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gna647 10/16/21 6:40:39 PM #1: |
She was driving out of state to see her sister. Which is a 6 hour drive. She texted me she was half way and I texted back okay thats good!
and for some reason in my mind I marked her off as safe. spent the night gaming with the boys so hours flew by. And it was 11 pm. I texted her goodnight. and she texted back saying it was wrong of me not to check on her if she made it or not. Its like yeah I shouldve done that, it was a simple slip up, but she also has her sister too that wouldve known something was wrong if she didnt show up. I almost always check on her if she made it home when shes out with friends or something. Why is it such a big deal NOW that I forgot this time? plus she shouldve texted me right away when she got there. Is she just looking for a reason to be mad at me? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MedeaLysistrata 10/16/21 6:41:16 PM #2: |
This isn't gonna take off in the same way but you never know
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gna647 10/16/21 6:41:52 PM #3: |
MedeaLysistrata posted...
This isn't gonna take off in the same way but you never know what? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 10/16/21 6:44:16 PM #6: |
Oh man, this kinda situation. I'm with you, I don't see the point. But it's just one of those things people like.
Kinda like how people always say "text me when you land" before you take off on a flight. Like, if the plane crashed, you'll know one way or another. Anyway, don't die on this hill --- http://avatar.xboxlive.com/avatar/emblem%20boy/avatar-body.png haters gonna hate ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Crazyman93 10/16/21 6:48:15 PM #7: |
emblem boy posted...
Anyway, don't die on this hillThis, hard. Tell her you're very sorry, and it won't happen again and maybe have a gift of flowers or something. Make sure you appear submissive and regretful. --- let's lubricate friction material! ~nickels, Cars & Trucks ... Copied to Clipboard!
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xue1 10/16/21 6:48:33 PM #8: |
It is selfish of her to expect you to spend all 6 hours sitting on the couch, worrying about her drive
You are allowed to have your own life that doesn't revolve around your girlfriend's trip to see her sister However, females behave selfishly all of the time, and that is not reason enough to break up with her ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrizztLink 10/16/21 6:49:41 PM #9: |
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s_a_r_a_h 10/16/21 6:51:12 PM #11: |
Crazyman93 posted...
Tell her you're very sorry, and it won't happen again and maybe have a gift of flowers or something. Make sure you appear submissive and regretful. no no no ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 10/16/21 6:52:25 PM #12: |
Some incel posts in this topic...
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DuneMan 10/16/21 6:53:09 PM #13: |
Tell her it makes more sense for her to message when she arrives. But you might have to prove the point the next time she travels by sending obnoxious 'check in' texts to her every 30 minutes of travel time on her next trip. :P
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BloodMoon7 10/16/21 6:53:10 PM #14: |
Do it back, see how she likes it. You can't let her step on you non consensualy.
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Cornmuffins 10/16/21 6:54:50 PM #15: |
Is this speed racer girl?
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gna647 10/17/21 10:04:15 PM #16: |
Okay so she sent me a text telling me I've proved again that I've gotten comfortable with her and she doesnt feel important to me
because i forgot to fucking check up on her. I'm tired of dealing with this shit. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_BIueMonk 10/17/21 10:05:34 PM #17: |
xue1 posted...
However, females behave selfishly all of the time, and that is not reason enough to break up with herY I k e s --- DAHYUN = <3 https://imgur.com/bv71aAd ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gna647 10/17/21 10:06:28 PM #18: |
gna647 posted...
Okay so she sent me a text telling me I've proved again that I've gotten comfortable with her and she doesnt feel important to me i also made SURE i checked on her during her trip back but she was still upset about her trip there. Fucking insane. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DuneMan 10/17/21 10:09:00 PM #19: |
gna647 posted...
telling me I've proved again that I've gotten comfortable with her and she doesnt feel important to meSounds like she's projecting some of her own insecurities. --- "I'd rather betray the world than let the world betray me." -Cao Cao ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MedeaLysistrata 10/17/21 10:11:30 PM #20: |
gna647 posted...
Okay so she sent me a text telling me I've proved again that I've gotten comfortable with her and she doesnt feel important to meI feel like this is why my only gf broke up with me. She never gave me a reason but one time she walked home from my place by herself because I wanted to sleep and then not long after we broke up What's wrong with being comfy with someone? Not that I should care --- "Why is ontology so expensive?" - JH [Is this live?][Joyless planet...] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bknight 10/17/21 10:12:58 PM #21: |
Show her this thread, she'll appreciate the fact that you care about her enough to ask for advice from relationship experts.
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TotallyNotAGirl 10/17/21 10:14:23 PM #22: |
bknight posted...
Show her this thread, she'll appreciate the fact that you care about her enough to ask for advice from relationship experts. Honestly this is not a bad idea. If you are feeling that you are over this, show her. You guys will probably escalate further and argue more. Maybe involving even less trivial things than before! Huh what sorry, kinda went back into something there. --- You haven't set a signature for the message boards yet ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ilishe 10/17/21 10:19:32 PM #23: |
gna647 posted...
Okay so she sent me a text telling me I've proved again that I've gotten comfortable with her and she doesnt feel important to me Lmao Don't let her fuck with you dude --- ~Phoenix Nine~ ~Victory needs no explanation; defeat allows none.~ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReturnOfThaJedi 10/17/21 10:51:46 PM #24: |
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The Top Crusader 10/17/21 11:01:44 PM #25: |
To me she would be the one to logically text you when she arrived safely, since obviously you dont know that literal minute shell get there.
Now I could see that she would be upset that after an hour or so past the estimated time you didnt double check, but that situation would only occur because she didnt let you know firstso at most its both of yours fault, but she is the one that messed up first so no reason to be blaming you. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gna647 10/17/21 11:03:18 PM #26: |
The Top Crusader posted...
To me she would be the one to logically text you when she arrived safely, since obviously you dont know that literal minute shell get there. she was also going to her sisters so her sister would have definitely let me know that she never arrived. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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yunalenne10 10/17/21 11:04:16 PM #27: |
How long have you been together?
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gna647 10/17/21 11:04:49 PM #28: |
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How long have you been together? 5 years --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VigorouslySwish 10/17/21 11:07:03 PM #29: |
My experience in relationships, when it comes to an argument it doesnt matter who is actually right, its more about who has bigger confidence in themselves and willing to stand their ground no matter what
but Im 34 and never married so maybe dont listen to me --- i'm just some guy yellin' about apple sauce ... Copied to Clipboard!
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kuwab0 10/17/21 11:09:16 PM #30: |
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gamestunner 10/17/21 11:58:48 PM #31: |
She should have notified you of her arrival first.
First of all I don't even text my wife when she's out and about driving around doing simple errands. It's your girlfriend's fault. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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--Zero- 10/18/21 12:32:40 AM #32: |
Girl was in the right. You'll learn man it's no big deal this time. It's never about if you're right and she's wrong. If it's something little then it's not worth telling her she's wrong. After like a hour if she doesn't text you she made it home it's best to send an update text to show you care. That's all she wanted. Part of her was testing you even if she don't want to admit it. Some women are like that.
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itachi15243 10/18/21 12:44:50 AM #34: |
Yeah you are.
She was waiting for you to check on her safety, and you were fucking around playing video games. You weren't even busy. That'd gonna make her feel like shit. Especially when you don't even have a real excuse. Not even like you fell asleep or something. It meant something to her and you (seeming) just didn't care. That's like one of the worst kinda fuckups to make. I know it may seem small, but the more you insist that you were right, the worse it's going to be. --- I do drawings and stuff https://www.fiverr.com/blueblitz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guerrilla Soldier 10/18/21 12:48:34 AM #35: |
gna647 posted...
Which is a 6 hour drive. gna647 posted... I almost always check on her if she made it home when shes out with friends or something you act like these two things are the same i'm starting to agree with her, you don't really seem to give a shit lol --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VigorouslySwish 10/18/21 1:08:52 AM #37: |
Mr Hangman posted...
Tell her you had faith in her victory. make sure to show her this pic when you tell her --- i'm just some guy yellin' about apple sauce ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Returning_CEmen 10/18/21 1:17:14 AM #38: |
She just wanted to know you were thinking about her while she was gone and you werent. Women love attention.
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ModLogic 10/18/21 1:26:42 AM #39: |
I had a similar experience once with my gf. She was driving out of state to see her sister. Which is a 6 hour drive. She texted me she was half way and I texted back okay thats good!
and for some reason in my mind I marked her off as safe. spent the night gaming with the boys so hours flew by. And it was 11 pm. I texted her goodnight. and she texted back saying it was wrong of me not to check on her if she made it or not. Its like yeah I shouldve done that, it was a simple slip up, but she also has her sister too that wouldve known something was wrong if she didnt show up. I almost always check on her if she made it home when shes out with friends or something. Why is it such a big deal NOW that I forgot this time? plus she shouldve texted me right away when she got there. Was she just looking for a reason to be mad at me? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Smashingpmkns 10/18/21 1:33:28 AM #40: |
This kind of shit is never worth a fight lol just be as sincere as possible without being patronizing. If she is actually hurt then address that shit sincerely.
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CommunismFTW 10/18/21 1:53:46 AM #41: |
Returning_CEmen posted...
She just wanted to know you were thinking about her while she was gone and you werent. Women love attention. --- Since only from below can one better see the heights. https://imgur.com/OhZgm ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bulletproofvita 10/18/21 2:05:02 AM #42: |
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Slaya4 10/18/21 2:14:58 AM #43: |
Just say my bad and ask her how she's feeling after the drive. Keep her talking about something else and be supportive of her feelings eventually she will forget.
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_Krave_ 10/18/21 2:15:41 AM #44: |
After 5 years, she sounds like a psycho. Dodge that shit, bro.
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Arcanine2009 10/18/21 2:30:09 AM #45: |
bulletproofvita posted...
This happens next...he don't got the balls to do this --- Less is more. Everything you want, isn't everything you need. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pfh1001 10/18/21 4:09:07 AM #46: |
gna647 posted...
Is she just looking for a reason to be mad at me? Yes. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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masticatingman 10/18/21 5:03:26 AM #47: |
I think shes right that its kinda fucked you never checked to see if she made it. But I also think she should have just called you when she did. But she will win out because the guy in this situation is supposed to initiate and be protective.
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Mr_Karate_II 10/18/21 5:22:08 AM #48: |
_Krave_ posted...
After 5 years, she sounds like a psycho. Dodge that shit, bro.Incel post --- Currently Playing: Dead by Daylight,Friday the 13th and Forza Horizon 4 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mr_Karate_II 10/18/21 5:23:44 AM #49: |
You fucked up, you should have texted her to make sure she made it there ok but you didn't and spent the night gaming while not bothering to check on her.
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rexcrk 10/18/21 6:59:47 AM #50: |
God that sounds stressful as hell.
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