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MasterOfGames57
11/30/22 9:05:42 PM
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For starters we havent actually met up, but weve talked about going on a date since late october.

Weve sent pictures of our dogs to each other, shes asked me to come in to her job so she can give me a facial (she works at a message place, and yes this lead to some cheesy sexual innuendos between us). Shes even hit me up drunk asking me to come to her house.

But after all this time, weve never actually hung out. If I ask her to do something, the plans never get solidified. If she asks me to meet up with her, she always stops short of giving me an address and time. Its been tortuous and annoying, so tonight I put my foot down and sent her a firm but polite message basically letting her know Im aware of what shes doing, while also making it known implicitly that Im not going to stick around as one of her options.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/6/3/6/AAN5L_AAD8G8.jpg

Im actually proud that I handled this so well. Maybe could have used an exclamation point at the end so I didnt come off as too harsh, but thats my only critique.

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Dessan
11/30/22 9:07:41 PM
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Ikzai
11/30/22 9:09:28 PM
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You stood up for yourself in a firm but respectable manner. Good job, amigo.

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XxKrazyChaosxX
11/30/22 9:10:22 PM
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Add a biatch and I think you got it!

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MarcoRubio
11/30/22 9:12:04 PM
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"pls respond"

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MasterOfGames57
11/30/22 9:14:14 PM
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MarcoRubio posted...
"pls respond"

fuck it, should have sent her this instead

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well-excuse-me
11/30/22 9:14:24 PM
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Add a biatch and I think you got it!
Or a deez nuts
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MasterOfGames57
11/30/22 9:15:00 PM
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well-excuse-me posted...
Or a deez nuts

suck on deez nuts, biatch!

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well-excuse-me
11/30/22 9:15:06 PM
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What's her name? Let's see if it fits the 'all girls named that are bitches' phrase
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TheGoldenEel
11/30/22 9:18:07 PM
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lmfao at this topic

this cant be real

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Flockaveli
11/30/22 9:19:23 PM
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HOT Boys in the building

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MasterOfGames57
11/30/22 9:20:25 PM
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well-excuse-me posted...
What's her name? Let's see if it fits the 'all girls named that are bitches' phrase

Her name was TheGoldenEel

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MasterOfGames57
12/02/22 5:55:56 PM
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Update. Debating if I should leave this on read, like her last message, or actually respond. Heavily leaning towards hearting the last dm and leaving it at that.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/1/9/AAN5L_AAD8fr.jpg

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Ar0ge
12/02/22 5:58:56 PM
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Just don't respond.

Move on to the next.

I'm confused as to why she said you could have asked for her number. Is that not text? Is that messaging through an app?

If so then yea, you probably could have asked for her number a while ago.
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VampireCoyote
12/02/22 6:00:36 PM
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that bitch

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MasterOfGames57
12/02/22 6:01:13 PM
#16:


Ar0ge posted...
Just don't respond.

Move on to the next.

Like dont even heart the last message?

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Bandit_Keith
12/02/22 6:01:48 PM
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Yeah, definitely don't respond. Don't , don't do anything. You kind of fucked up, but that's okay. Just keep on moving.

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TheGoldenEel
12/02/22 6:03:31 PM
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MasterOfGames57 posted...
Update. Debating if I should leave this on read, like her last message, or actually respond. Heavily leaning towards hearting the last dm and leaving it at that.
you embarrassed yourself, just forget this ever happened and stop responding in any way

theres no coming back from your pathetic first message and her response (laughing at you) was the only way it was ever going to go

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NoxObscuras
12/02/22 6:06:37 PM
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MasterOfGames57 posted...
Like dont even heart the last message?
No. Don't do that. Why would you love that message anyway?

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Ar0ge
12/02/22 6:08:02 PM
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For the record, I think you did fine in your message unlike what some previous posts have said. Only thing I'd say is you didn't need to mention her bad response time.

Pretty much just say hey I've tried to meet with you several times and nothing's working out. Good luck to you.
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MasterOfGames57
12/02/22 6:08:06 PM
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Bandit_Keith posted...
Yeah, definitely don't respond. Don't , don't do anything. You kind of fucked up, but that's okay. Just keep on moving.

How did I fuck up? This wasnt some last ditch effort for me to gain her sympathy or want to see me. Im actually done and lost my interest.

TheGoldenEel posted...
you embarrassed yourself, just forget this ever happened and stop responding in any way

theres no coming back from your pathetic first message and her response (laughing at you) was the only way it was ever going to go

Funny because Im laughing too for her to say Im at your work and youre not here. Like no, I already told you I was over it. And no, Im not interested in you surprising me at work. Lmao.

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TheGoldenEel
12/02/22 6:10:26 PM
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cares so little he had to make a topic on gamefaqs bragging that he whined to a girl that she didnt respond fast enough

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MasterOfGames57
12/02/22 6:12:08 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
No. Don't do that. Why would you love that message anyway?

Youre right. I just fear coming off as petty by leaving her on read, but in actuality its valid.

Ar0ge posted...
For the record, I think you did fine in your message unlike what some previous posts have said. Only thing I'd say is you didn't need to mention her bad response time.

Pretty much just say hey I've tried to meet with you several times and nothing's working out. Good luck to you.

I mentioned the lagging responses because we used to have lengthy conversations each day, which turned into a single reply every 2-3 days. Obvious sign that Im not a priority, so I let her know the message was loud and clear.

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MasterOfGames57
12/02/22 6:12:34 PM
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TheGoldenEel posted...
cares so little he had to make a topic on gamefaqs bragging that he whined to a girl that she didnt respond fast enough

Uhfuck off?

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NoxObscuras
12/02/22 6:22:50 PM
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MasterOfGames57 posted...
Youre right. I just fear coming off as petty by leaving her on read, but in actuality its valid.
It just comes off as her trying to have the last word. You say you're going to look elsewhere, then she shows up at your job like "Oh you're not here when I randomly showed up, so I'm going to look elsewhere."

I wouldn't acknowledge that at all.

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MasterOfGames57
12/02/22 6:26:01 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
It just comes off as her trying to have the last word. You say you're going to look elsewhere, then she shows up at your job like "Oh you're not here when I randomly showed up, so I'm going to look elsewhere."

I wouldn't acknowledge that at all.

Yeah that part was stupid as hell, I agree.

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matteus70
12/02/22 6:28:38 PM
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Dessan posted...
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xGhostchantx
12/02/22 6:31:20 PM
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You win this one. Sounds like she was keeping you around as a backup or a just in case. Been in a similar situation before. Her response was trying to get the last laugh. Just leave it on read. Or if you do respond, reply directly to the final message with "yeah, because I left". Don't even address the others.

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Payzmaykr
12/02/22 6:35:00 PM
#29:


That sucks, but you cant let people string your along. None of us is getting any younger and this sort of behavior really speaks for the character of someones person.

If shes trying to focus on refocusing her energy or whatever, then why is she on dating apps?
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Solution_45
12/02/22 6:35:34 PM
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you dropped your crown
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lennethsoki
12/02/22 6:37:39 PM
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MasterOfGames57 posted...
For starters we havent actually met up, but weve talked about going on a date since late october.

Holy shit man she's gettin' porked between then and now, and you're just not worth it for her.

They're letting her go balls deep and her toes scrunching screaming out other dudes' names...and you're sitting over here trying to plan a date for over a month. You're just a dude she's using for attention.

Date within one week maximum or bust. Then when you leave, they come crawling back and you get to pump and dump quickly. Easy.

MasterOfGames57 posted...
But after all this time, weve never actually hung out.

HOLY FUCK LMFAO

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Blue_Inigo
12/02/22 6:38:33 PM
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@jeffhardyb0yz

Need an expert's thoughts on this

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MasterOfGames57
12/02/22 6:46:29 PM
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lennethsoki posted...
Holy shit man she's gettin' porked between then and now, and you're just not worth it for her.

They're letting her go balls deep and her toes scrunching screaming out other dudes' names...and you're sitting over here trying to plan a date for over a month. You're just a dude she's using for attention.

Date within one week maximum or bust. Then when you leave, they come crawling back and you get to pump and dump quickly. Easy.

HOLY FUCK LMFAO

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/5/5/AAN5L_AAD8gP.jpg

Yeah, get fucked buddy LMAOOOOO

Also your explicit description was creepy as shit. What is wrong with some of you.

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MasterOfGames57
12/02/22 6:47:42 PM
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Solution_45 posted...
you dropped your crown

Wow one of the rare real ones on CE. Preciate it

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NoxObscuras
12/02/22 7:03:01 PM
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MasterOfGames57 posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/5/5/AAN5L_AAD8gP.jpg

Yeah, get fucked buddy LMAOOOOO

Also your explicit description was creepy as shit. What is wrong with some of you.
There's almost always one of those posts on relationship topics here. "Oh she was too busy!? She was getting slammed by limitless Chad dick!" Just ignore it lol

It's funny that she's mad now. Definitely don't give her the satisfaction

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xGhostchantx
12/02/22 7:05:05 PM
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Don't even open the new message, this is burning her. IF you do open it, make sure to set it back to unread.

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Robot2600
12/02/22 7:05:25 PM
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this topic the trent

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XxKrazyChaosxX
12/02/22 7:07:21 PM
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This topic took an interesting turn lol.

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MasterOfGames57
12/02/22 7:52:25 PM
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Youre account is 6 years old so I imagine youve been on CE for quite some time. Me telling a girl I am no longer interested because x, y, z. Good luck to you is the actual weirdest shit ever? What the fucking fuck LOL

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lolife67
12/02/22 7:58:19 PM
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Wait, you never even got her number? Lol c'mon son!
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--Zero-
12/02/22 7:58:34 PM
#45:


Good for you. She was stringing you along and then tried to defend her actions instead of owning up to them. She doesnt deserve a response back cause all it would do is pull you back into her game which is what she wants.

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creativeme
12/02/22 8:00:02 PM
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good job TC.

so you never sent each other nude pics? honestly the only reply i'd give her would be something like "if you want a replay than show me your tits" cause hey you either get to see tits or not have to deal with her games anymore.

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creativeme
12/02/22 8:01:06 PM
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lolife67 posted...
Wait, you never even got her number? Lol c'mon son!

some girls are like that and just prefer to talk on an app or fb chat instead. even girls that i have their number will barely reply by text but then end up messaging me on an app instead. i don't get it.

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LordMarshal
12/02/22 8:01:33 PM
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"Ill be doing your mother instead"


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lolife67
12/02/22 8:02:54 PM
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creativeme posted...
some girls are like that and just prefer to talk on an app or fb chat instead. even girls that i have their number will barely reply by text but then end up messaging me on an app instead. i don't get it.
This girl is clearly not like that. And the point is you still ask, regardless. That's really basic.
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MasterOfGames57
12/03/22 8:41:53 PM
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The curiosity was killing me so I messaged her back.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/1/4/AAN5L_AAD8tq.jpg

Girls really do be taking initiative once you show them youre disinterested

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