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Cleo_II
02/02/21 10:13:50 AM
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We live in SoCal where housing is of course expensive. My husband and I lived in a small 1 bedroom apartment and saved for 5 years for a house. We always tried to budget as much as possible.

The market was very competitive. I was very close to my uncle who was like a dad to me and he always called me his daughter. He was well off and had a big line of credit he said he wasnt using and offered us $100k loan to put as more down payment and increase our purchasing power. Plan was to pay it back monthly over 3 years and pay the interest on it (it was like 4%). We bought a beautiful home and I was always so grateful to my uncle.

We had a couple to set backs. Then my uncle got pancreatic cancer. So we refinanced our home to get our own home equity line and paid him back in full. And started paying off that one instead. Spent the last year aggressively paying the rest off. Just now officially paid the last of it, after 4 years instead of 3.

Between saving for the house then paying back the loan, we never had much for extra income. Its always been save save save for the house then save save save to pay back the loan. There are things weve wanted to do, like buy new furniture, paint the house, fix up the bathroom, etc that we waited on. This is just a huge weight off our shoulders. Im getting painters next month!

My uncle sadly passed away last May. I miss him terribly and wish he was here to see this.
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Drpooplol
02/02/21 10:18:32 AM
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Good for you two! Just in time for the upcoming baby - that has to feel like a big relief. And I'm sure your uncle would be really proud to see where you are today.

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ReggieBush09
02/02/21 10:23:21 AM
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Drpooplol posted...
Good for you two! Just in time for the upcoming baby - that has to feel like a big relief. And I'm sure your uncle would be really proud to see where you are today.
what baby?

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MedeaLysistrata
02/02/21 10:24:10 AM
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Cleo your topics are always PACKED with info, tldr

Congrats though

I'm reading the whole post, sorry you went through some tough times

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Cleo_II
02/02/21 10:26:24 AM
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Drpooplol posted...
Good for you two! Just in time for the upcoming baby - that has to feel like a big relief. And I'm sure your uncle would be really proud to see where you are today.
Yes so happy we paid everything off before she gets here! Now we have room to start a college fund for her and pay for daycare/nanny when its time. Wish my uncle was here to meet her too. Its been hard. Seeing the loan get to 0 is making me think of him a lot today.
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Cleo_II
02/02/21 10:32:56 AM
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MedeaLysistrata posted...
Cleo your topics are always PACKED with info, tldr

Congrats though

I'm reading the whole post, sorry you went through some tough times
Lol I know I even tried to cut it down. Theres just so much to pack in of what happened over the last 4 years.

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He was! We found out after he passed away he was giving away about $75k annually to charity. His wife had no idea. He was such a kind person. He helped a lot of other family members too. And he was my uncle by marriage!
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Suikoden420
02/02/21 10:35:34 AM
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Congratulations and sorry for your loss

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Returning_CEmen
02/02/21 10:43:51 AM
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Thats awesome.
Did your uncle have any children of his own?
Northern or Southern Cali?
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Cleo_II
02/02/21 10:51:41 AM
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Suikoden420 posted...
Congratulations and sorry for your loss
Thank you! Maybe Ill see about going to visit his grave.

Returning_CEmen posted...
Thats awesome.
Did your uncle have any children of his own?
Northern or Southern Cali?
Yes, 2 sons. My cousins. Theyre like my big bros too. Theyre also pretty well off, my uncle was a big help to them growing up. I heard they similarly give a lot to charity on the dl. Great people.

Southern California. Im in OC.
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Cleo_II
02/02/21 11:03:04 AM
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CHM_Punk posted...
Im real happy for you, Cleo, congrats! (:
Thanks dude!
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Giant_Aspirin
02/02/21 11:33:03 AM
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congrats! clearing away debts feels so good. it kinda feels like getting a raise because you have more expendable income each paycheck.

next goal: pay off the house

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Cleo_II
02/02/21 11:52:30 AM
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Giant_Aspirin posted...
congrats! clearing away debts feels so good. it kinda feels like getting a raise because you have more expendable income each paycheck.

next goal: pay off the house
Thank you! Yup looking to refinance to 15 year. Rates are so low. My husband tried starting the process last night but his browser crashed lol. Also need to put more into my 401k and start a college fund for our baby. Also want to invest a bit in stock and save the rest.
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ReggieBush09
02/02/21 7:06:21 PM
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what's going on in here?

troll?

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Returning_CEmen
02/02/21 8:37:36 PM
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Cleo_II posted...
Thank you! Maybe Ill see about going to visit his grave.

Yes, 2 sons. My cousins. Theyre like my big bros too. Theyre also pretty well off, my uncle was a big help to them growing up. I heard they similarly give a lot to charity on the dl. Great people.

Southern California. Im in OC.
Oh damn you are local. So if I get hurt and go to the hospital there is a sliver of a chance you might treat me.

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ReggieBush09
02/02/21 8:38:49 PM
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Woopie doo

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kingdrake2
02/02/21 8:40:14 PM
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Cleo_II posted...
Then my uncle got pancreatic cancer


:(. he didn't deserve that for what he did for you.
hopefully he gets better.
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Cleo_II
02/02/21 8:47:39 PM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
Oh damn you are local. So if I get hurt and go to the hospital there is a sliver of a chance you might treat me.
You must have me confused for someone else. I know jack about anything medical related lol

kingdrake2 posted...
:(. he didn't deserve that for what he did for you.
hopefully he gets better.
He really didnt. He helped so many people and was one the best human beings Ive ever met. Unfortunately he lost his battle to it last May. Fought for about a year and a half which is much longer than most with his diagnosis.
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Returning_CEmen
02/02/21 8:49:46 PM
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My bad I thought you were a doctor.
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Cleo_II
02/02/21 9:35:30 PM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
My bad I thought you were a doctor.
Ha no but I wouldnt mind doctor money
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ReggieBush09
02/02/21 9:56:11 PM
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Cleo_II posted...
Ha no but I wouldnt mind doctor money
who wouldn't it brings chicks in the seats.

@Veggeta_MAX

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Cleo_II
02/03/21 11:54:41 AM
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Aeriis posted...
wow, that is incredible! I wish the planet had more people like him. So you guys weren't even blood related and he was that kind? that's so cool!

so you'll be painting the outside of your house first? That's exciting!!
Yes I wasnt related. And all the family he took care of was my aunts side too. We were all just family to him. When he passed, my aunt got so many flowers from so many people it filled the whole house. He was one of those few people who touched everyone around him. I miss him so much.

Were painting the inside. The original paint color is this light cream I really hate and Ive been wanting light/warm grey for years. My husband painted the bedrooms but not the rest and there are still splotches all over from when he tested colors. Like every bathroom has a bunch of test colors on the walls. For years. It looks terrible lol. But its a expensive to get it painted and so long as we had this debt he refused to let me hire anyone.
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Cocytus
02/04/21 4:15:21 PM
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Congratulations!

And RIP your uncle.
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