Current Events > When you invite a girl out and she hits u with a "we'll see" >_>

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pauIie posted...

lol chill out my guy

No. Im big upset. Im upset with you, my guy.

You come off too desperate, easily available etc. Women can find that "boring" or too eager etc. She will be testing you too by seeing how you respond etc

I don't make the rules, simply saying. Glad I don't have to do that bullshit anymore (married).

Revocation68 posted...

She will be testing you too by seeing how you respond etc

Ya'll got social anxiety if you think this is always or even large majority the case >_>. Also, I always found it to seem self absorbed for men to think women just dedicate all this time to them by setting up all these schemes and tests. It's funny because the guys who say this stuff don't realize they're the ones constantly testing women and being the person they're projecting onto them.

"If she says this when I do this, it means this"

So, you're the one basically testing her and looking for the correct answer. A normal conversation doesn't have so many assumptions. You just ask a further question is something is unclear and then go from there with an open mind space. Because, it's not a test where you just lock in your answer and be wrong or right. There's no reason not to just get context by just talking about what's on your mind.

I'm of the mind that if someone wants you to hang with you they'll make it happen, not ambiguously leave it in the air...