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CyricZ 07/08/21 8:47:27 AM #1:	Woman: "So what are you looking for in a relationship" Me: "I'm really just looking for a companion" Woman: "Yeah, but apart from that" Me: "..." --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:955866790] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Woman: "So what are you looking for in a relationship" Me: "I'm really just looking for a companion" Woman: "Yeah, but apart from that" Me: "..." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
COVxy 07/08/21 8:56:43 AM #2:	Not sure she was being unreasonable there... --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] <cite>COVxy posted [p:955866945] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Not sure she was being unreasonable there... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeadBankerDream 07/08/21 8:58:42 AM #3:	Sounds like an extremely reasonable followup question. She's asking for specifics to see if you're compatible with her own desires for a romantic future. --- "That thick shaft that causes women to shudder!" <cite>DeadBankerDream posted [p:955866986] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like an extremely reasonable followup question. She's asking for specifics to see if you're compatible with her own desires for a romantic future. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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PC-Builder_Pony 07/08/21 9:03:41 AM #5:	Feet --- Mac Book Pro 16 - 6-Core i7-9750H @ 2.60GHz - 32gb DDR4 2667 MHz - Radeon Pro 5500M 8gb - 2TB Apple SSD <cite>PC-Builder_Pony posted [p:955867097] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Feet </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
R1masher 07/08/21 9:05:06 AM #6:	That womans name, Alberta Einstein --- R1R1R1R1R1R1 <cite>R1masher posted [p:955867123] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>That womans name, Alberta Einstein </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 07/08/21 9:07:30 AM #7:	Well that's just it. I'm not sure there is an issue with what she's asking. And I'm not sure I have an answer. Do I need one? DeadBankerDream posted... She's asking for specifics to see if you're compatible with her own desires for a romantic future. Examples? --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:955867183] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Well that's just it. I'm not sure there is an issue with what she's asking. And I'm not sure I have an answer. Do I need one? DeadBankerDream posted... </cite> <quote>She's asking for specifics to see if you're compatible with her own desires for a romantic future.</quote>Examples? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
COVxy 07/08/21 9:08:54 AM #8:	Yeah, you should have an idea of what type of partner you would like. I mean, if you're new to dating, it's whatever. But if you've been dating around you should be doing self reflection. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] <cite>COVxy posted [p:955867217] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Yeah, you should have an idea of what type of partner you would like. I mean, if you're new to dating, it's whatever. But if you've been dating around you should be doing self reflection. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeadBankerDream 07/08/21 9:09:53 AM #9:	What you mean examples? --- "That thick shaft that causes women to shudder!" <cite>DeadBankerDream posted [p:955867238] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>What you mean examples? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Feline_Heart 07/08/21 9:10:40 AM #10:	She was expecting you to say big titties and great sex --- Pickles the Drummer, doodily doo, dingdong doodlily doodily doo <cite>Feline_Heart posted [p:955867251] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>She was expecting you to say big titties and great sex </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 07/08/21 9:10:42 AM #11:	She want some of that smoked ham! <cite>Cocytus posted [p:955867252] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>She want some of that smoked ham! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tremain07 07/08/21 9:12:52 AM #12:	like what type of companion, their looks, their interests, their hobbies, their goals, personality, stuff like that, you know. --- A worthless existence <cite>tremain07 posted [p:955867302] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>like what type of companion, their looks, their interests, their hobbies, their goals, personality, stuff like that, you know. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 07/08/21 9:13:44 AM #13:	COVxy posted... Yeah, you should have an idea of what type of partner you would like. Like in a legal sense? Should I just say "I'm looking for a forever" and have that be it? I mean, if you're new to dating, it's whatever. But if you've been dating around you should be doing self reflection. I mean yeah, I get the idea of "anything that moves" is probably a turn-off. My dating experiences can be counted on one hand. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:955867322] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>COVxy posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah, you should have an idea of what type of partner you would like.</quote>Like in a legal sense? Should I just say "I'm looking for a forever" and have that be it? <quote>I mean, if you're new to dating, it's whatever. But if you've been dating around you should be doing self reflection.</quote>I mean yeah, I get the idea of "anything that moves" is probably a turn-off. My dating experiences can be counted on one hand. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sktgamer_13dude 07/08/21 9:14:05 AM #14:	Probably level of commitment, what you like in an ideal partner, how serious you want to be, etc. Like are you looking for love or are you just looking for someone that you guys can file for taxes jointly and get more money back or whatever. --- https://imgur.com/jWVrg9U https://imgur.com/g2efUtT https://imgur.com/5dOwhaP https://imgur.com/LVdqu8J Go Cougs and M's RIP SMV 2/25/21 <cite>sktgamer_13dude posted [p:955867328] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Probably level of commitment, what you like in an ideal partner, how serious you want to be, etc. Like are you looking for love or are you just looking for someone that you guys can file for taxes jointly and get more money back or whatever.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 07/08/21 9:14:34 AM #15:	CyricZ posted... Like in a legal sense? Should I just say "I'm looking for a forever" and have that be it? Ohhhh, romantic. <cite>Cocytus posted [p:955867333] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>CyricZ posted... </cite> <quote>Like in a legal sense? Should I just say "I'm looking for a forever" and have that be it?</quote>Ohhhh, romantic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigblu89 07/08/21 9:15:00 AM #16:	Your answer was basically the equivalent to walking into the restaurant and when the waiter comes over you say "I would like one plate of food please". --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:955867347] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Your answer was basically the equivalent to walking into the restaurant and when the waiter comes over you say "I would like one plate of food please". </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 07/08/21 9:15:46 AM #17:	bigblu89 posted... Your answer was basically the equivalent to walking into the restaurant and when the waiter comes over you say "I would like one plate of food please". You think that waiter wouldn't sell that plate of food? <cite>Cocytus posted [p:955867369] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>bigblu89 posted... </cite> <quote>Your answer was basically the equivalent to walking into the restaurant and when the waiter comes over you say "I would like one plate of food please".</quote>You think that waiter wouldn't sell that plate of food? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eston 07/08/21 9:15:51 AM #18:	CyricZ posted... Like in a legal sense? Should I just say "I'm looking for a forever" and have that be it? Bro you sound like you're trying to adopt a dog --- http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i215/estonc/grizzly_bear_chairs_2.jpg https://imgur.com/8kjZU <cite>eston posted [p:955867370] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>CyricZ posted... </cite> <quote>Like in a legal sense? Should I just say "I'm looking for a forever" and have that be it?</quote>Bro you sound like you're trying to adopt a dog </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigblu89 07/08/21 9:17:26 AM #19:	Cocytus posted... You think that waiter wouldn't sell that plate of food? I'm fairly certain the waiter would ask you to be a little more specific. --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:955867402] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Cocytus posted... </cite> <quote>You think that waiter wouldn't sell that plate of food?</quote>I'm fairly certain the waiter would ask you to be a little more specific. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 07/08/21 9:18:05 AM #20:	eston posted... Bro you sound like you're trying to adopt a dog My apartment doesn't allow dogs but fuck if that doesn't describe my lack of focus when it comes to dating partners throughout my twenty-plus years being eligible. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:955867413] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>eston posted... </cite> <quote>Bro you sound like you're trying to adopt a dog</quote>My apartment doesn't allow dogs but fuck if that doesn't describe my lack of focus when it comes to dating partners throughout my twenty-plus years being eligible. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 07/08/21 9:18:21 AM #21:	bigblu89 posted... I'm fairly certain the waiter would ask you to be a little more specific. I'd give him the mid range price and take dat money. <cite>Cocytus posted [p:955867421] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>bigblu89 posted... </cite> <quote>I'm fairly certain the waiter would ask you to be a little more specific.</quote>I'd give him the mid range price and take dat money. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Were_Wyrm 07/08/21 9:20:36 AM #22:	I guess its good to keep an open mind, you have 7.9 billion options. --- I was a God, Valeria. I found it...beneath me. - Dr. Doom https://imgur.com/FKDXbHs <cite>Were_Wyrm posted [p:955867466] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>I guess its good to keep an open mind, you have 7.9 billion options. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 07/08/21 9:22:09 AM #23:	Tell her what you want to do in relationship and the type of lady you are looking for. I know it too late now , but for next time. It is a hard question so I would try something like this,... I am looking for a lady, how really enjoys doing nothing. I know that sounds silly. But if you have someone who you can just set around and watch TV with that is just like so great. For her personality, I would want to make sure that he is a nice person, you can be as fine as hell but if you are not nice that is a deal breaker. Someone who doesn't mind singing in public. That is a hard question. --- Kamala Harris: "I don't think America is a racist country" <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:955867504] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Tell her what you want to do in relationship and the type of lady you are looking for. I know it too late now , but for next time. It is a hard question so I would try something like this,... I am looking for a lady, how really enjoys doing nothing. I know that sounds silly. But if you have someone who you can just set around and watch TV with that is just like so great. For her personality, I would want to make sure that he is a nice person, you can be as fine as hell but if you are not nice that is a deal breaker. Someone who doesn't mind singing in public. That is a hard question. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 07/08/21 9:22:17 AM #24:	This is about where I come to the realization that mid-morning on a work day is probably not the best time to have these kinds of introspective crises. And I probably could have picked a better place, no offense to anyone trying to be constructive. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:955867510] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>This is about where I come to the realization that mid-morning on a work day is probably not the best time to have these kinds of introspective crises. And I probably could have picked a better place, no offense to anyone trying to be constructive. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 07/08/21 9:22:58 AM #25:	CyricZ posted... My apartment doesn't allow dogs but fuck if that doesn't describe my lack of focus when it comes to dating partners throughout my twenty-plus years being eligible. Apartment?! Go buy a house with all of the research money you make at work. <cite>Cocytus posted [p:955867530] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>CyricZ posted... </cite> <quote>My apartment doesn't allow dogs but fuck if that doesn't describe my lack of focus when it comes to dating partners throughout my twenty-plus years being eligible.</quote>Apartment?! Go buy a house with all of the research money you make at work. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
COVxy 07/08/21 9:24:32 AM #26:	CyricZ posted... Like in a legal sense? Should I just say "I'm looking for a forever" and have that be it? I mean yeah, I get the idea of "anything that moves" is probably a turn-off. My dating experiences can be counted on one hand. I mean, you can just be honest and say you don't have too much experience and are still exploring what you want. But I still think with your handful of experiences you should reflect. Are there things in the past that you really made you think "this could be someone I stick with long term?" Are common interests important to you? If so, which interests are most important to have in common? Do you want a partner who is going to be more independent and career focused? Or someone who wants to put focus on family? Etc. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] <cite>COVxy posted [p:955867560] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>CyricZ posted... </cite> <quote>Like in a legal sense? Should I just say "I'm looking for a forever" and have that be it? I mean yeah, I get the idea of "anything that moves" is probably a turn-off. My dating experiences can be counted on one hand.</quote> I mean, you can just be honest and say you don't have too much experience and are still exploring what you want. But I still think with your handful of experiences you should reflect. Are there things in the past that you really made you think "this could be someone I stick with long term?" Are common interests important to you? If so, which interests are most important to have in common? Do you want a partner who is going to be more independent and career focused? Or someone who wants to put focus on family? Etc. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 07/08/21 9:29:38 AM #27:	So like I feel there are things I do want given what I've experienced with other women. It's just one of those things I never... wrote down? I guess? Like I want independent, right? I don't want someone who's going to be relying on me, and I would promise the same in return. I want someone I can have a difficult conversation with. I want someone who can laugh at my stupid jokes. I want someone who won't judge me for my hobby, but who can pull me back if I go too deep into it. And I suppose in general I want someone who doesn't judge harshly in general, even to others. I want someone who knows their ideals for the world they live in. Let me think a little more. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:955867680] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>So like I feel there are things I do want given what I've experienced with other women. It's just one of those things I never... wrote down? I guess? Like I want independent, right? I don't want someone who's going to be relying on me, and I would promise the same in return. I want someone I can have a difficult conversation with. I want someone who can laugh at my stupid jokes. I want someone who won't judge me for my hobby, but who can pull me back if I go too deep into it. And I suppose in general I want someone who doesn't judge harshly in general, even to others. I want someone who knows their ideals for the world they live in. Let me think a little more. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 07/08/21 9:30:24 AM #28:	COVxy posted... Are common interests important to you? I would say definitely at least one we can share. See I dunno, I feel all these wants of mine are kinda... basic? --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:955867697] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>COVxy posted... </cite> <quote>Are common interests important to you?</quote>I would say definitely at least one we can share. See I dunno, I feel all these wants of mine are kinda... basic? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cocytus 07/08/21 9:32:03 AM #30:	Seriously now, just get on eharmony. I swear, it worked out for this guy I work with. He's married the girl and now they have two kids. <cite>Cocytus posted [p:955867741] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Seriously now, just get on eharmony. I swear, it worked out for this guy I work with. He's married the girl and now they have two kids. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gatorsPENSbucs 07/08/21 9:33:09 AM #31:	CyricZ posted... So like I feel there are things I do want given what I've experienced with other women. Everything you posted after this is exactly what she was asking for --- https://imgur.com/ZFt3WwT http://error1355.com/ce/gatorsPENSbucs.html https://imgur.com/pqMQZyw <cite>gatorsPENSbucs posted [p:955867764] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>CyricZ posted... </cite> <quote>So like I feel there are things I do want given what I've experienced with other women.</quote>Everything you posted after this is exactly what she was asking for </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 07/08/21 9:34:10 AM #32:	Cocytus posted... Seriously now, just get on eharmony. I swear, it worked out for this guy I work with. He's married the girl and now they have two kids. I bounce around apps. Bumble now. Did Tinder for a bit. Match.com a while back. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:955867798] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Cocytus posted... </cite> <quote>Seriously now, just get on eharmony. I swear, it worked out for this guy I work with. He's married the girl and now they have two kids.</quote>I bounce around apps. Bumble now. Did Tinder for a bit. Match.com a while back. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 07/08/21 9:35:13 AM #33:	I guess my worry now is why couldn't I put such a list together while actually talking to the woman in question. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:955867819] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>I guess my worry now is why couldn't I put such a list together while actually talking to the woman in question. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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COVxy 07/08/21 9:38:17 AM #35:	CyricZ posted... I guess my worry now is why couldn't I put such a list together while actually talking to the woman in question. You got put in the hot seat on a topic that you hadn't explicitly thought about too much. It's normal to freeze. Most people have done this type of reflection and essentially have a list of things pretty memorized. --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] <cite>COVxy posted [p:955867891] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>CyricZ posted... </cite> <quote>I guess my worry now is why couldn't I put such a list together while actually talking to the woman in question.</quote> You got put in the hot seat on a topic that you hadn't explicitly thought about too much. It's normal to freeze. Most people have done this type of reflection and essentially have a list of things pretty memorized. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sktgamer_13dude 07/08/21 9:39:54 AM #36:	Just be honest, however you answer it. Even about your experiences/lack of. Never have I been laughed at my any of my past gfs because of my lack of experience and anyone who would isnt someone youd want a relationship with anyway. But the answers you were coming up with are definitely on the right track to a good answer that she was looking for. --- https://imgur.com/jWVrg9U https://imgur.com/g2efUtT https://imgur.com/5dOwhaP https://imgur.com/LVdqu8J Go Cougs and M's RIP SMV 2/25/21 <cite>sktgamer_13dude posted [p:955867925] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>Just be honest, however you answer it. Even about your experiences/lack of. Never have I been laughed at my any of my past gfs because of my lack of experience and anyone who would isnt someone youd want a relationship with anyway. But the answers you were coming up with are definitely on the right track to a good answer that she was looking for.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 07/08/21 5:23:41 PM #37:	She sounds completely reasonable --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! https://imgur.com/yPw05Ob <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:955881889] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>She sounds completely reasonable </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pupeye 07/08/21 5:47:19 PM #38:	well there is a difference in "what do you want in a relationship" and "what do you want in a partner?" Relationship- spend time with someone and have fun Is there really any other answer to that question? besides, someone to pay my bills and buy me stuff. Partner- Now this is where you need to know what you want....and can be many answers that are different than someone else's answers. <cite>pupeye posted [p:955882648] in This excha... [t:79554270]...</cite> <quote>well there is a difference in "what do you want in a relationship" and "what do you want in a partner?" Relationship- spend time with someone and have fun Is there really any other answer to that question? besides, someone to pay my bills and buy me stuff. Partner- Now this is where you need to know what you want....and can be many answers that are different than someone else's answers. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Current Events > This exchange from last year still lives rent-free in my head. (+) Yeah! (+)

Current Events > This exchange from last year still lives rent-free in my head.