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ReturnOfFa 01/17/21 4:24:27 PM #51: |
My advice:
Could be terrible, could be what works. But any advice you're receiving here is useless. Go talk it out with a counselor. --- girls like my fa ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LinkPizza 01/17/21 4:30:28 PM #52: |
grimhilde00 posted...
Or she'll divorce you once she has someone else solid. This is what I'd figure she's do, tbh... Open for her means she gets to keep looking for someone she thinks is better, while having you in case it doesn't work out... Doesn't mean she will, but the chances are high that she'll do that... ReturnOfFa posted... But any advice you're receiving here is useless. I wouldn't say that. The advice is fine. They would just need to figure out which piece would work for them. I agree that they should probably talk to someone, but that doesn't mean everything we said here is useless... TheOkHornedRat posted... you'll be just as disappointed as you would if i exposed my wiener to you I mean, I don't mind looking at wieners, so... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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deoxxys 01/17/21 4:32:42 PM #53: |
FatalAccident posted...
lmao who are u dudeTBH I imagine theres many guys irl like this, though obviously with a new account with only a few active posts brings into question the legitmacy of their individual case, though this could as easily could have been made to hide their identity. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReturnOfFa 01/17/21 4:33:57 PM #54: |
LinkPizza posted...
This is what I'd figure she's do, tbh... Open for her means she gets to keep looking for someone she thinks is better, while having you in case it doesn't work out... Doesn't mean she will, but the chances are high that she'll do that...No, it's basically pointless. Unguided 'help' where you're forced to purvey a smoothie of advice is literally a waste of time. You could check unpersonalized advice that could he good on WebMD, or it'll be completely inappropriate for your situation. Or you could go to Quora. Or you could go to PotD. Or you could cut all the middleman bullshit, and actually start the path to finding the right professionally trained person for you. There's still trial and error here, but there's far less of it than the shitmix you're served online. --- girls like my fa ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReturnOfFa 01/17/21 4:35:48 PM #55: |
Reading a bunch of blended advice will keep you treading water in a situation obviously causing some anxiety.
I spent years of my life trying to get advice from PotD, Reddit, online forums...all I ended up with was a lot of hours logged online. --- girls like my fa ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LinkPizza 01/17/21 4:36:51 PM #56: |
ReturnOfFa posted...
No, it's basically pointless. Unguided 'help' where you're forced to purvey a smoothie of advice is literally a waste of time. You could check unpersonalized advice that could he good on WebMD, or it'll be completely inappropriate for your situation. Or you could go to Quora. Or you could go to PotD. I agree he should talk to a person trained for this. But I still stand by what I said. They would have to know what works for them. The advice still isn't bad. Even a trained professional could give the same advice. What I'm saying is it's still up to him to choose who to listen to, or what advice to take. The advice itself still isn't bad. But we don't know enough to say if the advice would work for him. So, I'm not changing my response... I think the advice on it's own is fine. It just may not be what works for them... They might not even be able to see a professional. Not everyone has money to spend on stuff like that... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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deoxxys 01/17/21 4:39:53 PM #57: |
@SoftClock
If you arent troll posting then never accept that. It should be obtusely obvious why that is unfair. Also if she is so shallow as to leave you if you arent okay with this then its obvious she doesnt love you enough to care about your feelings. Furthermore if my significant other ever wanted to do an open relationship with me I would push one rule forward beyond that. I would say "you cant sleep with someone new until you help find me a partner". This is due to the fact that a man finding a woman to sleep with is WAY more difficult then a woman finding a man to sleep with (lmao tbh women dont even have to look because they will get offers regardless). That topped with the fact that if you are being honest as a man about your relationship, woman will be further repelled once they learn you arent being exclusive with them. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReturnOfFa 01/17/21 4:41:21 PM #58: |
LinkPizza posted...
I agree he should talk to a person trained for this. But I still stand by what I said. They would have to know what works for them. The advice still isn't bad. Even a trained professional could give the same advice. What I'm saying is it's still up to him to choose who to listen to, or what advice to take. The advice itself still isn't bad. But we don't know enough to say if the advice would work for him. So, I'm not changing my response... I think the advice on it's own is fine. It just may not be what works for them... They might not even be able to see a professional. Not everyone has money to spend on stuff like that...Fair enough, I see where you're coming from. I completely agree with you that the financial barrier for professional advice is absolutely the largest deterrent. I stand by what I feel to be a valid response as well :) I am speaking from my own experience, of course. --- girls like my fa ... Copied to Clipboard!
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levelshooter 01/17/21 5:07:52 PM #59: |
Divorce her or be a cuck, your choice...
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Syntheticon 01/17/21 5:11:25 PM #60: |
SoftClock posted...
she wants to open up on her side only tho, she said she is not fulfilled enough and needs more and that we can either try this or it's divorce.... If it's only on her side that's not an open relationship, it's asking permission to have an affair. If you're not ok with it, the jealousy will drive you batshit and she'll leave because "she's having a great time and doesn't know what your problem is" or you say no, she cheats anyway because it sounds like she's going to see other people whether she's with you or not and things go crap and you'll break up anyway. If you want to have any chance of this working, you have to demand it be completely open on both sides or you're out-it's the only way it could be a semi happy ending imho. Worst case, she's already cheated and looking for an easy way but either way you just have to start getting used to idea of this relationship being over because it sounds like she already has. You'll probably ignore all this and hang in there or agree to being a cuck (but not in the fun way) and be miserable for a year or two but I hope you prove me wrong, guy. --- Mod me? You don't even know me! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheOkHornedRat 01/17/21 5:46:39 PM #61: |
TC never returned to the topic and yall are still biting on this shit
I may be a low karma alt, but I'm not up in here blatantly trolling like this --- Dental cleaning with holistic oils. f***ing juveniles. -Sunny ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReturnOfFa 01/17/21 7:24:31 PM #62: |
TheOkHornedRat posted...
TC never returned to the topic and yall are still biting on this shitim just talking bruh bruh don't tell me I'm biting now you're biting and trollin OH! --- girls like my fa ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Revelation34 01/17/21 7:37:54 PM #63: |
TheOkHornedRat posted...
TC never returned to the topic and yall are still biting on this shit It's been less than 24 hours. --- Gamertag: Kegfarms, BF code: 2033480226, Treasure Cruise code 318,374,355, Steam: Kegfarms ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BlackScythe0 01/17/21 7:46:16 PM #64: |
TheOkHornedRat posted...
TC never returned to the topic and yall are still biting on this shitThis board revolves around gimmick posters. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SoftClock 01/17/21 7:46:56 PM #65: |
thanks all for the input....
its tough but i think the only option here is to end it... i don't want to i still love her but i can see how one sided this is now.... thanks again... --- No body, no crime! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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J Sasaki 01/17/21 7:49:55 PM #66: |
CarefreeDude posted...
Therapy If she wanted to divorce outright, she would've divorced outright. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JigsawTDC 01/17/21 7:58:26 PM #67: |
Possible theories thus far:
TheOkHornedRat and SoftClock are the same user. This seems likely since the former is weirdly concerned with the latter even though none of us know who either of these people are. Sunny is SoftClock. He seems to be defensive of OP from his posts here. In this scenario HornedRat is likely one of our local "ok?" boys aka Ziggy. Makes sense since he's got Ok in the username and his sole distinguishing trait so far is attempting to troll Sunny (I mean just look at the sig and almost all their posts). ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BlackScythe0 01/17/21 8:01:46 PM #68: |
The fact that the dude posted right after hornedrat is... suggestive.
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SunWuKung420 01/17/21 8:03:44 PM #69: |
I'm done canning
JigsawTDC posted... Then by your logic I'm also okrat. But okrat hates me. Also I'm neither but jigsaw is both, softclock and okrat confirmed. --- For what it's worth I was the one that made up the scenario that she posted on Facebook about him beating her lmao. Cacciato 11/12/2020 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JigsawTDC 01/17/21 8:06:05 PM #70: |
I proposed two possible theories that are independent of each other, and didn't purport either as definitive truth. Why are you getting so defensive over one of them?
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DDirtyDastard 01/17/21 8:27:45 PM #71: |
I haven't read a word of this topic outside the title, and I already know TC is fucked.
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SunWuKung420 01/17/21 8:34:24 PM #72: |
JigsawTDC posted...
I proposed two possible theories that are independent of each other, and didn't purport either as definitive truth. Why are you getting so defensive over one of them?But your theories collided. --- For what it's worth I was the one that made up the scenario that she posted on Facebook about him beating her lmao. Cacciato 11/12/2020 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LinkPizza 01/17/21 8:53:51 PM #73: |
J Sasaki posted...
If she wanted to divorce outright, she would've divorced outright. Unless she's trying to find a new guy first... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrunkCaveman 01/17/21 9:03:39 PM #74: |
She wants a divorce and wants to appear like she's trying. Just do the divorce, it'll be so much less painful if you just admit she's unhappy and leave
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ReturnOfFa 01/17/21 11:40:30 PM #75: |
BlackScythe0 posted...
This board revolves around gimmick posters.this board actually revolves around posts and reacting to them with posts. poasts. --- girls like my fa ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pvegeta 01/17/21 11:41:13 PM #76: |
SoftClock posted...
she wants to open up on her side only tho, she said she is not fulfilled enough and needs more and that we can either try this or it's divorce.... It's over. Get a divorce. --- gamertag - Jamal The Titan, PSN: MrCannady Twitch - PrezVegeta ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Revelation34 01/18/21 12:00:10 AM #77: |
SunWuKung420 posted...
I'm done canning I thought you used fresh ingredients at your restaurants. --- Gamertag: Kegfarms, BF code: 2033480226, Treasure Cruise code 318,374,355, Steam: Kegfarms ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wwinterj25 01/18/21 12:04:49 AM #78: |
Revelation34 posted...
I thought you used fresh ingredients at your restaurants.Nah. His Pizzas are probably frozen too. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FrndNhbrHdCEman 01/18/21 3:40:54 AM #79: |
wwinterj25 posted...
Nah. His Pizzas are probably frozen too.Cold as ice. Like his marital bed. --- Official nosy neighbor and gossip https://imgur.com/uGKwGsK ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SunWuKung420 01/18/21 7:08:31 AM #80: |
Revelation34 posted...
I thought you used fresh ingredients at your restaurants.You know beer goes into cans, right? --- For what it's worth I was the one that made up the scenario that she posted on Facebook about him beating her lmao. Cacciato 11/12/2020 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JigsawTDC 01/18/21 2:51:22 PM #81: |
SunWuKung420 posted...
But your theories collided. "two possible theories that are independent of each other" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Revelation34 01/18/21 3:03:08 PM #82: |
SunWuKung420 posted...
Shit beer maybe. Good beer comes in bottles. --- Gamertag: Kegfarms, BF code: 2033480226, Treasure Cruise code 318,374,355, Steam: Kegfarms ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SunWuKung420 01/18/21 3:16:04 PM #83: |
Revelation34 posted...
Shit beer maybe. Good beer comes in bottles.Another point in rev's "I'm completely ignorant about a subject" column. --- For what it's worth I was the one that made up the scenario that she posted on Facebook about him beating her lmao. Cacciato 11/12/2020 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Metalsonic66 01/18/21 6:07:43 PM #84: |
Revelation34 posted...
Shit beer maybe. Good beer comes in bottles. --- PSN/Steam ID: Metalsonic_69 Big bombs go kabang. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wwinterj25 01/18/21 6:14:24 PM #85: |
Revelation34 posted...
Shit beer maybe. Good beer comes in bottles.Nah. Good beer comes in a pint glass. A can is alright as a substitute. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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grimhilde00 01/18/21 6:14:33 PM #86: |
SunWuKung420 posted...
Another point in rev's "I'm completely ignorant about a subject" column. Maybe like he's in the middle of nowhere so the only canned beers he's seen is like Coors and thinks that's all canned beer? Cause there's definitely craft canned beer that's delicious out there. --- aka kriemhilde00 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SunWuKung420 01/18/21 6:54:14 PM #87: |
grimhilde00 posted...
Maybe like he's in the middle of nowhere so the only canned beers he's seen is like Coors and thinks that's all canned beer?If he is getting good beer in bottles, he's capable of getting good beer in cans. --- For what it's worth I was the one that made up the scenario that she posted on Facebook about him beating her lmao. Cacciato 11/12/2020 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Black_Crusher 01/18/21 7:01:52 PM #88: |
SoftClock posted...
she wants to open up on her side only tho, she said she is not fulfilled enough and needs more and that we can either try this or it's divorce....I'd say no way or otherwise enjoy your herpes. --- Bone Appetit, my skeleton Metroidvania! https://store.steampowered.com/app/1256520 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReturnOfFa 01/18/21 7:24:35 PM #89: |
good beer and bad beer come in a variety of vessels and the vessel does not indicate quality lol
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ReturnOfFa 01/18/21 7:25:00 PM #90: |
also, I slept with a stripper with herpes for a while
it's pretty easy to not get herpes --- girls like my fa ... Copied to Clipboard!
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deoxxys 01/18/21 9:04:17 PM #91: |
ReturnOfFa posted...
also, I slept with a stripper with herpes for a whilemost of the population has dormant herpes --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Muscles 01/18/21 9:27:03 PM #92: |
When I see topics like this it makes me feel better about being single
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ReturnOfFa 01/18/21 9:35:04 PM #93: |
deoxxys posted...
most of the population has dormant herpesyup. I also worked in pharmacies for 5 years and it took my a while to figure out what valacyclovir was for, ha. --- girls like my fa ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JigsawTDC 01/18/21 9:54:15 PM #94: |
According to my test results I have herpes, but I have never had an outbreak.
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chandlermbing 01/18/21 10:14:16 PM #95: |
Get divorced and get free man. Wish I had done that before the baby came, now I'm trapped or I'd lose my friends and family. I'm Marley , you are Scrooge. I'm already fucked but there is still time for you...
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wwinterj25 01/18/21 10:29:23 PM #96: |
chandlermbing posted...
Wish I had done that before the baby came, now I'm trapped Divorce your family. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LinkPizza 01/19/21 12:12:30 AM #97: |
chandlermbing posted...
Get divorced and get free man. Wish I had done that before the baby came, now I'm trapped or I'd lose my friends and family. I'm Marley , you are Scrooge. I'm already fucked but there is still time for you... Fake your death... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReturnOfFa 01/19/21 12:47:34 AM #98: |
JigsawTDC posted...
According to my test results I have herpes, but I have never had an outbreak.You're part of the sexy people club. --- girls like my fa ... Copied to Clipboard!
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