont see why theyd go after a partner this young.

Someone who's 21 is old enough to drive, vote, drink, and serve in the military but not to decide for themselves who they want to date?

At some point you have to let people make their own decisions even if you disagree with those decisions.

Can we all agree that we need to stop infantilizing everyone?

If a full grown adult wants to date someone older or younger than them thats their business.

neopuritans really want to make the age of consent 30 !?!?

How about no more than 10 years?

lmao it's not creepy when a celebrity does it guys, they can!

Its still creepy.

As someone with a 22 year old little sister who was quite literally a child most of my life, and knowing her friends and social interaction youre not going to convince me that a vast majority of men in their 40s dating young 20s are 100% mature mentally sound functional people.

Its also not that I claim a 21 year old isnt an adult, its that they are usually unexperienced with life, have very different priorities, and someone twice their age will absolutely take advantage of that.

Nothing you just said changes the fact that you excused celebrities for dating super young because "they can."

Im saying theyre probably an example of someone in high society dating young because of their unique social privileges.

Im saying theyre probably an example of someone in high society dating young because of their unique social privileges.

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An age gap of that magnitude bothers me too, and I'm a dude. Anything in the double digits is just gross to me.

This is too wide of a range to generalize. If youre 45 and dating a 21 year old that is pretty unsettling. If youre 32 and dating a 28 year old thats perfectly fine.

WTF are you even saying at this point? Seriously, you're just making it worse.

1/2+7 should be followed by all

Why?

Someone who is 21 is not fully mentally mature, where someone in their 40s is a fully developed adult. Unless it is predatory or they are some celebrity I dont see why theyd go after a partner this young.

Its still creepy.

As someone with a 22 year old little sister who was quite literally a child most of my life, and knowing her friends and social interaction youre not going to convince me that a vast majority of men in their 40s dating young 20s are 100% mature mentally sound functional people.

Its also not that I claim a 21 year old isnt an adult, its that they are usually unexperienced with life, have very different priorities, and someone twice their age will absolutely take advantage of that.

Im saying theyre probably an example of someone in high society dating young because of their unique social privileges.

You can't use the mature line, when you people say all the time that women mature faster than men. furthermore, Lets go over a few things

A. Men and women are not the same. What a man looks in a woman, is inverse to what a woman looks to for a man. A woman looks for resources and for a guy to provide. A man looks for looks first.

A man can be ugly or fat and still pull an attractive woman if he has other things. Often times you'll see it's common for woman to want to date older men. Because the older men provide resources and have better value

If a woman isn't up to par, a guy will likely put her in a pump and dump category where he doesn't take her seriously

B. Women Age 18-23 generally look better than women 28-35. Bringing up the exception of a hot 30 year old is not the rule

A. Men and women are not the same. What a man looks in a woman, is inverse to what a woman looks to for a man. A woman looks for resources and for a guy to provide. A man looks for looks first.

Goofy ass red pill thought process shit right here.

Because again, men and woman are not the same. Attraction isn't symmetrical. Men and women both look for different things in each other. A woman for example, generally wants someone who is taller, and traditional gender roles are still a thing in the united states

Fresh and Fit has taught me that types don't exist, and that there is a universal theme for what both sexes tend to want.

Goofy ass red pill thought process shit right here.

Lets put things into perspective

It's socially acceptable for a woman to
-Want a man taller than her
-want a man stronger than her
-want a non balding man
-want a man who has resources and value(good job, money, stable home)
-Want a man who has some social status/not a loser socially

It's "ok" for a woman to have standards, but it's horrible for a man to have preferences. Men are constantly shamed for their preferences

Fresh and Fit has taught me that types don't exist, and that there is a universal theme for what both sexes tend to want.

What these women don't want to face is that a lot of times, the young woman is the pursuer.

I was pursued by an 18 year old when I was 39. Some girls like older men.

What these women don't want to face is that a lot of times, the young woman is the pursuer.

Oh Jesus, stop crying. Who are you trying to kid with this shit?
If a woman dates multiple men, she's promiscuous. If a woman dates a man with money, she's a gold digger. If a woman dates a man with social status, she's a climber.
Grow up.

No one shames a woman for wanting to date a man with money.

That does not sound good on your part pal. Just saying. That, or your like 9 years old on gamesfaq and still think the opposite gender is icky.