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deupd_u
02/06/21 11:23:02 AM
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I took a screenshot. I'm debating whether or not to text it to her like "found you lol"

Should I?

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Irony
02/06/21 11:23:42 AM
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No wtf

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420TwiZtiD420
02/06/21 11:24:43 AM
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Don't be a creep. Let her go. It wasn't meant to be.

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Pitlord_Special
02/06/21 11:24:47 AM
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Do it, and post her reaction

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MaddenDude--
02/06/21 11:25:28 AM
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That would be extremely sad

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lemondrop7
02/06/21 11:25:29 AM
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boy you done need a slap upside your noggin

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Smashingpmkns
02/06/21 11:27:23 AM
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PipeHam
02/06/21 11:28:12 AM
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I got a better caption "I'm a loser, look!"

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CARRRNE_ASADA
02/06/21 11:28:36 AM
#9:


This is not real

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Fenrimis
02/06/21 11:28:59 AM
#10:


No, you should probably move on.

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Jiek_Fafn
02/06/21 11:30:59 AM
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MaddenDude-- posted...
That would be extremely sad
This
But also,
Pitlord_Special posted...
Do it, and post her reaction
This


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Hayame Zero
02/06/21 11:34:58 AM
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What do you even hope to gain from this?

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Shadowplay
02/06/21 11:35:05 AM
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Why did she dump you?

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Irony
02/06/21 11:35:52 AM
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Shadowplay posted...
Why did she dump you?
Because he has the kind of personality that would result in him making topics like these

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VipaGTS
02/06/21 11:36:15 AM
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Shadowplay posted...
Why did she dump you?
Look at who TC is. Do you have to ask?

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Returning_CEmen
02/06/21 11:36:29 AM
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Shes still not interested
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Perascamin
02/06/21 11:36:55 AM
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You should have just swiped right if you wanted to annoy her

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Returning_CEmen
02/06/21 11:38:25 AM
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There is another way...
You can be less creepy and text her asking how she is doing (or whatever). If she responds back great, if she doesnt move on.
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K181
02/06/21 11:39:52 AM
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Irony posted...
No wtf

This. All that'd do is make her spread talk about you being a creeper. Move on.

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cjsdowg
02/06/21 11:40:25 AM
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Naw let it go. There is no need to bother her. No one wins in that situation. And note I can see how it would seem funny at first. but then you would think about and be like.. I acted like a jerk for no reason. I am going to find me a cute girl who likes me and not bother this one.

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fjb
02/06/21 11:42:50 AM
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Please do it, let us know what she says.

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deupd_u
02/06/21 11:43:36 AM
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Shadowplay posted...
Why did she dump you?
She's "not ready to be exclusive." She knew I really liked her and wouldn't want to just fuck around, so she said she didn't want to put me through that.

Perascamin posted...
You should have just swiped right if you wanted to annoy her
I'm genuinely waiting to get my Super Likes back to send to her lol

Hayame Zero posted...
What do you even hope to gain from this?
IDK. I'm just sad. I miss her :(

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SrRd_RacinG
02/06/21 11:45:11 AM
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That is like at least 10 years of bad luck if you do it.

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Fizaga
02/06/21 11:49:02 AM
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Yeah, don't do that. It would just be creepy, and don't look up your ex, it's not healthy.

deupd_u posted...
She's "not ready to be exclusive." She knew I really liked her and wouldn't want to just fuck around, so she said she didn't want to put me through that.

I'm genuinely waiting to get my Super Likes back to send to her lol

IDK. I'm just sad. I miss her :(

As much as it may hurt and you miss her, it seems like she did the right thing though.


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Harpie
02/06/21 11:50:33 AM
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If you send her any kind of message, whether it be a screenshot or a super like, you will become that guy. That guy is creepy, weird and so desperate its funny. And she is gonna tell her friends, share your responses and giggle about it. I know exactly how this goes from years of personal experience. Ive seen (and done) it time and time again.

Move on, TC. Im sorry. She doesnt want a relationship. If you message her you start crossing the line into the creep zone whether or not youre actually a creep.

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Ushiromiya
02/06/21 11:51:53 AM
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deupd_u posted...
IDK. I'm just sad. I miss her :(
that isn't the proper reaction to missing someone that doesn't want to be in a relationship with you

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ShotgunSilencer
02/06/21 12:00:27 PM
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Uhh yea, don't do that. Crazy stalker serial killer vibes man.
She was straight up with you. Appreciate that, even tho it wasn't what you want to hear
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Dark_SilverX
02/06/21 12:01:47 PM
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Pitlord_Special posted...
Do it, and post her reaction
this

it's why i still come to CE with my jar of KY

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masticatingman
02/06/21 12:02:04 PM
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That won't lead anywhere good. With online dating, once it's done, it's done. Move on, you're wasting your time.

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furb
02/06/21 12:02:34 PM
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Do nothing. What are you trying to prove exactly?


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PipeHam
02/06/21 12:03:07 PM
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how do i ignore/hide posters? i'm new

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PipeHam
02/06/21 12:06:23 PM
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oh...

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smoke_break
02/06/21 12:07:43 PM
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deupd_u posted...
She's "not ready to be exclusive." She knew I really liked her and wouldn't want to just fuck around, so she said she didn't want to put me through that.
She seems like a good person, was honest and upfront with you. You don't have any reason to harbor negative feelings towards her. And it's not like sending this screenshot would accomplish anything. A person you're not with is using a dating app. Okay and?

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refmon
02/06/21 12:08:41 PM
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MaddenDude-- posted...
That would be extremely sad
for you

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Talib_21
02/06/21 12:10:30 PM
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Pitlord_Special posted...
Do it, and post her reaction


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LinkFanatic
02/06/21 12:17:25 PM
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Dude, this is weird and obsessive. Instead of doing something obviously destructive like this, try doing your best to move on.

While not an exact situation, I did have an experience with a simliar parallel. I lost my best friend in 2015 and it ended...rather badly, to say the least. I was so devastated by it that I actually made an alias on Facebook and pretended to be his friend; at first, I actually intended for that facade to last indefinitely and then one day reveal myself (he haaaaaates me. Even blocked my new FB account despite me not acknowledging him at all), but I couldn't help myself, so I did it early. I haven't interacted with him since, and I've largely gotten over him.

Move on. For both your sake.

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kingdrake2
02/06/21 12:18:46 PM
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deupd_u posted...
I miss her :(


everyone misses her. she dumped hundreds of guys who wanted a chance just like you.
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JBaLLEN66
02/06/21 12:20:14 PM
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umm let it go

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Lebronwon
02/06/21 12:22:18 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/7Zyqy9v.jpg

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LinkFanatic
02/06/21 12:28:44 PM
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Lebronwon posted...
https://i.imgur.com/7Zyqy9v.jpg

Lowblow.

His feelings are valid, it's just the weird stalking that's wrong.

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Gobstoppers12
02/06/21 12:35:20 PM
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Harpie posted...
Ive seen (and done) it time and time again.
Weird flex

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deupd_u2
02/06/21 12:39:27 PM
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I don't see how it's stalking to text someone after them popping up in your life?
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Arcanine2009
02/06/21 12:40:47 PM
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420TwiZtiD420 posted...
Don't be a creep. Let her go. It wasn't meant to be.
this. dont do it. calling her out for having a tinder profile now does nothing

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Shablagoo
02/06/21 12:43:01 PM
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Show her your Trump knife, no way she doesnt take you back after that.

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