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United_World
09/26/22 11:47:55 PM
#1:


I asked this girl for her name and then told her that she, and I quote, "Looks like trouble."

Yeah.

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Rassiter
09/26/22 11:53:30 PM
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Lol
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ForTheGlory
09/26/22 11:59:09 PM
#3:


https://youtu.be/I3N-NiiYJOQ

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wanderingshade
09/27/22 12:08:56 AM
#5:


^Ooof.

Sometimes girls ask me what's new and If I "went anywhere" or just say "Hi" and wave at me. The most clearly uninterested banal small talk and bare minimum acknowledgment. If there's a good commercial "give up machine" in the works, I'll buy one.

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bladegash
09/27/22 12:10:53 AM
#6:


watch american psycho and just act like christian bale does and boom, flirtation achieved.

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Rassiter
09/27/22 12:10:55 AM
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That reminds me of a time I choked. I'll share it to make tc feel better .

I was at Job Corps and I was walking back to my dorm . There was this really tall nerdy girl who was in my introductory group . She had a great body , we went swimming together and all that. Anyways she was walking by me and for whatever reason said , "I'm going to get in trouble wearing this shirt ."

Without missing a beat I said , "you looking for trouble , you found it ". Were a few feet apart , turn around and look at each other . She pulls open her long sleeve shirt like she's flashing me and she has this tiny tank top on with her huge sloppers just bursting out . We looked at each other for a sec and I walked away , I was so surprised .

She would have rocked my world and I pussed out. That was years ago
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Flockaveli
09/27/22 12:10:58 AM
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"Hey beautiful how's it going" and just listen to her talk for 20 minutes.
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Mistere_Man
09/27/22 12:16:28 AM
#9:


ForTheGlory posted...
https://youtu.be/I3N-NiiYJOQ
Display confidence have 100% faith in yourself, be playful, make sexual innuendos

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0utbaSXpvw

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United_World
09/27/22 12:18:33 AM
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To be fair, the girl in speaking laughed at it and we talked a bit more after that. Now that I'm sitting around at home and thinking back on the interaction, I can't help but think, damn, that was a stupid thing to say haha.

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teep_
09/27/22 1:09:17 AM
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I can relate to the spaghetti

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WrestlinFan
09/27/22 1:19:21 AM
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I have Nathan Fielder-tier charisma.

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cjsdowg
09/27/22 1:21:41 AM
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If she said makes it double you would have had a winner

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Mistere_Man
09/27/22 1:26:39 AM
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cjsdowg posted...
If she said makes it double you would have had a winner
You put a damn ring on that finger if that ever happens!

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Mistere_Man
09/27/22 1:45:04 AM
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Have a friend call you on the phone near them.

Hey buddy! no Im not busy I am just at the bar after seeing a urologist.

No everything was fine, but the strangest thing happened. After the appointment the urologist gave me a referral to a horse vet for some reason. Why are you laughing? I'm being serious. I dont know if it is that big I dont look at other guys junk, I'm not a perv! Look call me back when you can be serious. (Hang up) Asshole!

Then see if anyone takes the bait.

just kidding I know this is horrible

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Mr_hulk88
09/27/22 2:03:05 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Why :/
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Kitt
09/27/22 7:42:33 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

lol

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WingsOfGood
09/27/22 8:07:55 AM
#20:


Buncha trouble makers in this thread....

Winky face
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Mr_hulk88
09/27/22 8:23:42 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Lol
Yeah I meant why you stopped texting, you didn't like her that much ?
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cuttin_in_farm
09/27/22 10:28:30 AM
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I dont understand why dudes say they choked or screwed up if they dont reciprocate flirting.

You dont have to be interested in every woman who shows interest in you. Nor are you someone who sucks because you were not interested enough to continue a conversation.

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bladegash
09/27/22 12:52:53 PM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
I dont understand why dudes say they choked or screwed up if they dont reciprocate flirting.

You dont have to be interested in every woman who shows interest in you. Nor are you someone who sucks because you were not interested enough to continue a conversation.

I would think they only say that when they are interested but are too scared of making themselves look stupid or just anxious and let the opportunity slip.

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bsp77
09/27/22 12:56:49 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

  1. Never put all your eggs in one basket. You can go after both at the same time.
  2. If you suck at texting, don't let it carry on for long. Ask them out early in the texting process. Actually, this is true even for people good at texting.

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Mr_hulk88
09/27/22 4:45:03 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Never put all your eggs in one basket. You can go after both at the same time

Ugh.

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bsp77
09/27/22 4:50:02 PM
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Mr_hulk88 posted...
Ugh.

No comments.
Seriously? You object to that? Why would you pursue one person with blinders for everyone else? Reread what he wrote and he clearly screwed up by suddenly ignoring one person in favor of another.

I am not saying to have sex with both of them.

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Mr_hulk88
09/27/22 4:56:05 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Seriously? You object to that?
Yes.

I know *I* wouldn't feel good if I found out a girl I'm getting involved with romantically is actually getting involved with another dude at the same time.

Why would you pursue one person with blinders for everyone else?
I don't know. Basic respect?

Reread what he wrote and he clearly screwed up by suddenly ignoring one person in favor of another.
More like it sounds like he wasn't really into that girl.

I am not saying to have sex with both of them.
Irrelevant. Just flirting with 2 people at the same time, especially when you're open about it seems pretty cringe.
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Shamino
09/27/22 4:58:39 PM
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Rassiter posted...
That reminds me of a time I choked. I'll share it to make tc feel better .

I was at Job Corps and I was walking back to my dorm . There was this really tall nerdy girl who was in my introductory group . She had a great body , we went swimming together and all that. Anyways she was walking by me and for whatever reason said , "I'm going to get in trouble wearing this shirt ."

Without missing a beat I said , "you looking for trouble , you found it ". Were a few feet apart , turn around and look at each other . She pulls open her long sleeve shirt like she's flashing me and she has this tiny tank top on with her huge sloppers just bursting out . We looked at each other for a sec and I walked away , I was so surprised .

She would have rocked my world and I pussed out. That was years ago

Sadly, I can relate to that...

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bsp77
09/27/22 4:59:59 PM
#31:


Mr_hulk88 posted...
Yes.

I know *I* wouldn't feel good if I found out a girl I'm getting involved with romantically is actually getting involved with another dude at the same time.

I don't know. Basic respect?

More like it sounds like he wasn't really into that girl.

Irrelevant. Just flirting with 2 people at the same time, especially when you're open about it seems pretty cringe.
He literally stopped texting one woman to pine after another. He never went on a date with either. That is not "involved with romantically". Even going on a date or two with multiple people is completely normal and almost everyone says there is nothing wrong with that. I am not talking about sex, I am not talking about a committed relationship, I am not talking about cheating or lying or deceitfulness.

You just sound kinda clueless tbh

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Babidi123
09/27/22 5:03:23 PM
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The key to talking to girls is just to ask them questions about them. Women love talking about themselves and will make it seem youre really interested in them.
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Mr_hulk88
09/27/22 5:07:44 PM
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bsp77 posted...
He literally stopped texting one woman to pine after another.
He literally said he wasn't that into her.

He never went on a date with either. That is not "involved with romantically".
I didn't say he was.

That was a response to what you said:
"go after the two at the same time"

Like I said, I wouldnt like it if a girl I like is "going after" another dude while also going after me.

Even going on a date or two with multiple people is completely normal and almost everyone says there is nothing wrong with that.
I find it disrespectful and cringe.

I am not talking about sex, I am not talking about a committed relationship, I am not talking about cheating or lying or deceitfulness.
Huh

You just sound kinda clueless tbh
oh right. Forgive me Mr. Experienced.

I'm clueless because I don't promote seeing 2 people at the same time, sure.

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bsp77
09/27/22 5:14:40 PM
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Mr_hulk88 posted...
He literally said he wasn't that into her.

I didn't say he was.

That was a response to what you said:
"go after the two at the same time"

Like I said, I wouldnt like it if a girl I like is "going after" another dude while also going after me.

I find it disrespectful and cringe.

Huh

oh right. Forgive me Mr. Experienced.

I'm clueless because I don't promote seeing 2 people at the same time, sure.
I gave advice that almost anyone would give. Dating 2 people right at the very beginning is completely normal. People do it all the time and it's not considered a big deal before promises are made.

If you think it is disrespectful and cringe, you need to understand that that flies in the face of what almost everyone does today.

You seem to think you know me and you seem to have something out for me which is not based on the reality of who I am at all. I am exceedingly anti cheating and I am also all about honesty. I generally try really hard to help people here and in real life. I admit that sometimes I can make snarky comments and maybe that comes off bad, but ultimately I do wish people here the best.

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Mr_hulk88
09/27/22 6:45:42 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]


?...do you read?

I wasn't talking about you, nor to you.

I responded directly to bsp77 about his suggestion of "going after different people"

if you're not involved with either, then no,
Flirting is involvemlent.

t's not. you are seeming pretty cringe right now, lol.
What exactly is cringe about what I said, my guy?

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Mr_hulk88
09/27/22 6:51:40 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Your opinion. It's pretty weird in mine.

bsp77 posted...
You seem to think you know me and you seem to have something out for me which is not based on the reality of who I am at all.
Dude I'm just responding to the things you say, that's all. I never made claims about knowing you as a whole.

I am exceedingly anti cheating and I am also all about honesty.
Cool. But I didn't say anything about you being dishonest or pro cheating.

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Jiek_Fafn
09/27/22 6:52:07 PM
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I've never reflected on my past actions enough to know whether I fucked up or not. How do yall get anything done if you're going over past social interactions in your head all day?

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bsp77
09/27/22 6:52:17 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Well, I hope you do have opportunity soon to put the texting thing in practice. I typically asked women out after like 5 texts each. On average, as it obviously differs based on the interaction

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bsp77
09/27/22 6:55:47 PM
#43:


Mr_hulk88 posted...
Your opinion. It's pretty weird in mine.
Once again, you are in the minority on this one. Cool if you want to behave that way, but know that any woman you are interested in is probably chatting with multiple guys. So your judgment is just that, judgmental.

I specifically said that I find it disrepectful to be openly dating 2 people.
I think our views on the definition of dating differ. Simply chatting or going on a first date isn't dating someone.

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Mr_hulk88
09/27/22 6:57:11 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

... I am aware.
Still waiting to see where did I claim that YOU have gotten involved with 2 people?

evreything

literally everything
Lmao. Oh my. Literally everything.
Saying I don't like the notion of dating 2 people at the same time is cringe to you then I guess I understand why you "don't know why you suck".

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Kitt
09/27/22 7:01:59 PM
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The hell? There's nothing wrong with trying to court more than one person.

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bsp77
09/27/22 7:03:23 PM
#47:


Kitt posted...
The hell? There's nothing wrong with trying to court more than one person.
Yeah, all of us (minus one) know this

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Mr_hulk88
09/27/22 7:05:45 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Once again, you are in the minority on this one. Cool if you want to behave that way, but know that any woman you are interested in is probably chatting with multiple guys. So your judgment is just that, judgmental.
Do you realize how presumptuous you sound?

You don't know what other people do. And you are wrong.
I know the female friends that I have would be absolutely agaisnt the idea of seeing a guy who is chatting up other women at the same time.
I mean same with the guys I know.

I think our views on dating differ. Simply chatting or going on a first date isn't dating someone.
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Ivany2008
09/27/22 7:05:57 PM
#49:


For me... I don't lack confidence when I know somebody, my biggest problem is that I have trust issues. Too many times burned in the past. I've had women act all flirty, only for them to turn around when I ask them out and say they already have a boyfriend. Like... that shit really pisses me off.

Had one co-worker help stock shelves a few years ago, it was during valentines day, she looked at the chocolates and said "I wish I had someone to buy me chocolates". Obviously you know what I thought. I didn't say anything as I had been burned before, couple days later she's with her boyfriend of 2 years. I get the need for attention, but at the same time, saying that to the wrong person could end up putting you in a position you don't want to be in.
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Mr_hulk88
09/27/22 7:07:08 PM
#50:


bsp77 posted...
Yeah, all of us (minus one) know this
I swear I feel like I'm in twilight zone cus this is the first time I hear people say something as weird as "dating multiple people is right"

I thought it was universally understood that it's not.
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bsp77
09/27/22 7:09:40 PM
#51:


Mr_hulk88 posted...
You don't know what other people do. And you are wrong.
I know the female friends that I have would be absolutely agaisnt the idea of seeing a guy who is chatting up other women at the same time.
"Seeing a guy", as in a first date? No, I am not presumptuous. You are simply wrong.

Would they be against actually dating a guy chatting up other women? Sure, that seems likely.

You are having a hard time understanding the difference.

Edit: this also addressed your follow up post

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