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gamepimp12 11/25/21 3:12:47 PM #1:	So been dating this woman for like 6 months now, nothing official or exclusive due to her time commitments to medical school. So over these 6 months Ive spent Maybe 2 grand on her, between flowers making sure shes straight money wise, picking up things I think shed like, her nails etc etc. Its a big discrepancy earnings wise due to her schooling so Its not reciprocated financially but I never doubt that shed be returning the favor if she could. So recently when discussing an issue about her time management, she expresses that one of the reasons its so bad is because she goes out of her way to try and spend time with my out of a feeling of obligation to me and all I do, and that isnt working for her we should take a step back. im honestly kinda crushed cause we kinda got into this situation knowing time spent would be sparse at first and I never asked her to do all the things she feels obligated to do for me. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960344444] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>So been dating this woman for like 6 months now, nothing official or exclusive due to her time commitments to medical school. So over these 6 months Ive spent Maybe 2 grand on her, between flowers making sure shes straight money wise, picking up things I think shed like, her nails etc etc. Its a big discrepancy earnings wise due to her schooling so Its not reciprocated financially but I never doubt that shed be returning the favor if she could. So recently when discussing an issue about her time management, she expresses that one of the reasons its so bad is because she goes out of her way to try and spend time with my out of a feeling of obligation to me and all I do, and that isnt working for her we should take a step back. im honestly kinda crushed cause we kinda got into this situation knowing time spent would be sparse at first and I never asked her to do all the things she feels obligated to do for me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CRON 11/25/21 3:15:22 PM #2:	She was using you for money and it's fairly obvious. --- [obligatory signature] <cite>CRON posted [p:960344535] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>She was using you for money and it's fairly obvious. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/25/21 3:17:44 PM #3:	CRON posted... She was using you for money and it's fairly obvious. No she never really asked me for anything. The one time she did she was damn near crying over 20 dollars. i dont question her character. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960344615] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>CRON posted... </cite> <quote>She was using you for money and it's fairly obvious.</quote> No she never really asked me for anything. The one time she did she was damn near crying over 20 dollars. i dont question her character. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pogo_Marimo 11/25/21 3:18:07 PM #4:	lmao How are people on this board so fundamentally bad at dating? --- 'Cause you know that I have no fear, ain't gonna walk into the river and disappear. I'm gonna be a powerful man. Red blood running down the broken sand. <cite>Pogo_Marimo posted [p:960344634] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>lmao How are people on this board so fundamentally bad at dating? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ToadallyAwesome 11/25/21 3:18:07 PM #5:	Kinda sounds like she played you a bit dude. Maybe not even intending it. Good relationships usually arent that lopsided :( --- https://imgur.com/QKdxwuI <cite>ToadallyAwesome posted [p:960344635] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>Kinda sounds like she played you a bit dude. Maybe not even intending it. Good relationships usually arent that lopsided :( </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 11/25/21 3:20:41 PM #6:	gamepimp12 posted... No she never really asked me for anything. The one time she did she was damn near crying over 20 dollars. i dont question her character. If the issue was truly about you spending money on her she would do her best to pay her share and not rely on you for money... she wouldnt take the money and then call it off cause she took money. Like think about it. That makes no sense. --- "Theres still a lot of booze I aint drunk and a lot of pretty thoughts I aint thunk" https://files.catbox.moe/gqwlkg.jpeg ~ by JimCarrysToe. Be amaze. <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:960344718] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite> <quote>No she never really asked me for anything. The one time she did she was damn near crying over 20 dollars. i dont question her character.</quote> If the issue was truly about you spending money on her she would do her best to pay her share and not rely on you for money... she wouldnt take the money and then call it off cause she took money. Like think about it. That makes no sense. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 11/25/21 3:21:35 PM #7:	I sympathize with her. But that's specifically why I reject gifts being too one sided. I don't want to feel obligated to people over money. Did she express this before now and you just didn't think it was as big of a deal to her as it was? --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:960344754] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>I sympathize with her. But that's specifically why I reject gifts being too one sided. I don't want to feel obligated to people over money. Did she express this before now and you just didn't think it was as big of a deal to her as it was? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TommyG663513 11/25/21 3:22:04 PM #8:	2 grand over 6 months is a ton of money to spend on someone you're only casually dating --- just tell them all your base doesn't belong to us because we were getting stoned...they'll understand-Ken156 <cite>TommyG663513 posted [p:960344762] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>2 grand over 6 months is a ton of money to spend on someone you're only casually dating </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pogo_Marimo 11/25/21 3:22:18 PM #9:	CanuckCowboy posted... If the issue was truly about you spending money on her she would do her best to pay her share and not rely on you for money... she wouldnt take the money and then call it off cause she took money. Like think about it. That makes no sense. People can feel guilty in retrospect... --- 'Cause you know that I have no fear, ain't gonna walk into the river and disappear. I'm gonna be a powerful man. Red blood running down the broken sand. <cite>Pogo_Marimo posted [p:960344770] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>CanuckCowboy posted... </cite> <quote>If the issue was truly about you spending money on her she would do her best to pay her share and not rely on you for money... she wouldnt take the money and then call it off cause she took money. Like think about it. That makes no sense.</quote>People can feel guilty in retrospect... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 11/25/21 3:25:12 PM #10:	Pogo_Marimo posted... People can feel guilty in retrospect... That's not relevant to my point. If its guilt she'd make an effort to not rely on him for money moving forward and stay with him. Not "oh I feel bad about that so we should take a break. Immediately going, "we should take a step back" as opposed to talking to TC about it and making an effort to level things out financially strongly indicates that she's not that into the relationship. --- "Theres still a lot of booze I aint drunk and a lot of pretty thoughts I aint thunk" https://files.catbox.moe/gqwlkg.jpeg ~ by JimCarrysToe. Be amaze. <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:960344872] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>Pogo_Marimo posted... </cite> <quote>People can feel guilty in retrospect...</quote> That's not relevant to my point. If its guilt she'd make an effort to not rely on him for money moving forward and stay with him. Not "oh I feel bad about that so we should take a break. Immediately going, "we should take a step back" as opposed to talking to TC about it and making an effort to level things out financially strongly indicates that she's not that into the relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/25/21 3:28:05 PM #11:	Lost_All_Senses posted... I sympathize with her. But that's specifically why I reject gifts being too one sided. I don't want to feel obligated to people over money. Did she express this before now and you just didn't think it was as big of a deal to her as it was? i knew she hated not being able to reciprocate, but I didnt know that was turning into a sense of obligation. TommyG663513 posted... 2 grand over 6 months is a ton of money to spend on someone you're only casually dating Its really not. ToadallyAwesome posted... Kinda sounds like she played you a bit dude. Maybe not even intending it. Good relationships usually arent that lopsided :( it really wasnt even lopsided to me, she does so much for me emotionally and mentally, that I dont think she values the way I do. Pogo_Marimo posted... lmao How are people on this board so fundamentally bad at dating? I mean we work great honestly, I kinda feel like schools getting to her. She wanted to break things off cause she felt she wasnt pulling her weight, but like she considered pulling her weight things I never asked her to do --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960344976] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>I sympathize with her. But that's specifically why I reject gifts being too one sided. I don't want to feel obligated to people over money. Did she express this before now and you just didn't think it was as big of a deal to her as it was?</quote> i knew she hated not being able to reciprocate, but I didnt know that was turning into a sense of obligation. TommyG663513 posted... </cite> <quote>2 grand over 6 months is a ton of money to spend on someone you're only casually dating</quote> Its really not. ToadallyAwesome posted... </cite> <quote>Kinda sounds like she played you a bit dude. Maybe not even intending it. Good relationships usually arent that lopsided :(</quote> it really wasnt even lopsided to me, she does so much for me emotionally and mentally, that I dont think she values the way I do. Pogo_Marimo posted... </cite> <quote>lmao How are people on this board so fundamentally bad at dating?</quote> I mean we work great honestly, I kinda feel like schools getting to her. She wanted to break things off cause she felt she wasnt pulling her weight, but like she considered pulling her weight things I never asked her to do </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/25/21 3:31:46 PM #12:	CanuckCowboy posted... That's not relevant to my point. If its guilt she'd make an effort to not rely on him for money moving forward and stay with him. Not "oh I feel bad about that so we should take a break. Immediately going, "we should take a step back" as opposed to talking to TC about it and making an effort to level things out financially strongly indicates that she's not that into the relationship. to clarify on this, based on the conversation we had she feels like I need time and communication she cant provide and thats why she wants to take a break. But we only argue about time and communications because shes been trying to make time she doesnt have and its been back firing --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960345076] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>CanuckCowboy posted... </cite> <quote>That's not relevant to my point. If its guilt she'd make an effort to not rely on him for money moving forward and stay with him. Not "oh I feel bad about that so we should take a break. Immediately going, "we should take a step back" as opposed to talking to TC about it and making an effort to level things out financially strongly indicates that she's not that into the relationship.</quote> to clarify on this, based on the conversation we had she feels like I need time and communication she cant provide and thats why she wants to take a break. But we only argue about time and communications because shes been trying to make time she doesnt have and its been back firing </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 11/25/21 3:33:19 PM #13:	gamepimp12 posted... i knew she hated not being able to reciprocate, but I didnt know that was turning into a sense of obligation. If it was me, it would be easy to remedy tho. Just start doing stuff where money isn't the issue when hanging out. Simple things. If she's genuine, then she should have no problem with you adjusting to make her feel more comfortable about the situation. If she doesn't, she might of just realized you guys don't fit as good as she originally thought. Which doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with either of you --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:960345105] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite> <quote>i knew she hated not being able to reciprocate, but I didnt know that was turning into a sense of obligation.</quote> If it was me, it would be easy to remedy tho. Just start doing stuff where money isn't the issue when hanging out. Simple things. If she's genuine, then she should have no problem with you adjusting to make her feel more comfortable about the situation. If she doesn't, she might of just realized you guys don't fit as good as she originally thought. Which doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with either of you </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/25/21 3:40:05 PM #14:	Lost_All_Senses posted... If it was me, it would be easy to remedy tho. Just start doing stuff where money isn't the issue when hanging out. Simple things. If she's genuine, then she should have no problem with you adjusting to make her feel more comfortable about the situation. If she doesn't, she might of just realized you guys don't fit as good as she originally thought. Which doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with either of you most the time we hang out we arent doing expensive shit. She never really minds what we do. she said shes always been the one buying her partner stuff and how its weird to be on the other side. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960345314] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>If it was me, it would be easy to remedy tho. Just start doing stuff where money isn't the issue when hanging out. Simple things. If she's genuine, then she should have no problem with you adjusting to make her feel more comfortable about the situation. If she doesn't, she might of just realized you guys don't fit as good as she originally thought. Which doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with either of you</quote> most the time we hang out we arent doing expensive shit. She never really minds what we do. she said shes always been the one buying her partner stuff and how its weird to be on the other side. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
daynlokki 11/25/21 3:42:05 PM #15:	Spending over $300 a month on someone is a pretty good chunk lol. Welcome to her not being that into you and not wanting to have to buy you a Christmas present. <cite>daynlokki posted [p:960345380] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>Spending over $300 a month on someone is a pretty good chunk lol. Welcome to her not being that into you and not wanting to have to buy you a Christmas present. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 11/25/21 3:42:57 PM #16:	gamepimp12 posted... most the time we hang out we arent doing expensive shit. She never really minds what we do. she said shes always been the one buying her partner stuff and how its weird to be on the other side. What is your next move? --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:960345408] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite> <quote>most the time we hang out we arent doing expensive shit. She never really minds what we do. she said shes always been the one buying her partner stuff and how its weird to be on the other side.</quote> What is your next move? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Returning_CEmen 11/25/21 3:46:04 PM #17:	How often would you two hang out? --- Genius, Thousandaire, Playboy, Philanthropist <cite>Returning_CEmen posted [p:960345507] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>How often would you two hang out? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Axiom 11/25/21 3:47:42 PM #18:	She paid her bills and don't need you anymore <cite>Axiom posted [p:960345549] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>She paid her bills and don't need you anymore </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Omnislasher 11/25/21 3:48:57 PM #19:	what. the. fuck. <cite>Omnislasher posted [p:960345587] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>what. the. fuck. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/25/21 3:53:24 PM #20:	Returning_CEmen posted... How often would you two hang out? 2 or so times a month she goes to school about 2 hours away. Shes just now wrapping up her student athlete career so Im seeing her more often now, if she was in town even for a few hours shed always at least stops by my house or my job to see me. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960345723] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>Returning_CEmen posted... </cite> <quote>How often would you two hang out?</quote> 2 or so times a month she goes to school about 2 hours away. Shes just now wrapping up her student athlete career so Im seeing her more often now, if she was in town even for a few hours shed always at least stops by my house or my job to see me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/25/21 3:56:24 PM #21:	Axiom posted... She paid her bills and don't need you anymore nothing about her actions or her character tell me that. everyone from her mom to her sister and her best friend know me lmao --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960345801] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>Axiom posted... </cite> <quote>She paid her bills and don't need you anymore</quote> nothing about her actions or her character tell me that. everyone from her mom to her sister and her best friend know me lmao </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 11/25/21 4:06:47 PM #22:	gamepimp12 posted... nothing about her actions or her character tell me that. everyone from her mom to her sister and her best friend know me lmao Why even respond to them? It's obvious they're jaded when they just need minimal information to judge the women harshly. No matter how you frame it, they'll blackout and see golddigging lol. I'm not saying that's off the table myself. But how fast they jump to it is the tell. Tbh, there's still not enough insight for me to lean either way yet. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:960346096] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite> <quote>nothing about her actions or her character tell me that. everyone from her mom to her sister and her best friend know me lmao</quote> Why even respond to them? It's obvious they're jaded when they just need minimal information to judge the women harshly. No matter how you frame it, they'll blackout and see golddigging lol. I'm not saying that's off the table myself. But how fast they jump to it is the tell. Tbh, there's still not enough insight for me to lean either way yet. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
daynlokki 11/25/21 4:07:53 PM #23:	gamepimp12 posted... 2 or so times a month she goes to school about 2 hours away. Shes just now wrapping up her student athlete career so Im seeing her more often now, if she was in town even for a few hours shed always at least stops by my house or my job to see me. So you hung out an average of 2 times a month and spent an average of $150 each time you saw her? Ya, golddigging. <cite>daynlokki posted [p:960346130] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite> <quote>2 or so times a month she goes to school about 2 hours away. Shes just now wrapping up her student athlete career so Im seeing her more often now, if she was in town even for a few hours shed always at least stops by my house or my job to see me.</quote>So you hung out an average of 2 times a month and spent an average of $150 each time you saw her? Ya, golddigging. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thronedfire2 11/25/21 4:08:38 PM #24:	2k really isn't that much over 6 months. you could spend more than that just doing 1 date/week without ever buying her anything or giving her money --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:960346154] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>2k really isn't that much over 6 months. you could spend more than that just doing 1 date/week without ever buying her anything or giving her money </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 11/25/21 4:09:25 PM #25:	daynlokki posted... So you hung out an average of 2 times a month and spent an average of $150 each time you saw her? Ya, golddigging. Another person completely ignoring the context you already explained about the girl. Or immediately jumping to she's lying because they're too jaded to see it any other way. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:960346175] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>daynlokki posted... </cite> <quote>So you hung out an average of 2 times a month and spent an average of $150 each time you saw her? Ya, golddigging.</quote> Another person completely ignoring the context you already explained about the girl. Or immediately jumping to she's lying because they're too jaded to see it any other way. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UndefeatedGOAT 11/25/21 4:11:09 PM #26:	not exclusive, so you were paying for her while chad was bending her over? <cite>UndefeatedGOAT posted [p:960346230] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>not exclusive, so you were paying for her while chad was bending her over?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
samurai bandit 11/25/21 4:11:22 PM #27:	ToadallyAwesome posted... Kinda sounds like she played you a bit dude. Maybe not even intending it. Good relationships usually arent that lopsided :( This. Specially considering how she wants to spend even less time with you but tries to play it off as your fault.... --- Go and watch Ef ~ A tale of memories now! <cite>samurai bandit posted [p:960346234] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>ToadallyAwesome posted... </cite> <quote>Kinda sounds like she played you a bit dude. Maybe not even intending it. Good relationships usually arent that lopsided :(</quote> This. Specially considering how she wants to spend even less time with you but tries to play it off as your fault.... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
daynlokki 11/25/21 4:13:03 PM #28:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Another person completely ignoring the context you already explained about the girl. Or immediately jumping to she's lying because they're too jaded to see it any other way. Uh, dude just admitted to spending over $150 on average, every visit for 6 months. GF says she feels bad about him spending money on her like that. She doesnt try to make the relationship work in a way where he doesnt need to, but instead wants to take a large step back. She either found someone else, or just doesnt want to spend the time with him, regardless of money spent on her. If someone wants to spend time with you, they will find a way. Her actions are 100% those of someone who knows they have been using someone and now feel bad about it. <cite>daynlokki posted [p:960346283] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>Another person completely ignoring the context you already explained about the girl. Or immediately jumping to she's lying because they're too jaded to see it any other way.</quote>Uh, dude just admitted to spending over $150 on average, every visit for 6 months. GF says she feels bad about him spending money on her like that. She doesnt try to make the relationship work in a way where he doesnt need to, but instead wants to take a large step back. She either found someone else, or just doesnt want to spend the time with him, regardless of money spent on her. If someone wants to spend time with you, they will find a way. Her actions are 100% those of someone who knows they have been using someone and now feel bad about it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
itachi15243 11/25/21 4:13:04 PM #29:	I've been there before. She probably never actually enjoyed having the money spent on her but liked the commodity, or did enjoy it but eventually felt guilty Or it's just an excuse. Does sound like a problem though. --- I do drawings and stuff https://www.fiverr.com/blueblitz <cite>itachi15243 posted [p:960346284] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>I've been there before. She probably never actually enjoyed having the money spent on her but liked the commodity, or did enjoy it but eventually felt guilty Or it's just an excuse. Does sound like a problem though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/25/21 4:49:43 PM #30:	daynlokki posted... Uh, dude just admitted to spending over $150 on average, every visit for 6 months. GF says she feels bad about him spending money on her like that. She doesnt try to make the relationship work in a way where he doesnt need to, but instead wants to take a large step back. She either found someone else, or just doesnt want to spend the time with him, regardless of money spent on her. If someone wants to spend time with you, they will find a way. Her actions are 100% those of someone who knows they have been using someone and now feel bad about it. ive already said she has only asked for 20 dollars and has regularly expressed she not used to anyone looking out for her that way. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960347243] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>daynlokki posted... </cite> <quote>Uh, dude just admitted to spending over $150 on average, every visit for 6 months. GF says she feels bad about him spending money on her like that. She doesnt try to make the relationship work in a way where he doesnt need to, but instead wants to take a large step back. She either found someone else, or just doesnt want to spend the time with him, regardless of money spent on her. If someone wants to spend time with you, they will find a way. Her actions are 100% those of someone who knows they have been using someone and now feel bad about it.</quote> ive already said she has only asked for 20 dollars and has regularly expressed she not used to anyone looking out for her that way. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gamepimp12 11/25/21 5:02:56 PM #32:	jeffhardyb0yz posted... So do exactly as she says. She wants a slow down, give it to her. Let her come to you and hit you up to set up plans. Slow it down and keep yourself extra extra casual. Go Dutch im 100% fine with that I just dont want her to feel like thats what it should be because shes think shes fucking up or something. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960347636] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>jeffhardyb0yz posted... </cite> <quote>So do exactly as she says. She wants a slow down, give it to her. Let her come to you and hit you up to set up plans. Slow it down and keep yourself extra extra casual. Go Dutch</quote> im 100% fine with that I just dont want her to feel like thats what it should be because shes think shes fucking up or something. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UndefeatedGOAT 11/25/21 5:40:17 PM #33:	gamepimp12 posted... ive already said she has only asked for 20 dollars and has regularly expressed she not used to anyone looking out for her that way. You didnt really do anything wrong man, dont be too defensive Ignoring the money, if someone says they are too busy with school to spend time I wouldnt give that person much attention, if people want to be with someone they wouldnt let college get in the way, so ignoring the money aspect which is what it is, your priorities were too different <cite>UndefeatedGOAT posted [p:960348675] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted...</cite> <quote> ive already said she has only asked for 20 dollars and has regularly expressed she not used to anyone looking out for her that way. </quote> You didnt really do anything wrong man, dont be too defensive Ignoring the money, if someone says they are too busy with school to spend time I wouldnt give that person much attention, if people want to be with someone they wouldnt let college get in the way, so ignoring the money aspect which is what it is, your priorities were too different</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
daynlokki 11/25/21 5:44:41 PM #34:	gamepimp12 posted... ive already said she has only asked for 20 dollars and has regularly expressed she not used to anyone looking out for her that way. And yet you still, on average, spent over $150 per time you saw her. I mean, unless you were lying about either the amount of time you spent with her, or the amount of money you spent. <cite>daynlokki posted [p:960348777] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite> <quote>ive already said she has only asked for 20 dollars and has regularly expressed she not used to anyone looking out for her that way.</quote>And yet you still, on average, spent over $150 per time you saw her. I mean, unless you were lying about either the amount of time you spent with her, or the amount of money you spent. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/25/21 5:49:18 PM #35:	UndefeatedGOAT posted... You didnt really do anything wrong man, dont be too defensive Ignoring the money, if someone says they are too busy with school to spend time I wouldnt give that person much attention, if people want to be with someone they wouldnt let college get in the way, so ignoring the money aspect which is what it is, your priorities were too different I mean thats the thing, she wasnt too busy for me, she thought she was too busy for me. I wouldnt of let it go on if that was the case. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960348923] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>UndefeatedGOAT posted... </cite> <quote>You didnt really do anything wrong man, dont be too defensive Ignoring the money, if someone says they are too busy with school to spend time I wouldnt give that person much attention, if people want to be with someone they wouldnt let college get in the way, so ignoring the money aspect which is what it is, your priorities were too different</quote> I mean thats the thing, she wasnt too busy for me, she thought she was too busy for me. I wouldnt of let it go on if that was the case. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheoryzC 11/25/21 5:50:27 PM #36:	https://youtu.be/GG7fLOmlhYg --- This is where my sigs suppose to be. <cite>TheoryzC posted [p:960348953] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>https://youtu.be/GG7fLOmlhYg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UndefeatedGOAT 11/25/21 5:57:35 PM #37:	gamepimp12 posted... I mean thats the thing, she wasnt too busy for me, she thought she was too busy for me. I wouldnt of let it go on if that was the case. Fine, I dont understand what you want out of this discussion really. Any time you mention relationship stuff to people they are going to try to give advice or whatever Just think about it on your own I guess? Dont let it get you down? That seems to be all I can say <cite>UndefeatedGOAT posted [p:960349133] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted...</cite> <quote> I mean thats the thing, she wasnt too busy for me, she thought she was too busy for me. I wouldnt of let it go on if that was the case. </quote> Fine, I dont understand what you want out of this discussion really. Any time you mention relationship stuff to people they are going to try to give advice or whatever Just think about it on your own I guess? Dont let it get you down? That seems to be all I can say</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/25/21 6:05:58 PM #38:	UndefeatedGOAT posted... Fine, I dont understand what you want out of this discussion really. Any time you mention relationship stuff to people they are going to try to give advice or whatever Just think about it on your own I guess? Dont let it get you down? That seems to be all I can say idk why you got defensive. I just clarified, that the time spent isnt really an issue for me, she just thinks its an issue for me. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960349357] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>UndefeatedGOAT posted... </cite> <quote>Fine, I dont understand what you want out of this discussion really. Any time you mention relationship stuff to people they are going to try to give advice or whatever Just think about it on your own I guess? Dont let it get you down? That seems to be all I can say</quote> idk why you got defensive. I just clarified, that the time spent isnt really an issue for me, she just thinks its an issue for me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
smoke_break 11/25/21 6:06:06 PM #39:	$2k over 6 months, you need to understand that's unusual man. That's some sugar daddy shit. --- https://imgur.com/mOCFlRv <cite>smoke_break posted [p:960349366] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>$2k over 6 months, you need to understand that's unusual man. That's some sugar daddy shit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UndefeatedGOAT 11/25/21 6:20:19 PM #40:	gamepimp12 posted... idk why you got defensive. I just clarified, that the time spent isnt really an issue for me, she just thinks its an issue for me. I dont know if Im being defensive, please say whatever you want about me, I generally dont get offended by anything, you just seem have an answer for everything so theres no point in saying anything, anything anyone says youll just say you did everything right <cite>UndefeatedGOAT posted [p:960349725] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted...</cite> <quote> idk why you got defensive. I just clarified, that the time spent isnt really an issue for me, she just thinks its an issue for me. </quote> I dont know if Im being defensive, please say whatever you want about me, I generally dont get offended by anything, you just seem have an answer for everything so theres no point in saying anything, anything anyone says youll just say you did everything right</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ManaYuka 11/25/21 6:26:39 PM #42:	Yeah girls say that when they are exploring their options. 2000 is nothing when this girl is going to be making 6 figures soonish. She needs someone on her level, or 1.5 times her level. Go after a nurse or something. --- Antcipated SE Games- FFXVI, Forspoken, SOP-FF Origin, DQXII, and FFVIIR Part 2. <cite>ManaYuka posted [p:960349880] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>Yeah girls say that when they are exploring their options. 2000 is nothing when this girl is going to be making 6 figures soonish. She needs someone on her level, or 1.5 times her level. Go after a nurse or something. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/25/21 6:49:16 PM #43:	smoke_break posted... $2k over 6 months, you need to understand that's unusual man. That's some sugar daddy shit. is it? For record I spent that on myself on purely recreational stuff this month alone. maybe thats why I dont see it as a big deal ? --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960350476] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>smoke_break posted... </cite> <quote>$2k over 6 months, you need to understand that's unusual man. That's some sugar daddy shit.</quote> is it? For record I spent that on myself on purely recreational stuff this month alone. maybe thats why I dont see it as a big deal ? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NecroFoul99 11/25/21 6:55:23 PM #44:	Could be she just wants an out and this is an easy and convenient excuse. If she wants out, she wants out. Time to read the room as best you can and if this is true, then the whole truth about feelings of obligation may come from you and if it does, its a good learning experience. Lots of ifs. Good luck. --- If you have to lie to make your point, then you're just a liar who has no point. <cite>NecroFoul99 posted [p:960350630] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>Could be she just wants an out and this is an easy and convenient excuse. If she wants out, she wants out. Time to read the room as best you can and if this is true, then the whole truth about feelings of obligation may come from you and if it does, its a good learning experience. Lots of ifs. Good luck. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LordMarshal 11/25/21 6:56:54 PM #46:	She never appreciated dees --- There can be only one. <cite>LordMarshal posted [p:960350674] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>She never appreciated dees </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JimmyFraska 11/25/21 7:01:12 PM #47:	She didn't play you, you played yourself <cite>JimmyFraska posted [p:960350812] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>She didn't play you, you played yourself </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/25/21 7:17:27 PM #48:	NecroFoul99 posted... Could be she just wants an out and this is an easy and convenient excuse. If she wants out, she wants out. Time to read the room as best you can and if this is true, then the whole truth about feelings of obligation may come from you and if it does, its a good learning experience. Lots of ifs. Good luck. I mean all thats possible, and if it was anyone else I wouldnt of let it get this far in the first place. But I just dont see it based on her character, shed be a totally different person in my eyes if this was the case. i really think its the her trying to hard thing and demanding more of her self than Im asking. It just lines up with her actions even this week. She had two hours between getting her hair done and taking an exam. and she asked if we could do something Like I knew that made nosense and the second anything bad happens she wasnt gonna make it. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:960351235] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>NecroFoul99 posted... </cite> <quote>Could be she just wants an out and this is an easy and convenient excuse. If she wants out, she wants out. Time to read the room as best you can and if this is true, then the whole truth about feelings of obligation may come from you and if it does, its a good learning experience. Lots of ifs. Good luck.</quote> I mean all thats possible, and if it was anyone else I wouldnt of let it get this far in the first place. But I just dont see it based on her character, shed be a totally different person in my eyes if this was the case. i really think its the her trying to hard thing and demanding more of her self than Im asking. It just lines up with her actions even this week. She had two hours between getting her hair done and taking an exam. and she asked if we could do something Like I knew that made nosense and the second anything bad happens she wasnt gonna make it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Harpie 11/25/21 7:25:03 PM #49:	You may wanna slow down or just stop spending money on her. While it's nice to do, it sounds like its ruining your relationship. Whether or not you tell her that she doesn't need to pay you back, if she's a good person she will try to anyways. It makes things unbalanced and she will always feel guilty about it, which isn't good. The money may be doing more harm than good here sadly --- CE'S ANONYMOUS CONFESSIONARY https://forms.gle/uXFgi1noFj3qn8PTA <cite>Harpie posted [p:960351432] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>You may wanna slow down or just stop spending money on her. While it's nice to do, it sounds like its ruining your relationship. Whether or not you tell her that she doesn't need to pay you back, if she's a good person she will try to anyways. It makes things unbalanced and she will always feel guilty about it, which isn't good. The money may be doing more harm than good here sadly </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bass_X0 11/25/21 7:29:43 PM #50:	LordMarshal posted... She never appreciated dees nuts? --- "Well, it's not a bad game. It's made by Capcom, so how could it?" ~ AVGN <cite>Bass_X0 posted [p:960351536] in So the gir... [t:79779172]...</cite> <quote>LordMarshal posted... </cite> <quote>She never appreciated dees</quote> nuts? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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