Current Events > So I asked a girl I work with out and got rejected.

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Protopet 02/16/22 9:19:24 PM #1:	I can handle the rejection. That's just part of life, and I've experienced it before. What really sucks for me is that now I have to see her at work everyday. Laugh at me CE. Tbh, I deserve this. --- I should go. <cite>Protopet posted [p:962713301] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>I can handle the rejection. That's just part of life, and I've experienced it before. What really sucks for me is that now I have to see her at work everyday. Laugh at me CE. Tbh, I deserve this. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShineboxPhil 02/16/22 9:20:37 PM #2:	Don't shit where you eat. --- https://imgur.com/gallery/SGyTfGm https://imgur.com/gallery/9mJroQV <cite>ShineboxPhil posted [p:962713328] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Don't shit where you eat. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AldousIsDead 02/16/22 9:22:32 PM #3:	Shrug it off. She wasn't going out with you yesterday, she won't be tomorrow either. Nothing changed. --- In simplicity, utility. Through utility, simplicity. <cite>AldousIsDead posted [p:962713375] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Shrug it off. She wasn't going out with you yesterday, she won't be tomorrow either. Nothing changed. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guerrilla Soldier 02/16/22 9:24:03 PM #4:	this is why you don't shit where you eat --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! <cite>Guerrilla Soldier posted [p:962713413] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>this is why you don't shit where you eat </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheMikh 02/16/22 9:26:15 PM #5:	everyone is advised not to do this; everyone learns on their own why this advice is given --- http://i.imgur.com/A0TAfek.png <cite>TheMikh posted [p:962713477] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>everyone is advised not to do this; everyone learns on their own why this advice is given </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Protopet 02/17/22 9:43:40 AM #6:	Bump. --- I should go. <cite>Protopet posted [p:962724257] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Bump. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Squall28 02/17/22 9:44:48 AM #7:	AldousIsDead posted... Shrug it off. She wasn't going out with you yesterday, she won't be tomorrow either. Nothing changed. --- You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. -Misattributed to CS Lewis <cite>Squall28 posted [p:962724277] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>AldousIsDead posted... </cite> <quote>Shrug it off. She wasn't going out with you yesterday, she won't be tomorrow either. Nothing changed.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sictis 02/17/22 9:46:10 AM #8:	rip --- who f***ing cares <cite>Sictis posted [p:962724311] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>rip </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VigorouslySwish 02/17/22 9:49:30 AM #10:	classic mistake, been there myself --- i'm just some guy yellin' about apple sauce <cite>VigorouslySwish posted [p:962724388] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>classic mistake, been there myself </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AzNDarkSamurai 02/17/22 9:59:11 AM #11:	This is exactly why its a bad idea to ask out someone you work with unless you dont care that much about the job --- Pinoy Pride, 1988 - the day I die! <cite>AzNDarkSamurai posted [p:962724602] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>This is exactly why its a bad idea to ask out someone you work with unless you dont care that much about the job </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Grinderpug 02/17/22 10:03:33 AM #12:	AldousIsDead posted... Shrug it off. She wasn't going out with you yesterday, she won't be tomorrow either. Nothing changed. --- Grrr <cite>Grinderpug posted [p:962724680] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>AldousIsDead posted... </cite> <quote>Shrug it off. She wasn't going out with you yesterday, she won't be tomorrow either. Nothing changed.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 02/17/22 10:06:43 AM #13:	over --- The Legend of Zelda Breath of the Wild is the worst Zelda Game by far. <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:962724752] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>over </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 02/17/22 10:10:22 AM #14:	Was there any reason to assume she would say yes? Do you guys have a good rapport or were you just randomly asking? --- Currently playing: The Legend of Zelda: Skyward Sword HD <cite>bsp77 posted [p:962724818] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Was there any reason to assume she would say yes? Do you guys have a good rapport or were you just randomly asking? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Metal_Bug 02/17/22 10:11:52 AM #15:	Honestly if you just make yourself as scarce as possible, there's no reason the two of you can't go back to normal soon. I've been through this several times. Things can be cool as hell between the two of you if you just act chill. <cite>Metal_Bug posted [p:962724854] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Honestly if you just make yourself as scarce as possible, there's no reason the two of you can't go back to normal soon. I've been through this several times. Things can be cool as hell between the two of you if you just act chill. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Evolician 02/17/22 10:11:57 AM #16:	This is why you dont eat where you sheat --- http://steamcommunity.com/id/Lavidon/ https://www.twitch.tv/Lavidon <cite>Evolician posted [p:962724857] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>This is why you dont eat where you sheat </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Legato-and-Vash 02/17/22 10:13:51 AM #17:	AldousIsDead posted... Shrug it off. She wasn't going out with you yesterday, she won't be tomorrow either. Nothing changed. [LFAQs-redacted-quote] These. It's honestly not that big of a deal and really shouldn't be that awkward unless you make it awkward. People are definitely overreacting. --- *~Sincerely yours, Legato and Vash~* Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/kid_prodigy23 <cite>Legato-and-Vash posted [p:962724897] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>AldousIsDead posted... </cite> <quote>Shrug it off. She wasn't going out with you yesterday, she won't be tomorrow either. Nothing changed.</quote> <cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> These. It's honestly not that big of a deal and really shouldn't be that awkward unless you make it awkward. People are definitely overreacting. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solo_Wing 02/17/22 10:17:28 AM #18:	That's a yikes for me dawg. I mean, you'll move on and all, but 10 20 years from now you'll hear something about co-workers dating and you'll remember that awkward feeling seeing her after you got rejected --- Time to dive into the fireworks! <cite>Solo_Wing posted [p:962724982] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>That's a yikes for me dawg. I mean, you'll move on and all, but 10 20 years from now you'll hear something about co-workers dating and you'll remember that awkward feeling seeing her after you got rejected </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cobra1010 02/17/22 10:22:18 AM #19:	Theres also the 2nd phase where when a person goes out with you, doesnt automatically become your girlfriend. So getting struck down earlier rather than later is probably for the best. --- Rule #17: Don't be a Hero - Unnecessary risks are risks that shouldn't be taken. <cite>Cobra1010 posted [p:962725088] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Theres also the 2nd phase where when a person goes out with you, doesnt automatically become your girlfriend. So getting struck down earlier rather than later is probably for the best. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
K181 02/17/22 10:28:46 AM #20:	AldousIsDead posted... Shrug it off. She wasn't going out with you yesterday, she won't be tomorrow either. Nothing changed. This. Don't dwell on rejections, don't make them awkward. --- Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. <cite>K181 posted [p:962725265] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>AldousIsDead posted... </cite> <quote>Shrug it off. She wasn't going out with you yesterday, she won't be tomorrow either. Nothing changed.</quote> This. Don't dwell on rejections, don't make them awkward. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Popo 02/17/22 10:31:37 AM #21:	Itll be awkward for a bit, and then itll go back to normal before you know it. Just dont dwell on her. --- Live action Hungry Hungry Hippos though, now that was a sport. ~Aeon Azuran <cite>The Popo posted [p:962725332] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Itll be awkward for a bit, and then itll go back to normal before you know it. Just dont dwell on her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TwigsthePnoDude 02/17/22 10:34:10 AM #22:	This is why you don't ask out people you work with. --- It wasnt a lie, it was ineptitude with insufficient cover. ~ Donald Draper <cite>TwigsthePnoDude posted [p:962725391] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>This is why you don't ask out people you work with. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Protopet 02/17/22 12:35:15 PM #23:	Solo_Wing posted... That's a yikes for me dawg. I mean, you'll move on and all, but 10 20 years from now you'll hear something about co-workers dating and you'll remember that awkward feeling seeing her after you got rejected Idk. I've been rejected before and I don't think about it anymore. --- I should go. <cite>Protopet posted [p:962728507] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Solo_Wing posted... </cite> <quote>That's a yikes for me dawg. I mean, you'll move on and all, but 10 20 years from now you'll hear something about co-workers dating and you'll remember that awkward feeling seeing her after you got rejected</quote> Idk. I've been rejected before and I don't think about it anymore. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
viewmaster_pi 02/17/22 12:36:40 PM #24:	this is why you don't sheat where you it bro --- Do you know you're beautiful? You are <cite>viewmaster_pi posted [p:962728545] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>this is why you don't sheat where you it bro </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SauI_Goodman 02/17/22 12:37:35 PM #25:	Rejection is better than regret. There is no shame in seeing her everyday. Its all in your head --- Italian, French, German. <cite>SauI_Goodman posted [p:962728567] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Rejection is better than regret. There is no shame in seeing her everyday. Its all in your head </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Protopet 02/17/22 12:39:45 PM #26:	SauI_Goodman posted... Rejection is better than regret. There is no shame in seeing her everyday. Its all in your head Yeah. I don't regret asking at all. I strongly considered the "don't shit where you eat" thing, but decided to do it anyway. --- I should go. <cite>Protopet posted [p:962728617] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>SauI_Goodman posted... </cite> <quote>Rejection is better than regret. There is no shame in seeing her everyday. Its all in your head</quote> Yeah. I don't regret asking at all. I strongly considered the "don't shit where you eat" thing, but decided to do it anyway. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sexypwnstar 02/17/22 12:41:49 PM #28:	I literally made a topic similar in nature a while back and everyone was ragging on me that I was a creep and shit for wanting to ask my coworker out Fuck you CE! --- http://i.imgur.com/Su4g5.jpg http://i.imgur.com/21DiJ.jpg <cite>Sexypwnstar posted [p:962728676] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>I literally made a topic similar in nature a while back and everyone was ragging on me that I was a creep and shit for wanting to ask my coworker out Fuck you CE! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 02/17/22 12:42:47 PM #29:	Why won't she go out with you? <cite>Cocytus posted [p:962728705] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Why won't she go out with you? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Protopet 02/17/22 12:42:58 PM #30:	Sexypwnstar posted... I literally made a topic similar in nature a while back and everyone was ragging on me that I was a creep and shit for wanting to ask my coworker out Fuck you CE! If that's the full story, why would that make you a creep? --- I should go. <cite>Protopet posted [p:962728711] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Sexypwnstar posted... </cite> <quote>I literally made a topic similar in nature a while back and everyone was ragging on me that I was a creep and shit for wanting to ask my coworker out Fuck you CE!</quote> If that's the full story, why would that make you a creep? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 02/17/22 12:43:16 PM #31:	Legato-and-Vash posted... These. It's honestly not that big of a deal and really shouldn't be that awkward unless you make it awkward. People are definitely overreacting. This but TC is fragile I used to work with my now wife. We broke up like twice when we worked together. Quit being a baby. --- I don't believe in belts. There should be no ranking system for toughness. <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:962728724] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Legato-and-Vash posted... </cite> <quote>These. It's honestly not that big of a deal and really shouldn't be that awkward unless you make it awkward. People are definitely overreacting.</quote>This but TC is fragile I used to work with my now wife. We broke up like twice when we worked together. Quit being a baby. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Protopet 02/17/22 12:43:19 PM #32:	Cocytus posted... Why won't she go out with you? Just wants to be friends. --- I should go. <cite>Protopet posted [p:962728726] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Cocytus posted... </cite> <quote>Why won't she go out with you?</quote> Just wants to be friends. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 02/17/22 12:43:42 PM #33:	Protopet posted... Just wants to be friends. Why? <cite>Cocytus posted [p:962728740] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Protopet posted... </cite> <quote>Just wants to be friends.</quote>Why? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 02/17/22 12:44:44 PM #34:	I mean what's wrong with you? What the fuck is wrong with her? If she's single, she's got no reason at all. <cite>Cocytus posted [p:962728768] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>I mean what's wrong with you? What the fuck is wrong with her? If she's single, she's got no reason at all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Protopet 02/17/22 12:44:45 PM #35:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] We've gotten drunk together and she grabbed my arm and rested her head on my shoulder. --- I should go. <cite>Protopet posted [p:962728769] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> We've gotten drunk together and she grabbed my arm and rested her head on my shoulder. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
viewmaster_pi 02/17/22 12:44:46 PM #36:	Jiek_Fafn posted... This but TC is fragile I used to work with my now wife. We broke up like twice when we worked together. Quit being a baby. so you're saying he should show some gumption and ask her again tomorrow --- Do you know you're beautiful? You are <cite>viewmaster_pi posted [p:962728772] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Jiek_Fafn posted... </cite> <quote>This but TC is fragile I used to work with my now wife. We broke up like twice when we worked together. Quit being a baby.</quote>so you're saying he should show some gumption and ask her again tomorrow </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Protopet 02/17/22 12:45:13 PM #37:	Cocytus posted... I mean what's wrong with you. What the fuck is wrong with her. if she's single, she's got no reason at all. I can't really answer that one. --- I should go. <cite>Protopet posted [p:962728784] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Cocytus posted... </cite> <quote>I mean what's wrong with you. What the fuck is wrong with her. if she's single, she's got no reason at all.</quote> I can't really answer that one. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 02/17/22 12:46:19 PM #38:	Protopet posted... I can't really answer that one. That's what I mean, Shirley! Fucking ask her. ask her why not. <cite>Cocytus posted [p:962728813] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Protopet posted... </cite> <quote>I can't really answer that one.</quote>That's what I mean, Shirley! Fucking ask her. ask her why not. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorthremar 02/17/22 12:46:25 PM #39:	Cocytus posted... I mean what's wrong with you? What the fuck is wrong with her? If she's single, she's got no reason at all. who says shit like this actual basement dweller mindset --- the 9/11 buildings got destroyed in the 9/11 thing - xyphilia <cite>Lorthremar posted [p:962728818] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Cocytus posted... </cite> <quote>I mean what's wrong with you? What the fuck is wrong with her? If she's single, she's got no reason at all.</quote>who says shit like this actual basement dweller mindset </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 02/17/22 12:46:36 PM #40:	viewmaster_pi posted... so you're saying he should show some gumption and ask her again tomorrow No wtf Fake a pregnancy scare like a normal person --- I don't believe in belts. There should be no ranking system for toughness. <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:962728825] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>viewmaster_pi posted... </cite> <quote>so you're saying he should show some gumption and ask her again tomorrow</quote>No wtf Fake a pregnancy scare like a normal person </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Protopet 02/17/22 12:48:03 PM #41:	Cocytus posted... That's what I mean, Shirley! Fucking ask her. ask her why not. I don't really want to. I'd rather just move on and act like nothing happened. --- I should go. <cite>Protopet posted [p:962728869] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Cocytus posted... </cite> <quote>That's what I mean, Shirley! Fucking ask her. ask her why not.</quote> I don't really want to. I'd rather just move on and act like nothing happened. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 02/17/22 12:49:32 PM #42:	Put her on here. We'll ask her why not. I guarantee we'll get to the bottom of it. <cite>Cocytus posted [p:962728916] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Put her on here. We'll ask her why not. I guarantee we'll get to the bottom of it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pepys Monster 02/17/22 12:51:34 PM #43:	Imagine making a big deal out of this. Just act the same. Nothing has changed. --- Ryzen 3700X \| Evga GTX 1070 Ti \| 16GB DDR4 3200 \| Crucial MX500 2TB <cite>Pepys Monster posted [p:962728965] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Imagine making a big deal out of this. Just act the same. Nothing has changed. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RISEofCHRISTIAN 02/17/22 12:53:26 PM #44:	This is why you don't eat what you shit. --- Madcap Moss makes my pee-pee feel funny. Not changing this sig until John Cena wins the AEW Championship. Started: 1/29/22 <cite>RISEofCHRISTIAN posted [p:962729013] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>This is why you don't eat what you shit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigblu89 02/17/22 1:01:45 PM #45:	Pull a George Costanza. Go into work the next day like the day before didn't happen. --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:962729282] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Pull a George Costanza. Go into work the next day like the day before didn't happen. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dioxxys 02/17/22 1:17:07 PM #46:	Protopet posted... Yeah. I don't regret asking at all. I strongly considered the "don't shit where you eat" thing, but decided to do it anyway. No trust me you would feel regret never asking also. Just try to be your regular self and the awkwardness won't persist. <cite>dioxxys posted [p:962729638] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Protopet posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah. I don't regret asking at all. I strongly considered the "don't shit where you eat" thing, but decided to do it anyway.</quote>No trust me you would feel regret never asking also. Just try to be your regular self and the awkwardness won't persist. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SauI_Goodman 02/17/22 3:51:34 PM #47:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] What if she asks you about your status. As in "hey, are you married" also, i clearly do not have a ring. --- Italian, French, German. <cite>SauI_Goodman posted [p:962733879] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> What if she asks you about your status. As in "hey, are you married" also, i clearly do not have a ring. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
electrochica 02/17/22 3:54:47 PM #48:	Definitely don't ask her why she said no. Just act like nothing happened. It's not a big deal. --- <~totally awesome sig~> <cite>electrochica posted [p:962733968] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>Definitely don't ask her why she said no. Just act like nothing happened. It's not a big deal. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WarfireX 02/17/22 3:55:26 PM #49:	u did this 2 urself. so cut the "woah is me! i have 2 see her every day now!" at least u took ur shot --- Spider-Man 3 was a good movie. <cite>WarfireX posted [p:962733984] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>u did this 2 urself. so cut the "woah is me! i have 2 see her every day now!" at least u took ur shot </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Protopet 02/17/22 3:56:11 PM #50:	bsp77 posted... Was there any reason to assume she would say yes? Do you guys have a good rapport or were you just randomly asking? I missed this post but yes. She gave me the same signals as girls who HAVE said yes in my life. At least I thought so. I either misread her or she changed her mind. Doesn't much matter anymore. --- I should go. <cite>Protopet posted [p:962734009] in So I asked... [t:79902414]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>Was there any reason to assume she would say yes? Do you guys have a good rapport or were you just randomly asking?</quote> I missed this post but yes. She gave me the same signals as girls who HAVE said yes in my life. At least I thought so. I either misread her or she changed her mind. Doesn't much matter anymore. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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