Current Events > When you invite a girl out and she hits u with a "we'll see" >_>

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Its not. Think of it this way, if I hit her up and said hey lets all drink tonight it would happen on the spot. Maybe shes a little shy about it just being us?

I dunno. Seeing as I have done the same to women, this always comes off as entitled to me. Entitled to shoot to the top of their list of importance in their life. Ya'll ain't even dating.

Hell, I might say "we'll see" just cause a family member might hit me up to do something I wanna do more. You're not entitled to be put ahead of my family just cause we hung out a few times >_>. Know your place and earn a better place before you feel entitled. Otherwise you're just showing me how entitled you're gonna feel when I actually pursue something more.

My advice would be to stop putting so many expectations on things. I don't even wanna say you're actually entitled. You just might have different standards than her and that might be a barrier. If you're willing to do the same for someone as you expect back, go find that woman that will appreciate your decisiveness and willingness to put them up your list instead.

Im floaty, so I find floaty people who.go with the wind.

Take the hint, man.

Imagine if she read this thread.

It was an open invitation. This could have gone done tomorrow night, 2 weeks from now, or 2 months from now. Im not expecting her to drop everything for me, and I certainly did not allude to this happening over the weekend or next week. Thats why her response is throwing me off. Its like shes already preparing for excuses for this to not actually happen.

Probably too late for this now, but after she said that and you want to hang out ASAP, you straight up tell her you want to do it ASAP so she gets the idea you want to hang out with her. It shows you have initiative and that you either like her the way you obviously do or as a friend. According to your stories of how you've gotten along in the past, she clearly enjoys your company.

"well if you're leaving sunday let's hang out tonight then"

She will either think it's cool and will do it or tell you no. You get a more direct feel of what she wants out of this relationship that way.

Despite what so many are saying here, I have slept with quite a few "we'll see" women. Especially if they were already friends.

Just relax, but also invite for a specific time.

Can confirm, Im one the one's he slept with. Though, I don't appreciate him hiding me by implying it was all women.

No shit. I literally said in the OP that this makes me not want to pursue her anymore. Did you even read the thread?

It's actually been super annoying for me. His current gf just brushes off my death threats. It's so fuckin irritating.

Despite what so many are saying here, I have slept with quite a few "we'll see" women. Especially if they were already friends.

Just relax, but also invite for a specific time.

Im nearing the 3 digit mark so Ive had my fair of experience with the well sees lol. I guess Im jaded now and I dont have time to convince a girl to be interested in seeing me. Either she does, or I move on to the next one. But at the moment, Im single and have little interest in hooking up at the moment, so it is what it is.

LAS is flat out sane compared to a few chicks I have been with

Edit: how is Cali?

So you are the one claiming you need your teeth cleaning every other week?

I dunno. Seeing as I have done the same to women, this always comes off as entitled to me. Entitled to shoot to the top of their list of importance in their life. Ya'll ain't even dating.

Hell, I might say "we'll see" just cause a family member might hit me up to do something I wanna do more. You're not entitled to be put ahead of my family just cause we hung out a few times >_>. Know your place and earn a better place before you feel entitled. Otherwise you're just showing me how entitled you're gonna feel when I actually pursue something more.

My advice would be to stop putting so many expectations on things. I don't even wanna say you're actually entitled. You just might have different standards than her and that might be a barrier. If you're willing to do the same for someone as you expect back, go find that woman that will appreciate your decisiveness and willingness to put them up your list instead.

Im floaty, so I find floaty people who.go with the wind. You're decisive, go find decisive people.

you lost me @ "just for uuu"

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Okay what the fuck lol

you lost me @ "just for uuu"

Why do men not realize that when men send texts to girls, it's not for other straight men to like? lol

If you're thinking "will my homies think Im cool for this text tho?" When you're texting girls, you probably losing lol. Once you build chemistry with a chick, things are almost always gonna get slightly corny, because women like when men have that side to balance out the rougher edges. You might not want to lead with it, but they appreciate you not needing to be macho all the time after you're comfortable. Don't try to shame him into never becoming comfortable, so that his homies think he's cool lol. Those texts are just for her....aside from this one >_>.

No, you in fact do NOT have to be a critically lame high schooler or an effeminate weirdo to get through to women. This isnt a 5 year relationship either, this is the presentation. And its bad. If you talk like this to women who still have hope in their lives, you haven't done well.

Why do men not realize that when men send texts to girls, it's not for other straight men to like? lol

If you're thinking "will my homies think Im cool for this text tho?" When you're texting girls, you probably losing lol. Once you build chemistry with a chick, things are almost always gonna get slightly corny, because women like when men have that side to balance out the rougher edges. You might not want to lead with it, but they appreciate you not needing to be macho all the time after you're comfortable. Don't try to shame him into never becoming comfortable, so that his homies think he's cool lol. Those texts are just for her....aside from this one >_>.

No, you in fact do NOT have to be a critically lame high schooler or an effeminate weirdo to get through to women. This isnt a 5 year relationship either, this is the presentation. And its bad. If you talk like this to women who still have hope in their lives, you haven't done well.

If you talk like this to women who still have hope in their lives, you haven't done well.

I didn't say you HAVE to. Lol. That's problem with people like you, you talk like all women are the same and have a hive mind. Im just giving TC the benefit of the doubt that he knows this woman enough to know what she likes, since Im not a hater that also thinks all women think the same.

Why do men not realize that when men send texts to girls, it's not for other straight men to like? lol

If you're thinking "will my homies think Im cool for this text tho?" When you're texting girls, you probably losing lol. Once you build chemistry with a chick, things are almost always gonna get slightly corny, because women like when men have that side to balance out the rougher edges. You might not want to lead with it, but they appreciate you not needing to be macho all the time after you're comfortable. Don't try to shame him into never becoming comfortable, so that his homies think he's cool lol. Those texts are just for her....aside from this one >_>.