Current Events > So the girl I've been dating is too appreciative of the money I spend on her.

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Akagami_Shanks posted...

she said she felt obligated to see you, it's over man.

*as much as possible

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gamepimp12 posted...

I mean youre giving it to me

Yes, to point out how dumb it is nice gotcha lmao. Also, see why she dipped out with the angsty teenage vibe you give off here.
If you made a topic like this about it, youre probably clingy as fuck to her IRL.

Just dont be too upset when she eventually starts ghosting you because she found someone who not only looks like a Chad, but has the money too. Sorry bro.

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So I think well be fine

we just started speaking regularly again but a lot of the positive momentum we had is gone.

We havent had the big how to move forward relationship wise talk, probably gonna wait till the end of the week, i dont want our feelings to be a distraction with exams

but I guess the fact she hasnt said anything to me that would be considered negative is a positive sign.

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jeffhardyb0yz posted...

A dance I've seen time and time again. This woman has decided to take a step back. When someone has placed a hold or step back on a relationship, they've felt something is off with where things are going and are now are taking time to reevaluate where they stand with you. It's on her to figure out what she wants to do. Please match her energy. There should be no talk on how to move the relationship forward because she's already put up a roadblock and she is the only person that can directly remove it. You don't take a step back and immediately try to take another step forward. You need to give her some good space and a taste of what she's missing. Gotta let her miss you/value your presence a bit. And you do that, by doing absolutely nothing. You need to fall back and let her do most of the work. She needs to be hitting you up 100% of the time and then you can set up whatever meet up you want to do. Stay away from all these feeling talks because a.) it only puts pressure on her b.) she'll only tell you what she's feeling at the moment, which changes all the time

You need to fall back. Basically, instead of trying to move forward, you should be casualing it up x10. No one ever tends to listen to this advice however but I hope it hits your ears.

Ummm yeah, we spoke we good.

she, the Money difference was really getting to her, Im going to dial it back a bit (it gives me a reason to be more creative) and were gonna planned date nights while we both have more flexibility with our time.


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