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Vermander
05/22/21 2:42:30 AM
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Finally dumped her, but unsure what to do now.
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fuming
05/22/21 2:44:13 AM
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so how did the talk go
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Irony
05/22/21 2:44:30 AM
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Vermander posted...
but unsure what to do now.
Post pics of her obviously

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Pepys Monster
05/22/21 2:44:56 AM
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Sounds like my ex. Find someone better.

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cjsdowg
05/22/21 2:45:06 AM
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I would document the attack. Domestic Violence is a never okay. And many times women abuser blame men for the their violence. So tell someone you know , send an e-mail about just have some record that you were abused. And stay the fuck away from her. Don't go back no matter what. Abuser never change.

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armandro
05/22/21 2:45:35 AM
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file a report

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Vermander
05/22/21 2:49:28 AM
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cjsdowg posted...
I would document the attack. Domestic Violence is a never okay. And many times women abuser blame men for the their violence. So tell someone you know , send an e-mail about just have some record that you were abused. And stay the fuck away from her. Don't go back no matter what. Abuser never change.


I called the cops. They basically said leave her alone. Luckily my friend was here.
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Vermander
05/22/21 2:51:32 AM
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Unsure what I am going to do now. I am supposed to move halfway across the country with her next week so....

My life is over.
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refmon
05/22/21 2:52:31 AM
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press charges

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fuming
05/22/21 2:52:34 AM
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you are free, your life is beginning anew.
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008Zulu
05/22/21 2:53:21 AM
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When she gets there and asks where you are, tell her you forgot the address and decided to remain where you are. Then hang up.

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Vermander
05/22/21 2:54:52 AM
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refmon posted...
press charges


I might. I told her I wont if she gets the hell out of my life.
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cjsdowg
05/22/21 2:56:54 AM
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Vermander posted...
Unsure what I am going to do now. I am supposed to move halfway across the country with her next week so....

My life is over.

No my friend, believe it are not your life is saved. I know it doesn't seem like that now. but you know just what she is. You can stay right where you are , with people you know. Friends and such. If you moved with her and this happened you would not have any roots or support and be in a odd new town. It is horrible and this doesn't feel like a win, but now are can get away from her.

No one EVER as the right to lay hands on you, like that. And these people will always do it again and again . And when you fight back. You will going to jail. So disassociate let her move and you stay put.

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jon1012
05/22/21 2:57:47 AM
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Post pics

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Vermander
05/22/21 2:59:39 AM
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cjsdowg posted...


No my friend, believe it are not your life is saved. I know it doesn't seem like that now. but you know just what she is. You can stay right where you are , with people you know. Friends and such. If you moved with her and this happened you would not have any roots or support and be in a odd new town. It is horrible and this doesn't feel like a win, but now are can get away from her.

No one EVER as the right to lay hands on you, like that. And these people will always do it again and again . And when you fight back. You will going to jail. So disassociate let her move and you stay put.


Idk if I cant find somewhere else this short notice though
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darkprince45
05/22/21 3:00:34 AM
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Thats weird, what state are you in TC? Most states if theres probable cause its a mandatory arrest for domestic violence

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cjsdowg
05/22/21 3:05:17 AM
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Vermander posted...


Idk if I cant find somewhere else this short notice though

Stay in cheap extended stay until you can find something. I know that is money, but not being hurt is worth it. I assume you are a male, so you have limited options when it comes to getting help from shelters and stuff. However you can still try but just be ready to be turned down alot. That doesn't mean you should not try.

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littlebro07
05/22/21 3:08:44 AM
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Vermander posted...
Unsure what I am going to do now. I am supposed to move halfway across the country with her next week so....

My life is over.

What? Now you dont have to move to a completely new environment with an awful person. I see this as an absolute win.

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Lokison
05/22/21 3:32:05 AM
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In the off chance this isnt trolling (which I believe is a high possibility. Sorry).

Deny any and all contact; even if it means calling the police. Call the police at any attempt at contact.

I don't know a better way to describe this, but become the stalker and do your best to keep track of her BS so your arent killed in you sleep? I swear to god theres a better way to to say this. (Become your own PI? Idk)

Just.. change your locks and stay safe. Really hope this is a trolling topic cause this is usually a genuinely horrifying situation.

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kirbyakaZ
05/22/21 3:34:34 AM
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Press charges so you have reasonable cause for breaking the lease in Austin.

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DarkChozoGhost
05/22/21 3:38:25 AM
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Holy shit how do you guys not recognize this guy by now? He's been trolling like this for many years

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fuming
05/22/21 3:39:56 AM
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DarkChozoGhost posted...
Holy shit how do you guys not recognize this guy by now? He's been trolling like this for many years

Sorry we don't all live on this forum bro
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Mistere Man
05/22/21 3:42:45 AM
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Take photos of your injuries ASAP to document what they did. Incase you need it as proof.

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Biscotti
05/22/21 3:45:10 AM
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Vermander posted...


My life is over.

no it isn't brother.


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Lokison
05/22/21 3:51:00 AM
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DarkChozoGhost posted...
Holy shit how do you guys not recognize this guy by now? He's been trolling like this for many years
Thought so, but still relevant info in my post

fuming posted...
Sorry we don't all live on this forum bro
Yea.. legit takes a single good moment to figure this shit out. It's not a "life" thing, it's using opportunity to your advantage.. but good way to feel good about yourself.

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Vermander
05/22/21 5:44:47 AM
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darkprince45 posted...
Thats weird, what state are you in TC? Most states if theres probable cause its a mandatory arrest for domestic violence


PA. I think cause we were both drunk they were hoping wed be okay. She is passed out now and hasnt been an issue since.
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twitterfriends
05/22/21 6:13:05 AM
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I think I believe TC, women can be really abusive

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Vermander
05/22/21 6:26:53 AM
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My friend and I are going through my stuff and separating it today.
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Vermander
05/22/21 6:37:00 AM
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Conflict posted...


I'm sure they are

And you two will be separating your stuff again 2 months from now when you make this very same topic with inconsistent details. You'll have broken up with this girl, then got back with her, then broke up with her again, then got back with her, and so on.


This is the first time this has ever been this bad. There is no coming back from this. I called the police.
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pinky0926
05/22/21 6:39:44 AM
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Pretty fucking horrendous to write fake troll stories about being a victim of domestic abuse. Seek help OP, seriously.

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Vermander
05/22/21 6:42:51 AM
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pinky0926 posted...
Pretty fucking horrendous to write fake troll stories about being a victim of domestic abuse. Seek help OP, seriously.


I mean everyone here assumes its fake because Ive been in this relationship for years. What details do you want to know? Im pretty shaken up right now.
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Dark_SilverX
05/22/21 7:03:51 AM
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kinky as hell

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zombiexdeathx
05/22/21 7:25:47 AM
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darkprince45 posted...
Thats weird, what state are you in TC? Most states if theres probable cause its a mandatory arrest for domestic violence

yes if the attacker is a man, also thanks to the duluth model a lot of the time a man can be a victim and still be arrested

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bsp77
05/22/21 7:37:30 AM
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Shit, dude! Sorry this happened. But based on what I saw in the other thread, this may be for the best. And your life is not over based on the savings you said you had.

The bad part is you might lose half the savings and have to deal with a major part of your life ending.

The good part is you get a second chance with hopefully a lot more knowledge now.

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Master Kazuya
05/22/21 7:41:15 AM
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Bait her into attacking you again but this time record it, use it as evidence in the case against her

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Vermander
05/22/21 8:03:35 AM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Bait her into attacking you again but this time record it, use it as evidence in the case against her


No, I dont want her to go to jail.

bsp77 posted...
Shit, dude! Sorry this happened. But based on what I saw in the other thread, this may be for the best. And your life is not over based on the savings you said you had.

The bad part is you might lose half the savings and have to deal with a major part of your life ending.

The good part is you get a second chance with hopefully a lot more knowledge now.


I havent even figured out where I am living.
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bsp77
05/22/21 8:09:14 AM
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Vermander posted...
No, I dont want her to go to jail.

I havent even figured out where I am living.
When I broke up with my gf in August, I was living with her. I was in a new place 10 days later, and I even had to find a 3 bedroom so my kids could stay.

You'll be fine. You'll probably just lose your deposit from the other place and have some extra moving costs. So it shouldn't be anywhere close to half your savings now that I think about it. If you have to buy some stuff and furniture, as I did, the whole thing might set you back $3k. Just make a plan and follow it.

Edit: I should add that I got a much better girlfriend 3 months later

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Flauros
05/22/21 8:10:20 AM
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Conflict posted...


You've only broken up and gotten back with this girl maybe about 30 times over the past eight years, how bad can it truly get
Kinda sounds like youre blaming the victim of domestic violence for going back with their abuser.

Thats kinda yikes bro. If you were ever in a relationship, you would know how hard this situation can be.

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Stalolin
05/22/21 8:29:13 AM
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Ive been in an abusive relationship too tc. Hope youre doing okay.

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chrono625
05/22/21 8:31:00 AM
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Vermander posted...
I called the cops. They basically said leave her alone.

and if it was a man who did this, hed be in prison.

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Vermander
05/22/21 8:41:20 AM
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Flauros posted...

Kinda sounds like youre blaming the victim of domestic violence for going back with their abuser.

Thats kinda yikes bro. If you were ever in a relationship, you would know how hard this situation can be.


This. Just because she hurt me doesnt mean I dont love her, and doesnt mean letting go of that is easy.
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DepreceV2
05/22/21 8:44:03 AM
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DarkChozoGhost posted...
Holy shit how do you guys not recognize this guy by now? He's been trolling like this for many years

I've never even seen TC before and I'm here every day

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Vermander
05/22/21 8:45:56 AM
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chrono625 posted...


and if it was a man who did this, hed be in prison.


To be fair they offered to let me press charges.
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05/22/21 8:51:18 AM
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MrMallard
05/22/21 8:54:38 AM
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Fucking hell TC, I'm sorry to hear that happened to you.

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