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joe40001 04/09/21 3:02:52 AM #1:	Like obviously it's fine, but I've known this guy for months so when talk of his husband came up ngl it sorta caught me off guard. Also everybody looks different not wearing their masks than I initially imagined. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:952631845] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>Like obviously it's fine, but I've known this guy for months so when talk of his husband came up ngl it sorta caught me off guard. Also everybody looks different not wearing their masks than I initially imagined. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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joe40001 04/09/21 3:08:20 AM #3:	BlueMage279 posted... Be glad that he was comfortable telling you Nah, he didn't tell me, it just sorta came up. Technically the HR person mentioned it. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:952631938] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>BlueMage279 posted... </cite> <quote>Be glad that he was comfortable telling you</quote> Nah, he didn't tell me, it just sorta came up. Technically the HR person mentioned it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Parappa09 04/09/21 3:08:47 AM #4:	BlueMage279 posted... Be glad that he was comfortable telling you agreed i dont really tell my coworkers unless i like them or comfortable with them --- https://imgur.com/uUaFvGj <cite>Parappa09 posted [p:952631943] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>BlueMage279 posted... </cite> <quote>Be glad that he was comfortable telling you</quote>agreed i dont really tell my coworkers unless i like them or comfortable with them </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
berlyman101 04/09/21 3:08:54 AM #5:	now you have to participate. sorry --- http://www.lukesurl.com/comics/2010-02-24-determinism.png <cite>berlyman101 posted [p:952631947] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>now you have to participate. sorry </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TeaMilk 04/09/21 3:10:25 AM #6:	Why are people not wearing their masks already wtf --- http://large.horse/ Show icons on posts: https://openuserjs.org/scripts/melon/GameFAQs_Show_Icon <cite>TeaMilk posted [p:952631970] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>Why are people not wearing their masks already wtf </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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joe40001 04/09/21 3:14:16 AM #8:	BlueMage279 posted... Oh okay. Then... idk why is it weird for you? He's a quiet nerd/loner kinda like me, so when other people's wives or girlfriends come up I'm used to it, but I had never heard anything like that with him so I just assumed he was alone like me, nope not only is he not single but he is gay and married. It caught me off guard. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:952632034] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>BlueMage279 posted... </cite> <quote>Oh okay. Then... idk why is it weird for you?</quote> He's a quiet nerd/loner kinda like me, so when other people's wives or girlfriends come up I'm used to it, but I had never heard anything like that with him so I just assumed he was alone like me, nope not only is he not single but he is gay and married. It caught me off guard. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joe40001 04/09/21 3:14:35 AM #9:	TeaMilk posted... Why are people not wearing their masks already wtf It was an after work gathering outside. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:952632041] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>TeaMilk posted... </cite> <quote>Why are people not wearing their masks already wtf</quote> It was an after work gathering outside. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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joe40001 04/09/21 3:26:36 AM #12:	I'm terrible at reading people, so it's not really a surprise to me that I don't have a gay-dar. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:952632206] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>I'm terrible at reading people, so it's not really a surprise to me that I don't have a gay-dar. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ModLogic 04/09/21 3:28:20 AM #13:	berlyman101 posted... now you have to participate. sorry --- https://imgur.com/ZngbqJn https://imgur.com/lbSi0U3 https://imgur.com/xaRYKZM <cite>ModLogic posted [p:952632228] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>berlyman101 posted... </cite> <quote>now you have to participate. sorry</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FF_Redux 04/09/21 3:30:38 AM #14:	My coworkers know nothing about me veing gay or having a relationship for many years. I wanna talk about my stuff like everyone else but I avoid that. There are coworkers I could tell but some Im not sure of due to their religious beliefs. --- https://imgur.com/hRsG4 https://i.imgtc.com/zZQ38Hb.jpg https://imgur.com/Z4cir https://imgur.com/qEyGS https://imgur.com/37KDT <cite>FF_Redux posted [p:952632262] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>My coworkers know nothing about me veing gay or having a relationship for many years. I wanna talk about my stuff like everyone else but I avoid that. There are coworkers I could tell but some Im not sure of due to their religious beliefs. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joe40001 04/09/21 3:33:48 AM #15:	FF_Redux posted... My coworkers know nothing about me veing gay or having a relationship for many years. I wanna talk about my stuff like everyone else but I avoid that. There are coworkers I could tell but some Im not sure of due to their religious beliefs. Wait, other people want to talk about their stuff? I always dread people ask me personal questions. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:952632297] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>FF_Redux posted... </cite> <quote>My coworkers know nothing about me veing gay or having a relationship for many years. I wanna talk about my stuff like everyone else but I avoid that. There are coworkers I could tell but some Im not sure of due to their religious beliefs.</quote> Wait, other people want to talk about their stuff? I always dread people ask me personal questions. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Axiom 04/09/21 3:36:19 AM #16:	joe40001 posted... Wait, other people want to talk about their stuff? I always dread people ask me personal questions. I was going to ask how you knew someone for months and didn't know he was at least married but then I saw this post. You should probably look into actually talking to people <cite>Axiom posted [p:952632332] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>joe40001 posted... </cite> <quote>Wait, other people want to talk about their stuff? I always dread people ask me personal questions.</quote>I was going to ask how you knew someone for months and didn't know he was at least married but then I saw this post. You should probably look into actually talking to people </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FF_Redux 04/09/21 3:39:35 AM #17:	joe40001 posted... Wait, other people want to talk about their stuff? I always dread people ask me personal questions. Most my coworkers are female I dunno if that one reeson. --- https://imgur.com/hRsG4 https://i.imgtc.com/zZQ38Hb.jpg https://imgur.com/Z4cir https://imgur.com/qEyGS https://imgur.com/37KDT <cite>FF_Redux posted [p:952632379] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>joe40001 posted... </cite> <quote>Wait, other people want to talk about their stuff? I always dread people ask me personal questions.</quote> Most my coworkers are female I dunno if that one reeson. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BloodMoon7 04/09/21 3:45:01 AM #19:	I would not want someone speaking to me unless it's important. --- Surrender yourself to the darkness. A hero's rightful place is underneath my boot, stomped flat like the insignificant worms they are. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:952632442] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>I would not want someone speaking to me unless it's important. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joe40001 04/09/21 3:45:54 AM #20:	Axiom posted... I was going to ask how you knew someone for months and didn't know he was at least married but then I saw this post. You should probably look into actually talking to people But why tho? --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:952632451] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>Axiom posted... </cite> <quote>I was going to ask how you knew someone for months and didn't know he was at least married but then I saw this post. You should probably look into actually talking to people</quote> But why tho? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BalanceLost 04/09/21 3:46:00 AM #21:	joe40001 posted... Wait, other people want to talk about their stuff? I always dread people ask me personal questions. Being able to share at least the big picture of your life to co-workers you work closely with is good for your mental health imo. Not having to lie if they ask what you plan to do during the weekend or on your vacation. There are however people who overshare. Like a co-worker of mine who told us that her oldest son had cheated on his girlfriend while on a cruise and now the girl had moved home to her parents. Like what? --- "BalanceLost has a steam-powered PS2 because Sweden don't have electric" - dimeanatrix <cite>BalanceLost posted [p:952632454] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>joe40001 posted... </cite> <quote>Wait, other people want to talk about their stuff? I always dread people ask me personal questions.</quote>Being able to share at least the big picture of your life to co-workers you work closely with is good for your mental health imo. Not having to lie if they ask what you plan to do during the weekend or on your vacation. There are however people who overshare. Like a co-worker of mine who told us that her oldest son had cheated on his girlfriend while on a cruise and now the girl had moved home to her parents. Like what? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 04/09/21 3:46:32 AM #22:	I get what you're saying, TC. Whenever I find out somebody is cisgender, heterosexual, and still has the same name they were born with I just feel... This wave of malaise sweeping over me. I mean, there's nothing wrong with any of that. I just don't see how anyone can live like that. Not pushing any boundaries. :/ Feels like living in a box and I couldn't possibly relate less if I tried. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:952632461] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>I get what you're saying, TC. Whenever I find out somebody is cisgender, heterosexual, and still has the same name they were born with I just feel... This wave of malaise sweeping over me. I mean, there's nothing wrong with any of that. I just don't see how anyone can live like that. Not pushing any boundaries. :/ Feels like living in a box and I couldn't possibly relate less if I tried. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joe40001 04/09/21 3:48:56 AM #23:	BalanceLost posted... Being able to share at least the big picture of your life to co-workers you work closely with is good for your mental health imo. Not having to lie if they ask what you plan to do during the weekend or on your vacation. There are however people who overshare. Like a co-worker of mine who told us that her oldest son had cheated on his girlfriend while on a cruise and now the girl had moved home to her parents. Like what? My life is too sad. I find it better to not share. Plus they all expect me to do normal people shit. Like "go out". I took a 4 day weekend and they asked me if I had any "big plans" and it's like no, I never do anything. Somebody had a birthday the day before mine and it came up a few times, but I made sure it never came up when my birthday was. Other people aren't safe, why would you want them knowing/judging your business? That's an unwinnable game. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:952632487] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>BalanceLost posted... </cite> <quote>Being able to share at least the big picture of your life to co-workers you work closely with is good for your mental health imo. Not having to lie if they ask what you plan to do during the weekend or on your vacation. There are however people who overshare. Like a co-worker of mine who told us that her oldest son had cheated on his girlfriend while on a cruise and now the girl had moved home to her parents. Like what?</quote> My life is too sad. I find it better to not share. Plus they all expect me to do normal people shit. Like "go out". I took a 4 day weekend and they asked me if I had any "big plans" and it's like no, I never do anything. Somebody had a birthday the day before mine and it came up a few times, but I made sure it never came up when my birthday was. Other people aren't safe, why would you want them knowing/judging your business? That's an unwinnable game. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joe40001 04/09/21 3:50:01 AM #24:	gunplagirl posted... I get what you're saying, TC. Whenever I find out somebody is cisgender, heterosexual, and still has the same name they were born with I just feel... This wave of malaise sweeping over me. I mean, there's nothing wrong with any of that. I just don't see how anyone can live like that. Not pushing any boundaries. :/ Feels like living in a box and I couldn't possibly relate less if I tried. idk what you are going for here. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:952632501] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>I get what you're saying, TC. Whenever I find out somebody is cisgender, heterosexual, and still has the same name they were born with I just feel... This wave of malaise sweeping over me. I mean, there's nothing wrong with any of that. I just don't see how anyone can live like that. Not pushing any boundaries. :/ Feels like living in a box and I couldn't possibly relate less if I tried.</quote> idk what you are going for here. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodMoon7 04/09/21 3:51:58 AM #25:	Gunplagirl only goes for the nuts. --- Surrender yourself to the darkness. A hero's rightful place is underneath my boot, stomped flat like the insignificant worms they are. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:952632523] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>Gunplagirl only goes for the nuts. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 04/09/21 3:53:51 AM #26:	joe40001 posted... idk what you are going for here. I'm saying I can relate in the complete opposite direction. BloodMoon7 posted... Gunplagirl only goes for the nuts. Who told you my secret technique? :( Ah heck, I stole it from Bobby Hill. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:952632553] in It's a wei... [t:79395808]...</cite> <quote>joe40001 posted... </cite> <quote>idk what you are going for here.</quote>I'm saying I can relate in the complete opposite direction. BloodMoon7 posted... </cite> <quote>Gunplagirl only goes for the nuts.</quote>Who told you my secret technique? :( Ah heck, I stole it from Bobby Hill. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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