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ShineboxPhil
08/10/21 9:50:56 PM
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QueenCarly
08/10/21 9:51:55 PM
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Please close this topic. Nothing good is going to come from it.

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Lairen
08/10/21 9:52:52 PM
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They should say....

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Cheater87
08/10/21 9:52:53 PM
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Yes, in response to her question, I think that is something that should be told.

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Vicious_Dios
08/10/21 9:53:16 PM
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Forcing unwanted oral on someone as a comeback instead of addresing the real issue here. Classy.

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UnfairRepresent
08/12/21 9:02:26 AM
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Yeah you really should say

If millions of people thought dating someone who wears orange underpants was deeply offensive to them , then thats stupid but you're a douche if you wear orange underwear and dont tell them

just be open and honest, if homeboy cant respect you after you were honest with him then the relationship was doomed anyway

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mooreandrew58
08/12/21 9:03:36 AM
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Even if just for their own damn safety I feel they need to be upfront with this info.

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Doe
08/12/21 9:04:40 AM
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TommyG663513
08/12/21 9:06:06 AM
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Why would a woman have to let someone else know that they are a woman?

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CyricZ
08/12/21 9:06:19 AM
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lol I don't have an Insta account.

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BlockAddition
08/12/21 9:11:02 AM
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TommyG663513 posted...
Why would a woman have to let someone else know that they are a woman?


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gunplagirl
08/12/21 9:14:22 AM
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Nobody try and tag me in this, I want nothing to do with it because instagram bullshit is stuff I don't care about.

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DepreceV2
08/12/21 9:15:14 AM
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Tag

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Were_Wyrm
08/12/21 9:16:17 AM
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I read that as texas woman and was wondering what the problem was, I'd be pissed if I kissed a woman and found out she was a texan.

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eston
08/12/21 9:16:46 AM
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A guy I know thought he was about to have a threesome and then suddenly realized there were three penises in the room

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justaguy3492
08/12/21 9:21:01 AM
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No one imply that this women deserves violence against her and no one bring up anyone's dead gf and we should be good here.

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Shablagoo
08/12/21 9:25:43 AM
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Do dudes really care about this stuff? I had sex with a trans woman before finding out she was trans, didnt bother me in the slightest. I was attracted to her. Makes me think youre an insecure little small weiner angry baby if this is something that would upset you.

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Choco
08/12/21 9:27:52 AM
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i have never heard a single good rational argument for why this needs to be disclosed

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pinky0926
08/12/21 9:29:49 AM
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Damn she hot tho

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JetJenkins
08/12/21 9:32:59 AM
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Lmfao

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CommonStar
08/12/21 9:33:20 AM
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Really dumb of her to post it online. Like this is how people die.

In general, most people are transphobic and when you add deception to that, it increases the chances of them doing something shitty.

There are so many stories like this where it does not end so well. Not to mention how posting that only supports the transphobes that think trans people only want to trick them.

Be upfront, or at the very least don't post it online where they can easily find you.
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Lairen
08/12/21 9:33:57 AM
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Choco posted...
i have never heard a single good rational argument for why this needs to be disclosed

I would like to have children with you.

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Choco
08/12/21 9:35:27 AM
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Lairen posted...
I would like to have children with you.
do you expect women who can't have kids to disclose that before you kiss or have sex for the first time? @Lairen

i want a good rational argument not some weak pathetic excuse

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UnfairRepresent
08/12/21 9:36:58 AM
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TommyG663513 posted...
Why would a woman have to let someone else know that they are a woman?
Because they were born into a biologically male body and that bothers/offends millions of people

Regardless of whether or not it should, the fact it does can't be ignored. You really should disclose it or else you might really hurting someone's feelings. Its just basic courtesy

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Lairen
08/12/21 9:38:25 AM
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Choco posted...
do you expect women who can't have kids to disclose that before you kiss or have sex for the first time? @Lairen

i want a good rational argument not some weak pathetic excuse

So when do you disclose it? Yall are kissing now. Now? Before sex? During? After? Next month? Year?

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Choco
08/12/21 9:38:46 AM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Because they were born into a biologically male body and that bothers/offends millions of people

Regardless of whether or not it should, the fact it does can't be ignored. You really should disclose it or else you might really hurting someone's feelings.
should i disclose my bisexuality to everyone i kiss just because millions of pathetic idiots out there would hate me for it

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Choco
08/12/21 9:39:58 AM
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Lairen posted...
blah blah
i asked you a fucking question and you can't seem to answer.

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Lairen
08/12/21 9:40:15 AM
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Choco posted...
should i disclose my bisexuality to everyone i kiss just because millions of pathetic idiots out there would hate me for it

To the person youre kissing? Sure. I disclose as much as a girl wants before i kiss them.

I guess kissing doesnt mean anything now. During a pandemic.

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Lairen
08/12/21 9:40:52 AM
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Choco posted...
i asked you a fucking question and you can't seem to answer.

And you avoided mine so. Here we are.

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Choco
08/12/21 9:41:10 AM
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Lairen posted...
To the person youre kissing? Sure. I disclose as much as a girl wants before i kiss them.
"as much as a girl wants" and how would you know unless they ask genius

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Choco
08/12/21 9:41:35 AM
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Lairen posted...
And you avoided mine so. Here we are.

Choco posted...
do you expect women who can't have kids to disclose that before you kiss or have sex for the first time? @Lairen

i want a good rational argument not some weak pathetic excuse


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CyricZ
08/12/21 9:42:34 AM
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Well sense would suggest that once the relationship starts getting serious and the couple establishing what they want for their future would be an opportune time.

Like if you're good with telling someone "hey, I want kids so don't date me if you don't/can't" on the first date, you do you. Similarly, if you're flirting with someone and want to ask "by the way are you trans", then that's an option open to you too. Just don't expect your partner to assume that'd be a dealbreaker for you without any indication of your own desires.

Lairen posted...
I disclose as much as a girl wants before i kiss them.
Right. She asks you, and then you answer. She's not expecting you to offer the information unbidden.

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Lairen
08/12/21 9:42:54 AM
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Choco posted...
"as much as a girl wants" and how would you know unless they ask genius

I go on a date and have conversations and a good evening before kissing them.

I only disclose that information online on a public video game sites social board, not people i kiss.

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UnfairRepresent
08/12/21 9:48:26 AM
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Choco posted...
should i disclose my bisexuality to everyone i kiss just because millions of pathetic idiots out there would hate me for it
Yeah probably.

If someone is going to hate you for who you are, its probably better to know from the start than before you fuck or kiss them .

I think you're conflating "should " as in a hypothetical ethical right thing to do and "should " as in unfortunately pragmatically a good idea

You should lock your front door for example, even though there is no ethical reason to do so, but its still a rational pragmatic thing to do because assholes exist

You may have just made them violate their religious beliefs


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Choco
08/12/21 9:52:42 AM
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I want y'all other CE shitposters to pay attention to how Lairen is framing this shit.

First he brings up "hurr durr can't have children", I ask him if he would apply the same standards to cis women who can't have kids as he does to trans women. He refuses to answer and asks me nonsensical idiot questions, so he can't go "lol u ignored my questions too" when I repeat that I would like him to answer what I originally asked him.

Then he goes "To the person youre kissing? Sure. I disclose as much as a girl wants before i kiss them." which obviously implies the other person specifically asking him what they want to know. For some reason, this particular shitposter really really wants y'all to think that trans/bi people are straight-up liars if they don't randomly go out of their way to mention that they're trans/bi.

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Choco
08/12/21 9:53:40 AM
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Lairen posted...
I go on a date and have conversations and a good evening before kissing them.

I only disclose that information online on a public video game sites social board, not people i kiss.
and you go "please list everything i have to disclose before kissing you"? and if they don't randomly think of transsexuality you'd still find a way to blame trans people?

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Choco
08/12/21 9:55:09 AM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Yeah probably.

If someone is going to hate you for who you are, its probably better to know from the start than before you fuck or kiss them .

I think you're conflating "should " as in a hypothetical ethical right thing to do and "should " as in unfortunately pragmatically a good idea

You should lock your front door for example, even though there is no ethical reason to do so, but its still a rational pragmatic thing to do because assholes exist

You may have just made them violate their religious beliefs
What more should I randomly bring up? Whether I have Jewish ancestry?

I don't date people who seem to be pathetic worthless pieces of shit so why is it my duty to think of things I have to disclose?

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UnfairRepresent
08/12/21 9:57:08 AM
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Choco posted...
wants y'all to think that trans/bi people are straight-up liars if they don't randomly go out of their way to mention that they're trans/bi.

They're not liars but they know the person might really care about it and still refuse to disclose it.

That is dishonest

If I lived in a society where millions people were idiots about guys who had birthmarks and I had a birthmark, I'd disclose it even though its stupid

Either they won't care or we were never going to work out to begin with .

I wouldn't fuck them first and then tell them after. Thats potentially very hurtful. Even if its hurtful because they are very stupid

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UnfairRepresent
08/12/21 9:58:39 AM
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Choco posted...
What more should I randomly bring up? Whether I have Jewish ancestry?

I don't date people who seem to be pathetic worthless pieces of shit so why is it my duty to think of things I have to disclose? Why isn't it their duty to disclose that they hate bi people?
If my date was homophobic I'd absolutely want them to disclose it before we fucked

that's an absolute deal breaker for me and If we've become attached it would hurt my feelings

I'm with you morally here but dark reality and a hypothetical perfect fantasy arent the same

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bobaban
08/12/21 9:58:52 AM
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TommyG663513 posted...
Why would a woman have to let someone else know that they are a woman?

A woman should not have a penis
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Choco
08/12/21 9:59:20 AM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
They're not liars but they know the person might really care about it and still refuse to disclose it.
Choco posted...
I don't date people who seem to be pathetic worthless pieces of shit so why is it my duty to think of things I have to disclose?


UnfairRepresent posted...
That is dishonest
why isn't it dishonest that people don't randomly disclose their trans-/biphobia? i can't possibly guess people's weird issues so maybe it's on them to tell me?

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Choco
08/12/21 10:01:05 AM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
If my date was homophobic I'd absolutely want them to disclose it before we fucked

that's an absolute deal breaker for me and If we've become attached it would hurt my feelings
and yet it's on me to randomly mention that i'm bi just because some boomers and some islamists would hate me for it?

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Turbam
08/12/21 10:01:12 AM
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mooreandrew58 posted...
Even if just for their own damn safety I feel they need to be upfront with this info.
Honestly this


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UnfairRepresent
08/12/21 10:01:47 AM
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Choco posted...
why isn't it dishonest that people don't randomly disclose their trans-/biphobia? i can't possibly guess people's weird issues so maybe it's on them to tell me?
Exactly

You can't know for sure whether it bothers them but you do know for sure that it bothers hundreds of millions of people

So just tell them. Just in case

Either they won't care or you were never going to work out to begin with .

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Choco
08/12/21 10:01:53 AM
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if someone voted for obama is that something they have to disclose? i'm sure lots of people would hate them for that

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Turbam
08/12/21 10:03:32 AM
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Choco posted...
if someone voted for obama is that something they have to disclose? i'm sure lots of people would hate them for that
Depending on what part of the country you live in, yeah unfortunately

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MutantJohn
08/12/21 10:04:13 AM
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A trans person shouldn't have to lie about being trans to "trick" cis people into banging them.

Just be honest and open. It's not that hard.

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bnui_ransder
08/12/21 10:04:58 AM
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It all comes down to the fact that there are crazy people out there that resort to violent measures over stuff like this and I always worry in the end. People are stupid.

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