Current Events > Welp, my girlfriend broke up with me last night

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JBaLLEN66 09/17/21 8:41:35 AM #102:	Ugh breakups are never unexpected, you just chose to ignore the red flags. --- The Legend of Zelda Breath of the Wild is the worst Zelda Game by far. <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:958138520] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>Ugh breakups are never unexpected, you just chose to ignore the red flags. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JimmyFraska 09/17/21 8:43:05 AM #103:	MFBKBass5 posted... the thing is she was always the one to suggest hanging out. Like it became expected that wed see each other literally every night How many times would you tell her "No"?? You always being so available is a red flag. <cite>JimmyFraska posted [p:958138549] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>MFBKBass5 posted... </cite> <quote>the thing is she was always the one to suggest hanging out. Like it became expected that wed see each other literally every night</quote>How many times would you tell her "No"?? You always being so available is a red flag. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 09/17/21 8:43:59 AM #104:	darklink1017 posted... She cheated on you and felt guilty about it. It happens to all of us. Don't beat yourself about it. Source: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/916087-mad-stalker-full-metal-force/68286128 I have a whole catalog of the experiences I had when I had gotten cheated on by someone that I really loved at the time and dumped. The denial, the pain, moving on and finding acceptance -- it's all there. She ain't what you thought she was. Hypergamy is real. BTW I'm not an incel, am happily married now. This was 7 years ago. oh no typical red pill guru that thinks hes smart because he says every women cheats. Shocker you ha s to put that disclaimer in the bottom. --- The Legend of Zelda Breath of the Wild is the worst Zelda Game by far. <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:958138566] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>darklink1017 posted... </cite> <quote>She cheated on you and felt guilty about it. It happens to all of us. Don't beat yourself about it. Source: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/916087-mad-stalker-full-metal-force/68286128 I have a whole catalog of the experiences I had when I had gotten cheated on by someone that I really loved at the time and dumped. The denial, the pain, moving on and finding acceptance -- it's all there. She ain't what you thought she was. Hypergamy is real. BTW I'm not an incel, am happily married now. This was 7 years ago.</quote> oh no typical red pill guru that thinks hes smart because he says every women cheats. Shocker you ha s to put that disclaimer in the bottom. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrDrMan 09/17/21 8:45:24 AM #105:	JimmyFraska posted... How many times would you tell her "No"?? Gotta set those boundaries. I love my girlfriend but we hang out like two or maybe three times a week. The other four days of the week I have work and stuff Im working on personally to get ahead in my life. You can like to spend time with your girlfriend but you have to also be an individual. Otherwise when the relationship is over what do you have? Nothing. --- Pimpin aint easy Chiefs/Royals/Lakers 2015/2016 champs baby <cite>MrDrMan posted [p:958138588] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>JimmyFraska posted... </cite> <quote>How many times would you tell her "No"??</quote> Gotta set those boundaries. I love my girlfriend but we hang out like two or maybe three times a week. The other four days of the week I have work and stuff Im working on personally to get ahead in my life. You can like to spend time with your girlfriend but you have to also be an individual. Otherwise when the relationship is over what do you have? Nothing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JBaLLEN66 09/17/21 8:50:07 AM #107:	pro tip, never listen to what a woman says ever!!!! Yes she will ** and complain about you not doing this or that, whatever she says dont listen. My gf dumped me because she lost the tingles for me because I started listening to her and I stopped talking to other women. However, I was able to get her crawling back to meHow?!? 1). Do not initiate contact, if she wants you back she will. If she does, then play it cool, let her ask to get back together. Treat her like you are in the early dating phase. 2). Get a hobby, go on vacation, do something to keep you busy for the next month I cant guarantee that she will come back though, just dont blow up her phone and look desperate af. --- The Legend of Zelda Breath of the Wild is the worst Zelda Game by far. <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:958138654] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>pro tip, never listen to what a woman says ever!!!! Yes she will ** and complain about you not doing this or that, whatever she says dont listen. My gf dumped me because she lost the tingles for me because I started listening to her and I stopped talking to other women. However, I was able to get her crawling back to meHow?!? 1). Do not initiate contact, if she wants you back she will. If she does, then play it cool, let her ask to get back together. Treat her like you are in the early dating phase. 2). Get a hobby, go on vacation, do something to keep you busy for the next month I cant guarantee that she will come back though, just dont blow up her phone and look desperate af. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrDrMan 09/17/21 8:54:26 AM #108:	Woozul posted... Of? You agreeing with TC by saying This is CE while not realizing people are making these comments because of real world experience. It has nothing to with being insecure. Ive just seen this story before. Many times. I know how it ends. --- Pimpin aint easy Chiefs/Royals/Lakers 2015/2016 champs baby <cite>MrDrMan posted [p:958138732] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>Woozul posted... </cite> <quote>Of?</quote> You agreeing with TC by saying This is CE while not realizing people are making these comments because of real world experience. It has nothing to with being insecure. Ive just seen this story before. Many times. I know how it ends. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 09/17/21 8:56:34 AM #109:	Move on --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:958138765] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>Move on </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MFBKBass5 09/17/21 9:07:46 AM #110:	JimmyFraska posted... How many times would you tell her "No"?? You always being so available is a red flag. I almost never said no. I always genuinely wanted to hang out and see her. She almost never said no when I asked to hang out too. It got to the point where it was basically expected wed see each other after work. I think before this breakup, we literally spent every single night together since like, late June? The one night we didnt spend together a few weeks ago, she texted me in the middle of the night how she missed me and wanted to cuddle. She told me when she broke up with me that sometimes shed have waves of those love feelings, but mixed in with some uncertainty. So idk. It hurts, but I cant blame her for not feeling a certain way. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:958138960] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>JimmyFraska posted... </cite> <quote>How many times would you tell her "No"?? You always being so available is a red flag.</quote> I almost never said no. I always genuinely wanted to hang out and see her. She almost never said no when I asked to hang out too. It got to the point where it was basically expected wed see each other after work. I think before this breakup, we literally spent every single night together since like, late June? The one night we didnt spend together a few weeks ago, she texted me in the middle of the night how she missed me and wanted to cuddle. She told me when she broke up with me that sometimes shed have waves of those love feelings, but mixed in with some uncertainty. So idk. It hurts, but I cant blame her for not feeling a certain way. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrMallard 09/17/21 9:08:02 AM #111:	I'm sorry TC, but it's for the best that it's happening now. The longer the relationship went on, the harder it would have gotten, and it sounds like she was mindful of the situation and gave it a genuine shot. That doesn't lessen the pain, but the best thing you could hope for in this situation is care and honesty. It sounds like she considered both when breaking up with you. --- I'm gonna burn it all down today, and sweep all the ashes away Now Playing: Pokemon HeartGold, Minecraft, Oldschool Runescape <cite>MrMallard posted [p:958138968] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry TC, but it's for the best that it's happening now. The longer the relationship went on, the harder it would have gotten, and it sounds like she was mindful of the situation and gave it a genuine shot. That doesn't lessen the pain, but the best thing you could hope for in this situation is care and honesty. It sounds like she considered both when breaking up with you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MFBKBass5 09/17/21 9:11:32 AM #112:	MrMallard posted... I'm sorry TC, but it's for the best that it's happening now. The longer the relationship went on, the harder it would have gotten, and it sounds like she was mindful of the situation and gave it a genuine shot. That doesn't lessen the pain, but the best thing you could hope for in this situation is care and honesty. It sounds like she considered both when breaking up with you. I agree. I think seeing this has honestly made it a bit less painful. Still really sucks. But who knows, maybe some time to step back will help her figure out how she feels about me. Not banking on it, but always gotta remain hopeful when its with a girl I care about as much as her. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:958139024] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>MrMallard posted... </cite> <quote>I'm sorry TC, but it's for the best that it's happening now. The longer the relationship went on, the harder it would have gotten, and it sounds like she was mindful of the situation and gave it a genuine shot. That doesn't lessen the pain, but the best thing you could hope for in this situation is care and honesty. It sounds like she considered both when breaking up with you.</quote> I agree. I think seeing this has honestly made it a bit less painful. Still really sucks. But who knows, maybe some time to step back will help her figure out how she feels about me. Not banking on it, but always gotta remain hopeful when its with a girl I care about as much as her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JimmyFraska 09/17/21 9:45:51 AM #113:	MFBKBass5 posted... I almost never said no. I always genuinely wanted to hang out and see her. She almost never said no when I asked to hang out too. It got to the point where it was basically expected wed see each other after work. I think before this breakup, we literally spent every single night together since like, late June? The one night we didnt spend together a few weeks ago, she texted me in the middle of the night how she missed me and wanted to cuddle. She told me when she broke up with me that sometimes shed have waves of those love feelings, but mixed in with some uncertainty. So idk. It hurts, but I cant blame her for not feeling a certain way. Well, I didn't say so before, so I will offer my condolences. This situation always feels shitty. But yeah, distance and space and time is good for a relationship. When covid started, my gf and I took a few weeks from seeing each other to be safe. It was actually really good for our relationship <cite>JimmyFraska posted [p:958139679] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>MFBKBass5 posted... </cite> <quote>I almost never said no. I always genuinely wanted to hang out and see her. She almost never said no when I asked to hang out too. It got to the point where it was basically expected wed see each other after work. I think before this breakup, we literally spent every single night together since like, late June? The one night we didnt spend together a few weeks ago, she texted me in the middle of the night how she missed me and wanted to cuddle. She told me when she broke up with me that sometimes shed have waves of those love feelings, but mixed in with some uncertainty. So idk. It hurts, but I cant blame her for not feeling a certain way.</quote>Well, I didn't say so before, so I will offer my condolences. This situation always feels shitty. But yeah, distance and space and time is good for a relationship. When covid started, my gf and I took a few weeks from seeing each other to be safe. It was actually really good for our relationship </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MFBKBass5 09/17/21 9:52:32 AM #114:	JimmyFraska posted... Well, I didn't say so before, so I will offer my condolences. This situation always feels shitty. But yeah, distance and space and time is good for a relationship. When covid started, my gf and I took a few weeks from seeing each other to be safe. It was actually really good for our relationship Thanks man, I appreciate it. We were basically living together. I asked her yesterday if this breakup has been hard on her, and this was her response- Yeah, but Im also a bit relieved TBH. I know it was the right thing for me to do. So yeah, Ive accepted this breakup. Hurt to hear, but I get it. Gotta give her credit for being honest with me. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:958139812] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>JimmyFraska posted... </cite> <quote>Well, I didn't say so before, so I will offer my condolences. This situation always feels shitty. But yeah, distance and space and time is good for a relationship. When covid started, my gf and I took a few weeks from seeing each other to be safe. It was actually really good for our relationship</quote> Thanks man, I appreciate it. We were basically living together. I asked her yesterday if this breakup has been hard on her, and this was her response- Yeah, but Im also a bit relieved TBH. I know it was the right thing for me to do. So yeah, Ive accepted this breakup. Hurt to hear, but I get it. Gotta give her credit for being honest with me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lordofmud 09/17/21 9:53:15 AM #115:	DM me if you want me to pay her a visit. --- I know, indeed, the evil of that I purpose; but my inclination gets the better of my judgment. - Euripides <cite>lordofmud posted [p:958139825] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>DM me if you want me to pay her a visit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JimmyFraska 09/17/21 10:33:09 AM #116:	MFBKBass5 posted... Thanks man, I appreciate it. We were basically living together. I asked her yesterday if this breakup has been hard on her, and this was her response- Yeah, but Im also a bit relieved TBH. I know it was the right thing for me to do. So yeah, Ive accepted this breakup. Hurt to hear, but I get it. Gotta give her credit for being honest with me. Honestly such a straight answer for her is a good thing for both of you, so yeah props. You were able to get her, so you know you've got something. Don't worry too much, get back out and have some fun <cite>JimmyFraska posted [p:958140630] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>MFBKBass5 posted... </cite> <quote>Thanks man, I appreciate it. We were basically living together. I asked her yesterday if this breakup has been hard on her, and this was her response- Yeah, but Im also a bit relieved TBH. I know it was the right thing for me to do. So yeah, Ive accepted this breakup. Hurt to hear, but I get it. Gotta give her credit for being honest with me.</quote>Honestly such a straight answer for her is a good thing for both of you, so yeah props. You were able to get her, so you know you've got something. Don't worry too much, get back out and have some fun </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MFBKBass5 09/17/21 12:18:10 PM #118:	metallica846 posted... I know man. It hurts, but its what I needed to hear, which is why I asked. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:958143173] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>metallica846 posted... </cite> <quote></quote> I know man. It hurts, but its what I needed to hear, which is why I asked. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MFBKBass5 09/17/21 1:15:21 PM #120:	metallica846 posted... Hopefully that was the sentence you needed to hear so you can cut contact amicably. Going silent doesnt mean youre angry, but it does show her that her actions have consequences and being friends right now just isnt an option. Yeah I dont believe every breakup needs to cut contact. I dont plan on it, unless she wants me to. But we still wanna be friends. Theres a connection there between us, just maybe not a romantic one anymore. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:958144757] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>metallica846 posted... </cite> <quote>Hopefully that was the sentence you needed to hear so you can cut contact amicably. Going silent doesnt mean youre angry, but it does show her that her actions have consequences and being friends right now just isnt an option.</quote> Yeah I dont believe every breakup needs to cut contact. I dont plan on it, unless she wants me to. But we still wanna be friends. Theres a connection there between us, just maybe not a romantic one anymore. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JimmyFraska 09/17/21 2:12:34 PM #121:	There's something you should be prepared for, which is that, if you start not showing as much interest, and look like you're doing well otherwise in your life, she will contact you in a romantic way. I'd give it a 50% chance of happening. If she does that, there's like a 90% chance she'll just break it off again, just so she can end it with the upper hand (which in the actual situation she has right now). It;s not even something she'd consciously do, but it's just what people do. So just be ready for this <cite>JimmyFraska posted [p:958146271] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>There's something you should be prepared for, which is that, if you start not showing as much interest, and look like you're doing well otherwise in your life, she will contact you in a romantic way. I'd give it a 50% chance of happening. If she does that, there's like a 90% chance she'll just break it off again, just so she can end it with the upper hand (which in the actual situation she has right now). It;s not even something she'd consciously do, but it's just what people do. So just be ready for this </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MFBKBass5 09/17/21 5:37:50 PM #122:	I took a big step to moving on just now. I just redownloaded Hinge and Bumble :/ --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:958152267] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>I took a big step to moving on just now. I just redownloaded Hinge and Bumble :/ </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MFBKBass5 09/18/21 4:45:22 PM #123:	Welp, saw her this morning. Was really awkward and I didnt know how to act around her. We went shopping for plants for a bit before she had to go. It felt over. I concede. Yall are right. I need space from her. Luckily, shell be gone until October 3rd now. Gonna try and not text her much while shes out of the country, either. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:958179412] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>Welp, saw her this morning. Was really awkward and I didnt know how to act around her. We went shopping for plants for a bit before she had to go. It felt over. I concede. Yall are right. I need space from her. Luckily, shell be gone until October 3rd now. Gonna try and not text her much while shes out of the country, either. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Swagger_Dagger 09/18/21 5:59:38 PM #124:	MFBKBass5 posted... Welp, saw her this morning. Was really awkward and I didnt know how to act around her. We went shopping for plants for a bit before she had to go. Literally her gay best friend now. Nothing wrong with that. --- https://imgur.com/f4hfI <cite>Swagger_Dagger posted [p:958181362] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>MFBKBass5 posted... </cite> <quote>Welp, saw her this morning. Was really awkward and I didnt know how to act around her. We went shopping for plants for a bit before she had to go.</quote>Literally her gay best friend now. Nothing wrong with that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MFBKBass5 09/18/21 6:21:34 PM #126:	metallica846 posted... He probably didnt hold her purse. Oh and TC you said try and not text her much. Dont text her at all. As far as youre concerned she should be a ghost. Im not going to ignore her if she wants to talk or text. Care about her too much to just disappear. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:958181944] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>metallica846 posted... </cite> <quote>He probably didnt hold her purse. Oh and TC you said try and not text her much. Dont text her at all. As far as youre concerned she should be a ghost.</quote> Im not going to ignore her if she wants to talk or text. Care about her too much to just disappear. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MFBKBass5 09/18/21 8:01:19 PM #129:	Woozul posted... Contrary to popular belief there's nothing wrong with caring about another person Yeah, and she hasnt done anything wrong or spiteful. So ignoring her would be silly. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:958184380] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>Woozul posted... </cite> <quote>Contrary to popular belief there's nothing wrong with caring about another person</quote> Yeah, and she hasnt done anything wrong or spiteful. So ignoring her would be silly. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AgentCoulson 09/19/21 12:55:19 AM #130:	darklink1017 posted... She cheated on you and felt guilty about it. It happens to all of us. Don't beat yourself about it. Source: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/916087-mad-stalker-full-metal-force/68286128 I have a whole catalog of the experiences I had when I had gotten cheated on by someone that I really loved at the time and dumped. The denial, the pain, moving on and finding acceptance -- it's all there. She ain't what you thought she was. Hypergamy is real. BTW I'm not an incel, am happily married now. This was 7 years ago. Holy hell, that was...that was quite a read. Good that you're happy and even married now though. --- I haven't set a signature for the message boards yet <cite>AgentCoulson posted [p:958191001] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>darklink1017 posted... </cite> <quote>She cheated on you and felt guilty about it. It happens to all of us. Don't beat yourself about it. Source: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/916087-mad-stalker-full-metal-force/68286128 I have a whole catalog of the experiences I had when I had gotten cheated on by someone that I really loved at the time and dumped. The denial, the pain, moving on and finding acceptance -- it's all there. She ain't what you thought she was. Hypergamy is real. BTW I'm not an incel, am happily married now. This was 7 years ago.</quote> Holy hell, that was...that was quite a read. Good that you're happy and even married now though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 09/19/21 1:23:37 AM #131:	Tc post pics --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:958191585] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>Tc post pics </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheoryzC 09/19/21 1:34:30 AM #132:	You ever watched (500) Days of Summer, TC? --- This is where my sigs suppose to be. <cite>TheoryzC posted [p:958191831] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>You ever watched (500) Days of Summer, TC? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MFBKBass5 09/19/21 4:48:16 AM #133:	TheoryzC posted... You ever watched (500) Days of Summer, TC? Yes that used to be one of my favorite movies actually. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:958194545] in Welp, my g... [t:79662686]...</cite> <quote>TheoryzC posted... </cite> <quote>You ever watched (500) Days of Summer, TC?</quote> Yes that used to be one of my favorite movies actually. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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