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apocalyptic_4 10/20/21 6:43:58 PM #1:	Long story short I worked with a woman 10 years older than me (was 29 at the time) and we worked pretty close together for 4 years almost. She quit the company last month and we all said farewell, she said she'll miss me the most to everyone she wasn't shy about us being close friends to everyone. Now the problem is I don't feel like I got any closure because I didn't really tell her how I felt. What triggered these feelings beyond us getting along great was she talked to me about her marriage and how she's been un happy and depressed for years. Told me she even has a separate bedroom she doesn't sleep with her husband it was an arranged marriage so she's never known true love. We talked for a few hours that day it was just us working in the whole store. She even admitted to me things in her personal life she's never told anyone. It was around Christmas last year when this happened. Now she's given me hints and teased me a bit but I've never crossed that line with her even jokingly. She's Muslim and has 2 kids both who are teens now. I'm going to see her on Friday and I'm tempted to tell her then. Should I just keep my mouth shut? This may be the last time I see her idk what to think. --- XBL: Mrpicardbottoms PSN: Bosh369 <cite>apocalyptic_4 posted [p:959232301] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>Long story short I worked with a woman 10 years older than me (was 29 at the time) and we worked pretty close together for 4 years almost. She quit the company last month and we all said farewell, she said she'll miss me the most to everyone she wasn't shy about us being close friends to everyone. Now the problem is I don't feel like I got any closure because I didn't really tell her how I felt. What triggered these feelings beyond us getting along great was she talked to me about her marriage and how she's been un happy and depressed for years. Told me she even has a separate bedroom she doesn't sleep with her husband it was an arranged marriage so she's never known true love. We talked for a few hours that day it was just us working in the whole store. She even admitted to me things in her personal life she's never told anyone. It was around Christmas last year when this happened. Now she's given me hints and teased me a bit but I've never crossed that line with her even jokingly. She's Muslim and has 2 kids both who are teens now. I'm going to see her on Friday and I'm tempted to tell her then. Should I just keep my mouth shut? This may be the last time I see her idk what to think. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 10/20/21 6:45:35 PM #2:	My advice would be to not even go on Friday. So you probably know where I stand on your question. <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:959232352] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>My advice would be to not even go on Friday. So you probably know where I stand on your question. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TULPAMANCER 10/20/21 6:45:49 PM #4:	If her family comes from a strict Muslim background (which arranged marriage suggests), be super careful dude. You don't need religious fundamentalist crazies from her family hunting the both of you down. <cite>TULPAMANCER posted [p:959232357] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>If her family comes from a strict Muslim background (which arranged marriage suggests), be super careful dude. You don't need religious fundamentalist crazies from her family hunting the both of you down. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smackems 10/20/21 6:45:59 PM #5:	Fee Longs --- Common sense charged before shipping - some dude <cite>Smackems posted [p:959232359] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>Fee Longs </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KateOnTop 10/20/21 6:46:06 PM #6:	Feelongs <cite>KateOnTop posted [p:959232365] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>Feelongs </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryangrad 10/20/21 6:47:18 PM #7:	"In another time, in another world, we could have been something..." --- https://imgur.com/v3SzL0d https://imgur.com/n8MtRqd <cite>Ryangrad posted [p:959232397] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>"In another time, in another world, we could have been something..." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 10/20/21 6:56:06 PM #8:	No, sounds like she's probably deeply religious and will not receive this very well even if she feels the same way. Just seems like the only reason to tell her would be to get it off your chest. Which is kind of selfish tbch --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:959232649] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>No, sounds like she's probably deeply religious and will not receive this very well even if she feels the same way. Just seems like the only reason to tell her would be to get it off your chest. Which is kind of selfish tbch </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
apocalyptic_4 10/20/21 6:58:57 PM #9:	Solid Snake07 posted... No, sounds like she's probably deeply religious and will not receive this very well even if she feels the same way. Just seems like the only reason to tell her would be to get it off your chest. Which is kind of selfish tbch Exactly what I was thinking. I'm asking cause I'm dating another woman now but I can't stop thinking about this one. --- XBL: Mrpicardbottoms PSN: Bosh369 <cite>apocalyptic_4 posted [p:959232731] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>Solid Snake07 posted... </cite> <quote>No, sounds like she's probably deeply religious and will not receive this very well even if she feels the same way. Just seems like the only reason to tell her would be to get it off your chest. Which is kind of selfish tbch</quote> Exactly what I was thinking. I'm asking cause I'm dating another woman now but I can't stop thinking about this one. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 10/20/21 7:09:29 PM #10:	apocalyptic_4 posted... Should I just keep my mouth shut? Yeah. --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:959233032] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>apocalyptic_4 posted... </cite> <quote>Should I just keep my mouth shut?</quote>Yeah. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bulletproofvita 10/20/21 7:12:58 PM #11:	apocalyptic_4 posted... Exactly what I was thinking. I'm asking cause I'm dating another woman now but I can't stop thinking about this one. Are you going to tell the one you're dating about this? --- I don't do signatures. <cite>bulletproofvita posted [p:959233130] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>apocalyptic_4 posted... </cite> <quote>Exactly what I was thinking. I'm asking cause I'm dating another woman now but I can't stop thinking about this one.</quote>Are you going to tell the one you're dating about this? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Veggeta_MAX 10/20/21 7:13:12 PM #12:	Naw. It's the American way to tell an attached woman how you feel about them. It's not fair to them to not know how you feel. Life could be gone an instant and you don't want to live you life not knowing what if. /s --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:959233137] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>Naw. It's the American way to tell an attached woman how you feel about them. It's not fair to them to not know how you feel. Life could be gone an instant and you don't want to live you life not knowing what if. /s </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
radical rhino 10/20/21 7:16:18 PM #13:	Shoot your shot. She wants you dawg. --- .____ [____]===0 . . . . Ye olde beating stick. <cite>radical rhino posted [p:959233236] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>Shoot your shot. She wants you dawg. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lairen 10/20/21 7:18:29 PM #14:	You must defeat Fee Long to stand a chance. --- When it rains, it pours. <cite>Lairen posted [p:959233304] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>You must defeat Fee Long to stand a chance. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eat More Beef 10/20/21 7:21:56 PM #15:	It was a work relationship. Trying to move beyond that is generally a bad idea. You spent time together, became great friends, so leave it at that. Enjoy what you had. Pushing for more will be awkward and most likely painful to all parties involved. --- I wrote a horror short story collection. You can check it out, and other free short stories at http://www.aarondeck.com <cite>Eat More Beef posted [p:959233423] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>It was a work relationship. Trying to move beyond that is generally a bad idea. You spent time together, became great friends, so leave it at that. Enjoy what you had. Pushing for more will be awkward and most likely painful to all parties involved. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bulletproofvita 10/20/21 7:22:01 PM #16:	--- I don't do signatures. <cite>bulletproofvita posted [p:959233427] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
apocalyptic_4 10/20/21 7:31:30 PM #17:	Alright I'll cut myself off then I thought I moved past this. I'll just put it to rest then. --- XBL: Mrpicardbottoms PSN: Bosh369 <cite>apocalyptic_4 posted [p:959233741] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>Alright I'll cut myself off then I thought I moved past this. I'll just put it to rest then. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 10/20/21 7:35:58 PM #18:	Keep your mouth shut. --- To be a poor man is hard, but to be a poor race in a land of dollars is the very bottom of hardships. W.E.B. Du Bois <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:959233878] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>Keep your mouth shut. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 10/22/21 3:06:39 PM #19:	I wouldn't. <cite>Cocytus posted [p:959289146] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>I wouldn't. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Arcanine2009 10/23/21 4:06:51 AM #20:	jeffhardyb0yz posted... Shes married wtf. Yall are always reading into signs that just arent. Theres billions of happily unmarried women out there. I mean she should be into TC. But that doesn't mean he should act on it if course. --- Less is more. Everything you want, isn't everything you need. <cite>Arcanine2009 posted [p:959307426] in Tellling a... [t:79720593]...</cite> <quote>jeffhardyb0yz posted... </cite> <quote>Shes married wtf. Yall are always reading into signs that just arent. Theres billions of happily unmarried women out there.</quote>I mean she should be into TC. But that doesn't mean he should act on it if course. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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