Current Events > Welp, my girlfriend broke up with me last night

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MrResetti
09/15/21 6:47:28 PM
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But I was full of shit for saying the threesome idea was the beginning of the end.

Hahaha

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MFBKBass5
09/15/21 7:10:27 PM
#53:


Probably not gonna cancel the climbing session. Thats just a workout, nothing more. Plus we both enjoy it a ton. And usually go 3x a week, and have memberships to the same gym. Might as well go together.

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Perascamin
09/15/21 7:48:25 PM
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Spending all of your free time together is bound to create attachment issues. It's okay to feel bonded and attached with your partner, but when it comes to the point where you/they are everything to each other it can become a problem.

Sorry it happened like this, TC. You will be better off, at least she didn't string you along any longer.

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MFBKBass5
09/15/21 7:56:45 PM
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Perascamin posted...
Spending all of your free time together is bound to create attachment issues. It's okay to feel bonded and attached with your partner, but when it comes to the point where you/they are everything to each other it can become a problem.

Sorry it happened like this, TC. You will be better off, at least she didn't string you along any longer.

the thing is she was always the one to suggest hanging out. Like it became expected that wed see each other literally every night


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Perascamin
09/15/21 8:13:55 PM
#60:


Women don't want you if you're always available.

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Teh_Dr_Phil
09/15/21 9:20:29 PM
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DespondentDeity posted...
jeffs also never been in a real loving relationship tho, by his own admission
Nothing said in post 45 requires that. Hes 1000% right.

MFBKBass5 posted...
Probably not gonna cancel the climbing session.
Your choice, but save CE the trouble and dont make a topic a couple days later about your feelings following this ill-advised decision at least.

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MFBKBass5
09/15/21 9:21:46 PM
#62:


Perascamin posted...
Women don't want you if you're always available.

sounds like a very broad generalization

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MrDrMan
09/15/21 9:26:04 PM
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TC best thing you can do for yourself and possibly rekindling the relationship ever in the future is cut contact.

Shes made a choice, youve seemingly accepted said choice, now stick to it. Do not chase this woman.

Live your life and focus on yourself and it will work itself out I guarantee. Do not allow her to just walk back into your life so easily.

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One_Day_Remains
09/15/21 9:27:07 PM
#64:


It's gonna hurt worse for you if you go on that climbing session. You're not going to be able to treat that casually
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rexcrk
09/15/21 9:54:18 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Said she was hoping shed feel more towards me in terms of love, but that it just wasnt developing and she felt guilty staying with me.
So she met a Chad.

Sorry, dude.

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MFBKBass5
09/16/21 8:28:07 PM
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One_Day_Remains posted...
It's gonna hurt worse for you if you go on that climbing session. You're not going to be able to treat that casually


she cancelled for tonight, but were going Saturday now. And I dont know what treat it casually even means hah

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MFBKBass5
09/16/21 8:34:36 PM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
This wont end well

when does it ever tho?

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JimmyFraska
09/16/21 8:36:46 PM
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Spent all time with each other

Screwed all the time

7 months in

Yeah you rushed it. Gotta play it cool
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MFBKBass5
09/16/21 8:39:50 PM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
As long as you know the road youre headed down. Doesnt seem like youll listen to what most of us are saying. Just keep expectations low man and dont talk about the breakup


yeah just gonna enjoy hanging out and being around her. Not gonna talk about the breakup.

gonna give her space, and just try to have fun with her. Shes leaving the country for 10 days on Sunday, which will help me a ton.

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One_Day_Remains
09/16/21 8:42:53 PM
#72:


MFBKBass5 posted...


she cancelled for tonight, but were going Saturday now. And I dont know what treat it casually even means hah


Meaning you won't catch feelings
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darklink1017
09/16/21 8:45:00 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
7 months into it, kinda out of the blue. Hurts man.

She cheated on you and felt guilty about it.

It happens to all of us. Don't beat yourself about it.

Source: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/916087-mad-stalker-full-metal-force/68286128

I have a whole catalog of the experiences I had when I had gotten cheated on by someone that I really loved at the time and dumped. The denial, the pain, moving on and finding acceptance -- it's all there. She ain't what you thought she was. Hypergamy is real.

BTW I'm not an incel, am happily married now. This was 7 years ago.

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darklink1017
09/16/21 8:48:39 PM
#76:


jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Dont listen to this guy.

I am the de facto source on getting dumped and cheated on. I'm not afraid to admit it.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/916087-mad-stalker-full-metal-force/68286128

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sabrestorm
09/16/21 8:50:41 PM
#77:


It the worst kind of hurt imo, sorry it happened to you

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MrDrMan
09/16/21 8:52:36 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
yeah just gonna enjoy hanging out and being around her. Not gonna talk about the breakup.

gonna give her space, and just try to have fun with her. Shes leaving the country for 10 days on Sunday, which will help me a ton.

Bro stop. Youre letting this woman believe she can have access to you whenever she wants. Thats not attractive. People of value dont do that. If you value yourself you wont.

Cut ties.


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darklink1017
09/16/21 8:55:36 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
yeah just gonna enjoy hanging out and being around her. Not gonna talk about the breakup.

gonna give her space, and just try to have fun with her. Shes leaving the country for 10 days on Sunday, which will help me a ton.

Lol. You're going to make the same mistake I made 7 years ago trying when my ex and I were trying to be friends after being in an intimate relationship and she had dumped me:

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/916087-mad-stalker/61095288

This post echos literally what you're saying now. Check the advice on the other posts that I didn't listen to.

Don't waste a second more on thinking about her or spending your precious time on her. Cut all ties if you care about your mental health.

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MFBKBass5
09/16/21 8:59:21 PM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
I do have to ask you though. And this is more for you, than it is for me. What do you want from her? Cause just know you wont be getting her back by continuing to hang. Will only help her move on quicker to another guy and make you move on slower. We know you dont want friendship with her

Id honestly rather at least just be friends than have her disappear entirely. I care about her a ton, and shes opened my mind towards so much in life that I didnt see before I met her.


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MrDrMan
09/16/21 9:01:38 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Id honestly rather at least just be friends than have her disappear entirely. I care about her a ton, and shes opened my mind towards so much in life that I didnt see before I met her.

Gonna have to learn the hard way I suppose. This wont end well. You can either endure the pain now for a short time or you can endure it over a longer time by continuing to entertain it.

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darklink1017
09/16/21 9:02:09 PM
#82:


MFBKBass5 posted...
Id honestly rather at least just be friends than have her disappear entirely. I care about her a ton, and shes opened my mind towards so much in life that I didnt see before I met her.

Good lord OP. God have mercy on your soul for the amount of pain you're going to put yourself through and the colossol amount of mental health trauma you're going to face. Good luck.

Learn from other people's mistakes and be wise, or face the same bullshit that a lot of other men have put themselves through. You can't be friends with a chick you loved.

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MrDrMan
09/16/21 9:03:56 PM
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darklink1017 posted...
Good lord OP. God have mercy on your soul for the amount of pain you're going to put yourself through and the colossol amount of mental health trauma you're going to face. Good luck.

Learn from other people's mistakes and be wise, or face the same bullshit that a lot of other men have put themselves through. You can't be friends with a chick you loved.

Listen please TC. I was with a chick off and on for five years knowing it was over years prior. I wasted a lot of time and spent a lot of time miserable trying to make it work when I knew it wouldnt.

Do not make the same mistake. That was the worst time of my life. I spent my early 20s, some of the best years, wasting time with someone who I knew I wouldnt end up with.

Towards the end I met my current girlfriend and Im much happier. My ex has a kid with another dude now and I couldnt care less. Imagine how painful it will be to see her with someone else. If you are friends with her thats what youre setting yourself up for.

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darklink1017
09/16/21 9:07:32 PM
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MrDrMan posted...
Do not make the same mistake. That was the worst time of my life. I spent my early 20s, some of the best years, wasting time with someone who I knew I wouldnt end up with.

Same. Wasted my twenties pining for an ex girlfriend whom I loved who was getting railed on by richer men. I would do anything to go back and punch myself for not moving on quicker. Ripping the bandaid off and cutting contact was the first step towards recovery.

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smoke_break
09/16/21 9:07:39 PM
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MrDrMan
09/16/21 9:09:58 PM
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darklink1017 posted...
Same. Wasted my twenties pining for an ex girlfriend whom I loved who was getting railed on by richer men. I would do anything to go back and punch myself for not moving on quicker. Ripping the bandaid off and cutting contact was the first step towards recovery.

Its hard to cut contact in the moment I get it. A lot of feelings involved.

I hate to see TC learn the hard way but he seems like his mind is set. Theres no way this will end well. You cant break up with someone and just instantly go to being friends like theres no feelings there.

Its not realistic.

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Swagger_Dagger
09/16/21 9:11:46 PM
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So basically, everyone is waiting for TC to report back that his ex is now dealing with Chad while he sits in the friend zone waiting in line for sloppy seconds, thirds, or maybe even fourths.

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MrDrMan
09/16/21 9:13:04 PM
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Swagger_Dagger posted...
So basically, everyone is waiting for TC to report back that his ex is now dealing with Chad while he sits in the friend zone waiting in line for sloppy seconds, thirds, or maybe even fourths.

Im sick even thinking about it. Hes saying she has high sex drive like thats gonna go away just because they broke up.

She is 100% getting plowed within 30 days or less.

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Swagger_Dagger
09/16/21 9:16:20 PM
#92:


MrDrMan posted...
Im sick even thinking about it. Hes saying she has high sex drive like thats gonna go away just because they broke up.

She is 100% getting plowed within 30 days or less.
TC doesnt want to hear this, but his ex WILL ride the cock carousel soon. There were guys in her DMs the minute they found out she dumped you.

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ROOTFayth
09/16/21 9:26:56 PM
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better for TC to learn the hard way, no pain no gain
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MFBKBass5
09/16/21 9:30:25 PM
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Jesus a lot of yall really are showcasing your highly insecure side.

I dont care if she bangs other dudes if were not in a relationship. I dont own her, shes free to do whatever she wants.

Ill probably be fucking some other chick this weekend, honestly.

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MFBKBass5
09/16/21 9:55:23 PM
#98:


jeffhardyb0yz posted...
And you dont address the thought of your ex banging someone else with the idea that youll also be banging. The 2 should be completely independent of each other.


I just dont care. While we were casually dating she was seeing other guys before we became officially in a relationship.

Humans have sex. Not a big deal.

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MrDrMan
09/17/21 8:40:01 AM
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Woozul posted...
This is CE

The irony.

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