SO if dey cheated on you tomorrow?

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Vegy 12/24/22 1:21:10 AM #1:	Yes or no No Yes Yes or no - Results (72 votes) No 86.11% (62 votes) 62 Yes 13.89% (10 votes) 10 Its with a stranger neither of you know, and your GF/SO deeply regrets it and claims it will never happen again --- http://i.imgur.com/gt58G1y.gif http://i.imgur.com/Kdvuckz.png http://i.imgur.com/SYqReLE.gif https://i.imgur.com/MbgGQWx.jpg <cite>Vegy posted [p:970373531] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote> Yes or no No Yes Vote View Results Yes or no - Results (72 votes) No 86.11% (62 votes) 62 Yes 13.89% (10 votes) 10 Show Voting Form function poll_vote() { var vote_option = $("input[name='poll_vote']:checked").val(); if(!vote_option) return; $.ajax({ type: 'POST', url: '/ajax/forum_poll_vote', data: { option: vote_option, board: '400', topic: '80287910', message: '0', key: 'aadc5e9e' }, success: function(response) { if(response.error) { alert(response.error); } else { $("#poll_vote").hide(); $("#poll_results").html(response.html).show(); } } }); } function view_results_legacy() { $("#poll_vote").hide(); $("#poll_results").show(); } function hide_results_legacy() { $("#poll_results").hide(); $("#poll_vote").show(); } Its with a stranger neither of you know, and your GF/SO deeply regrets it and claims it will never happen again</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Realforce 12/24/22 1:21:43 AM #2:	Once a cheater... --- PC Specs: 13900K, O.C. G-Skill Trident Z5 RGB DDR5 7600MHz CL36, Zotac Amp Extreme AIRO 4090, AX1600i, ASUS ROG STRIX Z790-E, 3X Samsung 980 Pro 2TB <cite>Realforce posted [p:970373536] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Once a cheater...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FatAnimeBooty 12/24/22 1:22:00 AM #3:	dis year ta save me from tears I'll giv it ta someone special <cite>FatAnimeBooty posted [p:970373540] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>dis year ta save me from tearsI'll giv it ta someone special </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CE_gonna_CE 12/24/22 1:26:20 AM #4:	No --- https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1531-food-delivery-services-general <cite>CE_gonna_CE posted [p:970373575] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>No</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
party_animal07 12/24/22 1:30:26 AM #5:	I can't. I've always placed a high value( almost too high if I'm being honest) on trust and loyalty. I've cut quite a few people ( including family) out of my life because of trust issues. No judgment for those who do though. --- https://warpzone.me/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/GRANDIA_-696x509.jpg <cite>party_animal07 posted [p:970373616] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>I can't. I've always placed a high value( almost too high if I'm being honest) on trust and loyalty. I've cut quite a few people ( including family) out of my life because of trust issues.No judgment for those who do though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vegy 12/24/22 9:06:02 AM #6:	Realforce posted... Once a cheater... --- http://i.imgur.com/gt58G1y.gif http://i.imgur.com/Kdvuckz.png http://i.imgur.com/SYqReLE.gif https://i.imgur.com/MbgGQWx.jpg <cite>Vegy posted [p:970376980] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Realforce posted...</cite><quote>Once a cheater...</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 12/24/22 9:07:13 AM #7:	No Cheating on Christmas is extra naughty --- I don't believe in belts. There should be no ranking system for toughness. <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:970376993] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>NoCheating on Christmas is extra naughty</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
well-excuse-me 12/24/22 9:07:38 AM #8:	On xmas? Lol <cite>well-excuse-me posted [p:970377000] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>On xmas? Lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 12/24/22 9:32:36 AM #9:	Her ass would be out the door in the freezing cold in a second, cheating is unforgivable. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:970377287] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Her ass would be out the door in the freezing cold in a second, cheating is unforgivable. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorenzo_2003 12/24/22 9:40:41 AM #10:	Vegy posted... Its with a stranger neither of you know, and your GF/SO deeply regrets it and claims it will never happen again Lmao. If you believe that, I got no sympathy when it happens again. --- ... <cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted [p:970377357] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Vegy posted... </cite><quote>Its with a stranger neither of you know, and your GF/SO deeply regrets it and claims it will never happen again</quote>Lmao. If you believe that, I got no sympathy when it happens again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 12/24/22 9:45:47 AM #11:	If he was remorseful and ready to put in the work to go to regain my trust, go to therapy, etc I would try to for the sake of our family. If he wasnt remorseful then Id leave. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:970377406] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>If he was remorseful and ready to put in the work to go to regain my trust, go to therapy, etc I would try to for the sake of our family. If he wasnt remorseful then Id leave. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssj3vegeta 12/26/22 11:39:30 PM #12:	i see --- http://i.imgur.com/tvKkIcw.jpg http://i.imgur.com/Kywn3Qc.gifv http://i.imgur.com/Cybsdf1.gifv http://h-7.abload.de/img/messi02-rm-ucl3ngb.gif <cite>ssj3vegeta posted [p:970430045] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>i see</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Virgalyssa 12/27/22 9:40:53 AM #13:	That just tells me that I'm no longer good enough for them and I couldn't trust their love in me again --- People can do it. As long as they can open their eyes and look around, they'll see it. They'll see the truth! http://i.imgur.com/RtGQPEu.png <cite>Virgalyssa posted [p:970435733] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>That just tells me that I'm no longer good enough for them and I couldn't trust their love in me again</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lokison 12/27/22 9:42:37 AM #14:	Nope. She has never cheated on anyone, and been in abusive relationships over and over before me and is finally realizing how she deserves to be treated. She cheats on me while I treat her like a fairytale princess after everything shes been through, she can kiss my ass goodbye. --- Word from the wise: Don't run in the shower. <cite>Lokison posted [p:970435754] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Nope. She has never cheated on anyone, and been in abusive relationships over and over before me and is finally realizing how she deserves to be treated. She cheats on me while I treat her like a fairytale princess after everything shes been through, she can kiss my ass goodbye.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClockworkHare 12/27/22 9:51:05 AM #15:	Nope. Realforce posted... Once a cheater... --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. https://tryimg.com/u/2020/08/11/1tZ1gcH.jpg <cite>ClockworkHare posted [p:970435856] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Nope.Realforce posted... </cite><quote>Once a cheater...</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Silver_Patron 12/27/22 9:53:23 AM #16:	Extremely unlikely. Cheating is unforgivable. --- RAIDER NATION Proud member of the silver/black fanbase for life! <cite>Silver_Patron posted [p:970435883] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Extremely unlikely. Cheating is unforgivable. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BuckVanHammer 12/27/22 9:56:49 AM #17:	Hard to say. We have kids and been together for over a decade. Would need some time to get to the why. There would most likely be a separation for some bit of time at least. Most likely I would forgive but that doesn't mean I would stay. --- Minimal, yet feature rich. https://imgur.com/bphehs8 <cite>BuckVanHammer posted [p:970435918] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Hard to say. We have kids and been together for over a decade. Would need some time to get to the why. There would most likely be a separation for some bit of time at least. Most likely I would forgive but that doesn't mean I would stay.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ParanoidObsessive 12/27/22 10:10:52 AM #18:	I wouldn't forgive any GF/SO - current or hypothetically perfect - if they cheated on me tomorrow. Cheating is one of my huge non-negotiable deal-killers. I actually stopped talking to a friend of mine after she cheated on her husband - in spite of the fact that I didn't even really know her husband all that well. It's just such an utterly disrespectful and disloyal act. If you can't be trusted when it comes to that, how can I trust you with anything else, ever? If your relationship is so broken that you need to go looking for intimacy or affection outside it, end it. Don't bullshit yourself and try to justify it that it's better or kinder to just cheat. --- "Wall of Text'D!" --- oldskoolplayr76 "POwned again." --- blight family <cite>ParanoidObsessive posted [p:970436073] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>I wouldn't forgive any GF/SO - current or hypothetically perfect - if they cheated on me tomorrow.Cheating is one of my huge non-negotiable deal-killers. I actually stopped talking to a friend of mine after she cheated on her husband - in spite of the fact that I didn't even really know her husband all that well. It's just such an utterly disrespectful and disloyal act. If you can't be trusted when it comes to that, how can I trust you with anything else, ever?If your relationship is so broken that you need to go looking for intimacy or affection outside it, end it. Don't bullshit yourself and try to justify it that it's better or kinder to just cheat.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigblu89 12/27/22 10:11:59 AM #19:	No. Between dating and marriage, we've been together over 20 years. If she's cheating now, she has probably cheated before, and if after 20+ years she couldn't talk to me about intimacy issues to the point she went looking for it somewhere else, I don't think the relationship would be repairable. --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:970436093] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>No.Between dating and marriage, we've been together over 20 years. If she's cheating now, she has probably cheated before, and if after 20+ years she couldn't talk to me about intimacy issues to the point she went looking for it somewhere else, I don't think the relationship would be repairable.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
K181 12/27/22 10:17:31 AM #20:	Nope, that's an automatic relationship-ender. And I'd expect my wife to dump my ass if I cheated on her, too. --- Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. <cite>K181 posted [p:970436167] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Nope, that's an automatic relationship-ender. And I'd expect my wife to dump my ass if I cheated on her, too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 12/27/22 10:22:27 AM #21:	Nope. There is 0% of a second chance. We trust each other completely and don't care that we have opposite gender friends and such. That trust has helped my anxiety a lot. If that trust was ever broken, that would ruin everything I have with her permanently. --- Currently playing: Neon White <cite>bsp77 posted [p:970436221] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Nope. There is 0% of a second chance. We trust each other completely and don't care that we have opposite gender friends and such. That trust has helped my anxiety a lot. If that trust was ever broken, that would ruin everything I have with her permanently.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Turtlebread 12/27/22 10:31:50 AM #23:	I could because I don't think cheating is a big deal --- http://i.imgur.com/yCW15Zn.jpg <cite>Turtlebread posted [p:970436385] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>I could because I don't think cheating is a big deal</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dan_Haren- 12/27/22 10:36:03 AM #24:	Yes because I'm married with 2 kids. As terrible as it would be I would give her a chance and genuinely try to get to the root of the problem to fix it for the sake of giving our kids the best life possible with 2 parents in the same house. If we didn't have kids then the answer is no. And if it was just a GF and not married then hell fucking no. <cite>Dan_Haren- posted [p:970436455] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Yes because I'm married with 2 kids. As terrible as it would be I would give her a chance and genuinely try to get to the root of the problem to fix it for the sake of giving our kids the best life possible with 2 parents in the same house. If we didn't have kids then the answer is no. And if it was just a GF and not married then hell fucking no.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EndOfDiscOne 12/27/22 10:38:33 AM #25:	Dan_Haren- posted... Yes because I'm married with 2 kids. As terrible as it would be I would give her a chance and genuinely try to get to the root of the problem to fix it for the sake of giving our kids the best life possible with 2 parents in the same house. If we didn't have kids then the answer is no. And if it was just a GF and not married then hell fucking no. Same. We have a wonderful family and everything else in our marriage is good. My wife doing this would be really out of the blue, but I'd be committed to working through it. --- I am the Cheese! I am the best character on the show! I am better than both the salami and the bologna *COMBINED!* <cite>EndOfDiscOne posted [p:970436499] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Dan_Haren- posted... </cite><quote>Yes because I'm married with 2 kids. As terrible as it would be I would give her a chance and genuinely try to get to the root of the problem to fix it for the sake of giving our kids the best life possible with 2 parents in the same house. If we didn't have kids then the answer is no. And if it was just a GF and not married then hell fucking no.</quote>Same. We have a wonderful family and everything else in our marriage is good. My wife doing this would be really out of the blue, but I'd be committed to working through it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrToothHasYou 12/27/22 10:43:28 AM #26:	I could probably forgive them eventually, like, as a person, but the relationship would definitely not be continuing. --- An Injury to One is an Injury to All https://iww.org/ <cite>MrToothHasYou posted [p:970436588] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>I could probably forgive them eventually, like, as a person, but the relationship would definitely not be continuing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 12/27/22 11:04:20 AM #27:	Dan_Haren- posted... Yes because I'm married with 2 kids. As terrible as it would be I would give her a chance and genuinely try to get to the root of the problem to fix it for the sake of giving our kids the best life possible with 2 parents in the same house. If we didn't have kids then the answer is no. And if it was just a GF and not married then hell fucking no. One thing to keep in mind is that "staying together for the kids" is only good if the parents are truly getting along and happy. So if true forgiveness can happen and you are affectionate again, then great and I agree with you. But if there is resentment, the kids can sense that, and a divorce is likely better. I am divorced and while my kids were unhappy in the short term, they now see how truly happy I am with my new fiance. They now see an example of a positive relationship, and my ex wife and I were not giving a good example for the kids at all. I would rather the kids learn that it is okay to move on when unhappy and find someone who truly does make them happy. --- Currently playing: Neon White <cite>bsp77 posted [p:970436927] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Dan_Haren- posted... </cite><quote>Yes because I'm married with 2 kids. As terrible as it would be I would give her a chance and genuinely try to get to the root of the problem to fix it for the sake of giving our kids the best life possible with 2 parents in the same house. If we didn't have kids then the answer is no. And if it was just a GF and not married then hell fucking no.</quote>One thing to keep in mind is that "staying together for the kids" is only good if the parents are truly getting along and happy. So if true forgiveness can happen and you are affectionate again, then great and I agree with you. But if there is resentment, the kids can sense that, and a divorce is likely better.I am divorced and while my kids were unhappy in the short term, they now see how truly happy I am with my new fiance. They now see an example of a positive relationship, and my ex wife and I were not giving a good example for the kids at all. I would rather the kids learn that it is okay to move on when unhappy and find someone who truly does make them happy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LordMarshal 12/27/22 11:05:34 AM #28:	If you dont understand banging someone else will end your relationship i dunno what to tell you --- There can be only one. <cite>LordMarshal posted [p:970436950] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>If you dont understand banging someone else will end your relationship i dunno what to tell you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CommonStar 12/27/22 11:17:34 AM #29:	Not immediately, but eventually maybe some years down the line. It wouldn't be for them, but for myself. Would never get back with them though. <cite>CommonStar posted [p:970437148] in Would you ... [t:80287910]...</cite> <quote>Not immediately, but eventually maybe some years down the line. It wouldn't be for them, but for myself. Would never get back with them though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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